FabSwingers.com forum: Pure Filth

By *laymates30 OP Couple
over a year ago

The West

Anyone listen to this podcast? Just discovered it and I think it’s great. Two Irish women talking about sex and swinging, well worth a listen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love it! I look forward to every Friday to hear what they have to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must check it out

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Must have a listen sounds interesting

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By *laymates30 OP Couple
over a year ago

The West

Only three episodes but it’s pretry good so far, nice to hear the Irish take on the swinging scene.

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Where can we listen to it? Very interested in hearing what they had to say

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Its brilliant ..listened from the start. Love these two women they empower and inspire. More like them please

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Where can we listen to it? Very interested in hearing what they had to say"

Im listeing on spotify but i think its on sound cloud as well

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

That's my bedtime story sorted

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

"Where can we listen to it? Very interested in hearing what they had to say

Im listeing on spotify but i think its on sound cloud as well "

Can you send me link to pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where can we listen to it? Very interested in hearing what they had to say

Im listeing on spotify but i think its on sound cloud as well

Can you send me link to pm"

It's on Spotify just search Pure filth

Started first episode last night but fell asleep listening to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listening and enjoying ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must check it out

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road

We both listened to this last night. Skipped straight to the 3rd cast on the topic of swinging. Very detailed description of fab and clubs in Ireland. I can only imagine if it takes off there will be an influx of newbies on here.(no harm). Great to hear people speaking honestly about swinging. Didn't like the dig at the kk parties but a good listen especially for new people entering this lifestyle. Sarah maybe we will meet in the hot tub some night!

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By *laymates30 OP Couple
over a year ago

The West

"We both listened to this last night. Skipped straight to the 3rd cast on the topic of swinging. Very detailed description of fab and clubs in Ireland. I can only imagine if it takes off there will be an influx of newbies on here.(no harm). Great to hear people speaking honestly about swinging. Didn't like the dig at the kk parties but a good listen especially for new people entering this lifestyle. Sarah maybe we will meet in the hot tub some night!

I agree, I didn’t agree with the KK comments. You can’t really comment on what level of fun other people have or don’t have, each to their own.

Great tips for single women on the scene too.

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Have to tell you fabbers I’m really enjoying listening to these ladies on our filth real eye opener to swinging worth a listen ladies and gents #spotify pure filth

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
over a year ago

south Dublin

Must check this out

thanks for the recommendation x Mrs Bugs

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

I really enjoyed it!

Its very much from the point of view and by her own admission a size 24 lady, so why she feels the need to comment negatively about KK when shes never been I don't think its appropriate. They admit they are judgmental, and referring to people who go as shallow. I have never been to the club in Limerick, midlands mingle or curvy party at Vanilla and because of that I would never comment on it.

In saying that, I thought it was very very good, if a little naive about the dangers out there, possibly because she has only been on the scene a year and has been lucky to avoid the creeps and weirdos.

Also, the description of the guy crying in the toilet, I found a slightly upsetting but effective in demonstrating the dangers particularly for couples who are not in this both at the same level, I would have hated to see that if I had been there.

Well done, I look forward to listening to the future ones, thanks for putting a far better spin on the lifestyle than the cliche that most people in regular life think it is.

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road

"I really enjoyed it!

Well done, I look forward to listening to the future ones, thanks for putting a far better spin on the lifestyle than the cliche that most people in regular life think it is. "

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Dont forget to tune in tomorrow...ep4 what filth is on this week

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By *ewadventures2017Couple
over a year ago

some where near

Hi there

Have looked for it on both sound cloud and Spotify and can't find it only music have I got a setting wrong or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there

Have looked for it on both sound cloud and Spotify and can't find it only music have I got a setting wrong or something "

Click on the podcast button it should come straight up

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By *ewadventures2017Couple
over a year ago

some where near

Yea found it

Very good description of our experience of the scene in Ireland

We should sent them off on a fact finding mission to the other 2 clubs we know of

Would love to hear their experience

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Hi there

Have looked for it on both sound cloud and Spotify and can't find it only music have I got a setting wrong or something

Click on the podcast button it should come straight up

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

While not about swinging two podcasts produced by the sane company and well worth a listen

Mother of pod

The creep dive

Bloody great listens

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By *aneMarpleWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Ah these girls are so funny and great craic. They have the podcast on their insta. Not that I know much about insta but I think if I've done this right this is the link.

https://linktr.ee/purefilthpodcast

I think it's interesting to listen to from the perspective of new people on the scene.

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By *upiter2000Woman
over a year ago

Tallaght

Great listen , I like that the episodes are gettin longer too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listened to all 3 not sure what to think yet

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Listened to all 3 not sure what to think yet "

Let it sink in .....ive followed bith girls on insta for awhile. They're very open minded with a great story to tell

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Ah these girls are so funny and great craic. They have the podcast on their insta. Not that I know much about insta but I think if I've done this right this is the link.

https://linktr.ee/purefilthpodcast

I think it's interesting to listen to from the perspective of new people on the scene. "

Very intersting to listen to them Sara said u were in ur fifties

oopppsss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listened to all 3 not sure what to think yet

Let it sink in .....ive followed bith girls on insta for awhile. They're very open minded with a great story to tell "

I'm following them too, will be interesting to see where it goes as both stared their sexual experiences quite young and discovered their kinks and fetishes quite early.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Listened to all 3 not sure what to think yet

Let it sink in .....ive followed bith girls on insta for awhile. They're very open minded with a great story to tell

I'm following them too, will be interesting to see where it goes as both stared their sexual experiences quite young and discovered their kinks and fetishes quite early."

I know ...im jealous of that. Id to wait till i was 40 to discover im a kinky biatch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listened to all 3 not sure what to think yet

Let it sink in .....ive followed bith girls on insta for awhile. They're very open minded with a great story to tell

I'm following them too, will be interesting to see where it goes as both stared their sexual experiences quite young and discovered their kinks and fetishes quite early.

I know ...im jealous of that. Id to wait till i was 40 to discover im a kinky biatch

44 and still only learning.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Listened to all 3 not sure what to think yet

Let it sink in .....ive followed bith girls on insta for awhile. They're very open minded with a great story to tell

I'm following them too, will be interesting to see where it goes as both stared their sexual experiences quite young and discovered their kinks and fetishes quite early.

I know ...im jealous of that. Id to wait till i was 40 to discover im a kinky biatch

44 and still only learning. "

Same and having lots of fun on the way ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listened to all 3 not sure what to think yet

Let it sink in .....ive followed bith girls on insta for awhile. They're very open minded with a great story to tell

I'm following them too, will be interesting to see where it goes as both stared their sexual experiences quite young and discovered their kinks and fetishes quite early.

I know ...im jealous of that. Id to wait till i was 40 to discover im a kinky biatch

44 and still only learning.

Same and having lots of fun on the way ??"

Not as much as I hoped

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Listened to all 3 not sure what to think yet

Let it sink in .....ive followed bith girls on insta for awhile. They're very open minded with a great story to tell

I'm following them too, will be interesting to see where it goes as both stared their sexual experiences quite young and discovered their kinks and fetishes quite early.

I know ...im jealous of that. Id to wait till i was 40 to discover im a kinky biatch

44 and still only learning.

Same and having lots of fun on the way ??

Not as much as I hoped

Steff i might have a secret ... kink to be discovered and learned about

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By *aneMarpleWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"Ah these girls are so funny and great craic. They have the podcast on their insta. Not that I know much about insta but I think if I've done this right this is the link.

https://linktr.ee/purefilthpodcast

I think it's interesting to listen to from the perspective of new people on the scene.

Very intersting to listen to them Sara said u were in ur fifties

oopppsss

If you knew half the things Sara said about me you'd laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing podcast. Has really thought me to explore swinging and going to clubs hoping to go to my first night soon and can't wait ?? Looking forward to episode 4 tomorrow.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Filthy friday ...i believe t8day is about 1st (ahhhhh) ...1st time i was spanked, squirted,pissed on a cock, so sweet.

Tune into the girls

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By *ouseofcardCouple
over a year ago

city

Just listened well done girls enjoyable and some v funny moments , !!

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By *edlover94Man
over a year ago

Sligo/Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just binge listened to the 4 available episodes.

I love the openness & honesty of the 2 presenters.

its not necessarily the conversation you would have with some friends but it is wonderfully informative & educational.

a must listen for young, old & all on Fab, I look forward to future episodes & the slow change in sexual openness in Ireland.

thankfully sex is now been talked about in Ireland.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"just binge listened to the 4 available episodes.

I love the openness & honesty of the 2 presenters.

its not necessarily the conversation you would have with some friends but it is wonderfully informative & educational.

a must listen for young, old & all on Fab, I look forward to future episodes & the slow change in sexual openness in Ireland.

thankfully sex is now been talked about in Ireland.

If we could do more talking about it here it'd be great

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you

Im really enjoying this podcast

Very very informative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the pleasure of actually meeting with the two ladies at the Vanilla club that do the pure filth podcasts. Very lovely Genuine ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching this now and love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just finished listening and I loved it.

I have to admit I was always afraid of going to parties and chickened out on the day of them and made an excuse to not go.

If I can get an invite to another one I will definitely feel comfortable going

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By *itandhotCouple
over a year ago

citywest

Really interesting and helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listening to it .... Have to say I don't think it's amazing, ya fair play to you but there's a very one-sided view of things

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Listening to it .... Have to say I don't think it's amazing, ya fair play to you but there's a very one-sided view of things "
in what way buddy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listening to it .... Have to say I don't think it's amazing, ya fair play to you but there's a very one-sided view of things in what way buddy? "

Both presenters have a similar view of the scene etc.. there's no real debating, to me the blog is more opinionative than informative but this is just my take on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listening to it .... Have to say I don't think it's amazing, ya fair play to you but there's a very one-sided view of things in what way buddy?

Both presenters have a similar view of the scene etc.. there's no real debating, to me the blog is more opinionative than informative but this is just my take on it "

I've enjoyed it but feel the same as u do. Both started with their sexual experiences quite early too not all of us did.both very confident ladies when it comes to their sexual wants also.

Both it's good to see an Irish podcast as have listened to some American ones and very hard to listen to.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Listening to it .... Have to say I don't think it's amazing, ya fair play to you but there's a very one-sided view of things in what way buddy?

Both presenters have a similar view of the scene etc.. there's no real debating, to me the blog is more opinionative than informative but this is just my take on it "
yep i agree completely having thought about it, i felt the same way. I also thought some of it was a little childish and immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree that both presenters have a similar view, but in fairness they’re very open about that, most of these podcasts are opinion pieces.

Good to hear an Irish podcast on the subject as the English and American accents do my head in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree that both presenters have a similar view, but in fairness they’re very open about that, most of these podcasts are opinion pieces.

Good to hear an Irish podcast on the subject as the English and American accents do my head in."

I tried one American one and had a headache Everytime I listened to it with the American accents lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listening to it .... Have to say I don't think it's amazing, ya fair play to you but there's a very one-sided view of things in what way buddy?

Both presenters have a similar view of the scene etc.. there's no real debating, to me the blog is more opinionative than informative but this is just my take on it yep i agree completely having thought about it, i felt the same way. I also thought some of it was a little childish and immature."

I'm quite a big fan of podcasts and I think the concept of this podcast is good but it would be nice to hear differentiation of opinions, contrasting sides of an argument etc..

To me the best podcast out there at the moment is the Joe Rogan Experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listening to it .... Have to say I don't think it's amazing, ya fair play to you but there's a very one-sided view of things in what way buddy?

I'm quite a big fan of podcasts and I think the concept of this podcast is good but it would be nice to hear differentiation of opinions, contrasting sides of an argument etc..

To me the best podcast out there at the moment is the Joe Rogan Experience."

Love Joe rogan experience. On tonight's list while in work lol

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By *appyappy and fallenangelCouple
over a year ago

Skelmersdale

I love these girls talk about there experiences and the sex and swinging scene.cant wait for the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for sharing I shall check it out later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoyed it i think its funny and humorous they are very open and honest and have some great stories to tell so good for them

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By *he Vanilla ClubCouple
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I have listened to all except the last one.

Their view of swinging is very much based on single girls perspectives and as they are 2 single girls that is perfectly normal.

They can only saw how they feel and what their experience has been. Yes they are like 2 giddy schoolgirls but having met them a few times they are like that in person and wont mind me saying that.

Their podcast and all the topics are based on their experiences and views. They will not please everyone and not everyone will agree with their views but isnt it great that its out there, its Irish and its getting people talking so

for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really enjoyed it!

I witnessed a similar occasion at a private party where the lady was holding back tears and was seriously upset while 3 men pleasured her. I spoke with her later and she admitted her hubby had repeatedly pressured her into it, to the point of threatening to leave her.

So yea, there are dangers.

Great podcast. Funny, wise and enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t wait till they get guests on the show...

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"I have listened to all except the last one.

Their view of swinging is very much based on single girls perspectives and as they are 2 single girls that is perfectly normal.

They can only saw how they feel and what their experience has been. Yes they are like 2 giddy schoolgirls but having met them a few times they are like that in person and wont mind me saying that.

for that."
Its not all based on experiences though, they talk negatively about Killing Kittens when they haven't been which is not cool.

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5

Fair play to them for making the podcast. a lot of work goes into making media like that if you want it to succeed.

It's nice to hear about the Irish sex scene and totally agree that there will be different opinions on so many things.

It's probably good advice for single ladies looking into the lifestyle but for couples listening, our experience couldn't be more different to what they talk about.

It did confirm our suspicions about some aspects of swing though.

Their definition of a swinger is something I would completely refute also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have listened to all except the last one.

Their view of swinging is very much based on single girls perspectives and as they are 2 single girls that is perfectly normal.

They can only saw how they feel and what their experience has been. Yes they are like 2 giddy schoolgirls but having met them a few times they are like that in person and wont mind me saying that.

for that."

It's not the experience of a Single girl....

It's just their experience, I would encourage them to bring on guests with opposing views and different experiences

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"I have listened to all except the last one.

Their view of swinging is very much based on single girls perspectives and as they are 2 single girls that is perfectly normal.

They can only saw how they feel and what their experience has been. Yes they are like 2 giddy schoolgirls but having met them a few times they are like that in person and wont mind me saying that.

for that.

It's not the experience of a Single girl....

It's just their experience, I would encourage them to bring on guests with opposing views and different experiences"
Brilliant Idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have listened to all except the last one.

Their view of swinging is very much based on single girls perspectives and as they are 2 single girls that is perfectly normal.

They can only saw how they feel and what their experience has been. Yes they are like 2 giddy schoolgirls but having met them a few times they are like that in person and wont mind me saying that.

for that.

It's not the experience of a Single girl....

It's just their experience, I would encourage them to bring on guests with opposing views and different experiences"

I assume they are not state funded they have no obligation to represent all aspects of a topic.

You are looking for corperate levels of research and presentation of two people starting out in an enterprise. Enjoy it and support it or dont and dont tune in

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I have followed Sarah on instagram for quite some time and find het to be very funny and a warm hearted lady. They don't claim to be experts on swinging and the podcast is a sex podcast.

I don't agree with some of their comments and experiences but not everyone has the same experiences.

I find it funny in places and interesting in others. At the end of the day its only 2 girls having a laugh and a chat. I enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoyed this podcast. It’s a great listen.

I would like to point out that this podcasts purpose isn’t to solely talk about the swing scene. It’s two girls talking about all the kinky a sexual experiences they have encountered. And to talk about subjects that other people probably wouldn’t bring up in conversation but that it happens to a lot of people. Hence the title “pure filth”.

They are only chatting about their experience with swing, which is different from my own, and it’s going to be different to most peoples.

It’s a lighthearted podcast that also gives some information on all things kinky.

If you don’t like it, don’t listen. Simple as that really

Fair play to the girls for being so open about it.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

So its OK for them to criticize something they have never experienced yet anyone says anything negative about their pod cast they should just not listen to it?

Really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So its OK for them to criticize something they have never experienced yet anyone says anything negative about their pod cast they should just not listen to it?

Really."

Not really no. If you dont like what is being said you have the option to tune out sorry if that was phrased badly. My point wad they are an independant podcast and under no obligation to give any viewpoint but their own.

And yes it is ok to citicize something you havent experienced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So its OK for them to criticize something they have never experienced yet anyone says anything negative about their pod cast they should just not listen to it?

Really.

And yes it is ok to citicize something you havent experienced."
sorry ment to add especially when its something ypur physical appearance will rule you out of being able to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really enjoyed this podcast. It’s a great listen.

They are only chatting about their experience with swing, which is different from my own, and it’s going to be different to most peoples.

It’s a lighthearted podcast that also gives some information on all things kinky.

If you don’t like it, don’t listen. Simple as that really

Fair play to the girls for being so open about it.

I enjoyed parts of it others I didn't. In one they refer to parties and basically diss the mingles etc because you don't have sex at them. Thought that was unfair been to a few mingles and they are a laugh, a good night out and if you hit it off with someone that's a bonus. Not all of us are comfortable going to a club etc getting our kit off and been fucked by a stranger. I will keep listening as have enjoyed them so far and hopefully if they have different guests etc with other points of view it will improve.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"So its OK for them to criticize something they have never experienced yet anyone says anything negative about their pod cast they should just not listen to it?

Really.

And yes it is ok to citicize something you havent experienced. sorry ment to add especially when its something ypur physical appearance will rule you out of being able to"
I guess that means I am free to criticise the curvy nights at Vanilla because I fall outside the requirements to attend, but I wouldnt do that. Or maybe I will give out about one of the English Clubs just because I can like even though I have never been.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"I really enjoyed this podcast. It’s a great listen.

They are only chatting about their experience with swing, which is different from my own, and it’s going to be different to most peoples.

It’s a lighthearted podcast that also gives some information on all things kinky.

If you don’t like it, don’t listen. Simple as that really

Fair play to the girls for being so open about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really enjoyed this podcast. It’s a great listen.

They are only chatting about their experience with swing, which is different from my own, and it’s going to be different to most peoples.

It’s a lighthearted podcast that also gives some information on all things kinky.

If you don’t like it, don’t listen. Simple as that really

Fair play to the girls for being so open about it.

Ya I was like have you just dissed something you haven't tried? As someone else said the podcast is about their opinions and their experiences which is grand. Guess we will all wait and see next few episodes. But fair play girls and hope it goes from strength to strength.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So its OK for them to criticize something they have never experienced yet anyone says anything negative about their pod cast they should just not listen to it?

Really.

And yes it is ok to citicize something you havent experienced. sorry ment to add especially when its something ypur physical appearance will rule you out of being able toI guess that means I am free to criticise the curvy nights at Vanilla because I fall outside the requirements to attend, but I wouldnt do that. Or maybe I will give out about one of the English Clubs just because I can like even though I have never been.

Of course you are free to criticise it and you dont even have to find someone to stand up for it when you do

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"So its OK for them to criticize something they have never experienced yet anyone says anything negative about their pod cast they should just not listen to it?

Really."

Who said you shouldn't listen to it?

The girls?

No I didn't think so.

It's a free country - they are expressing a personal point of view - it is up to individuals to decide whether or not to listen to the podcast.

They are under no obligation to provide a counter argument to their views - KK has ample exposure and ample money to counter said arguments should they feel the need to do so.

I find the podcast a little tedious and indulgent - but I'm happy they have a vehicle to express their opinions. If I felt strobgly enough about it I would start my own podcast rather than criticise from the sidelines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have listened to all except the last one.

Their view of swinging is very much based on single girls perspectives and as they are 2 single girls that is perfectly normal.

They can only saw how they feel and what their experience has been. Yes they are like 2 giddy schoolgirls but having met them a few times they are like that in person and wont mind me saying that.

for that.Its not all based on experiences though, they talk negatively about Killing Kittens when they haven't been which is not cool."

I think a lot of people have negative views on killing kittens most likely because of their "pretty standard" of party goers. I'll be honest killing kittens doesn't strike me as a night that id like to attend but I will commend them on how open they are regarding their nights to the media in other countries and the woman behind is making a fortune outta it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have listened to all except the last one.

Their view of swinging is very much based on single girls perspectives and as they are 2 single girls that is perfectly normal.

They can only saw how they feel and what their experience has been. Yes they are like 2 giddy schoolgirls but having met them a few times they are like that in person and wont mind me saying that.

for that.

It's not the experience of a Single girl....

It's just their experience, I would encourage them to bring on guests with opposing views and different experiences

I assume they are not state funded they have no obligation to represent all aspects of a topic.

You are looking for corperate levels of research and presentation of two people starting out in an enterprise. Enjoy it and support it or dont and dont tune in"

Twas merely a suggestion is all, having been involved in the scene for a far greater time I would like to see different opinions, yes I know it's just about sex but it's more interesting to have debates etc..

I've no problem with the podcast but I do think that without different views and difference of opinion there can be a lack of truth which in my mind isn't fair.

To be honest I'd love to set up a podcast but I haven't a clue on how to? I do however think I'm allowed to share my opinion and over my ideas towards improvement as

1. It's in the public domain

2. Direct references and indeed naming of a website and scene I have been involved in for years where made

I just don't want to see certain groups misrepresented

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have listened to all except the last one.

Their view of swinging is very much based on single girls perspectives and as they are 2 single girls that is perfectly normal.

They can only saw how they feel and what their experience has been. Yes they are like 2 giddy schoolgirls but having met them a few times they are like that in person and wont mind me saying that.

for that.

It's not the experience of a Single girl....

It's just their experience, I would encourage them to bring on guests with opposing views and different experiences

I assume they are not state funded they have no obligation to represent all aspects of a topic.

You are looking for corperate levels of research and presentation of two people starting out in an enterprise. Enjoy it and support it or dont and dont tune in

I've no problem with the podcast but I do think that without different views and difference of opinion there can be a lack of truth which in my mind isn't fair.

To be honest I'd love to set up a podcast but I haven't a clue on how to? I do however think I'm allowed to share my opinion and over my ideas towards improvement as

1. It's in the public domain

2. Direct references and indeed naming of a website and scene I have been involved in for years where made

I just don't want to see certain groups misrepresented"

Its a podcast with two girls chatting about sex......

If they want to bring on guests and alternitve views great, if not its entirely up to them.

You are of course more than welcome to share your views as I replied to peteandgemma I phrase the first reply poorly about not tuning in if you had megitive feedback, just ment you have the option not to listen to a podcast with opinions your disagree with

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

They called people that attend kk as shallow, thats out of order. If they actually went they would know that’s nonsense.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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"They called people that attend kk as shallow, thats out of order. If they actually went they would know that’s nonsense."

Honestly as far as im aware neither myself or those ladies could attend ...we dont fit the criteria ...too fat

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over a year ago

"They called people that attend kk as shallow, thats out of order. If they actually went they would know that’s nonsense.

Honestly as far as im aware neither myself or those ladies could attend ...we dont fit the criteria ...too fat

I used to be of the opinion that KK was an elitist group.... Yes in the UK it seems like that and yes a certain group go but from people I know have gone lots of normal people do too.

What I've learned over my many years here is that everyone has varied tastes and there's something here for everyone but you can't allow prejudgements of something write it off, something which I've done in the past but I now see it's stupid. Those of your who berate kk, have you ever asked for an invite? I know I used to and I never did so how could I be so sure I wouldn't be allowed go.

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over a year ago

"They called people that attend kk as shallow, thats out of order. If they actually went they would know that’s nonsense.

Honestly as far as im aware neither myself or those ladies could attend ...we dont fit the criteria ...too fat

I used to be of the opinion that KK was an elitist group.... Yes in the UK it seems like that and yes a certain group go but from people I know have gone lots of normal people do too.

So there are no physical prerequsits?

I actually think they are entitaled to put what ever restrictions they want and I have stated as such on some of BFB's threads.

I just think podcasts are also entitaled to comment and critisise as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They called people that attend kk as shallow, thats out of order. If they actually went they would know that’s nonsense."

Can I ask honestly is there physical criteria for these partys?

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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"They called people that attend kk as shallow, thats out of order. If they actually went they would know that’s nonsense.

Honestly as far as im aware neither myself or those ladies could attend ...we dont fit the criteria ...too fat

I used to be of the opinion that KK was an elitist group.... Yes in the UK it seems like that and yes a certain group go but from people I know have gone lots of normal people do too.

Tbh ive never berated it. Ive always been of the opinion theres groups for curvey women and groups for tv/ts and groups for bisexuals and gays, why not groups for slim women. I was pointing out what i thought was KKs criteria ... i cant help if im too fabulous for it... ill go to vanilla

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

I love it. Very personal experiences and informative for someone wanting to get into swinging or kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love podcasts and it is so good to have an Irish 1 that we can relate but i agree with an earlier comment that some guest with a different point of view of swinging would be great. Over all it really is a great podcast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love podcasts and it is so good to have an Irish 1 that we can relate but i agree with an earlier comment that some guest with a different point of view of swinging would be great. Over all it really is a great podcast"

Ya it's not bad but ya a few different view points would be very welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Podcast Shameless Sex on Spotify is a great listen ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the podcast, it's informative and really fun at the same time

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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Ya it's not bad but ya a few different view points would be very welcome

What different viewpoints do you suggest ???

I really enjoy listening to the girls take on the lifestyle. I enjoy their banter and retoric.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Those of your who berate kk, have you ever asked for an invite?

Nope. Not once. Never did & never will

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By *leasureOrbitCouple
over a year ago

city centre

Really enjoyed the podcast, the two ladies, particularly Sarah, had great energy and enthusiasm and it was an amusing listen. It’s good to hear something about swinging that highlights its positive, empowering and fun aspects and isn’t sensationalist or simply not representative.

The “shallow” comment on kk attendees was disappointing and hopefully was a slip of the tounge. I wonder does Michelle know that many of the vanilla attendees they eulogised about are also regular kk attendees.

Either way, one blip shouldn’t detract from what was an overwhelmingly enjoyable way to spend an hour and wish them all the best with the series.

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over a year ago

Ya it's not bad but ya a few different view points would be very welcome

What different viewpoints do you suggest ???

I really enjoy listening to the girls take on the lifestyle. I enjoy their banter and retoric. "

Obviously different and contrasting view points for instance the definition of a swinger, people who have attended other clubs to share experience there and shed light on the rumours.

Talk shows generally have a bit of both sides to keep things fair and interesting

This again is just all my humble opinion

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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Ya it's not bad but ya a few different view points would be very welcome

What different viewpoints do you suggest ???

I really enjoy listening to the girls take on the lifestyle. I enjoy their banter and retoric.

Obviously different and contrasting view points for instance the definition of a swinger, people who have attended other clubs to share experience there and shed light on the rumours.

Talk shows generally have a bit of both sides to keep things fair and interesting

This again is just all my humble opinion "

I do think they're bringing others on but genuinly i enjoy the girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya it's not bad but ya a few different view points would be very welcome

What different viewpoints do you suggest ???

I really enjoy listening to the girls take on the lifestyle. I enjoy their banter and retoric.

Obviously different and contrasting view points for instance the definition of a swinger, people who have attended other clubs to share experience there and shed light on the rumours.

Talk shows generally have a bit of both sides to keep things fair and interesting

This again is just all my humble opinion

I do think they're bringing others on but genuinly i enjoy the girls"

Hopefully

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By *oudicaWoman
over a year ago

Kilkenny

Oooo an Irish podcast on the swinging scene, excellent will definitely give it a listen. I’ve been following the Bedhoppers podcast on Spotify (couple from Fab talking about the UK scene) for a good while so it’s great to hear an Irish one starting.

As an attendee of Killing Kittens I’ll try to not get too offended when I’m referred to as shallow, but I’m not promising

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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"Oooo an Irish podcast on the swinging scene, excellent will definitely give it a listen. I’ve been following the Bedhoppers podcast on Spotify (couple from Fab talking about the UK scene) for a good while so it’s great to hear an Irish one starting.

As an attendee of Killing Kittens I’ll try to not get too offended when I’m referred to as shallow, but I’m not promising

Ive listened to bed hoppers as well but my preference is the girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an attendee of Killing Kittens I’ll try to not get too offended when I’m referred to as shallow, but I’m not promising

I didn't think they dismissed kk that bad, don't know much about kk other than what I've seen posted here, but isn't any club entitled to have certain type of clientele. I'm a plus sized lady and doesn't bother me that I wouldn't be kk standard

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By *oudicaWoman
over a year ago

Kilkenny

Absolutely Steph, that’s the great thing about the scene there are parties/clubs/nights for everyone. Why can’t we all just get along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely Steph, that’s the great thing about the scene there are parties/clubs/nights for everyone. Why can’t we all just get along

Exactly x

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By *allyCD123TV/TS
over a year ago

Wexford

very interesting podcast have only listened to the third on on swinging as so funny and down to earth frank and honest and really good that they talked about respect in the whole scene and how normal it can be :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally got to listen to these podcasts. Very funny and entertaining. May not agree fully with all their opinions but was definitely worth the listen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is brilliant, thanks for the heads up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an attendee of Killing Kittens I’ll try to not get too offended when I’m referred to as shallow, but I’m not promising

Oh must listen.. thanks for the heads up ... Ana

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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Filthy friday is approaching, i cant wait for the next installment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May look it up.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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"May look it up. "

Spotify ....enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May look it up.

Spotify ....enjoy

Thanks

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

And so its slut shaming this week. Ear buds in, coffee in hand, ready for a listen

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Ok had a listen and i have to say a fantastic episode. Informative and thought provoking. Well done girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an attendee of Killing Kittens I’ll try to not get too offended when I’m referred to as shallow, but I’m not promising

Bou you're far from shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

EP 5 was best so far

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"EP 5 was best so far

Fully agree ...hitting big subjects now

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By *eelyoursurrenderMan
over a year ago

m1 communter belt

There are gay bars that welcome women and couples and there are gay bars that only welcome gay men.

Are the presenters saying those bars are ‘shallow’ and ‘stuffy’ too?

Sex is about more than just who you’re in bed with, the atmosphere and environment matters to many people just as much. If people’s fantasy dosent meet the reality of the presenters then that’s too bad for them and they should be more gracious and accepting of those for whom it does.

They ask for acceptance and then deny the right of others to have their own preferences. That’s the real shallow thinking right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listening to it now!

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

"Ok had a listen and i have to say a fantastic episode. Informative and thought provoking. Well done girls

What was it about this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They ask for acceptance and then deny the right of others to have their own preferences. That’s the real shallow thinking right there.

this is hilarious

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"There are gay bars that welcome women and couples and there are gay bars that only welcome gay men.

Are the presenters saying those bars are ‘shallow’ and ‘stuffy’ too?

They ask for acceptance and then deny the right of others to have their own preferences. That’s the real shallow thinking right there.

"
You win fabs today! I am keeping that for future reference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok had a listen and i have to say a fantastic episode. Informative and thought provoking. Well done girls

What was it about this week"

About slut shaming. Best episode so far

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Ok had a listen and i have to say a fantastic episode. Informative and thought provoking. Well done girls

What was it about this week

About slut shaming. Best episode so far"

I love that we can take back the word ...i really enjoyed everything they talked about this week. I will have a listen again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok had a listen and i have to say a fantastic episode. Informative and thought provoking. Well done girls

What was it about this week

About slut shaming. Best episode so far

I love that we can take back the word ...i really enjoyed everything they talked about this week. I will have a listen again. "

Same. And it's ok for me as a woman to enjoy sex,I definitely spent my 20/30s having sex and it been about the guy but I used it as a wall. Went for the bad boys who wouldn't date me, see them during a night out but bump into them in the chipper and go home with them. Get them off and leave. I got a small bit of intimacy which I craved but I was in control and my wall was still intact.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Ok had a listen and i have to say a fantastic episode. Informative and thought provoking. Well done girls

For me i never had sex for me ..it was always about him. Wanting to please... be the good wife... my orgasm was unimportant and my needs less important. Sex was not to be celebrated. That was then and this is now.... i embrace my sexuality... i love my slutty side. I love sex and i love orgasms....he aint leaving till i cum.

I know the KK debate rages on but this podcast, these girls message is going out to women that didn't have a voice before this. Fat and sexually repressed.... to have been that woman and fought against it ...its one hell of fight ...it makes you strong and opinionated. Before the likes of KK would of killed my confidence, not thin enough, not pretty enough. Now couldnt give a fiddlers... something for everyone. Im a fooking sexy woman with curves and intelligence and opinions. I dont need nor want the approval of others ...i got my own approval...ohhhh now that was a random flow people

... listen to the whole thing dont focus on one thing, your missing whats been said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok had a listen and i have to say a fantastic episode. Informative and thought provoking. Well done girls

... listen to the whole thing dont focus on one thing, your missing whats been said. "

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over a year ago

"Ok had a listen and i have to say a fantastic episode. Informative and thought provoking. Well done girls

... listen to the whole thing dont focus on one thing, your missing whats been said. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Episode 6 all about the blow job!! Some interesting techniques discussed with a male guest. Can't wait to try them out

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"Episode 6 all about the blow job!! Some interesting techniques discussed with a male guest. Can't wait to try them out

Are you looking for volunteers

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Started to listen this morning enjoyed them so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guests on Pure Filth ... it would be a good idea to get other opinions & views but I suspect many in the Irish Lifestyle would prefer to remain anonymous... Ireland is a small world, true some voice changing technology could be used to disguise voices but would people take part ...

perhaps if Pure Filth put a post in forums & asked for opinions... or met & interviewed people over a coffee they could gauge the other opinions .

but early days yet & great that sex is being discussed in Ireland

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Episode 6 all about the blow job!! Some interesting techniques discussed with a male guest. Can't wait to try them out

Just about to tune in .... hes Sarahs gay friend. Gay men really are the best to get info off

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"Episode 6 all about the blow job!! Some interesting techniques discussed with a male guest. Can't wait to try them out

Just about to tune in .... hes Sarahs gay friend. Gay men really are the best to get info off "

Should we change google to gaygle in that case.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Episode 6 all about the blow job!! Some interesting techniques discussed with a male guest. Can't wait to try them out

Just about to tune in .... hes Sarahs gay friend. Gay men really are the best to get info off

Should we change google to gaygle in that case. "

Maybe we should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Episode 6 all about the blow job!! Some interesting techniques discussed with a male guest. Can't wait to try them out

Just about to tune in .... hes Sarahs gay friend. Gay men really are the best to get info off

Should we change google to gaygle in that case.

Maybe we should "

Does google give blowjobs? I have beem wasting way too much of my interñet time......

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Episode 6 all about the blow job!! Some interesting techniques discussed with a male guest. Can't wait to try them out

Just about to tune in .... hes Sarahs gay friend. Gay men really are the best to get info off

Should we change google to gaygle in that case.

Maybe we should

Does google give blowjobs? I have beem wasting way too much of my interñet time......"

And think what you could of been doing

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Have to say,great listeing to them girls do a great job and leave nothing out,some great tips too there’s some ppl on here that could learn a lot

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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Ok listened to this while doing a 10k .... i actually snotted wirh laughter at one stage. When im preparing to put a cock in my mouth from now on ill be pulling back the foreskin... holy mother of God

The guests tips on a good blowie made me want to give somone one right now ...fooking sexy !

On a footnote i went from this into the creep dive where a story was been told about a guy getting spilt open by a horses cock. Its all relative

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over a year ago

"Ok listened to this while doing a 10k .... i actually snotted wirh laughter at one stage. When im preparing to put a cock in my mouth from now on ill be pulling back the foreskin... holy mother of God

The guests tips on a good blowie made me want to give somone one right now ...fooking sexy !

On a footnote i went from this into the creep dive where a story was been told about a guy getting spilt open by a horses cock. Its all relative

I was in work, thankfully not sitting near anyone but ya I definitely want to give one after the guests tips

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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The guests tips on a good blowie made me want to give somone one right now ...fooking sexy !

On a footnote i went from this into the creep dive where a story was been told about a guy getting spilt open by a horses cock. Its all relative

I was in work, thankfully not sitting near anyone but ya I definitely want to give one after the guests tips

Omg his description had my juices flowing.... i love giving a good blowjob

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over a year ago

The guests tips on a good blowie made me want to give somone one right now ...fooking sexy !

On a footnote i went from this into the creep dive where a story was been told about a guy getting spilt open by a horses cock. Its all relative

I was in work, thankfully not sitting near anyone but ya I definitely want to give one after the guests tips

Omg his description had my juices flowing.... i love giving a good blowjob

Same but that's been my problem I look after the guy and forget about my needs. Need to figure out how to change that.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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The guests tips on a good blowie made me want to give somone one right now ...fooking sexy !

On a footnote i went from this into the creep dive where a story was been told about a guy getting spilt open by a horses cock. Its all relative

I was in work, thankfully not sitting near anyone but ya I definitely want to give one after the guests tips

Omg his description had my juices flowing.... i love giving a good blowjob

Same but that's been my problem I look after the guy and forget about my needs. Need to figure out how to change that."

Like sarah says give the blowie that you enjoy giving and not what he wants. Then make him find your clit

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over a year ago

The guests tips on a good blowie made me want to give somone one right now ...fooking sexy !

On a footnote i went from this into the creep dive where a story was been told about a guy getting spilt open by a horses cock. Its all relative

I was in work, thankfully not sitting near anyone but ya I definitely want to give one after the guests tips

Omg his description had my juices flowing.... i love giving a good blowjob

Same but that's been my problem I look after the guy and forget about my needs. Need to figure out how to change that.

Like sarah says give the blowie that you enjoy giving and not what he wants. Then make him find your clit

I do though. I enjoy giving blowies I'm just picking selfish guys you not willing to put effort in when it comes to my needs. I guess cause I can't cum they don't see the point

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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The guests tips on a good blowie made me want to give somone one right now ...fooking sexy !

On a footnote i went from this into the creep dive where a story was been told about a guy getting spilt open by a horses cock. Its all relative

I was in work, thankfully not sitting near anyone but ya I definitely want to give one after the guests tips

Omg his description had my juices flowing.... i love giving a good blowjob

Same but that's been my problem I look after the guy and forget about my needs. Need to figure out how to change that.

Like sarah says give the blowie that you enjoy giving and not what he wants. Then make him find your clit

I do though. I enjoy giving blowies I'm just picking selfish guys you not willing to put effort in when it comes to my needs. I guess cause I can't cum they don't see the point"

You can cum you just need to find your orgasm steph ...its there hiding