FabSwingers.com forum: Give newbies a chance...

By *ippman43 OP Man
over a year ago

somewhere only we know

Everyone started out here as a newbie at some stage how is it that we get a bit of a raw deal??. I'd luv to hear positive responses to make it worthwhile hanging around for another bit.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Everyone started out here as a newbie at some stage how is it that we get a bit of a raw deal??. I'd luv to hear positive responses to make it worthwhile hanging around for another bit."
you will need to wait alot longer then 2 weeks. Just use the forums and use tinder. You can get sex there also as here but it's by far and away more straightforward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because new profiles more often than not get deleted within weeks if not days.

Ya everyone started off new so they will give you a chance.if you get involved, take your time and act right

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Im singing john Lennon here

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"Im singing john Lennon here"

Cruel you :-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure your not here a wet day yet . Have a bit of patience

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Im singing john Lennon here

Cruel you :-

Thats not cruel ....phil collins now thats cruel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im singing john Lennon here

Cruel you :-

Thats not cruel ....phil collins now thats cruel "
elvis don't be cruel lol

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"Im singing john Lennon here

Cruel you :-

Thats not cruel ....phil collins now thats cruel "

You do have a point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im singing john Lennon here

Cruel you :-

Thats not cruel ....phil collins now thats cruel "

I can feel you cumming in the bed tonight oh yeeaahhhh

Ah ffs rover thats in my head gor the night now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it time and get involved. As you said we were all new once.... and we didn't get where we are without putting in the effort

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

It can be equally as challenging for guys here a long time OP

Just take your time and something could happen

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"It can be equally as challenging for guys here a long time OP

Just take your time and something could happen"
I remember a lad been here over 2 months with not a sign of a meet. In shape lad, a nice paragraph on profile. Site is a minefield.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love meeting newbies and teaching them all about our little adult playground!

Shame most newbies are just horrendous at fist approach and it takes them months to get it out of their heads that nobody here is rushing to empty their balls.

Good job there's always some fantastic exceptions to the rules

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By *aytocrispsMan
over a year ago

belfast

Hi all.

Not exactly a newbie here but I am trying to get more involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love meeting newbies and teaching them all about our little adult playground!

Shame most newbies are just horrendous at fist approach and it takes them months to get it out of their heads that nobody here is rushing to empty their balls.

Good job there's always some fantastic exceptions to the rules

Not everyone is into the fist approach though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love meeting newbies and teaching them all about our little adult playground!

Shame most newbies are just horrendous at fist approach and it takes them months to get it out of their heads that nobody here is rushing to empty their balls.

Good job there's always some fantastic exceptions to the rules

Not everyone is into the fist approach though

Tough titty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree with you...i have been on here for a few months and i havent met anyone not that i have been trying

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Im singing john Lennon here

Cruel you :-

Thats not cruel ....phil collins now thats cruel

I can feel you cumming in the bed tonight oh yeeaahhhh

Ah ffs rover thats in my head gor the night now"

Oh holy jebus

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I would agree with you...i have been on here for a few months and i havent met anyone not that i have been trying"

Results normally reflect effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would agree with you...i have been on here for a few months and i havent met anyone not that i have been trying

Results normally reflect effort

Couldn't be any more true

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Effort also determines the time you have. You ain't applying for a multi millionaires job either.

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By *ustyboyMan
over a year ago

Greater Dublin & Belfast now onwards

I have been on this site for more than 6 months still no luck . I am sending face pics when asked for and after I send my face pic all I get is blocked . Just looking to meet for coffee first is too much to ask ???

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

"Love meeting newbies and teaching them all about our little adult playground!

Shame most newbies are just horrendous at fist approach and it takes them months to get it out of their heads that nobody here is rushing to empty their balls.

Good job there's always some fantastic exceptions to the rules

You are quite the Domme

Could be quite an experience for a newbie! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than happy to show a few newbies the ropes meet for a verification coffee and get the ball rolling for any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to get your face known. Go to some clubs and events. When folks know you are friendly and respectful, you'll get responses.

I was on here before and had veryfied meets but left for break. Starting from scratch again and its not easy. Keep at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love meeting newbies and teaching them all about our little adult playground!

Shame most newbies are just horrendous at fist approach and it takes them months to get it out of their heads that nobody here is rushing to empty their balls.

Good job there's always some fantastic exceptions to the rules

You are quite the Domme

Could be quite an experience for a newbie! Haha"

But.... I'm not a Domme. Far from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes give us guys a chance it's very daunting on here

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

"Love meeting newbies and teaching them all about our little adult playground!

Shame most newbies are just horrendous at fist approach and it takes them months to get it out of their heads that nobody here is rushing to empty their balls.

Good job there's always some fantastic exceptions to the rules

You are quite the Domme

Could be quite an experience for a newbie! Haha

But.... I'm not a Domme. Far from it"

Im just going on your post on the topic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone started out here as a newbie at some stage how is it that we get a bit of a raw deal??. I'd luv to hear positive responses to make it worthwhile hanging around for another bit."

If I can offer some advice it would be this. Forget about having sex anytime you log onto fab. It’s not gona happen! Get involved in the forums and don’t be shy in voicing your opinion whether ppl like it or not. Don’t be a dick to the women. Pretend your in a bar trying to pick up a woman when you message them, minus the cheesy chat up line tho lol

Try to build a bit of repor with ppl and show that you’re a normal decent human being. Then you may be able to get meets a bit more easily than you are now.

Good luck.

Don’t be a dick about getting turned down.

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By *upidsbowkissWoman
over a year ago

City Center

Yes everybody started off as newbies but some people grit their teeth and get on with it rather than moaning about the fact they can't get meets. I'd suggest you do the same

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"Yes everybody started off as newbies but some people grit their teeth and get on with it rather than moaning about the fact they can't get meets. I'd suggest you do the same"

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Do a flipside op. If you were getting pounded by mails from females would it take a simple polite mail for you to reply or would you start listing this that and the other before a reply is considered?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here a good while myself and still no luck either hard to get involved in M&G and yeah some newbies co.e and go but I'm here awhile still hanging on I've been polite in msgs I send and forwards pics on which each msg but no luck so I know how u feel we just have to stick at it supose

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"Im singing john Lennon here

Cruel you :-

Thats not cruel ....phil collins now thats cruel

I can feel you cumming in the bed tonight oh yeeaahhhh

Ah ffs rover thats in my head gor the night now"

Fs i sang that lol

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"Yes everybody started off as newbies but some people grit their teeth and get on with it rather than moaning about the fact they can't get meets. I'd suggest you do the same"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love meeting newbies and teaching them all about our little adult playground!

Shame most newbies are just horrendous at fist approach and it takes them months to get it out of their heads that nobody here is rushing to empty their balls.

Good job there's always some fantastic exceptions to the rules

I’m not exactly a newbie, but could do with a good teacher ??

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By *umpkinnMan
over a year ago

Dublin

There was a topic a while back about how men should block anyone that reads your message and does not reply.

The funny thing is, about a week and a half ago I spotted two women online that looked like real profiles (no instagram style pictures that a guy made a profile to catfish with). With the free time thanks to the holidays, I sent them both individual introduction messages based on their profiles / status updates and included a freshly taken face picture. Nothing, I mean the messages had not even been read or deleted by them while these women had regularly been online for over a week. I didn't even get any notification that my profile had been viewed by anyone during the time.

Messages deleted, profiles blocked, next

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I offered to meet newbie on hear for coffee to get them verfied and 4 times he cancelled then blocked me so that's me finished with newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone started out here as a newbie at some stage how is it that we get a bit of a raw deal??. I'd luv to hear positive responses to make it worthwhile hanging around for another bit."

A lot of people here at some point have given new people a chance and got it thrown back in their face

So once bitten twice shy and all that

Everyone vertifed and non vertifed have had a raw deal at some stage of thir fab journy

Respect patience and manners will go far if u have them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give newbies a chance to verified over coffee all the time as long as they polite. We all started out here new. But I also have a lot of rude newbie fuckwits who can't take rejection well. I sent a polite thanks but no thanks to a guy last night. His response was to tell me I had a "septic fanny"

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I've offered to meet newbies for a coffee to verify them and got told no as they only wanted to meet women. Not thinking that if I verified them the women I know might take an interest in them that's why I don't give newbies a chance anymore. They just have to do what I did, persist and deal with the time it take to geg your first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone started out here as a newbie at some stage how is it that we get a bit of a raw deal??. I'd luv to hear positive responses to make it worthwhile hanging around for another bit."

Chat in the forums,chat to those who are looking for your type, have patience and dont be a dick. Its fairly obvious.

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

"Everyone started out here as a newbie at some stage how is it that we get a bit of a raw deal??. I'd luv to hear positive responses to make it worthwhile hanging around for another bit."

What makes you think you are better than the other 100000+ single males on here ?

If you have no luck in the pub you will probably not have any more luck here as people have a massive choice here.

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

Would you mind of we had a sniff and a lick ... just to prove him wrong .. of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I give newbies a chance to verified over coffee all the time as long as they polite. We all started out here new. But I also have a lot of rude newbie fuckwits who can't take rejection well. I sent a polite thanks but no thanks to a guy last night. His response was to tell me I had a "septic fanny"yes it's only a coffee stop , banter few laughs over carrot cake and am buying and we can make nice fab friends that might know people we like

Would you mind of we had a sniff and a lick ... just to prove him wrong .. of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you mind of we had a sniff and a lick ... just to prove him wrong .. of course

My fanny is like "Raindrops on roses And whiskers on kitten"

Men always say it's part of their "Favourite things"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone started out here as a newbie at some stage how is it that we get a bit of a raw deal??. I'd luv to hear positive responses to make it worthwhile hanging around for another bit.

What makes you think you are better than the other 100000+ single males on here ?

If you have no luck in the pub you will probably not have any more luck here as people have a massive choice here."

Well thats hardly going to encourage him.... I doubt there is 100000+ Single males in the tipp area.

Plus he doesnt need to be "better" than them its a swing site people share.

I never do very well in a pub/club enviorment Fab actually gives me more of a chance to show my personality.

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

"Everyone started out here as a newbie at some stage how is it that we get a bit of a raw deal??. I'd luv to hear positive responses to make it worthwhile hanging around for another bit.

What makes you think you are better than the other 100000+ single males on here ?

If you have no luck in the pub you will probably not have any more luck here as people have a massive choice here.

Well thats hardly going to encourage him.... I doubt there is 100000+ Single males in the tipp area.

Plus he doesnt need to be "better" than them its a swing site people share.

I never do very well in a pub/club enviorment Fab actually gives me more of a chance to show my personality."

So you agree with what I said then

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I've often put up the offer of a coffee meet for newbies and either get guys who seem to expect that it will end in a quickie or blowjob in the car afterwards or no replies at all. You need to put in the ground work

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Everyone started out here as a newbie at some stage how is it that we get a bit of a raw deal??. I'd luv to hear positive responses to make it worthwhile hanging around for another bit.

What makes you think you are better than the other 100000+ single males on here ?

If you have no luck in the pub you will probably not have any more luck here as people have a massive choice here."
if you have luck when out and you don't want to use the forums here, I'd advise anyone to leave. Pulling when out is as straightforward as it comes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know alot of people have gave newbies a chances going by your msgs but not all newbies should be treated the same way as others are serious about meeting people on this site if only given a chance and I think it's unfair for plp to say all newbies are fake and waste of time just because of bad experiences they had with other newbies I'd be quite happy to meet anyone anywhere if I was free and gave notice but I'm not going anywhere and going to play the long game and be patience and polite like I have been

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By *upidsbowkissWoman
over a year ago

City Center

Oh right

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