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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

I’d not go anywhere near her, I’d run a mile it’s bad form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure what could possibly go wrong.

Poor guy.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Avoid. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid

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By *ola_SissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Swords

Block and avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

Some mate you are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She is absolutely stunning and is a gym bunny and that makes it all the harder...

She knows that he cheated on her twice before, so she is trying to justify it that way, but im very cautious at the moment tbh

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Most people on here would go for it, but would publicly deny it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She is absolutely stunning and is a gym bunny and that makes it all the harder...

She knows that he cheated on her twice before, so she is trying to justify it that way, but im very cautious at the moment tbh"

Sounds like you are trying to justify your own thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She is absolutely stunning and is a gym bunny and that makes it all the harder...

She knows that he cheated on her twice before, so she is trying to justify it that way, but im very cautious at the moment tbh"

So that makes it ok, why do people stay in relationships ffs.

Put it this way is he a good mate? Are you bothered if you lose his friendship?

As someone else said plenty would do it but personally I think it's a lack of respect for a friend but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people on here would go for it, but would publicly deny it."

Speak for your self.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

If you want to spice up your life with some drama go for it.

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

If she found out he cheated then he'll find out she cheated too. If shes doing it for revenge i'd say she wont care if shes caught. And you'll be right in the middle of that! It's not somewhere I'd ever want to be no matter how good looking she is! Avoid would be my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to spice up your life with some drama go for it. "

I'd like to spice my life up with a bit of DH

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"Most people on here would go for it, but would publicly deny it.

Speak for your self."

I have never fucked a married girl behind her husbands back, nor fucked a girl with a bf behind her bfs back, know the guy or not.

But be serious, most on here have, and if you want to tell me they draw the line not at cheating, but at cheating with someone they know, then I call bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people on here would go for it, but would publicly deny it.

Speak for your self.

I have never fucked a married girl behind her husbands back, nor fucked a girl with a bf behind her bfs back, know the guy or not.

But be serious, most on here have, and if you want to tell me they draw the line not at cheating, but at cheating with someone they know, then I call bullshit."

I detest cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what u want . Its your mate no one else's here so it's up to u to decide if you want to keep them in your life .

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By *efender90Man
over a year ago

sligo

Ohh deffo go for it ....

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Why not meet ur mate for a few pints and engage him in tbe threesome convsrsation asking would he join in on one, then tell the wife hes interested in a threesome would she be up for a meet with u and him simples. You get to keep ur friend and she gets that bit of strange cock she desires

Dont know why ye do be overthinking it or willing to jump on someone because they looked over the fence at the grass on the other side

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"I detest cheating"

That's why I said "most", I have never had sex with someone in relationship behind their partners back, but also, I don't really care that it happens. I'm indifferent to it.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

OP. Do you consider this person to be a good friend and do you consider yourself to be a good friend of this person?

If so then why is this even a question or thread?

There are some lines that should never be crossed ever and this is one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I detest cheating

That's why I said "most", I have never had sex with someone in relationship behind their partners back, but also, I don't really care that it happens. I'm indifferent to it."

That you know of...

Trust me, you don't always know whether someone is so truly single or not. My ex had his fb convinced I was just a lesbian lodger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would stay well clear! In fairness everyone has the right to do as they like but would you not consider the consequences? If I didn't know either party I'll honestly say I'd have no issues meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

If you go ahead with it won't you feel like a toerag everytime you meet him? Is the guilt of that worth a ride? Even if he never finds out? If she's punishing him for his indiscretions and choosing to do it with some of his mates just to put the boot in, be prepared for him to find out at some point! You are playing with fire.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I detest cheating

That's why I said "most", I have never had sex with someone in relationship behind their partners back, but also, I don't really care that it happens. I'm indifferent to it.

That you know of...

Trust me, you don't always know whether someone is so truly single or not. My ex had his fb convinced I was just a lesbian lodger

"

wouldn't mind a lesbian lodger here lol

Si xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I detest cheating

That's why I said "most", I have never had sex with someone in relationship behind their partners back, but also, I don't really care that it happens. I'm indifferent to it.

That you know of...

Trust me, you don't always know whether someone is so truly single or not. My ex had his fb convinced I was just a lesbian lodger

"

I’m actually looking for a lesbian lodger haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He's not a mate mate, i know him from a nearby town really, we were mates in a football team 10+ yrs ago for a yr or 2 and i haven't chatted with him much since tbh. If we met, id say hello and he would also but definitely not a drinking buddy lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're an adult,make your own decision!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She is absolutely stunning and is a gym bunny and that makes it all the harder...

She knows that he cheated on her twice before, so she is trying to justify it that way, but im very cautious at the moment tbh"

Put her in contact with me and that’ll solve both your dilemmas ??

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I came across a mates wife on a dating site a few years ago but she did not want to play with me but I know she is still playing away without his knowledge .

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

If hes someone who lives nearby and you know him then id be inclined to avoid it. Too risky and not worth the hassle of everyone knowing if it got out.Your bound to have mutual friends.Avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend...

Some mate you are "
why..because he asked a question ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend...

I’d not go anywhere near her, I’d run a mile it’s bad form."
you would allright id say..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to say don't shit on your own door step,

But if it's two towns over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend...

I’d not go anywhere near her, I’d run a mile it’s bad form.you would allright id say.."

Your right I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is for haven fun meet others socialising if she is here not your choice also if he is cheating on her she be very happy to cheer you up she knows what she's up to enjoy fabinng

Ps. If you think you gona fell gilty dont even tex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

Never been in that situation would be a tricky one if she’s fit go for it

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Town

Wouldn't recommend going down that road... but only you know best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur not much of a mate if ur even contemplating it man

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Listen to the fabbers it’s not worth risking your friendship for some lovin’ the drama afterwards won’t match up and you will lose a mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd run a mile. I have often fantasized about my hubby friend and we come close to something happening but in the end I just couldn't do it. So much that could go wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't a man here that wouldn't jump at the chance of getting his leg over friend or not.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"There isn't a man here that wouldn't jump at the chance of getting his leg over friend or not. "

Speak for yourself. I was in the position once before and have never regretted doing what I considered to be right by my friend. Some things are more important than getting a leg over but if that's how much you value your friendships then I feel sorry for those friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't a man here that wouldn't jump at the chance of getting his leg over friend or not. "

Really you think that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend...

Some mate you are why..because he asked a question .."

Why do you think? Before you ask nonsense questions, you should trial run it on yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't a man here that wouldn't jump at the chance of getting his leg over friend or not. "

Not all men are suspect morally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd run a mile. I have often fantasized about my hubby friend and we come close to something happening but in the end I just couldn't do it. So much that could go wrong. "

I know it could turn you into a completely different person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with a mates missus before when they were broke up or on a break if you like, she took advantage of me when I was d*unk of course she told him two years later. Moral of the story is he will find out at some stage if ya do like someone else said? Would he do it to you if it was offered up on a plate by your missus? Answer in my case was no doubt about it. Hope that helps

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

..


"If you want to spice up your life with some drama go for it.

I'd like to spice my life up with a bit of DH "

Gud minds think alike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block&avoid!

Simples!

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By *nowy007Woman
over a year ago

Near Enough

Avoid like the plague!!!

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
over a year ago

outside Strabane

Anyone else trying to work out who it is? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emmmmm

Stay far away from this!

Id probably delete my fab to be honest. Theres chats she can show him now if she chooses.

If she wants revenge on this guy, what better way then to fuck his friend. That will come out.

Not saying it will or should happen, but violance is a real posibility.

You just never know what someone might do after finding out their wife cheated on them with their friend. Regardless of history.

+ fuckin your friends wife is a dick move.

Thats my feelings anyway. (Not calling you a dick btw)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

If I were you I would grab this opportunity and fuck the life out of her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If I were you I would grab this opportunity and fuck the life out of her "

If my friend fucked my wife/gf (dont have either, but anyway)

It would take serious restraint not to punch the life out of him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO need drama, but it’s just sex, so go for it,,,,

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By *s VanityWoman
over a year ago

Athlone

From past experience

Avoid like the plague . . Will definitely cause problems even if u don’t see them now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said before, its a dick move..

Also if you go down that road you'll lose your friend AND his wife, you'll just be the cunt they dont talk about..

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Town


"As has been said before, its a dick move..

Also if you go down that road you'll lose your friend AND his wife, you'll just be the cunt they dont talk about.."

Wise words...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then what about your mutual friends who have nothing to do with this at all... you thnik that conversation will go well when it all comes out?

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

As a friend said to me before .. men think with thier dicks or their brains .... in this case use your brain x stay well away

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Is she good looking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mate is for life...

A pussy is for entertainment

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Is she good looking?"
you asking about my friend ? He’s male and so like a meerkat he watches everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how good of a 'mate' he is. How would you feel if he found out?

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By *hrome80Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

Never sh*t on your own doorstep

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Is she good looking?you asking about my friend ? He’s male and so like a meerkat he watches everything "
I'm asking about thread topic. Is she good looking.

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Is she good looking?you asking about my friend ? He’s male and so like a meerkat he watches everything I'm asking about thread topic. Is she good looking. "
he said she was fit and a gym bunny lol... into the corner for not paying attention tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend...

Never sh*t on your own doorstep"

I mean if your locked out.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd run a mile. I have often fantasized about my hubby friend and we come close to something happening but in the end I just couldn't do it. So much that could go wrong. "

Thankfully I'm not a friend of your hubby lol

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By *atrick SmithMan
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *iptopcoolMan
over a year ago

mid

It’s better to regret something you’ve done that regret something you haven’t done

Go for it

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you


"It’s better to regret something you’ve done that regret something you haven’t done

Go for it "

I like this

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"It’s better to regret something you’ve done that regret something you haven’t done

Go for it

I like this "

Murder?

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Dublin and midlands

Too risky. I like living on the edge, but this could get you into serious shit. There are so many ways this could backfire. Have a wank before making any decisions. It usually gets the brain back in gear.

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By *s VanityWoman
over a year ago

Athlone


"It’s better to regret something you’ve done that regret something you haven’t done

Go for it "

I used believe this. Rarely regret anything I have done - I try to learn from it - but when it can cause so much pain?? If u had feelings for her I’d say go for it & cherish & mind her, but it’s just sex?

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Just tell her hubby in the pub that your taking her outside for a small while

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

Firstly, can she not read this post? A bit rude to be discussing all this here no?

Secondly, imagine he did find out that she was on this site meeting etc... as if that's not pain enough he would then find out about his 'mate' jumping on her at the first chance. Heartbreak!

Thirdly, for you its sex. For her its sex right now but in time it's her life, her husbands life and the lives of their family and real friends affected by a whole truckload of debauchery.

Lastly, whether or not he's cheated on her previously does not make all of these lies ok. Grow a pair of balls and have a wank about it. Do whatever you need to get it out of your system because honestly you getting 'on that' is a minefield for you and yours also.

I would say happy fabbing but it seems like you want to add to someones turmoil should they ever find out.

Stay classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if you want meet her, meet her. You are both adults and able to make yer own minds.

Nobody in here knows what her situation is, her cheating maybe her way out of a relationship or whatever. And the fact her husband has played away could mean that he wants out too.

Each to there own imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it

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By *oshker71Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


"She is absolutely stunning and is a gym bunny and that makes it all the harder...

She knows that he cheated on her twice before, so she is trying to justify it that way, but im very cautious at the moment tbh"

I thought you said it was a mate....hmm strange mate you are thinking of meeting his mrs ...out of order in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's your mate, stay well away, simple as.

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By *amesreally999Man
over a year ago

Badlands

Avoid..too much hassle..plenty more talent here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way bros before h.....ahh I mean no buddy that's not good ya gotta think with ur brain on this one, plenty more females out there, maybe kind of exciting because its wrong but i think youl regret it, anyway she's probably reading this post so il get in before anyone else does. Hey married lady who wants to shag your husbands mate how's You? Come here often..wana fuck?

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By *usketeerMan
over a year ago

Kerry

Don't do it mate, you will only create troubles to yourself and to others

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Is she good looking?you asking about my friend ? He’s male and so like a meerkat he watches everything I'm asking about thread topic. Is she good looking. he said she was fit and a gym bunny lol... into the corner for not paying attention tut tut "
tasty.

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By *ewitching1Woman
over a year ago

belfast

Do you never question why she suddenly picked you out off all the thousands of men on fab ??? ( no offence I'm sure your lovely) that has DRAMA written all over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said your mates wife ? Some mate you are even considering it , if you were my mate and I found out , you be sitting on fab in a hospital bed and when you got out ud be going back in that night ....

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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago

Portlaoise

Very simple to understand that you have two choices here:

One is a bad choice and the other is a good choice.

Now hopefully you can choose which one is best for you all

This is a daft thread, tbh I cannot understand why we made the choice to add our opinion

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Very simple to understand that you have two choices here:

One is a bad choice and the other is a good choice.

Now hopefully you can choose which one is best for you all

This is a daft thread, tbh I cannot understand why we made the choice to add our opinion "

The views are stunning though

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

He must be really fucking unfortunate. To have a missus who will cheat with his mate. And a mate that will do his missus. What a great 2019 start you are both giving him. I tip my sarcastic cap to you cretin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid

Avoid

Avoid

This has an article in a red top written all over it...... "Hubby's mate shows me a Fab time while he is busy cheating on me"

I try to keep MY private life very private.... It really is nobody's business other than mine unless I make it so.

You say she is looking to exact some form of revenge through a reciprocal act ..... I reckon in a d*unken fight it would come to light and then the youknowwhat will hit the fan.

As it is I wouldn't like to be in your position even if you decide not to do anything.... Your mate could still find out that his wife talked to you and you didn't tell him..... That could open a whole other can of worms.

In this particular situation I wood advise against your smaller head calling the shots..... My tuppence worth ...... For what it's worth.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

It's your own business. I'm not gonna tell you what to do but all I read was "I want to fuck my mates wife and I need to justify it".

Sounds to me that you've made your mind up but you should ask yourself if you believe that she wants to be with you more than she wants to hurt her husband back for cheating on her. Do you think she cares enough about you to never tell him when they inevitably have that potential relationship breaking fight?

Best of luck explaining it to your 'mate' when he finds out.

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By *nobber30Man
over a year ago

cork

It isn't worth it. Plenty more fish in the sea.

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By *orinaTSTV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin

Wrong period. Avoid

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

I'd reassure her her secret is safe with you, but that for the sake of friendships decline getting together for fun.

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By * am in Your DreamsMan
over a year ago

South

There are two questions here, Does he have a gun and could he take you in a fist fight if the answer is no to both, Play Ball.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't op, I would be the guy being cheated on in this thread.. bad enough when there's cheating..... worse when it with a so called friend. We were both on here as a couple. Plenty of options for play. We had two kids, a house, animals and 8 years together...

All that ended when I came home to find the house empty. And she had disappeared with my wee dudes. Found out she had slept with my supposed "best friend" numerous times as I was working or looking after the kids. I'd already forgiven her for the one I already knew about too... but anyway. It's not a good feeling. This all happened two an half yrs ago.. I'm still not the same.

It's not worth it man, seriously. Have a wank an think! Good luck either way bro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes, go fuck her if she insists beside that will be your little secret.. Everyone need has their secret...we all know that..

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"There are two questions here, Does he have a gun and could he take you in a fist fight if the answer is no to both, Play Ball."

So it's not about respect for friendship or morality it's about who is more physically able and a case of "Screw you buddy!" (with the middle finger up. What a wonderful attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd reassure her her secret is safe with you, but that for the sake of friendships decline getting together for fun."

Absolutely agree.

Even I would draw the line before this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are two questions here, Does he have a gun and could he take you in a fist fight if the answer is no to both, Play Ball.

So it's not about respect for friendship or morality it's about who is more physically able and a case of "Screw you buddy!" (with the middle finger up. What a wonderful attitude. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If I were you I would grab this opportunity and fuck the life out of her

If my friend fucked my wife/gf (dont have either, but anyway)

It would take serious restraint not to punch the life out of him."

Yeah but what if it was your hard mate, and you know he'd kick the shite outa ya

The conundrum

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By *aloma12TV/TS
over a year ago

city cnt


"Hell yes, go fuck her if she insists beside that will be your little secret.. Everyone need has their secret...we all know that.."

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"

If I were you I would grab this opportunity and fuck the life out of her

If my friend fucked my wife/gf (dont have either, but anyway)

It would take serious restraint not to punch the life out of him.

Yeah but what if it was your hard mate, and you know he'd kick the shite outa ya

The conundrum "

If it was a hard mate? He wouldn't have time to react as he wouldn't see it coming.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Wrong forum, should be in ‘stories and fantasies’ section..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wrong forum, should be in ‘stories and fantasies’ section.. "

Dont be a killjoy 80% of everything on here is fiction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wrong forum, should be in ‘stories and fantasies’ section..

Dont be a killjoy 80% of everything on here is fiction "

Is that stat one of the 20% or not.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wrong forum, should be in ‘stories and fantasies’ section..

Dont be a killjoy 80% of everything on here is fiction

Is that stat one of the 20% or not..... "

Of course, https://sydneyuniversity/fabswingers&fictionalstories.org

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's Hardy still on on fab at this stage... This thread is going on for fookin ages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's Hardy still on on fab at this stage... This thread is going on for fookin ages... "

Im sure they will be seeking a mmf over the next day or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're playing with fire & you're a shit friend for considering it enough to make a thread about it

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"You're playing with fire & you're a shit friend for considering it enough to make a thread about it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever heard the saying

"Don't shit on your own doorstep!"

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

Take her dogging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

Try being a proper mate and not a dickhead.

Avoid the wife.

I'd even suggest that you tell your mate his wife is on here.

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

think with your head, not your dick !

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Absolutely Don't recommend you going there!!

I had a threesome with ex hubby and his best mate, I adored it as did his mate but it ruined their friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it it’s swinging not a relationship site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t be too sure he didn’t know a lot of husbands get a kick out of seeing their wives getting attention and fucked by others. Especially here it’s sorta norm.

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.


"Wouldn’t be too sure he didn’t know a lot of husbands get a kick out of seeing their wives getting attention and fucked by others. Especially here it’s sorta norm."

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cheated with my best mates girl biggest mistake of my life I lost a true friend for an attention seeking women who loved 2 men fighting over her there is loads of women don’t lose a good friend over her u should tell ur friend what shes at then again he is cheating on her also so maybe not realationship won’t last anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he is a good mate

Walk away block her and keep it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems you already feel guilty for knowing she's here so I'd just avoid.she could be here for any reason but she's still with yr mate say nothing and just avoid and don't think about it again. Plenty of good gals here wont leave you in a guilt trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

I have done that other way around and ha we have great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems you already feel guilty for knowing she's here so I'd just avoid.she could be here for any reason but she's still with yr mate say nothing and just avoid and don't think about it again. Plenty of good gals here wont leave you in a guilt trip "

Lol scaredecat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have u not give her one yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems you already feel guilty for knowing she's here so I'd just avoid.she could be here for any reason but she's still with yr mate say nothing and just avoid and don't think about it again. Plenty of good gals here wont leave you in a guilt trip

Lol scaredecat "

ha that's wat HE should prob do

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

yes not on here though but I think she is still doing the bold thing behind his back ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on not right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck her sideways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

Depends how good a mate he is.

If he was any good he wouldn't mind

I say go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

avoid, think of the damage when he finds out about ye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

My tuppence worth on your " dilemma " here is pure and simple..do not become part of the solution to their or her problems or issues...the ride would not be worth the fall...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope she will throw it in his face some day then the fun will start stay away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

He's a mate...do ya really need to even ask the question !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might sound a great idea at the moment if shes hot and all , but this shouts drama and lots of hassle heading your way .

I would have no problem be with a mates wife as long he knew and was ok with it , the way you put it you arent being much of a mate but hey go for what you think its best

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By *entle giant2017Man
over a year ago

kerry

Avoid block

Only lead to heartache and hassles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend...

He's a mate...do ya really need to even ask the question !!"

Straight to the point , if he is a mate and doesn't know she's here then move away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."
hardly a mate if your considering fucking his girl behind his back

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
over a year ago

outside Strabane


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

Send her my direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

Ah cmon man seriously, bro code!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems you already feel guilty for knowing she's here so I'd just avoid.she could be here for any reason but she's still with yr mate say nothing and just avoid and don't think about it again. Plenty of good gals here wont leave you in a guilt trip

Lol scaredecat "

Not everyone's as naughty as you

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By *hePocketRocketWoman
over a year ago

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"Ive a mates wife that is on fab, but the hubby doesn't know and she wants to keep it that way. She found me on here by accident and now wants to meet for fun...

Anyone been in a similar situation and if so is it 2close 2home?? Or would you recommend..."

Wouldn't go there, not fair on your mate, be a good mate and steer clear.

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By *00fumonlyMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

If he's your friend don't block and forget if he's a good very close friend block and probaby more if he finds out you know she is on fab he will be gunning for you

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By *odjer MoreMan
over a year ago

m

Are you considering shagging your friends wife ? If you did that your just as bad as she is . Your friend will be broken , how could you ever trust anyone after something like that . I feel for the poor lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He must not be much of a friend or you dont think much of him to ask for peoples opinions.if he was you wouldnt need to ask anyone you would just stay clear.i no i would

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo

Ride her sideways.your on a sex site, she is on a sex site. What more do you need. Do it.

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By *odjer MoreMan
over a year ago

m

Exactly !! Bad enough finding out your wife was cheating , let alone with a close friend . That would drive anyone over the edge

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