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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So i have a question....why do so many women (especially single women) state in their profile that they won't meet married or attached guys, since its a swinging site rather than a dating site aren't most on here married or attached? Wouldnt they have better luck using a dating site?

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By *ick manMan
over a year ago

longford

Good point and your right I thought swinging was all about the sex it’s great too see a couple that thinks this way a guy saying this would be hung drawn and quartered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i have a question....why do so many women (especially single women) state in their profile that they won't meet married or attached guys, since its a swinging site rather than a dating site aren't most on here married or attached? Wouldnt they have better luck using a dating site?"

It's all about the fun. Are you guys going to vanilla at the weekend. It's your old friend here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because u are on a swingers site does not mean u cannot have standards or morals some people do not want the hassle of meeting attached people which is their choice

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"So i have a question....why do so many women (especially single women) state in their profile that they won't meet married or attached guys, since its a swinging site rather than a dating site aren't most on here married or attached? Wouldnt they have better luck using a dating site?"

Even tho its a swing/sex site some people don't want to get involved with others that are sneaking around.

It's about choices and most people's choices are the same on fab as they are in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating and swinging are two different things.

Most people treat this place as an easy hook up site which makes married men undesirable as they bring the hassle of potential disaster if the spouse finds out.

would I play with a married swinger? Absolutely.

Would I respond to a message from a married man? Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Becase the idea of swinging is that the persons partner at least knows about the play or are involved in it.

Swinging is not about cheating, strange that a couple in here do not understand the difference.

Now of people want to playaway and others are happy to meet them then happy days. But people that think swingers should have a higher tolerence for cheating IMO dont actually understand the dynamics of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"[Removed by poster at 26/12/18 07:42:45]"

Lost for words now ther's a 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 26/12/18 07:42:45]

Lost for words now ther's a 1st "

Why do I try complex issues early in the morning...... kiss, fuck avoid anyone?

Smart arses

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"[Removed by poster at 26/12/18 07:42:45]

Lost for words now ther's a 1st

Why do I try complex issues early in the morning...... kiss, fuck avoid anyone?

Smart arses "

Hehe

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By *mi_Chew_KokWoman
over a year ago

DARK SOCIETY


"So i have a question....why do so many women (especially single women) state in their profile that they won't meet married or attached guys, since its a swinging site rather than a dating site aren't most on here married or attached? Wouldnt they have better luck using a dating site?"

I’m 100% swinger with moral values, preferences and free choices.... inside and outside of Fab they are still the same ... I appreciate guys honesty if they states they are married/ attached however I’m not going to be the one to boost their ego nor to be the one with who they will cheat on their other half, that simply doesn’t sit with me. I’m here to meet people for NSA fun not for any romantic encounter so why I should be switching to dating site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging without your partners consent isn’t swinging it’s cheating .

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


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Becase the idea of swinging is that the persons partner at least knows about the play or are involved in it.

Swinging is not about cheating, strange that a couple in here do not understand the difference.

Now of people want to playaway and others are happy to meet them then happy days. But people that think swingers should have a higher tolerence for cheating IMO dont actually understand the dynamics of it

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Thats exactly our thinking.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

Aside from the moral issues, meeting attached guys is a disaster. Everything is last minute and has to be organised around their schedule i.e. when they can get away from the missus...ain't no body got time for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aside from the moral issues, meeting attached guys is a disaster. Everything is last minute and has to be organised around their schedule i.e. when they can get away from the missus...ain't no body got time for that"

Oy! I'm not holding them back lol

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"Aside from the moral issues, meeting attached guys is a disaster. Everything is last minute and has to be organised around their schedule i.e. when they can get away from the missus...ain't no body got time for that

Oy! I'm not holding them back lol "

Lol...took a second to work that one out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ladies are probally here because they dont want the dating scene.as for not meeting married attached for those that choose not to .its their preferences.everyone has their own prefernces and wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to be suggesting because ladies are on fab they should be shagging everyone regardless . Swinging was originally consenting couples having abit of naughty fun with other consenting adults so if one of a couple knows nothing how can they then consent. Few blurred lines there between swinging and cheating for ye ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aside from the moral issues, meeting attached guys is a disaster. Everything is last minute and has to be organised around their schedule i.e. when they can get away from the missus...ain't no body got time for that

Oy! I'm not holding them back lol "

Still waiting my permission slip

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

Looking from a risk / reward point of view it's quite simple. With a single man there is zero risk of a phone call or contact with a partner. Imagine meeting someone and their wife shows up because they have been suspicious and monitoring their phone / laptop!

Not everyone is careful, not everyone is as discreet and people get caught cheating every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's one thing I know in my short 27yrs is that people say one thing and do the other. They'll say they won't meet attached guys until the right offer comes along. But comparing cheating and swinging is mad. Not the same thing at all. Almost like me saying why are women on this site if they're not going to respond to my texts and meet up with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking from a risk / reward point of view it's quite simple. With a single man there is zero risk of a phone call or contact with a partner. Imagine meeting someone and their wife shows up because they have been suspicious and monitoring their phone / laptop!

Not everyone is careful, not everyone is as discreet and people get caught cheating every day. "

Had a lady on here in my house one day profile says single just as we were starting to have fun heard a guy shouting and he was blowing his car horn outside my gate for all the neighbours to hear turns out lady was married and husband was suspicious so he followed her who needs this shite in their lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has a right to a choice but what i find annoying is the moral high ground some guys take.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to a choice but what i find annoying is the moral high ground some guys take......."

In what way? Surely people have a right to disagree with people cheating as much as the people cheating have a right to be here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to a choice but what i find annoying is the moral high ground some guys take.......

In what way? Surely people have a right to disagree with people cheating as much as the people cheating have a right to be here?"

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown


"Everyone has a right to a choice but what i find annoying is the moral high ground some guys take......."

How is it a moral high ground? Saying you won't meet married people is a preference, it's that same as saying you won't meet overweight people or redheads! It's going to piss some people off but to say you "find it annoying" is in itself passing judgment on someone! Is it because you are married and it rules you out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a sex site. What does it matter if you are attached or not. Nobody looking for a relationship. As long you have a mental and physical attraction that’s all that should matter

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare


"So i have a question....why do so many women (especially single women) state in their profile that they won't meet married or attached guys, since its a swinging site rather than a dating site aren't most on here married or attached? Wouldnt they have better luck using a dating site?"

We have no problem meeting single guys and if someone is married not our problem they are usually the ones that give you the less grief

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown


"It’s a sex site. What does it matter if you are attached or not. Nobody looking for a relationship. As long you have a mental and physical attraction that’s all that should matter "

1. It's a swinging site, not a sex site.

2. It's not for you to say what matters to another person.

3. It's not for you to assume what anyone else is looking for.

4. Again, it's not for you to say what should matter to another person.

Nobody is entitled to a meet and you can be turned down for ANY reason including the colour of your skin, your relationship status, for bad spelling or just because the person doesn't like you that day. Asking why is none of anyone's business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a sex site. What does it matter if you are attached or not. Nobody looking for a relationship. As long you have a mental and physical attraction that’s all that should matter "

It does not matter if u are attached or not one here but people are entitled to decide if they want to meet or not just because its a sex site does not mean u should not treat your meet with honesty and respect or have some on here have 2 personalities

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

The only relationship we are interested in is ours.....and as our meets with singles are usually one offs their status is not important to us.....but if we meet a cpl and either one wants to meet separately then it has to be with everyone's knowledge.....but its all about choice...

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By *ewishguyMan
over a year ago

mid ulster


"Cheating and swinging are two different things.

Most people treat this place as an easy hook up site which makes married men undesirable as they bring the hassle of potential disaster if the spouse finds out.

would I play with a married swinger? Absolutely.

Would I respond to a message from a married man? Nope. "

Excellent post! As a married man on here without oh knowledge I feel this is exactly why folk don’t usually mix with married men. It’s simply naive to think swinging is just about sex... to have proper fun you need to be chilled and relaxed.... it’s not completely NSA or risk free! I only wish fab was around when I was young free and single! Lol

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By *uliacWoman
over a year ago

dublin

I have zero interest in being complicit in another person’s deceit.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Everyone has a right to a choice but what i find annoying is the moral high ground some guys take......."

And some on this thread claiming to be single shooting down the "cheaters" taking the moral high ground are actually in a relationship themselves.. aww the wonderful judgemental world of fab ...

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo

Im single and can accommodate, just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to a choice but what i find annoying is the moral high ground some guys take.......

And some on this thread claiming to be single shooting down the "cheaters" taking the moral high ground are actually in a relationship themselves.. aww the wonderful judgemental world of fab ..."

Absolutely true. Although I dunno about people on this thread but there's definitely actors on here pretending to be what they're not. I talk about sex openly with friends and work colleagues and cheating is happening way more than people think and people doing but not getting caught slate the people doing it and getting caught. Everyone is an actor these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im single and can accommodate, just saying."

Shameless plugging... I approve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to a choice but what i find annoying is the moral high ground some guys take.......

And some on this thread claiming to be single shooting down the "cheaters" taking the moral high ground are actually in a relationship themselves.. aww the wonderful judgemental world of fab ..."

If that is a shot across the bows at me dear we use the site to find single guys to have mfm fun with and we both are single so far when that changes will set up a couples profile

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Everyone has a right to a choice but what i find annoying is the moral high ground some guys take.......

And some on this thread claiming to be single shooting down the "cheaters" taking the moral high ground are actually in a relationship themselves.. aww the wonderful judgemental world of fab ..."

Jaysos relax, will ye.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Cheating and swinging are two different things.

Most people treat this place as an easy hook up site which makes married men undesirable as they bring the hassle of potential disaster if the spouse finds out.

would I play with a married swinger? Absolutely.

Would I respond to a message from a married man? Nope. "

Well said...this is a swing site and many forget that...why would I change my preferences here?

Been on and off the the scene many years and in recent times I'm definitely finding people are using fab as a hook up site..not a swing/lifestyle one!

Cheating is very different to swinging...

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo


"Im single and can accommodate, just saying.

Shameless plugging... I approve "

working that social meadia

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Also it's not a sex site it's a swing site. Swinging is a lifestyle for many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only relationship we are interested in is ours.....and as our meets with singles are usually one offs their status is not important to us.....but if we meet a cpl and either one wants to meet separately then it has to be with everyone's knowledge.....but its all about choice..."

I agree ... it’s all about choice and should be up to each person what they do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok perhaps i should clarify my question. Its asked in relation to meeting as a couple and getting a "wont meet attached married guys" response (even when wants to meet couples listed on their profile). So it's rather contradictory. I am not advocating cheating or suggesting in any way that women should jump into bed with every guy on here. Its a genuine confusion as to why there are several profiles of straight single women who state, on their profile, that they are looking to meet couples and men but then state they wont meet married or attached guys? Which to me at least seems to be contradictory or is it some sort of code to meet certain types?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok perhaps i should clarify my question. Its asked in relation to meeting as a couple and getting a "wont meet attached married guys" response (even when wants to meet couples listed on their profile). So it's rather contradictory. I am not advocating cheating or suggesting in any way that women should jump into bed with every guy on here. Its a genuine confusion as to why there are several profiles of straight single women who state, on their profile, that they are looking to meet couples and men but then state they wont meet married or attached guys? Which to me at least seems to be contradictory or is it some sort of code to meet certain types?"

It's just their personal choice as to who they want to meet!! Some guys/ladies want married people, some don't!! I personally don't mind as I can't throw stones in the glass house!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok perhaps i should clarify my question. Its asked in relation to meeting as a couple and getting a "wont meet attached married guys" response (even when wants to meet couples listed on their profile). So it's rather contradictory. I am not advocating cheating or suggesting in any way that women should jump into bed with every guy on here. Its a genuine confusion as to why there are several profiles of straight single women who state, on their profile, that they are looking to meet couples and men but then state they wont meet married or attached guys? Which to me at least seems to be contradictory or is it some sort of code to meet certain types?"

This is fabswingers. Profiles make no sense and women can be as demanding as they want. I've seen a profile from a straight woman who will not meet straight men, they have to have sex with other men for her to meet them. What sort of preference is that? Even though it makes no sense to me it's still their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok perhaps i should clarify my question. Its asked in relation to meeting as a couple and getting a "wont meet attached married guys" response (even when wants to meet couples listed on their profile). So it's rather contradictory. I am not advocating cheating or suggesting in any way that women should jump into bed with every guy on here. Its a genuine confusion as to why there are several profiles of straight single women who state, on their profile, that they are looking to meet couples and men but then state they wont meet married or attached guys? Which to me at least seems to be contradictory or is it some sort of code to meet certain types?

This is fabswingers. Profiles make no sense and women can be as demanding as they want. I've seen a profile from a straight woman who will not meet straight men, they have to have sex with other men for her to meet them. What sort of preference is that? Even though it makes no sense to me it's still their choice. "

I assume she is looking for a bi mmf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok perhaps i should clarify my question. Its asked in relation to meeting as a couple and getting a "wont meet attached married guys" response (even when wants to meet couples listed on their profile). So it's rather contradictory. I am not advocating cheating or suggesting in any way that women should jump into bed with every guy on here. Its a genuine confusion as to why there are several profiles of straight single women who state, on their profile, that they are looking to meet couples and men but then state they wont meet married or attached guys? Which to me at least seems to be contradictory or is it some sort of code to meet certain types?"

Maybe they’ll meet married men only when together with the wife but not one on one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok perhaps i should clarify my question. Its asked in relation to meeting as a couple and getting a "wont meet attached married guys" response (even when wants to meet couples listed on their profile). So it's rather contradictory. I am not advocating cheating or suggesting in any way that women should jump into bed with every guy on here. Its a genuine confusion as to why there are several profiles of straight single women who state, on their profile, that they are looking to meet couples and men but then state they wont meet married or attached guys? Which to me at least seems to be contradictory or is it some sort of code to meet certain types?

This is fabswingers. Profiles make no sense and women can be as demanding as they want. I've seen a profile from a straight woman who will not meet straight men, they have to have sex with other men for her to meet them. What sort of preference is that? Even though it makes no sense to me it's still their choice.

I assume she is looking for a bi mmf?"

Possible but her profile reads as if she just thinks straight people are not for her in general while being straight herself. Anyway I shouldn't say much more as its not fair.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Ok perhaps i should clarify my question. Its asked in relation to meeting as a couple and getting a "wont meet attached married guys" response (even when wants to meet couples listed on their profile). So it's rather contradictory. I am not advocating cheating or suggesting in any way that women should jump into bed with every guy on here. Its a genuine confusion as to why there are several profiles of straight single women who state, on their profile, that they are looking to meet couples and men but then state they wont meet married or attached guys? Which to me at least seems to be contradictory or is it some sort of code to meet certain types?"

I clearly state on my profile I don't meet married/attached people playing solo...I of course meet people/part of a couple..meeting with their partners consent (something I always check before meeting) I have many friends that are couples and they play separately.

People meeting with their partners consent is VERY different to meeting without their consent or knowledge...not contradictory at all.

Again it's my preference...but might explain to you the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people feel that they have a right to high light it when ever someone is not inside their moral bounderies....instead of saying nothing and moving on,a cutting remark ........its no good to anyone is all im saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok perhaps i should clarify my question. Its asked in relation to meeting as a couple and getting a "wont meet attached married guys" response (even when wants to meet couples listed on their profile). So it's rather contradictory. I am not advocating cheating or suggesting in any way that women should jump into bed with every guy on here. Its a genuine confusion as to why there are several profiles of straight single women who state, on their profile, that they are looking to meet couples and men but then state they wont meet married or attached guys? Which to me at least seems to be contradictory or is it some sort of code to meet certain types?

I clearly state on my profile I don't meet married/attached people playing solo...I of course meet people/part of a couple..meeting with their partners consent (something I always check before meeting) I have many friends that are couples and they play separately.

People meeting with their partners consent is VERY different to meeting without their consent or knowledge...not contradictory at all.

Again it's my preference...but might explain to you the difference."

Yeah makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people feel that they have a right to high light it when ever someone is not inside their moral bounderies....instead of saying nothing and moving on,a cutting remark ........its no good to anyone is all im saying"

Sorry but i still dont fully understand what you mean.

Are you talking about people giving their opinion on the oublic forums?

Everyone is never going to agree but it would be a very boring place if we all said nothing unless we are agreeing with a point

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By *mi_Chew_KokWoman
over a year ago

DARK SOCIETY


"I have zero interest in being complicit in another person’s deceit. "

Can’t agree more

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Also it's not a sex site it's a swing site. Swinging is a lifestyle for many "

Lol, of course it's a sex site, don't delude yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also it's not a sex site it's a swing site. Swinging is a lifestyle for many

Lol, of course it's a sex site, don't delude yourself "

You not pulling xmas crackers today doghunter, your certainly not pulling your punches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok perhaps i should clarify my question. Its asked in relation to meeting as a couple and getting a "wont meet attached married guys" response (even when wants to meet couples listed on their profile). So it's rather contradictory. I am not advocating cheating or suggesting in any way that women should jump into bed with every guy on here. Its a genuine confusion as to why there are several profiles of straight single women who state, on their profile, that they are looking to meet couples and men but then state they wont meet married or attached guys? Which to me at least seems to be contradictory or is it some sort of code to meet certain types?"

Well, im a single woman and have stated in my profile that i wont meet attatched guys or women UNLESS their partner knows about it.

My main reason for that is, i just don't want to be the bitch that ruins another persons relationship

I have zero problems meeting one half of a couple as long as the other half has talked to me first and given the ok

To me swinging is a fun way of trying new things without the worry of 'feels' getting in the way.

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By *umPlay69Couple
over a year ago

Near Dungannon


"Just because u are on a swingers site does not mean u cannot have standards or morals some people do not want the hassle of meeting attached people which is their choice "

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

I guess because with marri3d or attached guys comes the potential of drama and most people here wanting discretion it's not a good mix plus someone is being hurt/cheated on which we wouldn't want to be complicit in

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

Have come across a few profiles of "single" girls and when reading said profile you they are attached but hubbie knows nothing but never a negative post about them,

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By *uliacWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Feel free to start one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer to meet a man from a couple where I can speak to the wife/girlfriend for consent, than meet someone who is cheating.

I tried thinking that all men are single, but that didn't work for me.

I've had the 'are you sleeping with my husband?' message. I wasn't but that was not pleasant. I don't want that again.

Apart from the moral side, attached men come with too many restrictions that means they're no longer worth the hassle.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I use to meet a lady a very hot young lady but she use to scare the shit out of me . She would arrange to meet me but then ring me saying her bf was following her . He was a big Russian bf . She eventually left him and wanted me to run off to England with her . I was very tempted.

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare


"I would prefer to meet a man from a couple where I can speak to the wife/girlfriend for consent, than meet someone who is cheating.

I tried thinking that all men are single, but that didn't work for me.

I've had the 'are you sleeping with my husband?' message. I wasn't but that was not pleasant. I don't want that again.

Apart from the moral side, attached men come with too many restrictions that means they're no longer worth the hassle."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Becase the idea of swinging is that the persons partner at least knows about the play or are involved in it.

Swinging is not about cheating, strange that a couple in here do not understand the difference.

Now of people want to playaway and others are happy to meet them then happy days. But people that think swingers should have a higher tolerence for cheating IMO dont actually understand the dynamics of it

"

And yet they are happy to meet single females playing away from home, double standards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Becase the idea of swinging is that the persons partner at least knows about the play or are involved in it.

Swinging is not about cheating, strange that a couple in here do not understand the difference.

Now of people want to playaway and others are happy to meet them then happy days. But people that think swingers should have a higher tolerence for cheating IMO dont actually understand the dynamics of it

And yet they are happy to meet single females playing away from home, double standards?"

Who is they?

Where did anyone say they wouldnt meet men playing away and they would meet women?

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Have come across a few profiles of "single" girls and when reading said profile you they are attached but hubbie knows nothing but never a negative post about them, "

Doesn't matter if the person is male or female they are still attached..why treat them any different if they female?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The issue here for me is.....the expression ...if people just stayed quite and moved on instead of explaining the rights and wrongs.....example...someone having sex with out condoms....none of my business,not for me and I wont be givening them a telling off as if im a doctor

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare


"Have come across a few profiles of "single" girls and when reading said profile you they are attached but hubbie knows nothing but never a negative post about them,

Doesn't matter if the person is male or female they are still attached..why treat them any different if they female?"

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"I guess because with marri3d or attached guys comes the potential of drama and most people here wanting discretion it's not a good mix plus someone is being hurt/cheated on which we wouldn't want to be complicit in"

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By *otstuff42Man
over a year ago

country

Right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it’s respect if married and doesn’t respect wife or husband enough to be honest what respect would we be shown?

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By *ixpackCouple
over a year ago

South


"So i have a question....why do so many women (especially single women) state in their profile that they won't meet married or attached guys, since its a swinging site rather than a dating site aren't most on here married or attached? Wouldnt they have better luck using a dating site?"

I think they mean guys playing without partners consent or knowledge.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Well for us that ain't an issue as we don't meet men alone single or married . Only meet couple's or single ladies .

But the lady was cheating on someone then we wouldn't knowingly meet her.

Si

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also it's not a sex site it's a swing site. Swinging is a lifestyle for many

Lol, of course it's a sex site, don't delude yourself "

Of course it's a sex site, anyone who thinks otherwise is delusional or in denial. There may be a 'swingers' element to it but by and large it's either single or married guys looking for sex. I've been on and off here for a number of years with different usernames. My profile states quite clearly what I'm about, and I've chatted to quite a few 'married' ladies who's partner has no idea they are on here, and want to keep it that way. Generally speaking, they simply want to meet men in similar situations to themselves.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Its not just a sex site though, it is for some absolutely but for a lot of people its about socialising and meeting people and being free to do or wear what you like without being judged.

Well thats what it is for us

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Swinging has more to it than just fucking and is known as a lifestyle yes lots of people just use fab as a sex site or somewhere to get a quick ride but lots of people don't. For me it's more than just getting my dick wet I can do that in my local pub.

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By *orcouplesMan
over a year ago

everywhere

I’ve been on this site a few times and have met loads of fun easy going people and be it swingers or sex site of I know of fuck buddies who are married to other people having fun on fab .... I know of single ladies and men having affairs with the male or female part of a couple and always the single person has on their profile no attached or married so I guess what I’ve experienced is once a cheater always a cheater not a thing you can do !!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Life style or not, it's a sex site specifically aimed at swingers. Nothing wrong with being on a sex site, most on here love sex and the fun that comes with it. That's why we're here. Why do we try to wrap it up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Becase the idea of swinging is that the persons partner at least knows about the play or are involved in it.

Swinging is not about cheating, strange that a couple in here do not understand the difference.

Now of people want to playaway and others are happy to meet them then happy days. But people that think swingers should have a higher tolerence for cheating IMO dont actually understand the dynamics of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Why do we try to wrap it up? "

To prevent STI's

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