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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, do you consider yourself good at the whole sex thing? How do you know if you are? I wonder would anyone tell you if they thought you were rubbish? I reckon I’m probably average compared to a lot of what I see and read here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m ok - would definitely not be on par with any porn star though.

I think I would laugh at myself if I even tried.

Going by some verifications I might need to up our game.

Psyche x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I’m ok - would definitely not be on par with any porn star though.

I think I would laugh at myself if I even tried.

Going by some verifications I might need to up our game.

Psyche x "

Verifications are fairy stories

I thought I was average...

But I am demanding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think you’ve the right idea Geordie!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

There is no rocket science to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you’ve the right idea Geordie!"

Seriously though

There are a lot oversell themselves here and ....Well....It just leads to disappointment

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By *addy0Man
over a year ago

carlow town

Met a girl on a nite out last week, cane home with me and without her saying it,I just know I put in a very very bad performance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no rocket science to sex"

There is good and bad

I am not here for a quick fuck but so many single guys are and that's why I won't meet them

I want someone who can perform not disappoint

Harsh but true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met a girl on a nite out last week, cane home with me and without her saying it,I just know I put in a very very bad performance "

Ah everyone has a bad day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you’ve the right idea Geordie!

Seriously though

There are a lot oversell themselves here and ....Well....It just leads to disappointment"

Agreed, one of the reasons we avoid sex chat.

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By *addy0Man
over a year ago

carlow town


"Met a girl on a nite out last week, cane home with me and without her saying it,I just know I put in a very very bad performance

Ah everyone has a bad day "

Was a very bad day lol..

Back too the drawing board I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying to measure yourself against other people is a waste of time, take each experience for what it is, a lot of it is down to compatibility anyway, it takes two... or three.. or....

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"There is no rocket science to sex

There is good and bad

I am not here for a quick fuck but so many single guys are and that's why I won't meet them

I want someone who can perform not disappoint

Harsh but true"

I stand by what I just said. Listening to some, ud swear sex and the pleasing of the opposite sex is mind boggling. Its not!

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By *on11Man
over a year ago

cork


"There is no rocket science to sex

There is good and bad

I am not here for a quick fuck but so many single guys are and that's why I won't meet them

I want someone who can perform not disappoint

Harsh but true"

.

Nothing extraordinary about those expectations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no rocket science to sex

There is good and bad

I am not here for a quick fuck but so many single guys are and that's why I won't meet them

I want someone who can perform not disappoint

Harsh but true

.

Nothing extraordinary about those expectations! "

From a man who does deliver on my expectations!!

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By *erverts AnonymousMan
over a year ago

Darkest desires

On an average I'd say I'm average for sure another person's opinion is going to be different. What is good sex to one person maybe the best sex ever for another. It also depends on how many times you meet people the sexual experience will vary because of "real life", the time of day or night and if your sober or not. Christ not selling myself here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no rocket science to sex

There is good and bad

I am not here for a quick fuck but so many single guys are and that's why I won't meet them

I want someone who can perform not disappoint

Harsh but trueI stand by what I just said. Listening to some, ud swear sex and the pleasing of the opposite sex is mind boggling. Its not!"

It requires effort, selflessness, dedication

Not everyone here can promise that

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"There is no rocket science to sex

There is good and bad

I am not here for a quick fuck but so many single guys are and that's why I won't meet them

I want someone who can perform not disappoint

Harsh but trueI stand by what I just said. Listening to some, ud swear sex and the pleasing of the opposite sex is mind boggling. Its not!

It requires effort, selflessness, dedication

Not everyone here can promise that"

sorry, I'll rephrase what I said. It's very straightforward to please men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no rocket science to sex

There is good and bad

I am not here for a quick fuck but so many single guys are and that's why I won't meet them

I want someone who can perform not disappoint

Harsh but trueI stand by what I just said. Listening to some, ud swear sex and the pleasing of the opposite sex is mind boggling. Its not!

It requires effort, selflessness, dedication

Not everyone here can promise thatsorry, I'll rephrase what I said. It's very straightforward to please men!"

Of course

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"There is no rocket science to sex

There is good and bad

I am not here for a quick fuck but so many single guys are and that's why I won't meet them

I want someone who can perform not disappoint

Harsh but trueI stand by what I just said. Listening to some, ud swear sex and the pleasing of the opposite sex is mind boggling. Its not!

It requires effort, selflessness, dedication

Not everyone here can promise thatsorry, I'll rephrase what I said. It's very straightforward to please men!

Of course "

of course it is

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Derby

It’s a carnal act, following your instinct, if your sweating, breathing heavily from exhaustion and about to pass out from it all-consider yourself on the right track.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a carnal act, following your instinct, if your sweating, breathing heavily from exhaustion and about to pass out from it all-consider yourself on the right track. "
Or heart attack lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solid C at sex probably a B minus at oral...

But I enjoy myself, I make an effort and I usually have a laugh with the person its all good.

Far from a Sex God

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By *on11Man
over a year ago

cork


"There is no rocket science to sex

There is good and bad

I am not here for a quick fuck but so many single guys are and that's why I won't meet them

I want someone who can perform not disappoint

Harsh but true

.

Nothing extraordinary about those expectations!

From a man who does deliver on my expectations!!"

.

Well RVC does provide the vibe & you definitley provide the motivation. I am not the DHL guy but there is a delivery available!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Solid C at sex probably a B minus at oral...

But I enjoy myself, I make an effort and I usually have a laugh with the person its all good.

Far from a Sex God"

Happy to give you a test drive to verify the grading system

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"There is no rocket science to sex

There is good and bad

I am not here for a quick fuck but so many single guys are and that's why I won't meet them

I want someone who can perform not disappoint

Harsh but true"

Exactly the reply I'd expect from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no rocket science to sex

There is good and bad

I am not here for a quick fuck but so many single guys are and that's why I won't meet them

I want someone who can perform not disappoint

Harsh but true

Exactly the reply I'd expect from you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Solid C at sex probably a B minus at oral...

But I enjoy myself, I make an effort and I usually have a laugh with the person its all good.

Far from a Sex God

Happy to give you a test drive to verify the grading system "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is one man's junk is another man treasure.

So what works for some,mighten work for you.

I wouldn't say that I am pro and can teach ye all.

But I am learning every day about different things each person likes and doesn't like.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?"

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I am what i am and what i am is quiet exceptoonal

Have seen plenty over selling here over the years so i always approach a meet with the view that i have a small cock and i am probally the worst ride ull ever have any improvement on that is a bonus for the person i am meeting

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

"

your eyes will get soar looking like that. Ps I have never had or oral where I havnt cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?"

Not recently thankfully... in my youth yes but that was probably 100% alchohol related

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

Not recently thankfully... in my youth yes but that was probably 100% alchohol related"

yep I should of added without a medical condition or alcohol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do lads enjoy it even if they don’t cum or is that just considered a write off?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Do lads enjoy it even if they don’t cum or is that just considered a write off?"
has never happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

your eyes will get soar looking like that. Ps I have never had or oral where I havnt cum. "

I'm shit at blowjobs

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I think If I asked the same question with roles reversed every woman would say she hasn't cum at some stage.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

your eyes will get soar looking like that. Ps I have never had or oral where I havnt cum.

I'm shit at blowjobs "

Ladies and Gentleman I present to you the man who cannot not cum vs the lady who is all teeth

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

your eyes will get soar looking like that. Ps I have never had or oral where I havnt cum.

I'm shit at blowjobs "

get practicing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think If I asked the same question with roles reversed every woman would say she hasn't cum at some stage. "

I suspect you’d be right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do lads enjoy it even if they don’t cum or is that just considered a write off?"

For me it’s the whole program not just the end result, to many get fixated on an end result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do lads enjoy it even if they don’t cum or is that just considered a write off?"

Honestly? Cumming is awesome so I wouldnt like to have a play meet where O didnt at least once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

your eyes will get soar looking like that. Ps I have never had or oral where I havnt cum.

I'm shit at blowjobs get practicing. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally, I like repeaters

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I think If I asked the same question with roles reversed every woman would say she hasn't cum at some stage.

I suspect you’d be right!"

that's the difference in pleasing both sexes, one is fairly straightforward, one isnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

your eyes will get soar looking like that. Ps I have never had or oral where I havnt cum.

I'm shit at blowjobs

Ladies and Gentleman I present to you the man who cannot not cum vs the lady who is all teeth "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

your eyes will get soar looking like that. Ps I have never had or oral where I havnt cum.

I'm shit at blowjobs get practicing.

"

Where's my hobnobs??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm ok at the aul jiggy jiggy tho that is in my own head I could be pure shite in others minds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone ever been told they didn’t meet expectations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm ok at the aul jiggy jiggy tho that is in my own head I could be pure shite in others minds "

I am not going to trip advisor here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever been told they didn’t meet expectations?"

No

Despite my lack of self confidence

I usually exceed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

your eyes will get soar looking like that. Ps I have never had or oral where I havnt cum.

I'm shit at blowjobs get practicing.

Where's my hobnobs?? "

You turned down the offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

your eyes will get soar looking like that. Ps I have never had or oral where I havnt cum.

I'm shit at blowjobs get practicing.

Where's my hobnobs??

You turned down the offer "

You're pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever been told they didn’t meet expectations?

No

Despite my lack of self confidence

I usually exceed "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever been told they didn’t meet expectations?

No

Despite my lack of self confidence

I usually exceed

"

Fuck you Fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mehhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever been told they didn’t meet expectations?

No

Despite my lack of self confidence

I usually exceed

Fuck you Fast "

Language Timothy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual prowess. You can't be an expert in the eyes of another. Everyone though ,has skills.

'But what I do have are a very particular set of skills' lol

When it comes to ones sexual prowess.there are two sides to the story. Two or more people and their sexual connotations. Two prominently dominant people could clash , either finding it tough to submit. (actually that's sounds kind of fun)

Altough prominently subbmisve people may find themselves in a similar conundrum finding conrtol.(could it develope into extasy?)

I suppose what I'm trying to say is .to make a fantastic , memorable time , the sexual prowess of people engaged need to compliment each others.

Someone's individual sexual prowess can be alot different than their sexual persona.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

I'm fairly useless in bed - perhaps I'm better in the bathroom, kitchen or garden Jacuzzi.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It needs two to tango, if you're matched with the wrong partner, it might feel more like wrestling than a passionate dance despite experience and skills.

Anyhow I know I'm not for everyone and the other way around. Also sheit at bjs like Geordie but I'm not here to suck balls empty I'm here for the long passionate ride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It needs two to tango, if you're matched with the wrong partner, it might feel more like wrestling than a passionate dance despite experience and skills.

Anyhow I know I'm not for everyone and the other way around. Also sheit at bjs like Geordie but I'm not here to suck balls empty I'm here for the long passionate ride. "

Ah Yoda here you are

Find any Jedi lately

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By *un kinky bad boyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Ya u right!!! it needs two to tango .. but save can say, obviously mutual attraction, connection .... a sensual passionate meeting of mind and body . great conversations and a nice relaxed atmosphere.. respect given each way. Otherwise never ever expect great session with out this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never say that I have any sexual prowess.... To me that is way too arrogant. I have had some ridiculously good times when I have clicked with someone..... Nothing fake or staged... Positively pornographic. BUT.... it had always been when the two of us have clicked. At my age I would not consider myself to be a novice and have SOME idea about potentially what to do but that can be different for everyone.

Your right hand could, in theory, for info a left glove but the fit isn't right...... When it is tough.... That's when the real fun starts!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is only about those involved at the time. They just need to click with each others likes sex wise. If you think the other person was awful, you werent trying yourself either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is only about those involved at the time. They just need to click with each others likes sex wise. If you think the other person was awful, you werent trying yourself either. "

Sorry but that is bullshit

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It needs two to tango, if you're matched with the wrong partner, it might feel more like wrestling than a passionate dance despite experience and skills.

Anyhow I know I'm not for everyone and the other way around. Also sheit at bjs like Geordie but I'm not here to suck balls empty I'm here for the long passionate ride.

Ah Yoda here you are

Find any Jedi lately "

Patience you must have, my young padawan. Bounced on one recently but really hoping for some new jedi discoveries in 2019.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

I believe im talented in that area... i love playing, im open minded, love the phyicallity of it, love the intamacy of it, i cant say ive had any complaints ... some exhsusted and content men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It needs two to tango, if you're matched with the wrong partner, it might feel more like wrestling than a passionate dance despite experience and skills.

Anyhow I know I'm not for everyone and the other way around. Also sheit at bjs like Geordie but I'm not here to suck balls empty I'm here for the long passionate ride.

Ah Yoda here you are

Find any Jedi lately

Patience you must have, my young padawan. Bounced on one recently but really hoping for some new jedi discoveries in 2019.

"

I patiently await reports of your ventures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is only about those involved at the time. They just need to click with each others likes sex wise. If you think the other person was awful, you werent trying yourself either.

Sorry but that is bullshit

"

Why is it bullshit? Sometimes it doesnt click, no big deal. Its not a bad reflection on anyone as the next meet either have could be out of this world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is only about those involved at the time. They just need to click with each others likes sex wise. If you think the other person was awful, you werent trying yourself either.

Sorry but that is bullshit

Why is it bullshit? Sometimes it doesnt click, no big deal. Its not a bad reflection on anyone as the next meet either have could be out of this world. "

If you think the other person was awful, you weren't trying yourself either

????

Sweeping statement

I have put huge effort into mediocre meets and it was not my fault!!!

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Derby


"It’s a carnal act, following your instinct, if your sweating, breathing heavily from exhaustion and about to pass out from it all-consider yourself on the right track. Or heart attack lol "

For some, it may seem an admirable way to leave this world!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is only about those involved at the time. They just need to click with each others likes sex wise. If you think the other person was awful, you werent trying yourself either.

Sorry but that is bullshit

Why is it bullshit? Sometimes it doesnt click, no big deal. Its not a bad reflection on anyone as the next meet either have could be out of this world.

If you think the other person was awful, you weren't trying yourself either

????

Sweeping statement

I have put huge effort into mediocre meets and it was not my fault!!!

"

Why should be anyones 'fault'? Maybe tge other person was the one not trying....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is only about those involved at the time. They just need to click with each others likes sex wise. If you think the other person was awful, you werent trying yourself either.

Sorry but that is bullshit

Why is it bullshit? Sometimes it doesnt click, no big deal. Its not a bad reflection on anyone as the next meet either have could be out of this world.

If you think the other person was awful, you weren't trying yourself either

????

Sweeping statement

I have put huge effort into mediocre meets and it was not my fault!!!

Why should be anyones 'fault'? Maybe tge other person was the one not trying...."

Err you were the one who said if you think the other person is awful you weren't trying yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's alot to do with the chemistry and attraction between people many will fuck for the sake of fucking and often it's a shite experience. I'm fickle as fuck, I have to have the chemistry, attraction and the sexual vibe that the person im gonna have sex with wants it as much as me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is only about those involved at the time. They just need to click with each others likes sex wise. If you think the other person was awful, you werent trying yourself either.

Sorry but that is bullshit

Why is it bullshit? Sometimes it doesnt click, no big deal. Its not a bad reflection on anyone as the next meet either have could be out of this world.

If you think the other person was awful, you weren't trying yourself either

????

Sweeping statement

I have put huge effort into mediocre meets and it was not my fault!!!

Why should be anyones 'fault'? Maybe tge other person was the one not trying....

Err you were the one who said if you think the other person is awful you weren't trying yourself "

What I was trying to say, maybe the mediocre person in those meets was the one not trying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's alot to do with the chemistry and attraction between people many will fuck for the sake of fucking and often it's a shite experience. I'm fickle as fuck, I have to have the chemistry, attraction and the sexual vibe that the person im gonna have sex with wants it as much as me... "

And it's there for us I think twinney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's alot to do with the chemistry and attraction between people many will fuck for the sake of fucking and often it's a shite experience. I'm fickle as fuck, I have to have the chemistry, attraction and the sexual vibe that the person im gonna have sex with wants it as much as me...

And it's there for us I think twinney "

Were like two magnets when we see each and somehow our clothes fall off lol ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's alot to do with the chemistry and attraction between people many will fuck for the sake of fucking and often it's a shite experience. I'm fickle as fuck, I have to have the chemistry, attraction and the sexual vibe that the person im gonna have sex with wants it as much as me...

And it's there for us I think twinney

Were like two magnets when we see each and somehow our clothes fall off lol ... "

I'm naked now just thinking of it!

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By *on11Man
over a year ago

cork


"It's alot to do with the chemistry and attraction between people many will fuck for the sake of fucking and often it's a shite experience. I'm fickle as fuck, I have to have the chemistry, attraction and the sexual vibe that the person im gonna have sex with wants it as much as me...

And it's there for us I think twinney

Were like two magnets when we see each and somehow our clothes fall off lol ...

I'm naked now just thinking of it!"

.

Just now! Thought that naked was a regular event!!! Or near naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's alot to do with the chemistry and attraction between people many will fuck for the sake of fucking and often it's a shite experience. I'm fickle as fuck, I have to have the chemistry, attraction and the sexual vibe that the person im gonna have sex with wants it as much as me...

And it's there for us I think twinney

Were like two magnets when we see each and somehow our clothes fall off lol ...

I'm naked now just thinking of it!"

When's it feels right it feels right twinney

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don’t know if I’d rate myself. It’s how you click with someone and it’s that connection that makes for a great experience, coupled with a desire to please the other person and if you’re lucky you create some memories for them and you

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

south side


"Do lads enjoy it even if they don’t cum or is that just considered a write off?"

I can only speak for this lad. I don't have to cum, I can hold on to my orgasm for a long time, if I choose. Sometimes, I prefer not to come, but to "edge". I can do this for weeks. Eventually when I orgasm I have a full body orgasm. It's worth the wait.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?"

Plenty of times. It's not always so easy.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

Plenty of times. It's not always so easy. "

enlighten me as I have never encountered it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

Plenty of times. It's not always so easy. enlighten me as I have never encountered it."

Can be very difficult for women too

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Different strokes for different folks.

We all have our good days and our off days. There have been times where I have had women tell me I have set the new standard or been the best yet, and there have been times I have totally flopped.

There are so many varying factors: I find what may work with some women may not work with others but that's one of the great things about sex is exploring and getting to know the person.

It also depends how into each other the persons are, chemistry, comfort levels, and so on and so on.

A person could be really into someone yet if he or she is tired, d*unk or stressed that can affect their performance. I've seen instances where I have had women in front of me who I thought were so beautiful and I was so eager to impress that I couldn't perform because I was overthinking it and at other times just had too much personal stuff going on in my head.

At the end of the day we are not all machines but I tend to find as a general rule of thumb if persons click, take the time to get to know one another and don't rush things; and if they don't have unrealistic expectations or hope for too much then that can usually lead to better and more memorable experiences.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

Plenty of times. It's not always so easy. enlighten me as I have never encountered it."

Well I'm circumcised for one so I have less sensation than may others so usually takes me longer than most to cum, if at all.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Do lads enjoy it even if they don’t cum or is that just considered a write off?"

I have enjoyed many times when I didn't cum as it usually gives me a rush getting the other person off. Compersion I think is the apt word.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"So, do you consider yourself good at the whole sex thing? How do you know if you are? I wonder would anyone tell you if they thought you were rubbish? I reckon I’m probably average compared to a lot of what I see and read here."

Yes, I've read the whole thread but thought I'd reply to the original question.

I'm totally shite at it nowadays

Used to be crap at it in early 20's, especially the first time with a girlfriend who I was mad about and came in less than 2mins. She immediately voiced her annoyance, for those who were asking about that, though she didn't think to consider round two and how I might perform after the excitement had dissipated somewhat.

After that, I began to cycle quite a bit and had a lot more casual meets, the combination of which increased my abilities and staying time considerably, to the point I was in full, complete control of when I would orgasm.

Roll forward 20years and those happy times are but a distant memory

I'm much less fit and sex is a rare occurrence, so when it does happen, you can guess how excited the cock is. Usually, I'd say an absolute max of 3mins, on condition that she's cowgirl. If I'm doggy, half that!

Now, there have been occasional better experiences, like recently, after 8pts of Guinness, when we had lots of fun, good foreplay, including some for me and then I accidentally used a delay condom, whereby she came more than once while fucking before I did. That's more like what I expected life to be but it's a seriously rare occurrence these days, a lot of which I put down to infrequent sex.

I should say, sex never happens without foreplay and usually with her cumming at least once, or more, through oral/fingers but then she immediately wants me inside her.

Why don't women consider the BJ first and then the guy plays with her? By the time she cums, he's ready for round 2 and fully prepared for a much better fucking experience.

I know, many of you reading this are fully aware of that.

Am I good at the whole sex thing? I am if you let me explore you and tick a few kink boxes. Take time, experiment, it's not all about the orgasm and don't tie the cuffs too tight, when you meet the woman that understands that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

Plenty of times. It's not always so easy. enlighten me as I have never encountered it.

Well I'm circumcised for one so I have less sensation than may others so usually takes me longer than most to cum, if at all."

Haha Id take up the challenge lol

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"So, do you consider yourself good at the whole sex thing? How do you know if you are? I wonder would anyone tell you if they thought you were rubbish? I reckon I’m probably average compared to a lot of what I see and read here."

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Been told that am good

...women don't lie though do they???

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

Plenty of times. It's not always so easy. enlighten me as I have never encountered it.

Well I'm circumcised for one so I have less sensation than may others so usually takes me longer than most to cum, if at all.

Haha Id take up the challenge lol "

Jack does Jilly know you're prepositioning the guys on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

Plenty of times. It's not always so easy. enlighten me as I have never encountered it.

Well I'm circumcised for one so I have less sensation than may others so usually takes me longer than most to cum, if at all.

Haha Id take up the challenge lol

Jack does Jilly know you're prepositioning the guys on here? "

I wish it was jack

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

Plenty of times. It's not always so easy. enlighten me as I have never encountered it.

Well I'm circumcised for one so I have less sensation than many others so usually takes me longer than most to cum, if at all.

Haha Id take up the challenge lol

Jack does Jilly know you're prepositioning the guys on here?

I wish it was jack "

Phew!!! Lol.

Well hello Jilly. Meet ya at the well at the top of the hill sometime?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do lads enjoy it even if they don’t cum or is that just considered a write off?

Honestly? Cumming is awesome so I wouldnt like to have a play meet where O didnt at least once"

Guess we won't be meeting than you would be disappointed

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"So, do you consider yourself good at the whole sex thing? How do you know if you are? I wonder would anyone tell you if they thought you were rubbish? I reckon I’m probably average compared to a lot of what I see and read here.

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Been told that am good

...women don't lie though do they??? "

Only one way to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do lads enjoy it even if they don’t cum or is that just considered a write off?

Honestly? Cumming is awesome so I wouldnt like to have a play meet where O didnt at least once

Guess we won't be meeting than you would be disappointed"

Where I cum..... its not all about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do lads enjoy it even if they don’t cum or is that just considered a write off?

Honestly? Cumming is awesome so I wouldnt like to have a play meet where O didnt at least once

Guess we won't be meeting than you would be disappointed

Where I cum..... its not all about you "

Just as well than guess I've never cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, do you consider yourself good at the whole sex thing? How do you know if you are? I wonder would anyone tell you if they thought you were rubbish? I reckon I’m probably average compared to a lot of what I see and read here."
As for men,When a woman tells you "Thank you"After sex you know u did a good job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

Plenty of times. It's not always so easy. enlighten me as I have never encountered it.

Well I'm circumcised for one so I have less sensation than many others so usually takes me longer than most to cum, if at all.

Haha Id take up the challenge lol

Jack does Jilly know you're prepositioning the guys on here?

I wish it was jack

Phew!!! Lol.

Well hello Jilly. Meet ya at the well at the top of the hill sometime? "

Now that's an invite I've never had before Mr CB up the hill we go

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Men, have you ever not cum during a sexual encounter?

Plenty of times. It's not always so easy. enlighten me as I have never encountered it.

Well I'm circumcised for one so I have less sensation than many others so usually takes me longer than most to cum, if at all.

Haha Id take up the challenge lol

Jack does Jilly know you're prepositioning the guys on here?

I wish it was jack

Phew!!! Lol.

Well hello Jilly. Meet ya at the well at the top of the hill sometime?

Now that's an invite I've never had before Mr CB up the hill we go "

Me and Jill went up the hill,

And it wasn't to fetch a pail of water.

Jill went down and "went to town"

And I wasn't the same after?

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