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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A quick question for the Ladies here..I'm on a couple of the usual dating sites but no joy whatsoever on them.. I like to be polite while sending the first message but no replies from anyone. However a very close friend of mine is on them as well and most of the first messages she receives from men start with 'wanna see my cock' or they'll tell her what they'd like to do to her.. not to mention the cock pics as well that are sent. So my question is do Women actually like men who start into sex talk in the very first message or do you prefer a gentleman and get to know each other first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this isn't dating here but I have seen similar posts and the ladies like to be greeted with respect so just keep up the manners ye will get there eventually.

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By *arbiegirl19Woman
over a year ago

Hollymount


"A quick question for the Ladies here..I'm on a couple of the usual dating sites but no joy whatsoever on them.. I like to be polite while sending the first message but no replies from anyone. However a very close friend of mine is on them as well and most of the first messages she receives from men start with 'wanna see my cock' or they'll tell her what they'd like to do to her.. not to mention the cock pics as well that are sent. So my question is do Women actually like men who start into sex talk in the very first message or do you prefer a gentleman and get to know each other first?"

I'm on a dating site and any man that shows me no respect in his messages will be blocked straight away....i like a man that shows respect to a woman...

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

As the 2 above posts have said women like to be treated with respect have been on a few dating sites over the yrs myself with not much luck just keep up the good work who doesn't like a gentleman good luck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came off the dating sites as waste of time. Anyone that sends a wanna fuck message or dick pic on any site gets deleted straight away don't care how big your cock is if u don't have manners and can't have a conversation we ain't having fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the replies so far Ladies.. I'll keep being a Gentleman and sure eventually it'll all fall into place..

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I enjoyed being on a dating site until they starTed messing and I gave up . Had good few dates and that's how I ended up here .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I actually did a test on one of the dating sites..I made up another profile on the dating site, worded it exactly the same as my original site but this time I put a pic up of a model that was easily found on Google. All of a sudden I got loads of messages! Not disrespcting any Ladies here but unfortunately a lot of them will just message back due to your profile pic and nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually did a test on one of the dating sites..I made up another profile on the dating site, worded it exactly the same as my original site but this time I put a pic up of a model that was easily found on Google. All of a sudden I got loads of messages! Not disrespcting any Ladies here but unfortunately a lot of them will just message back due to your profile pic and nothing else. "

I always reverse search images

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually did a test on one of the dating sites..I made up another profile on the dating site, worded it exactly the same as my original site but this time I put a pic up of a model that was easily found on Google. All of a sudden I got loads of messages! Not disrespcting any Ladies here but unfortunately a lot of them will just message back due to your profile pic and nothing else. "

Models are picked to be models for majority to find them attractive.

If someone doesn't think that you're their type from a first glance do they still have to force themselves to get to know you just to build that desired attraction?

If people gave every single person approaching a "chance" and time of the day regardless if they find them attractive or not - there would be no time in that day left for things that actually matter.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I actually did a test on one of the dating sites..I made up another profile on the dating site, worded it exactly the same as my original site but this time I put a pic up of a model that was easily found on Google. All of a sudden I got loads of messages! Not disrespcting any Ladies here but unfortunately a lot of them will just message back due to your profile pic and nothing else. "

It tells you that your profile is your shop front. So show yourself from the best side and hopefully the ladies may enter the shop for a browse.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Have you a particular type or find a variety of attractions in the opposite sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

I went on a few and when i saw someone i liked i would just say hi, like your profile, wanna get a coffee sometime. Had a few dates that way. Just be polite and respectful

x

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

If you are respectfull you will get dates .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in the same position mate. I try be nice and respectful and most don’t reply back.

The only ones that do for me are Brazilians and I think they only reply because they are bored!ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually did a test on one of the dating sites..I made up another profile on the dating site, worded it exactly the same as my original site but this time I put a pic up of a model that was easily found on Google. All of a sudden I got loads of messages! Not disrespcting any Ladies here but unfortunately a lot of them will just message back due to your profile pic and nothing else. "

Dude, all that shows is that the women found the model attractive. Its not uncommon for us to make a judgement on looks. Hell, its natural to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're in an open relationship and I'd love to go on dating sites, but we are very private about our lives and don't want any local nosey fookers knowing our business... Pain in the hole

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