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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a ladies only party on this weekend in the Vanilla club might be interested in it’s stricktly no men

As for men just use filters x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've really been considering attending!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block them, save ypurself the stress and us another thread about it

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."

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Op, you do realise that after this thread, you're going to get a fecking avalanche of messages from single guys here!!!

Remember "Don't feed the monkeys"

don't even make eye contact

...& if all else fails, there's the "no single guys" filter button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aint the only one who gets bombarded with messeges from guys hahaha. Not sure of what part of the word straight they dont get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging.

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Op, you do realise that after this thread, you're going to get a fecking avalanche of messages from single guys here!!!

Remember "Don't feed the monkeys"

don't even make eye contact

...& if all else fails, there's the "no single guys" filter button

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Are you one of the monkey's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."

We do something similar,clearly says guys don't contact us,we will contact you if needed.

Too many don't take heed.

When they do we make a note on the private note facility so as when we are looking a guy we know who not to contact.

If they can't respect a few lines on our profile,what respect are they likely to have should we make the mistake of meeting them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yesss! This is exactly what I said! 0 chance of us ever meeting them now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok precious....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure just filter them. That makes sense doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure just filter them. That makes sense doesn't it?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging.

We do something similar,clearly says guys don't contact us,we will contact you if needed.

Too many don't take heed.

When they do we make a note on the private note facility so as when we are looking a guy we know who not to contact.

If they can't respect a few lines on our profile,what respect are they likely to have should we make the mistake of meeting them

I had a simular note for couples with that kind of wording on their profiles when I was meeting couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."

I have it three times in my profile don't message if you are married or attached. It's just not for me. But I still get the "can I be the exception to the rule" message constantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s a ladies only party on this weekend in the Vanilla club might be interested in it’s stricktly no men

As for men just use filters x "

Boooooo

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo

as a single guy i look at your profile bot many guys don't bother reading them. Ya can change your filters to stop single men messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have brains some Don’t god help them... you should pitty them as they can’t read lol

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."

I've read your profile and promise not to message you. So feel free to contact me IF you look for men in the future. Just sayin'.....

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Use your filters ,saves both them and you time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."

I'd say block them but then the profile goes silent and its pretty boring and you end up on the forum moaning!!

Profile that have no interest in men but still allow them to mail smells like attention "I need to know my bolt ons are working"

but no man will ever touch them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging.

I'd say block them but then the profile goes silent and its pretty boring and you end up on the forum moaning!!

Profile that have no interest in men but still allow them to mail smells like attention "I need to know my bolt ons are working"

but no man will ever touch them

Push me pull you syndrome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."

It is because you didn't set/block them on your profile message settings

Do you need help to set it up? Or have you done already?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Omg the idiots risking a future chance at meeting you.

I'm so glad I didn't message you before and am still in contention for a future meet at some point when you chose to maybe meet..

el oh el

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Type this as after Dot com:

/my/filters

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aww you feel better? Need a hug?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because what some people write on their profile isn't always the truth. They need to be taken with a pinch of salt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think writing 'no men' in capital letters is pretty clear dont you think?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Not sure I understand. If you've had Not Looking for Single Guys option selected, since you joined, then only couples/women/trans could contact you in any way.

All single guys can do is Fan your pics, which I also have.

Is that your issue? Single Guys Fabbing your pics? Or is it someh6people getting through your filters?

If it's the latter, I'd complain to Admin.

If it's the former - snowflake alert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own "

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

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Send me there profile names lol

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

Send me there profile names lol"

Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

Send me there profile names lol

Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight"

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promise I won't tell anyone

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

Send me there profile names lol

Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight"

promise I won't tell anyone "

I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.

Oooohh! You might get back in

Joking! You aren't on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

Send me there profile names lol

Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight"

promise I won't tell anyone

I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.

Oooohh! You might get back in

Joking! You aren't on it

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thats the Christmas spirit lol

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

Send me there profile names lol

Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight"

promise I won't tell anyone

I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.

Oooohh! You might get back in

Joking! You aren't on it

thats the Christmas spirit lol"

Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

Send me there profile names lol

Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight"

promise I won't tell anyone

I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.

Oooohh! You might get back in

Joking! You aren't on it

thats the Christmas spirit lol

Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu

"
ive swing flu I'm very needy

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

Send me there profile names lol

Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight"

promise I won't tell anyone

I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.

Oooohh! You might get back in

Joking! You aren't on it

thats the Christmas spirit lol

Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu

ive swing flu I'm very needy "

Whilst I'd absolutely love to "swing by" you don't want this dripping nose and tired body anywhere near you. It'd be no use for anything other than milking or pegging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

Send me there profile names lol

Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight"

promise I won't tell anyone

I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.

Oooohh! You might get back in

Joking! You aren't on it

thats the Christmas spirit lol

Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu

ive swing flu I'm very needy

Whilst I'd absolutely love to "swing by" you don't want this dripping nose and tired body anywhere near you. It'd be no use for anything other than milking or pegging

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please cum peg out the clothes lol

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

Send me there profile names lol

Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight"

promise I won't tell anyone

I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.

Oooohh! You might get back in

Joking! You aren't on it

thats the Christmas spirit lol

Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu

ive swing flu I'm very needy

Whilst I'd absolutely love to "swing by" you don't want this dripping nose and tired body anywhere near you. It'd be no use for anything other than milking or pegging

please cum peg out the clothes lol"

Its the only pegging I'm fit for at the moment

Although I suppose I could just lie there and take it

What was the purpose of the thread again? I'm delirious/d*unk/unsure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

Send me there profile names lol

Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight"

promise I won't tell anyone

I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.

Oooohh! You might get back in

Joking! You aren't on it

thats the Christmas spirit lol

Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu

ive swing flu I'm very needy

Whilst I'd absolutely love to "swing by" you don't want this dripping nose and tired body anywhere near you. It'd be no use for anything other than milking or pegging

please cum peg out the clothes lol

Its the only pegging I'm fit for at the moment

Although I suppose I could just lie there and take it

What was the purpose of the thread again? I'm delirious/d*unk/unsure

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im unsure myself lol think if you're a single guy don't message just saying

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own

I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to

Send me there profile names lol

Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight"

promise I won't tell anyone

I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.

Oooohh! You might get back in

Joking! You aren't on it

thats the Christmas spirit lol

Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu

ive swing flu I'm very needy

Whilst I'd absolutely love to "swing by" you don't want this dripping nose and tired body anywhere near you. It'd be no use for anything other than milking or pegging

please cum peg out the clothes lol

Its the only pegging I'm fit for at the moment

Although I suppose I could just lie there and take it

What was the purpose of the thread again? I'm delirious/d*unk/unsure

im unsure myself lol think if you're a single guy don't message just saying "

Yes, indeed. I refer back to my original post.

Hey, all I did was Fab the pics of the sexy lady. I see no harm in that

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."
you know you can set your account that single men can’t make contact ? Go into settings xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Huh? I never mentioned anything about fabbing pictures being wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely by now you realize guys with a hard-on cannot read ... typing with one hand is challange enough ... just block & move on

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By *lightlySamMan
over a year ago

gorey

I can honestly say I have never messaged a lady or a couple unless there profile matches mine. Simple manners to respect people's wishes. It also only takes a few seconds to read a profile, and that's the whole point of a profile, is to let people know what your interests or lack of interests are. But that's just me.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."

Use the filters and then they can't message you to begin with. Then you can look for the men's profiles who catch your interest.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes! If there was less ifs and buts the same would be confused ?? it's only people ifs that get people reading and annotating then you would not get feedback from said

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging.

I have it three times in my profile don't message if you are married or attached. It's just not for me. But I still get the "can I be the exception to the rule" message constantly. "

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

Yes don't use filters and it's the ifs and buts on your profile, that brings on the people you don't want as they enjoy the fun times at your expense or experience, just enjoy ?? merry x

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Sure just filter them. That makes sense doesn't it?

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even straight guys get messages from guys , abeit not as many, they are only being human , I personally respect people wishes, but I still enjoy the read

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

Mmm is there such a thing as man heartburn ??????

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

Any nye fun in rathcoole or pubs to take lady friend something simple am a man after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think writing 'no men' in capital letters is pretty clear dont you think?"

No we see that as a challenge

although you are beautiful so take it as a compliment & ignore x

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By *otstuff42Man
over a year ago

country

u cant b getting messages from guys if u block messages from guys,simple, think its a way of them 2 get ppl to look at there profile, pure fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??

When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!

Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."

Some of the people (men mostly) won't read and it's a challenge for them and hoping for a luck

I just read the message, delete it. Have filters as well but time to time I have a pleasure to exchange messages with very interesting people, so maybe being more opened to others is a key?

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By *aider190Man
over a year ago

swords

So fake ...unbelievable

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