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By *ookwhoitisha OP   Man
over a year ago

outside Strabane

Stole from another forum

If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Nope

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've had a few women message me first . One was a big messer though but another was a goddess OMG I think she was a Virgin . I had to go to her place and lick her pussy . But she was so scared I could not stay long . It's was a pity I never got to see her again . It was her first time getting her pussy licked .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stole from another forum

If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

I would think it's great, that a woman has balls to make the first contact and she should be commended!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I love females to text me first never happens to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would anyone actually think that though?

I guess if they did theu probably would admit to it on the forum anyway

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By *ercymallowMan
over a year ago

Belfast / Dublin


"

I would think it's great, that a woman has balls to make the first contact and she should be commended!!!"

In total agreement with this statement.

Never would I think they were “sex mad”

They would appear to me as not only confident but also somewhat intrigued.

I always get butterflies when I receive a first message from a lady on here

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By *ookwhoitisha OP   Man
over a year ago

outside Strabane

I personally think it's an urban myth and women never message first.

Do they even message at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think it's an urban myth and women never message first.

Do they even message at all? "

I messaged a guy once and he replied that I need a year in the gym before he would consider touching me lol so is it any surprise women don't do it much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think it's an urban myth and women never message first.

Do they even message at all? "

I get an average of one cold call per week. Usually just to say my profile made them laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think it's an urban myth and women never message first.

Do they even message at all?

I messaged a guy once and he replied that I need a year in the gym before he would consider touching me lol so is it any surprise women don't do it much "

That is a one off I hope ... don’t let it stop you.... it would be nice if more women did message first

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Are we all not sex mad?!?

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Just for kiks ignore that fool that said that,it very rarely happens that a woman mails first simple because they are getting 200 mails a day and don’t need too

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"I've had a few women message me first . One was a big messer though but another was a goddess OMG I think she was a Virgin . I had to go to her place and lick her pussy . But she was so scared I could not stay long . It's was a pity I never got to see her again . It was her first time getting her pussy licked . "

A nervous virgin?? First time having oral sex?? On a swingers site?? Are you actually for real??

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By *ookwhoitisha OP   Man
over a year ago

outside Strabane


"Are we all not sex mad?!? "

Yip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes send a message first, usually cos someone has said something interesting on a forum or they have a particularly good profile. I send to women and men cos it’s nice to be nice! It’s not necessarily with a view to a meet but just because

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes send a message first, usually cos someone has said something interesting on a forum or they have a particularly good profile. I send to women and men cos it’s nice to be nice! It’s not necessarily with a view to a meet but just because "

I can verify. I was one of those soldiers.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"I personally think it's an urban myth and women never message first.

Do they even message at all?

I messaged a guy once and he replied that I need a year in the gym before he would consider touching me lol so is it any surprise women don't do it much "
respect to ladies that say hi and let the man know that they have they own shoes and live in them, don't let wankers put you off , your brains are your sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done and mainly because something was posted on forums etc but don't think I've ever messaged a guy with potential for a meet

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Mrs here id have no problem messaging a man or woman first if they piqued my interest ..I'm all about going after what you want

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Happens me a lot, never results in sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happens me a lot, never results in sex."

Snap. It’s usially to say hi. Occasionally a coffee appears over the horizon but nothing more.

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I personally think it's an urban myth and women never message first.

Do they even message at all?

I messaged a guy once and he replied that I need a year in the gym before he would consider touching me lol so is it any surprise women don't do it much "
omg what a dickhead , lucky escape

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If a lady messages me first I assume I've said something or there was something in my profile which piqued her interest and assume nothing more than I will reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stole from another forum

If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

That kind of attitude is what gives dudes on here a bad rep!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was staying in Galway one night and got a message from a lady looking to meet up. I met her in my hotel bar for a drink. Everything was going good until she asked me for €100 before we would go back to my room

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I was staying in Galway one night and got a message from a lady looking to meet up. I met her in my hotel bar for a drink. Everything was going good until she asked me for €100 before we would go back to my room "
lovely and you gave it to her I assume with an extra 5 euro thrown in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never paid for sex in my life and don’t intend to. I found out from the barman that the same lady was a cleaner in the same hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no problem sending a first message if a profile sparks my interest.. We're all Adults at the end of the day so why not send it.. What's the worst that happens ur told no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us men on here seem to get no alot of the time. It must be the only word some of ladies know ????

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

She's confident and not afraid to grab the bull by both horns -nothing ventured nothing gained as they say !

I (Mrs ) have messaged both guys and gals first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I await your message then so Chip lol ??

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

I hate it when women message first....sign that the age of chivalry is dead. As hunter gatherers we men are hardwired for the chase and feel emasculated if the fairer sex makes the first approach.

Course all the above is probably utter B*l***ks.

Love it when a woman knows what she wants and what she likes and makes the first approach. Welcome to 2019.

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I hate it when women message first....sign that the age of chivalry is dead. As hunter gatherers we men are hardwired for the chase and feel emasculated if the fairer sex makes the first approach.

Course all the above is probably utter B*l***ks.

Love it when a woman knows what she wants and what she likes and makes the first approach. Welcome to 2019."

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Never paid for sex in my life and don’t intend to. I found out from the barman that the same lady was a cleaner in the same hotel "
I was only joking ... no offense intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message from a lady first on fab? that's the dream haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have any expectations through a few msgs if a girl txt me or I txt her first, and even wen arranging a meet as no one really knows what the other persons like until you get face to face, I just stick to meeting up for a coffee no strings, I like a bit of a challenge too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a confident lady I know what I want I have no problem sending the first message. A well written profile is what usually makes me message first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are here for one thing if I'm intrigued I will send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have all filters set to blocked most of the time, so I always send the first message.

Granted it's usually to take the piss out of something in a profile or their status, not because I am desperate for sex.

It's a good filter to see who I can have a bit of craic with.

It's much more fun than trawling through 'wanna fuck' & 'meet?' messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all. Can she not chat with out the presumption?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not at all. Can she not chat with out the presumption? "
I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stole from another forum

If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

Have send many a first mail.is it persummed that its guanthed sex no.its just a chat to see where it leads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not at all. Can she not chat with out the presumption? I can "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think it's an urban myth and women never message first.

Do they even message at all?

I messaged a guy once and he replied that I need a year in the gym before he would consider touching me lol so is it any surprise women don't do it much "

He was a cheeky prick whoever he was

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"I personally think it's an urban myth and women never message first.

Do they even message at all? "

I've messaged quite a few first. I've no issue doing so ..

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia


"I personally think it's an urban myth and women never message first.

Do they even message at all?

I've messaged quite a few first. I've no issue doing so .. "
It's must be a wexford thing sweet as I've no issue doing so either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think it's an urban myth and women never message first.

Do they even message at all?

I've messaged quite a few first. I've no issue doing so .. "

I dare ya.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Stole from another forum

If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

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I have messages from women saying "forum post was funny" or "love your status update"...

Sometimes it actually means they found a forum post funny or a status update amusing...

I know, hard to believe at first

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"I personally think it's an urban myth and women never message first.

Do they even message at all?

I've messaged quite a few first. I've no issue doing so .. It's must be a wexford thing sweet as I've no issue doing so either "

Brave wexford women we are

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By *gentleman44Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Stole from another forum

If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"
absolutely not

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork


"I've had a few women message me first . One was a big messer though but another was a goddess OMG I think she was a Virgin . I had to go to her place and lick her pussy . But she was so scared I could not stay long . It's was a pity I never got to see her again . It was her first time getting her pussy licked .

A nervous virgin?? First time having oral sex?? On a swingers site?? Are you actually for real??

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia


"I personally think it's an urban myth and women never message first.

Do they even message at all?

I've messaged quite a few first. I've no issue doing so .. It's must be a wexford thing sweet as I've no issue doing so either

Brave wexford women we are "
Haha that we are sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent just few messages to a man and if this counts it was related to the forum or the stories on fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asked for money few times.told them I dont pay for sexi'am a swinger and they need to get a life.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Stole from another forum

If a woman sends the first message she's feisty and sex mad. She's on the prowl looking for sex and not sat around waiting for loads of mail to inflate her ego. If she mails you, sex is guaranteed.

If you got a first message from a woman would you think this?"

Absolutely not!

It's most likely she has seen a comment I made on the forum, rather than getting giddy over one of my pics, so I treat them all as somebody who wants to have a natter/banter, without any pressure to Meet.

Is this where I'm going wrong?

No, in all seriousness, I certainly don't think the way you've mentioned.

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