FabSwingers.com forum: The wink!!!

By *addy0 OP Man
over a year ago

carlow town

Is the wink feature a waste of time or do people still use it too start a chat??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like a waste of time to be honest, don't think many people check them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't call it a waste of time but the chance of it successfully working for males is much lower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we ignore winks, find mails work better. saying that we have sent a few to profiles we like.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Even my most witty and charming winks never get a reply.

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By *laymates30Couple
over a year ago

The West

It’s a bit like the Poke feature on FB. Should be obsolete.

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By *ireannCplCouple
over a year ago

Suburbs

We never reply to them, we'd never consider sending them either. If we want to gain someone's attention we'd mail them

EireCpl xxx

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Nobody uses them easier to mail I think

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I send a wink if ive looked at the profile and im interested or ill message either....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I just bulk delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waste of time, unless of course your a woman lol

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

We don't bother looking at winks as previously stated a message goes a long way. Well that's if we are interested in the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a lazy way to try and get attention. Why not just message? Both can easily be deleted.

Just think the wink should be obsolete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just bulk delete them. "

don't delete them. if you do they can wink again. winks disappear after a month so your wink free from that person for a month

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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I never check them tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is the wink feature a waste of time or do people still use it too start a chat??"

It depends, some people don't bother winking or looking at them at all so yeah that would be a waste of time. But others use it. In my case, I do send a wink back if I'm interested. Someone sending me a wink would have more chance of a mail from me than someone who's probably mailed me already.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

As women get inundated with all sorts of mail and random requests I would say the wink from a guy just lacks effort and imagination. However if a female or couple wink I would think its more a sign they are interested and are testing waters to see if there is an interest or response back. Though if I reply it would be more than a one liner

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I'm a repetitive Winker. Wait.....eh

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

They are for girls, its not very polite for a woman to talk to a man first.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"They are for girls, its not very polite for a woman to talk to a man first."

Have to disagree as anytime I’ve gotten a message from a woman it’s been great, even when it wasn’t a chat up and yes a message isn’t always about jumping into to bed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not going to respond to a wink from someone who clearly doesn't match what we are looking for.why would we?

Then of course,when we do respond by winking back,the next thing,a friend invite is sent that's when we lose all interest,make a note in the private notes and move on.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

"They are for girls, its not very polite for a woman to talk to a man first."

Whys that then ?

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Call me old fashioned but imo a wink is a little flirty fun ,that's all and if someone winks us with a profile that we find attractive then who knows what can arise from it

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

Isnt a nod as good as one to a blind bat.???

Nudge nudge... say no more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely ignore them, unless it someone we already know

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