FabSwingers.com forum: Changes

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many posts complaining about things lately so think it's time for some positivity.

Has there been any positive changes within you since you've joined fab and what are they?

Mine are:

1. I've tried lots of new things and opened my mind a lot more.

2. Met some fantastic people and made new friends.

3. Improved my body confidence.

4. I now own more gorgeous bras and lingerie than I ever have in my entire life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many posts complaining about things lately so think it's time for some positivity.

Has there been any positive changes within you since you've joined fab and what are they?

Mine are:

1. I've tried lots of new things and opened my mind a lot more.

2. Met some fantastic people and made new friends.

3. Improved my body confidence.

4. I now own more gorgeous bras and lingerie than I ever have in my entire life.

All of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met a couple of nice people and have abit more confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have made some great new friends.

More sexy underwear bought than ever before.

Body confidence gone from 0 to a 2 out of 10

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"So many posts complaining about things lately so think it's time for some positivity.

Has there been any positive changes within you since you've joined fab and what are they?

Mine are:

1. I've tried lots of new things and opened my mind a lot more.

2. Met some fantastic people and made new friends.

3. Improved my body confidence.

4. I now own more gorgeous bras and lingerie than I ever have in my entire life.

Yip same here edll without the bras and pantys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have made some great new friends.

More sexy underwear bought than ever before.

Body confidence gone from 0 to a 2 out of 10

Your profile pic is beautiful x

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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago

00heaven

"So many posts complaining about things lately so think it's time for some positivity.

Has there been any positive changes within you since you've joined fab and what are they?

Mine are:

1. I've tried lots of new things and opened my mind a lot more.

2. Met some fantastic people and made new friends.

3. Improved my body confidence.

4. I now own more gorgeous bras and lingerie than I ever have in my entire life.

Mine are

1. Met lots of lovely people & made friends

2. Met the love of my life thanks to fab

3. Turned into a m&g organiser

4. Discovered I like to be dominated in bed

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin westmeath galway

Met some amazing new people and done things that I never thought I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have made some great new friends.

More sexy underwear bought than ever before.

Body confidence gone from 0 to a 2 out of 10

Your profile pic is beautiful x"

Thank you. Before I joined Fab I would never have taken a picture like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought you were abouy to announce the start of menopause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have become better at taking compliments.

I am much clearer about my owm wants and needs and not just about pleasing the other person.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I have met some lovely people.

I've enjoyed experimenting with different kinds of Tantra massages.

I've got great feedback and affirmation.

I've got a nice selection of new shirts.

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By *hadowcookieCouple
over a year ago

Portlaoise

1. Found out my ass is not bad.

2. Def improved body confidence from minus numbers.

3. Discovered I'm definitely a cougar.. But partner prefers our age group so lots of compromising.. Lol

4. Found out the meaning of LOTS of new words!!!

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

I have made new and meaningful friendships

I've become more sexually aware of my partners needs and wants.

I have learnt to appreciate the nice people on fab

I've developed a tick skin to ward off the trolls

I have learnt something from every person i have met over the last 6 years

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By *elfastblondMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Lost 4.5st due to a great fab friend introducing me to slimming world

Ran a couple of marathons (which I couldn't have done without losing the weight)

Met some great fab friends

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

1.Dont give a fuck what anyone thinks of me..

2.Have the confidence to chat to people im interested in by messaging them..

3.Love buying sexy undies and showing them off..

4. Block boring uninteresting people outa my life..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 made loads of new friends

2 had loads of new experiences

3 body confidence went from 0 to a solid 5 (Mr here)

4 got thought that my links are not to be ashamed of

5 got to share my love of bondage with the community

6 can look forward to many events and party's and new friends to meet

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

1. My eyesight has deteriorated

2. I regularly get close to my phone's data limit

3. I've discovered that usernames containing Sexy/Nymph/Little/Shy often bear no relation to the actual user

4. My sleep patterns changed entirely

5. My lack of a 6 pack and a Sky remote make me a weirdo

6. The Naughty Step stifles conversations but increases perving considerably p

7. Oh and there are some really nice, genuine people here too

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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago

00heaven

"Lost 4.5st due to a great fab friend introducing me to slimming world

Ran a couple of marathons (which I couldn't have done without losing the weight)

Met some great fab friends

Think you need to introduce me to your slimming world friend to give me motivation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have made some great new friends.

More sexy underwear bought than ever before.

Body confidence gone from 0 to a 2 out of 10

Your profile pic is beautiful x

Thank you. Before I joined Fab I would never have taken a picture like that"
Steph you look amazing always do a very sexy lady and a wonderful friend Beautiful inside and out a big ten from len here xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 28/01/19 00:02:49]

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love how almost everyone made their comments into lists

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

We're an organised bunch

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

And you started it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We're an organised bunch

Very much so!

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

"Love how almost everyone made their comments into lists

Your training them well

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I shaved my balls

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I shaved my balls

Just had another idea for a new forum thread

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Since joining Fab I’m

1 more confident in mind and body

2 met and chatted to some great people with more to meet

3 got my first sex toys and tried a few things that I would t have before

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

I'm positive I take rejection and being messed around by people better.....practice makes perfect as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above ...

Annnnd I am more sarcastic then before....

Annnd can spot someone off fab from a mile away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appreciate my partner even more than I did before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Appreciate my partner even more than I did before

As above, and we've met new friends. It's great to see people on this thread being positive about making connections with people, many fabbers run a mile if it isn't totally anonymous sex.

And yeah, lingerie... second couple we ever met ran a lingerie shop and our Mrs is sample size! Happy days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will say that I have been incredibly lucky to have met some truly beautiful people.... In every aspect of that word.

Being on the site has opened my eyes somewhat..... I think that I used to be a bit more naive and while I wouldn't say that I am sceptical now, I would definitely say that I am better equipped to spot a time waster.

All in all my experiences on fab have been good!!

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By *aseman_291Man
over a year ago

kildare

Most of the above i must say some fab chats and great open minded ppl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met more and more people without the need for THE coffee meet and it’s always gone like an atomic bomb mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Forgot to add another one - I've learned not to lower my standards for anyone.

That's a pretty big one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forgot to add another one - I've learned not to lower my standards for anyone.

That's a pretty big one too

Thank christ they arent too high to start with then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Forgot to add another one - I've learned not to lower my standards for anyone.

That's a pretty big one too

Thank christ they arent too high to start with then

Oy oy. Cheek of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a great thread OP, kudos.

We have made some good friends here and though we've yet to meet have gotten good advice from folks too, so looking forward to the next step.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab gave me my sexual confidence back, something I lost when I was married, thanks to fab I'm not afraid to express my desires and wants in the bedroom, and fab also helped me realise I don't have to have a six pack tum and bronzed body to be desirable to men, I've come to realise that for alot of men, its the person within the body that attracts man

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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago

00heaven

"Fab gave me my sexual confidence back, something I lost when I was married, thanks to fab I'm not afraid to express my desires and wants in the bedroom, and fab also helped me realise I don't have to have a six pack tum and bronzed body to be desirable to men, I've come to realise that for alot of men, its the person within the body that attracts man

But you do have a body to die for xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you do have a body to die for xx"

LOL so does everyone when you take a pic laying on your back

Gravity is a wonderful thing lol

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By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

I find its improved my marriage .things alot happier now getting on grt an i enjoying life to the full

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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago

00heaven

But you do have a body to die for xx

LOL so does everyone when you take a pic laying on your back

Gravity is a wonderful thing lol

But still a body to die for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Strangers have reached out to offer help and advice when I was in the depths of depression

2. Fabs - sad but true, I know we shouldn't rely on get likes from strangers but nice to know people like my body

3 wanting to explore and push boundaries have been welcoming... The right people wanna step up and take a chance on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you do have a body to die for xx

LOL so does everyone when you take a pic laying on your back

Gravity is a wonderful thing lol

But still a body to die for

Well thank you Mrs Bond x

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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago

00heaven

But you do have a body to die for xx

LOL so does everyone when you take a pic laying on your back

Gravity is a wonderful thing lol

But still a body to die for

Well thank you Mrs Bond x"

My pleasure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a room you's two

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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago

00heaven

"Get a room you's two

I'd love too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a room you's two

I'd love too

Think Hardy is also angling for an invite Mrs Bond

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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago

00heaven

"Get a room you's two

I'd love too

Think Hardy is also angling for an invite Mrs Bond

Is he feeling left out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a room you's two

I'd love too

Think Hardy is also angling for an invite Mrs Bond

Is he feeling left out? "

He must be!!

Hardy loves a group hug !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a room you's two

I'd love too

Think Hardy is also angling for an invite Mrs Bond

Is he feeling left out?

He must be!!

Hardy loves a group hug !! "
sure who doesn't love an aul hug ladies

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By *hadowcookieCouple
over a year ago

Portlaoise

Your pic looks like you have a six pack tum!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pic looks like you have a six pack tum!! "

Just learnt that skill of sucking the mum tum in lol

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Great thread.

1. I've tried new things since joining Fab including having learned the true workings and understandings of a proper D/S relationship. This was something I never understood before and couldn't understand what others got from such arrangements or relationships, but now I know. Though I consider myself Dom, part of the learning process was by myself being a sub to a Domme. To fully understand the position of a sub then what better way than to be in the position or shoes of a sub, and through that I learned a lot of what I now know about being a proper Dom (none of this 50 Shades of Grey crap).

That reminds me, I must see about lifting my 'Dom Box' out of storage.

2. I've also met some amazing persons on here, some I consider proper friends. My first ever meet from this site was about 6 years ago and her and I remain friends to this day often having chats in the early hours about serious matters or personal problems.

3. Have had some great sexcapades through Fab

4. Discovered the forums on here and find it quite refreshing to be able to talk to like minded persons on a daily basis, about any and all topics.

5. Came to realise that there is nothing wrong with my mindset and that sex is quite liberating and that we are actually just living in a country of many backward thinking people suppressed by their religious beliefs or fear of stigmatisation due to not conforming with generally accepted societal standards.

Consenting adults (whom are doing nothing illegual) having consensual sex??? How dare we!!! Tut tut.

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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago

00heaven

"Get a room you's two

I'd love too

Think Hardy is also angling for an invite Mrs Bond

Is he feeling left out?

He must be!!

Hardy loves a group hug !! sure who doesn't love an aul hug ladies

Been ages since I had a group hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest change for me is I met my soulmate Dee and we are currently planning our wedding for next year

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

What a profile xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a room you's two

I'd love too

Think Hardy is also angling for an invite Mrs Bond

Is he feeling left out?

He must be!!

Hardy loves a group hug !! sure who doesn't love an aul hug ladies

Been ages since I had a group hug

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well then get your thinking caps on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a room you's two

I'd love too

Think Hardy is also angling for an invite Mrs Bond

Is he feeling left out?

He must be!!

Hardy loves a group hug !! sure who doesn't love an aul hug ladies

Been ages since I had a group hug

well then get your thinking caps on

Sending cyber hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I change my razor more often as I shave at both ends nowadays

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

Whilst in GC in october using the forum and getting advice gave us the confidence to try a few clubs which was very enjoyable, we enjoy reading about other peoples adventures especially GC for our next trip.

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