FabSwingers.com forum: Am I the only one

By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

That gets completely turned off when I see bareback pics on a single guys profile? They seem to be everywhere lately and I just don’t trust when I’m told it’s with an old partner. Am I being over cautious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That gets completely turned off when I see bareback pics on a single guys profile? They seem to be everywhere lately and I just don’t trust when I’m told it’s with an old partner. Am I being over cautious? "

Nope I do be cautious too

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Nope your not alone ,instant block !

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

It has crossed my mind a bit too. Theres a lot of it. In the new pics section its daily. I think its crazy in this day and age. The knowledge of stds we have now theres no real excuse to not wearing a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually shocked by the amount of lads looking for bareback on here

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

What are the thoughts on intercourse pics?

Ive thought of putting some on my profile

But fear they may be a deterrent to some women

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Just don't forget that those who have no bareback pics might engage too in bareback practice.

Also it is as common with men as it is with women.

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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"What are the thoughts on intercourse pics?

Ive thought of putting some on my profile

But fear they may be a deterrent to some women "

I don’t mind one or two. As long as it’s not all over a profile. I have one in my private pics but you can clearly see the condom in it.

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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"Just don't forget that those who have no bareback pics might engage too in bareback practice.

Also it is as common with men as it is with women. "

Very true.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

"What are the thoughts on intercourse pics?

Ive thought of putting some on my profile

But fear they may be a deterrent to some women "

Think they are fine but imo for private or friend only pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the thoughts on intercourse pics?

Ive thought of putting some on my profile

But fear they may be a deterrent to some women "

Personally I don’t like

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By *lan5200Man
over a year ago

cavan

Yeah I rather bare chested women pics myself

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

I never do barrback it is like playing Russian roulette

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Would never do bareback it’s madness to think ppl do this and then put picture of it up

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By *ootsguyMan
over a year ago

Limavady

It’s like an advertisement for STD’s.

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Big turn off.

And also when chatting to someone and they mention it without even having met.

Or finding out people have never been tested because they're "careful". Well so am i but I still get tested regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this was a chesney hawks discussion...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that do it with every Tom Dick and Harry i can't understand. If your doing it you need to know the person and know that they are safe if not i can't see how someone could enjoy sex having that worry hanging over it.

P.s i aint a saint as you can see with my picture, but its with someone i know and trust is clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame porn

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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"People that do it with every Tom Dick and Harry i can't understand. If your doing it you need to know the person and know that they are safe if not i can't see how someone could enjoy sex having that worry hanging over it.

P.s i aint a saint as you can see with my picture, but its with someone i know and trust is clean "

Sorry but nobody can know for certain that anyone is clean as you call it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all been over cautious.

As that has to be full thrust to do that bare back. It is frustrating like. I always get checked out either way never assume using condoms keep you safe. Every six months for gonorrhea and chlamydia and every year Full blood test for Hiv etc.And I haven't been sleeping with any Tom,dick and harry.

Just had a cheating Ex the had.

It's not that expensive to get done. St James clinic operate early mornings and no one else will know why you are there. Or your own GP. In the end this is all about enjoying the experience without the drama.

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

You know and trust them. Stds are invisible. Most can go undetected with no sympthoms. Im sorry but if im meeting up with someone its because ive gotten to know them and theres a lil bit of trust there. Guess what though? Im still gonna wear a condom. Being on fab and hooking up with people is great. I think you are playing a dangerous and very fucking selfish game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P.s i aint a saint as you can see with my picture, but its with someone i know and trust is clean

Sorry but nobody can know for certain that anyone is clean as you call it. "

Haven't you ever had a test done? Fairly sure if that's all clear then you clean, no? If not, please enlighten me

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

As you will be well aware from recent cervical check scandal. Take nothing for granted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know and trust them. Stds are invisible. Most can go undetected with no sympthoms. Im sorry but if im meeting up with someone its because ive gotten to know them and theres a lil bit of trust there. Guess what though? Im still gonna wear a condom. Being on fab and hooking up with people is great. I think you are playing a dangerous and very fucking selfish game"

Are you talking to me or to someone else? How often have you being tested? You wear a condom = good man, does this fully protect you? Like fuck does it. Id much rather have bareback sex with someone that gets tested regularly than to get up on anything and think im safe because its covered

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

They get tested regularly?

Mate its your life. You wear a seatbelt im sure. For me its the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They get tested regularly?

Mate its your life. You wear a seatbelt im sure. For me its the same thing"

Condoms aren't 100%.

They can break and not every guy buys the right one for his penis.

Or is out date.

Don't take anything for face value. So if in doubt check it out.

Better to be safe then sorry. Regardless if you are fully coverd in bubble wrap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that does bareback is either stupid or dumb

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Anyone that does bareback is either stupid or dumb"
totally agree it’s crazy like why put yourself or anybody else at risk

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I hate rude and crude photos any way . They turn me off . Nothing like nice sexy photos in a swim suit or even a nice dress .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone that does bareback is either stupid or dumb"

To come out with a statement like that makes you sound like the stupid one. Have you never done it?

Dont get me wrong, im not saying that im always bareback, obviously not when i wouldn't know someone etc. But any relationship ive have being in when both of us have done tests then yes its always bareback

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By *ockhard and SweetcheeksCouple
over a year ago

City

I've seen bareback on single women profiles too, So it's just not men who like it either

Each to their own!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen bareback on single women profiles too, So it's just not men who like it either

Each to their own!!

Exactly, just can't understand some people on here the way they think their opinion and rules are right and if you dont go by the same rules then they think others are stupid

Their bodies and their choices, dont make them stupid etc

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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I get tested regularly and still won’t do bareback. Just like a use contraception and still use condoms. I’d prefer to be over cautious than not cautious enough. I’ve had bareback sex in the past and yes it feels amazing. But I’m just not willing to take the risk.

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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

And I’m not telling anyone what they should do with their bodies. I’m just saying that it would put me off meeting them.

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By *ifeisforliving2016Man
over a year ago

waterford

A few years ago,my fuck buddy asked about bareback & asked if we both committed to each other & we got tested clear. We had great fun well worth it. The feeling is so more sensual but has to a commitment & trust from both .

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By *upidsbowkissWoman
over a year ago

City Center

I love bareback actually, but only if I'm in a relationship and we've both been tested. And if that's the case what the hell is the problem?

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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I love it myself. But only in a committed monogamous relationship.

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By *ifeisforliving2016Man
over a year ago

waterford

"I love it myself. But only in a committed monogamous relationship. "
maybe we should all go monogamous every once in a while ????

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By *upidsbowkissWoman
over a year ago

City Center

"I love it myself. But only in a committed monogamous relationship. maybe we should all go monogamous every once in a while ????

Gets boring sometimes tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it myself. But only in a committed monogamous relationship. maybe we should all go monogamous every once in a while ????

That's a bad word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're right to be cautious !!

Side note - what feels better for the lady? Condom or no condom ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it myself. But only in a committed monogamous relationship. "

You do realise im sure, that some here will wholeheartedly agree with you on this thread, but yet, behave totally contrary to what they say, and some no doubt are very sincere in what they say. My point is trust your own instincts and judgement if you want to safegaurd your own health

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Its up to Everyone to protect themselves. I personally would never take someone's word saying they've been tested. They could pick something up while waiting on their results. Get tested but still protect yourself.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"What are the thoughts on intercourse pics?

Ive thought of putting some on my profile

But fear they may be a deterrent to some women "

Don't like them. Private only i think . Personally I don't like seeing a potential meets knob in someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the thoughts on intercourse pics?

Ive thought of putting some on my profile

But fear they may be a deterrent to some women

Don't like them. Private only i think . Personally I don't like seeing a potential meets knob in someone else. "

me neither

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"What are the thoughts on intercourse pics?

Ive thought of putting some on my profile

But fear they may be a deterrent to some women

Don't like them. Private only i think . Personally I don't like seeing a potential meets knob in someone else.

me neither"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't like bareback that's your own business..Stop judging others because if they are doing it that's their own business too...you don't like what others do ..then move on..we are all here not to judge each others ...fuck who u want, do what u want, fuck the way u want ..just stop judging others profiles..period.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"If you don't like bareback that's your own business..Stop judging others because if they are doing it that's their own business too...you don't like what others do ..then move on..we are all here not to judge each others ...fuck who u want, do what u want, fuck the way u want ..just stop judging others profiles..period.

Aren't you judging now???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't you judging now???"

Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Aren't you judging now???

Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...

Ok .... I'll have a word with myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't you judging now???

Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...

Ok .... I'll have a word with myself

Yeah look at the mirror, if you are not sure about it

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Aren't you judging now???

Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...

Ok .... I'll have a word with myself

Yeah look at the mirror, if you are not sure about it

I'll do that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't you judging now???

Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...

Ok .... I'll have a word with myself

Yeah look at the mirror, if you are not sure about it

I'll do that too.

Ahahaha let me know the outcome

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By *arbiegirl19Woman
over a year ago

Hollymount

There's a more classier way of portraiting someine having Intercourse than showing it in pic.... Bare back... No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't you judging now???

Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...

Ok .... I'll have a word with myself

Yeah look at the mirror, if you are not sure about it

I'll do that too.

Ahahaha let me know the outcome

You really have her on the rack with those comments, probably best to not push it, or you might have to put on protection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't you judging now???

Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...

Ok .... I'll have a word with myself

Yeah look at the mirror, if you are not sure about it

I'll do that too.

Ahahaha let me know the outcome

You really have her on the rack with those comments, probably best to not push it, or you might have to put on protection

I don't do sex without a condom...ever if Beyonce ask me to fuck ...I will still put on the condom but I won't judge peoples who their desires is to do without it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't you judging now???

Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...

Ok .... I'll have a word with myself

Yeah look at the mirror, if you are not sure about it

I'll do that too.

Ahahaha let me know the outcome

You really have her on the rack with those comments, probably best to not push it, or you might have to put on protection

I don't do sex without a condom...ever if Beyonce ask me to fuck ...I will still put on the condom but I won't judge peoples who their desires is to do without it..

Me too that Jay-Z ya wouldnt knlw where he has been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the very same, I can't belive the amount of people on here doing bareback.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I'd rather they put them up than hide them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As you will be well aware from recent cervical check scandal. Take nothing for granted"

Noted on that. But if you go private for your Screening there is no scandal as you get your results on the day. Just people don't want to pay the money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am aware that I have a pic of bare back. That is just between us and we get screened together regularly,So we know that one of us ain't bullshit ting the other.

And we know each other a long time.

But we do play safe with others.

No excuses. Or been lack on that.

And yes we both have single profile on here.

But private messaging and giving dogs abuse. Isn't on and is basically bullying and really says a lot more about you as a person.

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