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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me but if I send I message to someone looking to see about a meet

Does no reply any more even to say sorry

Ones who say you must show a face photo for a reply.

If I a message even if I don't want to chat I still said a thanks but no

How long does it take to send one

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the same problem mate I think its cos we are single guys and there are so many of us.

Just don't let it get you down. If they don't send a reply then they can't be that interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually if we send no reply not interested and sometimes the messages can be a little bit repetitive only so many fancy a fucks we can handle in one day,most times we will reply to a well thought one tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here three muffiters... fancy a f...

LoL I'm only jesting. I've not had too many problems so far, but them I'm only on a couple of weeks. But I've never once sent a message asking for a meet, nor ones being rude in any way, and I have normally had replies. Maybe you are just approaching the situation in the wrong fashion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here three muffiters... fancy a f...

LoL I'm only jesting. I've not had too many problems so far, but them I'm only on a couple of weeks. But I've never once sent a message asking for a meet, nor ones being rude in any way, and I have normally had replies. Maybe you are just approaching the situation in the wrong fashion?"

Not tonight mechanic,yeah its all in the inital approach,but then some people never get it right others it clicks right away,all about the individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here though, I do remember you guys from when I joined on the first or second day. I'm having a hard time remembering what was said, but I do know it was a reply to me over commenting on your profile - so I'll vouch for you guys on replying to some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We reply to some we meet some others,some we block and carry on, thats our choice and always will be,some people just need to get their heads around it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a girl boy thing . Men reply to emails cos we get so few . Women might have 50 a day and unless they were to employ a secretary could never reply to all .

Makes it difficult to make a first impression though as your email might only get scant attention so worth making it count .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you dont get a reply its time to move on and not keep sending that person anymore messages as it unlikely they will ever reply and guys here find it hard because there is a lot of fake profiles and it makes it harder for single guys to get meet after they have gave people the run around so the end answer would be no reply means not interested in ever meeting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to all mail now unless its something really remedial. I didn't always because I felt rude by saying no, but find now when I reply saying no thanks, most will say thanks or replying or just don't hear from them again. That being said though we don't get that much mail so maybe is easier to reply to all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it gets a bit frustrating though when a guy who obviously hasnt bothered to even read your profile and says hi wanna chat/meet up,we even have ours in caps ffs so they dont do themselves any favours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a get out clause for not replying.. and as Larne has stated, we wont reply to those who dont bother to read profiles.

Weve read loads of profiles that we would love to meet with, but, we dont match their profile and what theyre looking, and, what theyve clearly stated, so, we dont mail them..

so.... why cant guys do same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to agree with abbeys if peeps dont bother to read your profile ..why would you answer them back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me but if I send I message to someone looking to see about a meet

Does no reply any more even to say sorry

Ones who say you must show a face photo for a reply.

If I a message even if I don't want to chat I still said a thanks but no

How long does it take to send one

Rant over"

Hi Bill

Yes I visited your profile prior to posting a reply.

A few tips:

1. Your fairly new as your profile states. Rome wasn't built in a day!

2. Be patient.

3. Profile state a lot about a person whilst yours is good theirs a few spelling mistakes, this is not a criticism but people will home in on that sadly.

4. Keep posting here and jump into the chat head first is my preferred option ( too many people whine about cliques in the chat) there's no clique, just people who at one point have been where you are now.

5. Be yourself.

6. Stick with it, it takes time.

7. Don't be put off by no replies.

8. You've made the choice to join here, sit back and enjoy.

Now go off enjoy the banter, I wish you well.

Sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think il ever get a meet off this it's a complete waste of time and money be safer off on pof at least it's free and probaly easier to meet someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think il ever get a meet off this it's a complete waste of time and money be safer off on pof at least it's free and probaly easier to meet someone "

What's pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think il ever get a meet off this it's a complete waste of time and money be safer off on pof at least it's free and probaly easier to meet someone "
why a waste of money when the sites free?

just askn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think il ever get a meet off this it's a complete waste of time and money be safer off on pof at least it's free and probaly easier to meet someone why a waste of money when the sites free?

just askn?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think il ever get a meet off this it's a complete waste of time and money be safer off on pof at least it's free and probaly easier to meet someone

What's pof "
Plenty Of Fish,,,its a dating site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all who posted on this

I take on board what all has been said I know that aLl I can do is keep chating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, arent ya gad ya started a riot lmao !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sure whats life with ouf fun

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