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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One summer 8 years ago, browsing through internet sites on my not very smart phone looking at whatever free porn could find i stumbled upon fabswingers. To say i was blown away was an understatement. Starting out i was a shy man, slept with 5 women and nothing kinky. Barely knowing women thought like men. Back then fabswingers was very different than it is now. Lots of people showed their face on their profile ( maybe due to the fact the cameras were not very good nor the device you viewed it on), everyone’s friends list was shown and there was a fraction of the people on it compared to today. Was very easy to get chatting to people then get a meet. Got my first meet the same day i signed up. The woman looked nothing like her pic, barely spoke and was strange as fuck. She may have thought the same of me but still ended up with me getting a BJ in a public random place. Next meet was completely different, it was with someone who was on for a long time, she was kind enough to explain how the place worked. Met socially but never played. After this an numerous meets i changed from the shy bloke to a sex addict. I say that because to be honest most blokes who first find this madhouse are. Couldn’t get enough and it took over. Became a challenge i gleefully accepted to get meets and I had my fair share. Got out of control to the point where i had to leave. The next time i joined i was well aware of what i wanted, i wasnt the shy man i was the previous time. I know could talk my way into getting a meet. Had none of the insecurities i had previously and ticked all of those boxes on my fuckit list.

Over the years i guess u could say i evolved from a shy wet behind the ear man to someone who could fuck in a room full of people. Ive had many accounts, many relationships from fabswingers, ive leant so much about relationships of others, and people in general. Ive seen many females change on here too, going from shy to full blown swingers. Learnt alot about the dark side of fabswingers and some of them members too which quite frankly has shocked me on occasions even now.

So this is my first post in the forum in possibly 4 years so to get a discussion going my question is, have you evolved or changed from your experiences of this wonderful world of fabswingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One summer 8 years ago, browsing through internet sites on my not very smart phone looking at whatever free porn could find i stumbled upon fabswingers. To say i was blown away was an understatement. Starting out i was a shy man, slept with 5 women and nothing kinky. Barely knowing women thought like men. Back then fabswingers was very different than it is now. Lots of people showed their face on their profile ( maybe due to the fact the cameras were not very good nor the device you viewed it on), everyone’s friends list was shown and there was a fraction of the people on it compared to today. Was very easy to get chatting to people then get a meet. Got my first meet the same day i signed up. The woman looked nothing like her pic, barely spoke and was strange as fuck. She may have thought the same of me but still ended up with me getting a BJ in a public random place. Next meet was completely different, it was with someone who was on for a long time, she was kind enough to explain how the place worked. Met socially but never played. After this an numerous meets i changed from the shy bloke to a sex addict. I say that because to be honest most blokes who first find this madhouse are. Couldn’t get enough and it took over. Became a challenge i gleefully accepted to get meets and I had my fair share. Got out of control to the point where i had to leave. The next time i joined i was well aware of what i wanted, i wasnt the shy man i was the previous time. I know could talk my way into getting a meet. Had none of the insecurities i had previously and ticked all of those boxes on my fuckit list.

Over the years i guess u could say i evolved from a shy wet behind the ear man to someone who could fuck in a room full of people. Ive had many accounts, many relationships from fabswingers, ive leant so much about relationships of others, and people in general. Ive seen many females change on here too, going from shy to full blown swingers. Learnt alot about the dark side of fabswingers and some of them members too which quite frankly has shocked me on occasions even now.

So this is my first post in the forum in possibly 4 years so to get a discussion going my question is, have you evolved or changed from your experiences of this wonderful world of fabswingers?

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Welcome back are you the messiah that people are talking about on other threads... my own self actualisation was long before fab, i was fortunate enough to meet a number of like minded people along the way that taught me about connection.. there was always various mediums to explore similar tastes, some of the more secretive ones were the most fun..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One summer 8 years ago, browsing through internet sites on my not very smart phone looking at whatever free porn could find i stumbled upon fabswingers. To say i was blown away was an understatement. Starting out i was a shy man, slept with 5 women and nothing kinky. Barely knowing women thought like men. Back then fabswingers was very different than it is now. Lots of people showed their face on their profile ( maybe due to the fact the cameras were not very good nor the device you viewed it on), everyone’s friends list was shown and there was a fraction of the people on it compared to today. Was very easy to get chatting to people then get a meet. Got my first meet the same day i signed up. The woman looked nothing like her pic, barely spoke and was strange as fuck. She may have thought the same of me but still ended up with me getting a BJ in a public random place. Next meet was completely different, it was with someone who was on for a long time, she was kind enough to explain how the place worked. Met socially but never played. After this an numerous meets i changed from the shy bloke to a sex addict. I say that because to be honest most blokes who first find this madhouse are. Couldn’t get enough and it took over. Became a challenge i gleefully accepted to get meets and I had my fair share. Got out of control to the point where i had to leave. The next time i joined i was well aware of what i wanted, i wasnt the shy man i was the previous time. I know could talk my way into getting a meet. Had none of the insecurities i had previously and ticked all of those boxes on my fuckit list.

Over the years i guess u could say i evolved from a shy wet behind the ear man to someone who could fuck in a room full of people. Ive had many accounts, many relationships from fabswingers, ive leant so much about relationships of others, and people in general. Ive seen many females change on here too, going from shy to full blown swingers. Learnt alot about the dark side of fabswingers and some of them members too which quite frankly has shocked me on occasions even now.

So this is my first post in the forum in possibly 4 years so to get a discussion going my question is, have you evolved or changed from your experiences of this wonderful world of fabswingers?

Welcome back are you the messiah that people are talking about on other threads... my own self actualisation was long before fab, i was fortunate enough to meet a number of like minded people along the way that taught me about connection.. there was always various mediums to explore similar tastes, some of the more secretive ones were the most fun.."

My own circle was alot more vanilla, had no chance to explore. Well bar exploring on my own.lol no I'm not the messiah they preach about on the other threads either fortunately or unfortunately depending on what he is being called

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined fab about 6 years ago myself and the forums wer shite full of the same group who shot down any newbie dared to enter the forums down, was also full of dogs in heat agreeing with anything and everything a female posted in the hopes of gettin his leg over while at the same time shooting themselves in the foot and looking desperate, have never had a meet from forums, but it's good to see things changing and everyone getting in on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined in 2016 have deleted and returned a few times since then and it's much easier to join in on forums now but I find fab can be insulting at times . Luckily I'm tough skinned and can hold my own with most but I have to say I'm more likely to post public pics now so fab has helped with my self confidence in leaps and bounds . There isn't many other places ye can be complimented blindly by randomers haha no matter how fake at times. So I love fab and it's good and bad points

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Joined in 2016 have deleted and returned a few times since then and it's much easier to join in on forums now but I find fab can be insulting at times . Luckily I'm tough skinned and can hold my own with most but I have to say I'm more likely to post public pics now so fab has helped with my self confidence in leaps and bounds . There isn't many other places ye can be complimented blindly by randomers haha no matter how fake at times. So I love fab and it's good and bad points "
ive noticed that with a lot of women on here myself. Seen lots that went from pg pics to full blown hardcore over the course of a few years. Im sure fab has help many a man and women get over minor insecurities. You do need thick skin to survive this place.

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