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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

found else where but an interesting question

So I have been lucky enough to have very gracious meets. If there is no sexual attraction, I have been able to say that and they have been lovely and completely reasonable.

I am quite aware that that might not always be the situation.

Any particular tips or phrases people use when you just don't get the "I want to fuck you" vibe from folk, so you can leave without drama?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

It was really nice to meet you and maybe I'll see you at a social/ Meet & Greet some time?

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

How about just being honest and saying ‘i’m Just not feeling it (heat/chemistry) between us’..? Awkward for a minute but you can go back into conversation about fab, etc.

Otherwise, ask them to look up the lyrics of ‘50 ways to leave your lover’ on their smart phone, and while they’re doing that, sneak off. They’ll put 2 and 2 together...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"found else where but an interesting question

So I have been lucky enough to have very gracious meets. If there is no sexual attraction, I have been able to say that and they have been lovely and completely reasonable.

I am quite aware that that might not always be the situation.

Any particular tips or phrases people use when you just don't get the "I want to fuck you" vibe from folk, so you can leave without drama?"

Isn't that what social meets are for

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"found else where but an interesting question

So I have been lucky enough to have very gracious meets. If there is no sexual attraction, I have been able to say that and they have been lovely and completely reasonable.

I am quite aware that that might not always be the situation.

Any particular tips or phrases people use when you just don't get the "I want to fuck you" vibe from folk, so you can leave without drama?

Isn't that what social meets are for "

Aye, the much maligned "coffee meet" takes care of issues like this without any awkwardness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"found else where but an interesting question

So I have been lucky enough to have very gracious meets. If there is no sexual attraction, I have been able to say that and they have been lovely and completely reasonable.

I am quite aware that that might not always be the situation.

Any particular tips or phrases people use when you just don't get the "I want to fuck you" vibe from folk, so you can leave without drama?"

Politely say IT WAS NICE TO MEET YOU BUT I DON'T FEEL THE CHEMISTRY BETWEEN US. SORRY.

We aren't the same and wouldn't be everyone's cup of tea. It happened to me twice. It's always nice to meet new people. It may hurt if the NO was said in rude way but nicely with the manners? We can "swallow the bitter taste"

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"found else where but an interesting question

So I have been lucky enough to have very gracious meets. If there is no sexual attraction, I have been able to say that and they have been lovely and completely reasonable.

I am quite aware that that might not always be the situation.

Any particular tips or phrases people use when you just don't get the "I want to fuck you" vibe from folk, so you can leave without drama?

Politely say IT WAS NICE TO MEET YOU BUT I DON'T FEEL THE CHEMISTRY BETWEEN US. SORRY.

We aren't the same and wouldn't be everyone's cup of tea. It happened to me twice. It's always nice to meet new people. It may hurt if the NO was said in rude way but nicely with the manners? We can "swallow the bitter taste" "

As we aren't getting to swallow the sweet taste

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I just say "Oh man you can cut the sexual tension in here with a knife", then snort my tea out my nose.

Works every time.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I just say "Oh man you can cut the sexual tension in here with a knife", then snort my tea out my nose.

Works every time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee meet before Xmas handled it perfect

Walks into coffee shop, I stood up to say hi, he looked me up and down, says "oh no your not for me" turned on his heels and left coffee shop.

No doubt in mind that there was no interest.

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By *elfastblondMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Coffee meet before Xmas handled it perfect

Walks into coffee shop, I stood up to say hi, he looked me up and down, says "oh no your not for me" turned on his heels and left coffee shop.

No doubt in mind that there was no interest."

That's an awful way to treat anyone, hope he got 4 punctures on his way home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
over a year ago

outside Strabane

Just up and leg it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coffee meet before Xmas handled it perfect

Walks into coffee shop, I stood up to say hi, he looked me up and down, says "oh no your not for me" turned on his heels and left coffee shop.

No doubt in mind that there was no interest."

That’s a bit ruff in fairness

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

nr Letterkenny


"found else where but an interesting question

So I have been lucky enough to have very gracious meets. If there is no sexual attraction, I have been able to say that and they have been lovely and completely reasonable.

I am quite aware that that might not always be the situation.

Any particular tips or phrases people use when you just don't get the "I want to fuck you" vibe from folk, so you can leave without drama?"

the perfect way of dealing with it!!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Slowly walk backwards, once you reach the door, run as fast as you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few lady's that I've wanted to leave as soon as I've seen them. But I didn't!! And actually found out that they are great craic. It costs nothing to be nice especially if they have taken time it to meet you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be polite honest and friendly is the way to go

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

This is exactly why I do social meets first.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"Coffee meet before Xmas handled it perfect

Walks into coffee shop, I stood up to say hi, he looked me up and down, says "oh no your not for me" turned on his heels and left coffee shop.

No doubt in mind that there was no interest."

Must have been because you said hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coffee meet before Xmas handled it perfect

Walks into coffee shop, I stood up to say hi, he looked me up and down, says "oh no your not for me" turned on his heels and left coffee shop.

No doubt in mind that there was no interest.

Must have been because you said hi "

Ya that was it

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By *oey4somefunMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Drogheda

That's why coffee meets are good, if it doesn't work out just finish your coffee and say it was nice to meet you but I think I should go now and leave on a good note without the awkwardness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is exactly why I do social meets first. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coffee meet before Xmas handled it perfect

Walks into coffee shop, I stood up to say hi, he looked me up and down, says "oh no your not for me" turned on his heels and left coffee shop.

That is so lousy

No doubt in mind that there was no interest."

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I always meet socially first. If its a couple and I'm just not sure if they're into me, I go to the loo, give them time to chat, and when I come back, something will have developed. I'm OK saying to someone that, "right now, I don't feel we're a match". But, in practise, after a few texts on fab, a few kik texts, perhaps phone chat,and photo exchange, by the time we meet we both know a fair bit about each other..and have entered the curious phase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"found else where but an interesting question

So I have been lucky enough to have very gracious meets. If there is no sexual attraction, I have been able to say that and they have been lovely and completely reasonable.

I am quite aware that that might not always be the situation.

Any particular tips or phrases people use when you just don't get the "I want to fuck you" vibe from folk, so you can leave without drama?

Isn't that what social meets are for

Aye, the much maligned "coffee meet" takes care of issues like this without any awkwardness. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coffee meet before Xmas handled it perfect

Walks into coffee shop, I stood up to say hi, he looked me up and down, says "oh no your not for me" turned on his heels and left coffee shop.

That is so lousy

No doubt in mind that there was no interest. "

Still lousy behaviour, have had great coffee meet than didn't lead any further but enjoyable none the less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start a fire in the toilet, when the hotel is evacuated quickly slip away. Saves on the awkward goodbye kiss/handshake

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