FabSwingers.com forum: Repeat meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

No i don't think it gets boring infact it only gets better i was lucky to meet someone on here 7mts ago and have meet up very regular ever since even tho he left fab over Christmas

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

There's no hard and fast rule. If you're both having fun, why stop? OTOH if you're not, then move on. It'll all depend on the people involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never gets boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's boring after a few meets it's time to pull the plug.

Last fb I had was great fun as we got to know each other's likes dislikes etc

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Not really into repeat meets unless it's been an exceptional one and they are few and far between .As a couple we don't feel the need to meet same people repeatedly, perhaps it's different for singles tho.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

If you meet the same person regularly there is a big chance it could develop to more then just sex. If I meet somebody in dublin, it's not near enough to be a regular thing which suits alot better in a sexual context? Could we meet more then once? Of course but we won't be meeting very regularly. The flipside is you meet somebody on your doorstep, you can see one another to much. Its different for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No i don't think it gets boring infact it only gets better i was lucky to meet someone on here 7mts ago and have meet up very regular ever since even tho he left fab over Christmas

I concur.

Played with a lovely couple repeatly for years. Sex got better and better.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It depends on the peeps involved. I think boredom is less of a problem than emotional attachment that could sneak in.

To keep it fresh and light avoid too frequent meeting and throw in some fresh meat now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on the peeps involved. I think boredom is less of a problem than emotional attachment that could sneak in.

To keep it fresh and light avoid too frequent meeting and throw in some fresh meat now and then. "

Sage words as always DH

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It depends on the peeps involved. I think boredom is less of a problem than emotional attachment that could sneak in.

To keep it fresh and light avoid too frequent meeting and throw in some fresh meat now and then.

Sage words as always DH

Love the fresh meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on the peeps involved. I think boredom is less of a problem than emotional attachment that could sneak in.

To keep it fresh and light avoid too frequent meeting and throw in some fresh meat now and then. "

Or younger lol

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By *anysicoMan
over a year ago

cork

Care to little and you will lose them , care too much and you will get hurt

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Care to little and you will lose them , care too much and you will get hurt"
the key point at the end of the day is it's only sex.

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By *anysicoMan
over a year ago

cork

Easy to say that, when you get involved deeply it's hard to back away

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

"It depends on the peeps involved. I think boredom is less of a problem than emotional attachment that could sneak in.

To keep it fresh and light avoid too frequent meeting and throw in some fresh meat now and then.

Sage words as always DH

Love the fresh meat

Me too

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Easy to say that, when you get involved deeply it's hard to back away"
again, look at my first post. Don't get involved deeply.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Well if you are enjoying each other keep it up keep meeting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on the peeps involved. I think boredom is less of a problem than emotional attachment that could sneak in.

To keep it fresh and light avoid too frequent meeting and throw in some fresh meat now and then. "

Here here.. the spice of life is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has a different opinnion of how regular they meet

Some are weekly monthly .some are only a handful times a yr

When they stop is really between the two people meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has a different opinnion of how regular they meet

Some are weekly monthly .some are only a handful times a yr

When they stop is really between the two people meeting"

Im still waiting for our meet lol

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has a different opinnion of how regular they meet

Some are weekly monthly .some are only a handful times a yr

When they stop is really between the two people meeting

Im still waiting for our meet lol

haha"

Still waiting for that mail lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has a different opinnion of how regular they meet

Some are weekly monthly .some are only a handful times a yr

When they stop is really between the two people meeting

Im still waiting for our meet lol

haha

Still waiting for that mail lol

I would be more than willing to mail you but it says i cant contact you lol this makes me sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many is when they start getting clingy

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I much prefer repeat meets, as both get to know each other better.

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

Repeats are great, knowing which buttons turn the wetness on is great fun... and yes you are all different

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom? "

Run forest run

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom?

Run forest run

CJ what steps would you take ?

“ great big ones out that door “

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom? "

Not interested in repeat meets other than socially - which in our view is an equally valid reason for remaining on Fab.

It's not a question of getting boring - more a case of us swinging for the thrill of fucking strangers and exploring more the lifestyle. We never understood the interest in meeting the same folk for sex. Takes away the spontaneity. Hence the vast majority of our meets occur in France or Spain. There have been exceptions however ......

Fortunately Fab is a broad church and everyone's desires and preferences are equally valid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom? "

They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.

Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom?

They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.

Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom

All of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom?

They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.

Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom

All of the above

A similar mindset is a must too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom?

They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.

Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom

All of the above

A similar mindset is a must too

And having no inhibitions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom?

They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.

Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom

All of the above

A similar mindset is a must too

And having no inhibitions

Also true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat meets are great. Everyone gets more comfortable with each other the more they meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom?

They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.

Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom

Note to self buy some toys ! Any recommendations Lego or Tonka trucks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom?

They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.

Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom

Note to self buy some toys ! Any recommendations Lego or Tonka trucks

LEGO is great cos you can always add to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom?

They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.

Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom

Note to self buy some toys ! Any recommendations Lego or Tonka trucks

I don't have kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom?

They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.

Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom

Note to self buy some toys ! Any recommendations Lego or Tonka trucks

LEGO is great cos you can always add to it

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom? "

If you meet the right person or couple... repeat meets can be sizzling

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Repeat meets are the best whether it's with a couple or a single it just gets better and better...Mmm Mmm flashbacks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom?

If you meet the right person or couple... repeat meets can be sizzling

So true

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
over a year ago

outside Strabane

Naw you'll get bored. Send her my way ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naw you'll get bored. Send her my way ??"

I highly highly doubt that! And no way

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Naw you'll get bored. Send her my way ??

I highly highly doubt that! And no way

Sharing is caring

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

You can meet as many times as you like so long as both of you are enjoying yourselfs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naw you'll get bored. Send her my way ??

I highly highly doubt that! And no way

Sharing is caring

Plenty is sharing goes on in Geordie's playroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naw you'll get bored. Send her my way ??

I highly highly doubt that! And no way

Sharing is caring

Plenty is sharing goes on in Geordie's playroom

You have a playroom? Mmmmmm

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....

How many is to many or should you move on ?

Does regularity breed boredom? "
finding a regular playmate is fun,you tend to find the more you meet someone the more comfortable you become with them and I always find they are more likely indulge you in all your fantasies .

You just need to be careful that feelings dont come into it if its just casual sex you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naw you'll get bored. Send her my way ??

I highly highly doubt that! And no way

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Wasn’t for the want of trying!

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Thread revival time....

Definitely like repeat meets,

The FB I’ve found on here started as quite a vanilla meet, slowly it’s got kinkier once trust was gained, boundaries and limits are being pushed and tested.

She’s now turning into a very naughty lady indeed

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Some, due to distance or circumstance, I've been quite content to have met just once or twice and leave it at that, others I've met regularly and enjoyed multiple times. One is now a fixture in my life and still gives me giddy goosebumps, even after 3 years

I don't think anyone's ever become boring... Even the two I regret having met weren't boring (sociopaths maybe, but hardly boring). Boredom is bred by repetition, but jeez... Who does the same thing over and over? Life and sex is an adventure, and just because the people you share it with stay the same doesn't mean you do exactly the same things with them every time. That's just lack of imagination!

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

We have a few regular repeat meets always great fun, and know which boxes to tick x

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I do love repeat meets they become so much fun. Sex gets hotter and hotter and never boring. In fact I tend to experiment more with repeats it brings the extra naughty kinky side to the surface

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I am afraid i am a repeater

But if fuck and go is ur thing thats fine to

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I am afraid i am a repeater

But if fuck and go is ur thing thats fine to

Definitely fuck 'n' cum rather than fuck 'n' go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat meets are deffo way more fun

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's repeating...it's heating

... personally l think people get way more relaxed and comfortable and trusting with each other and limits evaporate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's repeating...it's heating

... personally l think people get way more relaxed and comfortable and trusting with each other and limits evaporate..."

Definitely you become more adventurous too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's repeating...it's heating

... personally l think people get way more relaxed and comfortable and trusting with each other and limits evaporate...

Definitely you become more adventurous too

.....l think so ...plus a huge thing about it .. to me anyway...is that both know that each want to be there....that they both can't wait for it to happen....

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