FabSwingers.com forum: Have you a fab persona?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you the same on here as in real life? Personality-wise I’m very much myself here. I don’t have a fab persona other than I am more open I guess about sex and sexuality than I am in real life (for obvious reasons) but my humour, views and no BS attitude to life is the same but I wonder is that the norm or are people different here?

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

I think the cheekier, bolder and definitely the sarcastic side

of me comes out through my Fab persona...

Also, my day to day attire is slightly different too!

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By *otstuff42Man
over a year ago

country

Defo not the same in whereas real life, more reserved

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

More of a George Clooney type in real life whereas in fab I tone it down and pretend to be a geek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty much me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emma is my alter (sexier) ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very different here. Not out at all as gay in real life. Here I can say gay stuff. Feels a bit odd sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nicer in real life!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Pretty much the same in or out of Fab. Obviously I wouldn't have quite the same conversations outside of Fab, other than with similarly enlightened folk, who can discuss sex as easily as the price of milk. They're a rare find though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im myself .i dont alter my personalty for fab or people i meet off fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m just the same off here as I am on...

#funtimefuckingfrankie

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

I'm a bit more reserved here at the moment but im still finding my feet! In the real world I love a good laugh,a good slagging and I'm quite sarcastic at times. So I suppose my fab persona is different for now!! But give it time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even know if I have a persona. I'm Different with family as i am with friends and again with workmates and different again with partners. I'm many people in one. I just adapt to situations and groups so I'd say ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lot nicer in person. Still a bitchy sarcastic bastard but with added facial expressions so people actually know when I'm joking and how to take my humour.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm nicer in real life!

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Yeah,I'm definitely more outgoing on Fab! I'm the quiet one amongst my vanilla friends... if only they knew

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I'm a lot nicer in person. Still a bitchy sarcastic bastard but with added facial expressions so people actually know when I'm joking and how to take my humour.

Most of us get it regardless. Apart from the odd numpty who wouldn't know humour from a bucket of piss

Though putting a face to the wit would be a delight

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

What you see is what you get. Prefer to be myself than pretend to be someone or something I am not. Obviously online you can be a bit more direct and more confident and flirty from the start but better to smile and have others smile back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of my core traits are same. Possibly more confident, definitely sexually liberated on fab which is difficult to be in small town Ireland.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whilst I am “me” here and in real life nobody in real life would ever for a moment think the “me” in real life would be here, if that makes sense?

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

"Whilst I am “me” here and in real life nobody in real life would ever for a moment think the “me” in real life would be here, if that makes sense?"
Totally....it's fun and exciting two experience two separate world's with different etiquettes and moral values as to what is normal and acceptable. It's sometimes quite liberating not to have to live up to expectations on your real life persona and just let your hair down and let the real you come to the fore without community imposed filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst I am “me” here and in real life nobody in real life would ever for a moment think the “me” in real life would be here, if that makes sense?"
...Totally!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whilst I am “me” here and in real life nobody in real life would ever for a moment think the “me” in real life would be here, if that makes sense? Totally....it's fun and exciting two experience two separate world's with different etiquettes and moral values as to what is normal and acceptable. It's sometimes quite liberating not to have to live up to expectations on your real life persona and just let your hair down and let the real you come to the fore without community imposed filters."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, this is me, take it or leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much the same on or off Fab. Obviously on Fab I’m more free speaking about my sexuality with like minded people who understand and generally don’t judge

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Whilst I am “me” here and in real life nobody in real life would ever for a moment think the “me” in real life would be here, if that makes sense?"

This is probably a better description, my vanilla friends would be quite surprised I’d say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely different person on here than in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothkng drastically different about me between here and real life.

I do think we all have subtle changes to our persona for all of our different roles in life though.

Work me is slightly different to me with my family. I am then a little different around my friends etc....

Its only natural to have a little bit of a difference on Fab when you take that into account

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

Shy in public, go figure, on here its fine but in a pub, you can flash as many eyes and thighs and pussies as you like I couldn’t say hello.... now if you said hi thats another matter....id be in those panties in a shot..... bloody brain!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'm actually quite a nice person in real

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Just me

I don’t dress things up

I can be blunt, but generally try to keep my humour in whatever I do

Let’s face it, I need a sense of humour looking like this

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I'm the same. If I wouldnt say or do something offline then I wouldnt say or do it here.

So I am more reserved on here than a lot of people seem to be, wont just meet cause someone wants sex etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly not

I am exactly the same off here as on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst I am “me” here and in real life nobody in real life would ever for a moment think the “me” in real life would be here, if that makes sense?

This is probably a better description, my vanilla friends would be quite surprised I’d say "

Ditto. My real life friends would think I am too innocent to be on here.

Which I am of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol mine would just think I’m too boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't change. Same nó bullshit approach. What you see is what you get and no false promises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exact same on and off here I think. I don't think anyone would be surprised I was on here at all (forever saying something inappropriate around vanilla people

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By *inearbysayhiWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I think any online website gives us a chance to be different than our real selves, and if anyone was putting on a personality/show they probably wouldn't say it

I'm awfully shy in person, tbh. But then, I think I cant hide that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exact same on and off here I think. I don't think anyone would be surprised I was on here at all (forever saying something inappropriate around vanilla people

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Haha this is me too

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

"Are you the same on here as in real life? Personality-wise I’m very much myself here. I don’t have a fab persona other than I am more open I guess about sex and sexuality than I am in real life (for obvious reasons) but my humour, views and no BS attitude to life is the same but I wonder is that the norm or are people different here?"
Interesting question. I'm much more open about my sexuality and preferences with my friends. Here on Fab, I'm more reticent, maybe because I don't know you personally, a matter of trust, I suppose. I'm part of a sex positive community, so talking openly about my kinks, fetishes, and plain old desires is normal to me. So, what you see here is the more reserved side of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much more open and confident on fab about what I want etc.... in real life far more reserved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr per is far grumpier on here than real life I'm just same

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I am a quiet shg unassuming guy off here on here i am a Bit of mouth honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly! Thank you!

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By *hadowcookieCouple
over a year ago

Portlaoise

Here I can comment on sexy young men.. In real life I'd be look on as weird cos I'm a cougar!! Trouble is I keep forgetting to keep my mouth shut....

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Im me with more sarcasm. I tend to keep that side of me a bit quieter in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what you see & chat to is what you get ...although possibly a bit more reserved in vanilla company

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

Im a lot quieter on here than real life. But pretty much still me

Ur more likely to miss me on here lol

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