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"Top 3 reasons from my experience: 1. Unexpected family visits from different parts of the world (4 times) 2. Death in a family (3 times) 3. Hangover (3 times) You start to wonder.. " You must be a terrible shag if you were let down 10 times  | |||
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"Top 3 reasons from my experience: 1. Unexpected family visits from different parts of the world (4 times) 2. Death in a family (3 times) 3. Hangover (3 times) You start to wonder.. You must be a terrible shag if you were let down 10 times "Must be  | |||
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"Top 3 reasons from my experience: 1. Unexpected family visits from different parts of the world (4 times) 2. Death in a family (3 times) 3. Hangover (3 times) You start to wonder.. You must be a terrible shag if you were let down 10 times
Must be "Its well for them turning down a meet like that..meets are like gold dust to me..grab them when they come along | |||
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"Top 3 reasons from my experience: 1. Unexpected family visits from different parts of the world (4 times) 2. Death in a family (3 times) 3. Hangover (3 times) You start to wonder.. You must be a terrible shag if you were let down 10 times
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Its well for them turning down a meet like that..meets are like gold dust to me..grab them when they come along
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"Dodgy excuses are bad enough, but the ones that just don't show up without even bothering to try and make some bullshit excuse up, those are the worst! At least if domeone lets you know they arent coming other arrangements can be made" Or make a dodgy excuse after dissapearing expecting a second chance.. | |||
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"Top 3 reasons from my experience: 1. Unexpected family visits from different parts of the world (4 times) 2. Death in a family (3 times) 3. Hangover (3 times) You start to wonder.. " who in there right mind would use such stupid reasons for not meeting a beauty like you | |||
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"Jesus, if your granny died while out walking the budgie and your babysitter failed to show then I think you should be forgiven for not turning up. " | |||
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"Top 3 reasons from my experience: 1. Unexpected family visits from different parts of the world (4 times) 2. Death in a family (3 times) 3. Hangover (3 times) You start to wonder.. " We had one casanova, whos mother died, but seen him walking next day on farmers market... | |||
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"I would just like to say that any person/s who waste time should be reported to ADMIN, 3 strikes and your removed off the site. We had an amazing party however only for our foresight, we allowed for time wasters to do what they normally do...waste time. A message next day saying NO BABY SITTER, GRANNY DIED, THE BUDGET NEEDED HIS WALK doesn't wash. just be honest...." Have had my FILL of single guys who are all chat all hot and then on the day of a drinks date something inevitably pops up. Have a rule that I like to meet someone for a drink before I plan anything more intimate. The amount of guys who just don't want to give you that time is insane. So far only one guy has had the backbone to meet me and he did get a follow up date. Alot on here dont want to give time unless their getting a ride in the end. There are a serious amount of flakes on this site. Afraid their pics won't live up to reality me thinks! | |||
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"I would just like to say that any person/s who waste time should be reported to ADMIN, 3 strikes and your removed off the site. We had an amazing party however only for our foresight, we allowed for time wasters to do what they normally do...waste time. A message next day saying NO BABY SITTER, GRANNY DIED, THE BUDGET NEEDED HIS WALK doesn't wash. just be honest.... Have had my FILL of single guys who are all chat all hot and then on the day of a drinks date something inevitably pops up. Have a rule that I like to meet someone for a drink before I plan anything more intimate. The amount of guys who just don't want to give you that time is insane. So far only one guy has had the backbone to meet me and he did get a follow up date. Alot on here dont want to give time unless their getting a ride in the end. There are a serious amount of flakes on this site. Afraid their pics won't live up to reality me thinks! " And I don't mean guys that give me notice they can't meet because I've had to rearrange things on occasion also, I'm talking the guys that go radio silence or just simply on the day with a few hours to go say 'sorry can't do tonight' | |||
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"I would just like to say that any person/s who waste time should be reported to ADMIN, 3 strikes and your removed off the site. We had an amazing party however only for our foresight, we allowed for time wasters to do what they normally do...waste time. A message next day saying NO BABY SITTER, GRANNY DIED, THE BUDGET NEEDED HIS WALK doesn't wash. just be honest.... Have had my FILL of single guys who are all chat all hot and then on the day of a drinks date something inevitably pops up. Have a rule that I like to meet someone for a drink before I plan anything more intimate. The amount of guys who just don't want to give you that time is insane. So far only one guy has had the backbone to meet me and he did get a follow up date. Alot on here dont want to give time unless their getting a ride in the end. There are a serious amount of flakes on this site. Afraid their pics won't live up to reality me thinks! " One of the reasons I blatantly refuse any kind of flirting or talking dirty prior to meeting them in person. Can go wank themselves off with someone else.. Me being cold and rude may put some off, but at least good ones always stay
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"I remember I was on my way out of Uni and had a date lined up, and I walked into a traffic sign. I split my head open. I text them "Wont be able to make it, split my head open, walked into a road sign" got a text back "If you don't like me just say, stupid excuse" so I replied back "I'll be there but maybe 20 mins late" Went got 4 or 5 stiches in my head, then went on to the cinema to meet, her, covered in blood. She seen me and said "maybe you should go home" and I said "No, don't want to make any excuses" and made her go through the whole night with me covered in blood. We never had a second date though. But that might be because i was having erections at inappropriate times rather than the cut head." Where the fuck did you manage to get seen for stitches so quickly.... I may have missed the main point of the story | |||
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"I remember I was on my way out of Uni and had a date lined up, and I walked into a traffic sign. I split my head open. I text them "Wont be able to make it, split my head open, walked into a road sign" got a text back "If you don't like me just say, stupid excuse" so I replied back "I'll be there but maybe 20 mins late" Went got 4 or 5 stiches in my head, then went on to the cinema to meet, her, covered in blood. She seen me and said "maybe you should go home" and I said "No, don't want to make any excuses" and made her go through the whole night with me covered in blood. We never had a second date though. But that might be because i was having erections at inappropriate times rather than the cut head. Where the fuck did you manage to get seen for stitches so quickly.... I may have missed the main point of the story" Clearly medics didn't waste any time | |||
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We have ourselves had to cancel meets due to illness or other circumstances, thankfully the guys concerned have understood and given us a second chance, whereas they could have thrown a hissy fit... I would think if someone is having a recurring issue with no-shows, their selection criteria could do with a review. | |||
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"I would just like to say that any person/s who waste time should be reported to ADMIN, 3 strikes and your removed off the site. We had an amazing party however only for our foresight, we allowed for time wasters to do what they normally do...waste time. A message next day saying NO BABY SITTER, GRANNY DIED, THE BUDGET NEEDED HIS WALK doesn't wash. just be honest.... Have had my FILL of single guys who are all chat all hot and then on the day of a drinks date something inevitably pops up. Have a rule that I like to meet someone for a drink before I plan anything more intimate. The amount of guys who just don't want to give you that time is insane. So far only one guy has had the backbone to meet me and he did get a follow up date. Alot on here dont want to give time unless their getting a ride in the end. There are a serious amount of flakes on this site. Afraid their pics won't live up to reality me thinks! " No dont think its their pics..they just want to fuck first time meeting not go for a drink | |||
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"How do I get a drink with someone without them expecting sex Just the chats and drinks " try going to a normal bar at the weekend and see who's there ? Most of the regulars will probably chat with you. | |||
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"A 'three strikes' policy wouldn't work, in my opinion, because everyone can report anyone. Unless a complaint pertained to someone's profile (fake pics, solicitation, illegal references etc) it's all hearsay and nigh on impossible to prove! I mean, there's verified "trolls" on here with more than one profile. There'd be nothing in place to stop them from abusing such a system. The age old debate of making Fab a 'pay to use' site is arguably the best way to out the timewasters but I'm sure those who have had the misfortune of dealing with them wouldn't be surprised at their determination! I personally wouldn't be a fan of that though as it would also drive away 'genuine' people who don't wish to pay. Unfortunately it's just a given that people like that exist on here, like in all walks of life. Experience and gut feeling are the best form of defence "This.
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"3 times in 3 weeks I've driven to meets and been left hanging around. Frustrating isn't the word!!" Did you do any phone verification or kik cam chat? Only way to minimise it. | |||
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"How do I get a drink with someone without them expecting sex Just the chats and drinks try going to a normal bar at the weekend and see who's there ? Most of the regulars will probably chat with you." What's a non regular bar | |||
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"3 times in 3 weeks I've driven to meets and been left hanging around. Frustrating isn't the word!! Did you do any phone verification or kik cam chat? Only way to minimise it." Was 3 completely different meets and two of them we talked on the phone, txted as I was going out then nothing | |||
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"Well if admin care to ignore I think its name and shame time. Once is ok twice never but three times they should be thrown off. Admin can see police this easily. I know what some ppl say that ppl can have someone thrown off. It will take 3 different complaints from 3 different profiles." Good idea .. | |||
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"Well if admin care to ignore I think its name and shame time. Once is ok twice never but three times they should be thrown off. Admin can see police this easily. I know what some ppl say that ppl can have someone thrown off. It will take 3 different complaints from 3 different profiles. Good idea .." After our latest no show, We suggested a kik group for verified girls and couples for proper revoews on single guys, because we all know the veri system is a lot of bollocks.. didnt get much interest unfortunately | |||
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"I would just like to say that any person/s who waste time should be reported to ADMIN, 3 strikes and your removed off the site. We had an amazing party however only for our foresight, we allowed for time wasters to do what they normally do...waste time. A message next day saying NO BABY SITTER, GRANNY DIED, THE BUDGET NEEDED HIS WALK doesn't wash. just be honest.... Have had my FILL of single guys who are all chat all hot and then on the day of a drinks date something inevitably pops up. Have a rule that I like to meet someone for a drink before I plan anything more intimate. The amount of guys who just don't want to give you that time is insane. So far only one guy has had the backbone to meet me and he did get a follow up date. Alot on here dont want to give time unless their getting a ride in the end. There are a serious amount of flakes on this site. Afraid their pics won't live up to reality me thinks! No dont think its their pics..they just want to fuck first time meeting not go for a drink "My bad trying to have standards | |||
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"Well if admin care to ignore I think its name and shame time. Once is ok twice never but three times they should be thrown off. Admin can see police this easily. I know what some ppl say that ppl can have someone thrown off. It will take 3 different complaints from 3 different profiles." There are still so many problems with this. 3 profiles could all belong to one looper. One click of people decide they dont like another. I have had to postpone meets last minute and often taken months to arrange suitable times I am sure some of the people I have chatted with would consider me a timewaster (some I have met too ).
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"Top 3 reasons from my experience: 1. Unexpected family visits from different parts of the world (4 times) 2. Death in a family (3 times) 3. Hangover (3 times) You start to wonder.. " I will still come see you even if all 3 of these happened at once  | |||
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"Well if admin care to ignore I think its name and shame time. Once is ok twice never but three times they should be thrown off. Admin can see police this easily. I know what some ppl say that ppl can have someone thrown off. It will take 3 different complaints from 3 different profiles. There are still so many problems with this. 3 profiles could all belong to one looper. One click of people decide they dont like another. I have had to postpone meets last minute and often taken months to arrange suitable times I am sure some of the people I have chatted with would consider me a timewaster (some I have met too ).
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"I would just like to say that any person/s who waste time should be reported to ADMIN, 3 strikes and your removed off the site. We had an amazing party however only for our foresight, we allowed for time wasters to do what they normally do...waste time. A message next day saying NO BABY SITTER, GRANNY DIED, THE BUDGET NEEDED HIS WALK doesn't wash. just be honest.... Have had my FILL of single guys who are all chat all hot and then on the day of a drinks date something inevitably pops up. Have a rule that I like to meet someone for a drink before I plan anything more intimate. The amount of guys who just don't want to give you that time is insane. So far only one guy has had the backbone to meet me and he did get a follow up date. Alot on here dont want to give time unless their getting a ride in the end. There are a serious amount of flakes on this site. Afraid their pics won't live up to reality me thinks! No dont think its their pics..they just want to fuck first time meeting not go for a drink
My bad trying to have standards "I understand your point and the people that dont show up at these meets could accuse you of being a timewaster too..wasting time having a drink  | |||
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"I would just like to say that any person/s who waste time should be reported to ADMIN, 3 strikes and your removed off the site. We had an amazing party however only for our foresight, we allowed for time wasters to do what they normally do...waste time. A message next day saying NO BABY SITTER, GRANNY DIED, THE BUDGET NEEDED HIS WALK doesn't wash. just be honest.... Have had my FILL of single guys who are all chat all hot and then on the day of a drinks date something inevitably pops up. Have a rule that I like to meet someone for a drink before I plan anything more intimate. The amount of guys who just don't want to give you that time is insane. So far only one guy has had the backbone to meet me and he did get a follow up date. Alot on here dont want to give time unless their getting a ride in the end. There are a serious amount of flakes on this site. Afraid their pics won't live up to reality me thinks! No dont think its their pics..they just want to fuck first time meeting not go for a drink
My bad trying to have standards
I understand your point and the people that dont show up at these meets could accuse you of being a timewaster too..wasting time having a drink "Thanks for that perspective | |||
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"I would just like to say that any person/s who waste time should be reported to ADMIN, 3 strikes and your removed off the site. We had an amazing party however only for our foresight, we allowed for time wasters to do what they normally do...waste time. A message next day saying NO BABY SITTER, GRANNY DIED, THE BUDGET NEEDED HIS WALK doesn't wash. just be honest.... Have had my FILL of single guys who are all chat all hot and then on the day of a drinks date something inevitably pops up. Have a rule that I like to meet someone for a drink before I plan anything more intimate. The amount of guys who just don't want to give you that time is insane. So far only one guy has had the backbone to meet me and he did get a follow up date. Alot on here dont want to give time unless their getting a ride in the end. There are a serious amount of flakes on this site. Afraid their pics won't live up to reality me thinks! No dont think its their pics..they just want to fuck first time meeting not go for a drink
My bad trying to have standards
I understand your point and the people that dont show up at these meets could accuse you of being a timewaster too..wasting time having a drink "What's wrong with a drink? Or even just something social you're not going to just throw the leg over the first time like what if they're an absolute pain hole in person I don't understand fab anymore, I think that's one of the many reasons I've decided to step away from it, the fun seems to be gone these days | |||
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"I would just like to say that any person/s who waste time should be reported to ADMIN, 3 strikes and your removed off the site. We had an amazing party however only for our foresight, we allowed for time wasters to do what they normally do...waste time. A message next day saying NO BABY SITTER, GRANNY DIED, THE BUDGET NEEDED HIS WALK doesn't wash. just be honest.... Have had my FILL of single guys who are all chat all hot and then on the day of a drinks date something inevitably pops up. Have a rule that I like to meet someone for a drink before I plan anything more intimate. The amount of guys who just don't want to give you that time is insane. So far only one guy has had the backbone to meet me and he did get a follow up date. Alot on here dont want to give time unless their getting a ride in the end. There are a serious amount of flakes on this site. Afraid their pics won't live up to reality me thinks! No dont think its their pics..they just want to fuck first time meeting not go for a drink
My bad trying to have standards
I understand your point and the people that dont show up at these meets could accuse you of being a timewaster too..wasting time having a drink
What's wrong with a drink? Or even just something social you're not going to just throw the leg over the first time like what if they're an absolute pain hole in person
I don't understand fab anymore, I think that's one of the many reasons I've decided to step away from it, the fun seems to be gone these days"Stop talking sense ffs. | |||
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