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By *avidc2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

Ladies I’m getting plenty of texts of men but not off women, looking for some advice on where I’m going wrong thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you asked for the ladies feedback but I'll get the ball rolling.

Your profile is a good start juat a few things I'd change.

Put in some paragraphs your bio reads like one long sentance.

The bit about not being judgemental, liking bbws and.not looking for a model. You may not mean it to but the way its phrased sounds like your willing to meet bbws even though they arent models. Just rephrase that bit.

Pics could show a little more skin

Other than that just get involved on here, have a bit of patience and when mesaaging someone try to be original and have something of interest to say

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By *avidc2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

Thanks pal sorry this is not just for ladies,I’ll take all the advice I can get,some good pointers there I’ll work on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks pal sorry this is not just for ladies,I’ll take all the advice I can get,some good pointers there I’ll work on"

You'd actually do well to check out the profiles of some guys who have had success here

Follow their lead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile reads like you’ve been here before OP I’m sure you’ll figure it all out

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By *avidc2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

Hmmm ye not sure about checking out other male profiles they might read to much in to it lol thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the commas and put in full stops it's confusing to read and as stated above put into paragraphs.

Make bit more effort with the pictures as well.

I would suggest saying why you can't accommodate. You say you can accommodate but in your profile you write you can't. I am the suspicious type so if I read that I would presume that you are attached

Also get the all important first verification it's vital

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By *avidc2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Profile reads like you’ve been here before OP I’m sure you’ll figure it all out "
was that for me this is genuinely my first time on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok take on board the advice given in last 50 mins and fix the description.

make your pics less squigly head just crop it .

Fix the part about bbw not been model material as plenty of plus/size beauties who do model. Fat doesn't mean unattractive.

Take your top off your not showing yourself alot .

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By *avidc2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Get rid of the commas and put in full stops it's confusing to read and as stated above put into paragraphs.

Make bit more effort with the pictures as well.

I would suggest saying why you can't accommodate. You say you can accommodate but in your profile you write you can't. I am the suspicious type so if I read that I would presume that you are attached

Also get the all important first verification it's vital "
roseyredlips thanks I’ll change a few things around,trying to get all important first verification also,it’s not easy as it must be 100 men to every 10 ladies lol

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By *avidc2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Ok take on board the advice given in last 50 mins and fix the description.

make your pics less squigly head just crop it .

Fix the part about bbw not been model material as plenty of plus/size beauties who do model. Fat doesn't mean unattractive.

Take your top off your not showing yourself alot .

"
thanks justforkiks I’ll change a few things around

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Hmmm ye not sure about checking out other male profiles they might read to much in to it lol thanks guys "

Dont be silly ..theres some very successful men on here ...its there profile, pics,bio, interactions on the forums and how they interact with women. You want help with your profile start looking at those that got it right. We all started sòmewhere. Be mature about this

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By *avidc2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Hmmm ye not sure about checking out other male profiles they might read to much in to it lol thanks guys

Dont be silly ..theres some very successful men on here ...its there profile, pics,bio, interactions on the forums and how they interact with women. You want help with your profile start looking at those that got it right. We all started sòmewhere. Be mature about this "
that’s very true.i must have a look so.thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get rid of the commas and put in full stops it's confusing to read and as stated above put into paragraphs.

Make bit more effort with the pictures as well.

I would suggest saying why you can't accommodate. You say you can accommodate but in your profile you write you can't. I am the suspicious type so if I read that I would presume that you are attached

Also get the all important first verification it's vital roseyredlips thanks I’ll change a few things around,trying to get all important first verification also,it’s not easy as it must be 100 men to every 10 ladies lol"

I have given a few men here their first verification over coffee. Politeness and manners and a well written message go a long way in getting over that hurdle.

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By *avidc2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Profile reads like you’ve been here before OP I’m sure you’ll figure it all out "
miss car first time here honestly

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By *avidc2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Get rid of the commas and put in full stops it's confusing to read and as stated above put into paragraphs.

Make bit more effort with the pictures as well.

I would suggest saying why you can't accommodate. You say you can accommodate but in your profile you write you can't. I am the suspicious type so if I read that I would presume that you are attached

Also get the all important first verification it's vital roseyredlips thanks I’ll change a few things around,trying to get all important first verification also,it’s not easy as it must be 100 men to every 10 ladies lol

I have given a few men here their first verification over coffee. Politeness and manners and a well written message go a long way in getting over that hurdle. "
roseyredlips I’d love nothing more than a coffee and a chat with a lady like yourself for verification.i have great manners and believe you should treat people how you would like to be treated.i actually put up post today asking for verified meet over coffee.really appreciate all your advice.hopefully I’ll get verification with a lady over the coming days fingers crossed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile reads like you’ve been here before OP I’m sure you’ll figure it all out miss car first time here honestly"

Ok then best advice can give you is to do a forum search on previous profile help given. Don’t take it too seriously, be yourself and if people don’t like you least your not being a sheep. Have fun xxx

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By *avidc2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Profile reads like you’ve been here before OP I’m sure you’ll figure it all out miss car first time here honestly

Ok then best advice can give you is to do a forum search on previous profile help given. Don’t take it too seriously, be yourself and if people don’t like you least your not being a sheep. Have fun xxx"
I’ll try that thanks again for your advice x

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