FabSwingers.com forum: Look after yourselves

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There are going to be people over the Christmas that genuinely are alone and this includes some people that are on this site so it's important to know there's help available over Christmas for anyone in distress.ive included this info below.

Also the next time you see someone deliberately been picked on, made feel like shit or simply bullied on here (have observed this many times) don't let it go, stand up for your fellow man or woman and basically act like a decent human being.

Hope everyone has a happy and most of all safe Christmas.

Ps please feel free to add additional information about other supports in the comments.

Samaritans 116 123 or email jo@samaritans.ie

Aware 1800 80 48 48 (depression, anxiety)

Pieta House 1800 247 247 or email mary@pieta.ie (suicide, self-harm)

Teen-Line Ireland 1800 833 634 (for ages 13 to 19)

Childline 1800 66 66 66 (for under 18s)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done OP.

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By *ipmannMan
over a year ago

Cahir

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By *ipmannMan
over a year ago

Cahir

"There are going to be people over the Christmas that genuinely are alone and this includes some people that are on this site so it's important to know there's help available over Christmas for anyone in distress.ive included this info below.

Hope everyone has a happy and most of all safe Christmas.

Ps please feel free to add additional information about other supports in the comments.

Samaritans 116 123 or email jo@samaritans.ie

Aware 1800 80 48 48 (depression, anxiety)

Pieta House 1800 247 247 or email mary@pieta.ie (suicide, self-harm)

Teen-Line Ireland 1800 833 634 (for ages 13 to 19)

Childline 1800 66 66 66 (for under 18s) "

Excellent post

Safe Christmas to all

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

This should be top of the forum

There is help there please access it

Well done op

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Enjoy what you have.who knows who wont be here next year.I have friends who are spending xmas alone having lost someone dear to them during the year.Appreciate everything good. What theyd give to spend another xmas with their loved ones. Peace and love to all x

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

I spend the day on my own and I'm happy about it. Fire and a good movie ... what more could you want x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play OP

Fragile time of the year for a lot of people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very thoughtful post.

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

No words..... xxx

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

Well posted op

But I find personally that this site can be trying on mental health at times as can all social media.... Sometimes I switch off and go for a long hike

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

..Take a chair @ the top of the class Op well put togeather, even if it helps Just one.

Well done

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the nice words however more importantly showing anyone in distress reading this that there are good people here

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Merry depressionmass and a desperate new year

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By *e r usCouple
over a year ago

derry

For all in the north also Lifeline

For anyone feeling suicidal or depressed number is 08088088000. Is a really good service..

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

And remember, not all White Knights are just hoping for a ride. They've already got one

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By *oldenFingersMan
over a year ago

Fairview

indeed. If your feeling down talk to someone. Well said OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For all in the north also Lifeline

For anyone feeling suicidal or depressed number is 08088088000. Is a really good service.."

Excellent thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great post xx

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Well done op.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe keep bumping post every few hours....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Well said buddy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bump

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"Bump"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice OP..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being trough it and all I can say it's so so hard to fight your own brain. But guys It can be done just keep going force yourself to get up everyday and it will get better and one day you will realise how strong you are. God bless you all x hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas is just another day. In fact if you are alone - better spend it alone doing your own thing.

I'm going to paint a painting tomorrow.

Tonight I'm deep cleaning my house.

Our minds are our own enemies - better keep them pre occupied with enough distractions for them not to knock us over from the main path.

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By *adylover321Man
over a year ago

navan

"Very thoughtful post. "
sorry beautiful

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

Non religious guy , got invited to mass long story in templeloge and wondered how many swingers were kneeling there to , prayers for fun , hard to imagine no pun intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning all. Deep breaths folks few hours it will be all over. Advise to anyone feeling low avoid social media for next few hours. Stick some music on and dance around your house keep busy. Thankfully I'm working so will keep my mind off the loneliness xxx

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"Morning all. Deep breaths folks few hours it will be all over. Advise to anyone feeling low avoid social media for next few hours. Stick some music on and dance around your house keep busy. Thankfully I'm working so will keep my mind off the loneliness xxx "

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

And again bump

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By *ardandmeanMan
over a year ago

carlow

Nice Post OP

There is a spare place at my table today or for the next week for anyone that needs it and all the food and drink you want, no questions asked......

Christmas for some is a terrible time to be alone

Merry Christmas to one and all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope everyone has a happy and most of all safe Christmas.

Ps please feel free to add additional information about other supports in the comments.

Samaritans 116 123 or email jo@samaritans.ie

Aware 1800 80 48 48 (depression, anxiety)

Pieta House 1800 247 247 or email mary@pieta.ie (suicide, self-harm)

Teen-Line Ireland 1800 833 634 (for ages 13 to 19)

Childline 1800 66 66 66 (for under 18s) "

Thanks op exactly what I needed to read. I was not only dumped 4 days ago but also made homeless. so really appreciated this post today as I have no one n no where to go.. glad to see there is a few genuine ppl left on this site n no I'm not trolling or attention seeking before ppl jump on me I'm just saying this has really helped. Thank you op x merry Christmas all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear your plight i will be home around 8 from the rds if u need a room for the night lots of food in the house can chat or leave u in peace i live on the wexford carlow border

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks I appreciate it but I don't like to impose on anyone I'll be okay but them numbers have given me someone to talk to.. thanks a lot tho. Xx Minnie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks I appreciate it but I don't like to impose on anyone I'll be okay but them numbers have given me someone to talk to.. thanks a lot tho. Xx Minnie "

My offer still stands if u change your mind if u read my veries u will know i am genuine take care x

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

Hope everyone has a happy and most of all safe Christmas.

Ps please feel free to add additional information about other supports in the comments.

Samaritans 116 123 or email jo@samaritans.ie

Aware 1800 80 48 48 (depression, anxiety)

Pieta House 1800 247 247 or email mary@pieta.ie (suicide, self-harm)

Teen-Line Ireland 1800 833 634 (for ages 13 to 19)

Childline 1800 66 66 66 (for under 18s) "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for a the input and good will from people in this thread. I hope you are all having a safe Christmas. Best wishes to all of you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope everyone has a happy and most of all safe Christmas.

Ps please feel free to add additional information about other supports in the comments.

Samaritans 116 123 or email jo@samaritans.ie

Aware 1800 80 48 48 (depression, anxiety)

Pieta House 1800 247 247 or email mary@pieta.ie (suicide, self-harm)

Teen-Line Ireland 1800 833 634 (for ages 13 to 19)

Childline 1800 66 66 66 (for under 18s)

Bumping again

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

And again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas is just another holiday that highlights my singleness. I like my own company but I stay away from social media because that shit would bring ya down!

My friend msgd & said she hoped I got woken up with coffee & breakfast in bed, like she did...I replied with an eyeroll...she knows I'm single.

So if anyone fancies waking me up with breakfast, I don't like coffee. Tea with a splash of milk, no sugar.

Show yourself out after, please & thank you.

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"Christmas is just another holiday that highlights my singleness. I like my own company but I stay away from social media because that shit would bring ya down!

My friend msgd & said she hoped I got woken up with coffee & breakfast in bed, like she did...I replied with an eyeroll...she knows I'm single.

So if anyone fancies waking me up with breakfast, I don't like coffee. Tea with a splash of milk, no sugar.

Show yourself out after, please & thank you."

I wouldnt mind doing that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Christmas is just another holiday that highlights my singleness. I like my own company but I stay away from social media because that shit would bring ya down!

My friend msgd & said she hoped I got woken up with coffee & breakfast in bed, like she did...I replied with an eyeroll...she knows I'm single.

So if anyone fancies waking me up with breakfast, I don't like coffee. Tea with a splash of milk, no sugar.

Show yourself out after, please & thank you.

I wouldnt mind doing that...

No eggs please.

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"Christmas is just another holiday that highlights my singleness. I like my own company but I stay away from social media because that shit would bring ya down!

My friend msgd & said she hoped I got woken up with coffee & breakfast in bed, like she did...I replied with an eyeroll...she knows I'm single.

So if anyone fancies waking me up with breakfast, I don't like coffee. Tea with a splash of milk, no sugar.

Show yourself out after, please & thank you.

I wouldnt mind doing that...

No eggs please."

Brown or white toast??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Christmas is just another holiday that highlights my singleness. I like my own company but I stay away from social media because that shit would bring ya down!

My friend msgd & said she hoped I got woken up with coffee & breakfast in bed, like she did...I replied with an eyeroll...she knows I'm single.

So if anyone fancies waking me up with breakfast, I don't like coffee. Tea with a splash of milk, no sugar.

Show yourself out after, please & thank you."

Gotta love them friends had one or two of them myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Christmas is just another holiday that highlights my singleness. I like my own company but I stay away from social media because that shit would bring ya down!

My friend msgd & said she hoped I got woken up with coffee & breakfast in bed, like she did...I replied with an eyeroll...she knows I'm single.

So if anyone fancies waking me up with breakfast, I don't like coffee. Tea with a splash of milk, no sugar.

Show yourself out after, please & thank you.

Gotta love them friends had one or two of them myself. "

Careless comments can be dangerous. She's happy, so I resisted the urge to bite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bump.

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By *otstuff42Man
over a year ago

country

Right

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By *otstuff42Man
over a year ago

country

Sad soccer shits

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sad soccer shits"

Guys take the pointless posts elsewhere. Countless other threads for you to pointlessly comment on. Happy Xmas

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo

If any feels low oer the festive period theres lots of help out there. you just have to google it and dial a number. Happy christmas everyone.

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Bump

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bump. Unfortunately the next couple of days has statistically some of the highest rates of suicide in Ireland. There is help out there.

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Bump. Unfortunately the next couple of days has statistically some of the highest rates of suicide in Ireland. There is help out there.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Bump

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bump"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope everyone has a happy and most of all safe Christmas.

Ps please feel free to add additional information about other supports in the comments.

Samaritans 116 123 or email jo@samaritans.ie

Aware 1800 80 48 48 (depression, anxiety)

Pieta House 1800 247 247 or email mary@pieta.ie (suicide, self-harm)

Teen-Line Ireland 1800 833 634 (for ages 13 to 19)

Childline 1800 66 66 66 (for under 18s) "

Just bumping this thread again. Today and tomorrow can definitely take it's toll on people so don't be afraid to reach out if you need to talk to someone.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Bumping this again. Xx

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Great post OP.

It's nice to be nice you don't know what people are going through.

Happy New Year everyone here's to a healthy and happy 2019.

Beja xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Great post OP.

It's nice to be nice you don't know what people are going through.

Happy New Year everyone here's to a healthy and happy 2019.

Beja xx"

Lovely words thank you x

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By *nowy007Woman
over a year ago

Near Enough

I love this post, rings true for so many people, not just this time of year, so thank you and a very Happy New Year to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true, and let me add,

Be nice to everyone, you never know the day you might need their help.

Happy New year,

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Happy New Year OP. Best thread of 2018.

Keep bumping peeps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bumping again.

Happy New year's. It's ok to not be okay. And for anyone sitting in alone thinking you are the only one your not. I've just had a bath, having some cheese and crackers and some 7up living the high life. And I'm alone.

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Bump for anyone who isnt feeling the love tonight or tomorrow morninig.Its a new day and a new way.x

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Bump. Just in and read this. Sometimes we forget how lucky we are by just having great friends or being a friend or chatting to someone so chat away on here and at the least smile as you are being smiled at

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Bump. Just in and read this. Sometimes we forget how lucky we are by just having great friends or being a friend or chatting to someone so chat away on here and at the least smile as you are being smiled at

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Bump for anyone who isnt feeling the love tonight or tomorrow morninig.Its a new day and a new way.x"

Good one.

A new day and a new way

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Bump again

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