FabSwingers.com forum: New Year's Resolutions

By *ustin-Sider OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

I know it may seem a little early to be mentioning it but if we look at today's date, we are just over two weeks away from the New Year.

So now might be a good time to reflect on 2018 and consider what we would like to achieve in 2019.

So...... what are your New Year's Resolutions? Have any of you decided on any yet or still mulling it over?

I'll go first.

I plan to quit smoking and either cut out alcohol completely or cut way down. Also planning on gym few times each week and a LOT of long distance running as I have MAJOR plans regarding it.

Interested in hearing all yours.

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

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"I know it may seem a little early to be mentioning it but if we look at today's date, we are just over two weeks away from the New Year.

So now might be a good time to reflect on 2018 and consider what we would like to achieve in 2019.

So...... what are your New Year's Resolutions? Have any of you decided on any yet or still mulling it over?

I'll go first.

I plan to quit smoking and either cut out alcohol completely or cut way down. Also planning on gym few times each week and a LOT of long distance running as I have MAJOR plans regarding it.

Interested in hearing all yours.

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you might as well give up fab as well you're taking all the fun out of your life

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By *ustin-Sider OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *ustin-Sider OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"I know it may seem a little early to be mentioning it but if we look at today's date, we are just over two weeks away from the New Year.

So now might be a good time to reflect on 2018 and consider what we would like to achieve in 2019.

So...... what are your New Year's Resolutions? Have any of you decided on any yet or still mulling it over?

I'll go first.

I plan to quit smoking and either cut out alcohol completely or cut way down. Also planning on gym few times each week and a LOT of long distance running as I have MAJOR plans regarding it.

Interested in hearing all yours.

you might as well give up fab as well you're taking all the fun out of your life

Always plenty of fun to be had but for me to achieve my long term goals I have to make sacrifices and put in the work. A necessary evil. Lol.

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

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"I know it may seem a little early to be mentioning it but if we look at today's date, we are just over two weeks away from the New Year.

So now might be a good time to reflect on 2018 and consider what we would like to achieve in 2019.

So...... what are your New Year's Resolutions? Have any of you decided on any yet or still mulling it over?

I'll go first.

I plan to quit smoking and either cut out alcohol completely or cut way down. Also planning on gym few times each week and a LOT of long distance running as I have MAJOR plans regarding it.

Interested in hearing all yours.

you might as well give up fab as well you're taking all the fun out of your life

Always plenty of fun to be had but for me to achieve my long term goals I have to make sacrifices and put in the work. A necessary evil. Lol.

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good for you we have no will power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me

Stop stressing about people's opinions of me

Back training properly and get my 100kg deadlift

Enter a powerlifting competition

And finally try and actually find some fun on Fab

And one more go out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start a business and go to Fiji.

No rest for the wicked

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

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"Start a business and go to Fiji.

No rest for the wicked

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Fiji water is the closest we'll get

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By *ustin-Sider OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"I know it may seem a little early to be mentioning it but if we look at today's date, we are just over two weeks away from the New Year.

So now might be a good time to reflect on 2018 and consider what we would like to achieve in 2019.

So...... what are your New Year's Resolutions? Have any of you decided on any yet or still mulling it over?

I'll go first.

I plan to quit smoking and either cut out alcohol completely or cut way down. Also planning on gym few times each week and a LOT of long distance running as I have MAJOR plans regarding it.

Interested in hearing all yours.

you might as well give up fab as well you're taking all the fun out of your life

Always plenty of fun to be had but for me to achieve my long term goals I have to make sacrifices and put in the work. A necessary evil. Lol.

good for you we have no will power "

I'm not great with will power either but sometimes with the right inspiration and motivation things happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start a business and go to Fiji.

No rest for the wicked

Find a new business partner that likes Fiji

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By *ustin-Sider OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"For me

Stop stressing about people's opinions of me

Back training properly and get my 100kg deadlift

Enter a powerlifting competition

And finally try and actually find some fun on Fab

And one more go out more"

Never worry about what people think of you. Everything starts from within you. The only person you need to impress first and foremost is yourself. After that you can look to others.

Hope you get the powerlifting done and enter the competitions.

There is fun to be found on Fab but patience is key. Quality over quantity. Know your worth and never settle for less.

Yes, on your last point I'm inclined to feel the same. I'm very much an introvert and think I should get out more often too.

Thanks for your input.

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By *ustin-Sider OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"Start a business and go to Fiji.

No rest for the wicked

Yep, why not. I've ran businesses before myself. Have one ongoing and intend to start a new venture in the new year.

Nothing stopping you. People could say "Well, this is stopping me and that is stopping me..." etc.

Not true. All those things are just obstacles. The only thing stopping you is YOU.

If you really want it you will find a way and do it.

Go get it! Best wishes in achieving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work harder and play less

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

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"Work harder and play less"
ah stop another one trying to close down fab

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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Work hard to achieve my dreams .. have more sex

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By *ustin-Sider OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"Play harder and work less"

There, I fixed that for you.

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By *ustin-Sider OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"Work hard to achieve my dreams .. have more sex

Nothing stopping you achieving your dreams. Anything is possible if you put in the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Play harder and work less

There, I fixed that for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start a business and go to Fiji.

No rest for the wicked

Find a new business partner that likes Fiji

Already have a business partner. Not for me. I like being in full control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start a business and go to Fiji.

No rest for the wicked

Yep, why not. I've ran businesses before myself. Have one ongoing and intend to start a new venture in the new year.

Nothing stopping you. People could say "Well, this is stopping me and that is stopping me..." etc.

Not true. All those things are just obstacles. The only thing stopping you is YOU.

If you really want it you will find a way and do it.

Go get it! Best wishes in achieving it.

Shall we make next October ish time into some kind of deadline for checking each other's progress to add motivation?

Thank you for your kind words. Running other people's businesses is always a lot harder as there's always someone to answer to. Being your own boss is just too good... comes with a hefty price of having next to no time for social life ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start a business and go to Fiji.

No rest for the wicked

Yep, why not. I've ran businesses before myself. Have one ongoing and intend to start a new venture in the new year.

Nothing stopping you. People could say "Well, this is stopping me and that is stopping me..." etc.

Not true. All those things are just obstacles. The only thing stopping you is YOU.

If you really want it you will find a way and do it.

Go get it! Best wishes in achieving it.

Shall we make next October ish time into some kind of deadline for checking each other's progress to add motivation?

Well said, op your either stoned or positively mental, which can be a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start a business and go to Fiji.

No rest for the wicked

Yep, why not. I've ran businesses before myself. Have one ongoing and intend to start a new venture in the new year.

Nothing stopping you. People could say "Well, this is stopping me and that is stopping me..." etc.

Not true. All those things are just obstacles. The only thing stopping you is YOU.

If you really want it you will find a way and do it.

Go get it! Best wishes in achieving it.

Shall we make next October ish time into some kind of deadline for checking each other's progress to add motivation?

Well said, op your either stoned or positively mental, which can be a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little friendly advice. Don’t wait until January to go to the gym. Get up in the morning and just go. Don’t make a list and think about it just go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A little friendly advice. Don’t wait until January to go to the gym. Get up in the morning and just go. Don’t make a list and think about it just go. "

Great advice, our class has gone from 12 down to 4 since Dec 1st and awaiting the onrush from Jan. Luckily the PT keeps it very limited. But get out in the morning and do some exercise or sport you enjoy as its the only way to stick to it.

My own goals are finish my house, start writing again and just fucking book that trip to Argentina!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

With the season I dreaded those kinds of threads already. I will never understand why people make resolutions dor the new year, stick with them for a while and then it all goes belly up again. If you're serious about it you can do it any time of the year, at least that's my credo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nicer to people and maybe stop deleting emails without reading (who am I kidding lol)

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By *rossflow daveMan
over a year ago

Mullingar

For me it's the dreaded cigarettes , again

I'm actually embarrassed when I think of the money I'm wasting every day never mind the obvious health benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god I never smoked good luck in giving up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it's the dreaded cigarettes , again

I'm actually embarrassed when I think of the money I'm wasting every day never mind the obvious health benefits "

Have you tried the vaping? I went from a 10 box (when you could buy them) a day to a 20 box a day.

Tried some of the entry level vape pens but couldn't quite get away from the smokes.

Invested €60 in a decent vape mod and have never looked back. Went with the menthol flavour to get completely get away from tobacco.

That was 5 years ago on New year's day. I Vaped for 12 months reducing the nicotine mg and gave it up entirely on New year's 2015.

Smoke for 20 years. If I can do then anyone. Trust me.

Happy to help if I can. Feel free to dm me.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

"A little friendly advice. Don’t wait until January to go to the gym. Get up in the morning and just go. Don’t make a list and think about it just go. "
This exactly....you don't need a milestone like new years to make lifestyle changes and very few new years resolutions stick. Just make a little change to your life right now.

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By *ustin-Sider OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"Start a business and go to Fiji.

No rest for the wicked

Yep, why not. I've ran businesses before myself. Have one ongoing and intend to start a new venture in the new year.

Nothing stopping you. People could say "Well, this is stopping me and that is stopping me..." etc.

Not true. All those things are just obstacles. The only thing stopping you is YOU.

If you really want it you will find a way and do it.

Go get it! Best wishes in achieving it.

Shall we make next October ish time into some kind of deadline for checking each other's progress to add motivation?

Yes, let's do that. I'm hoping come this time next year you will be that successful we won't have time to talk to each other. And I reckon by my own plans I will not have the time either but if somewhere along the timeline I get to tap those bum cheeks then that will be a major bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a different job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to walk another section of the camino on my hols hope my house sells in the spring move to another area build a new house with an x fabber that was on here and enjoy life together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going to walk another section of the camino on my hols hope my house sells in the spring move to another area build a new house with an x fabber that was on here and enjoy life together "

Couple profile coming in 2019 so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going to walk another section of the camino on my hols hope my house sells in the spring move to another area build a new house with an x fabber that was on here and enjoy life together

Couple profile coming in 2019 so?"

We had one before so u never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a solution to chronic pain issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am hoping to reduce my working hours after nearly 3 years of what seems constant work. That will probably be out the window by Jan 2nd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find a solution to chronic pain issues

Thats coming shortly a trial done in tallaght hospital putting expanding foam between vertebrae will be my savour just waiting for the results from the 2 year trial

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Targets are good as Missus suggests, but why start in the middle of winter with dark nights and freezing temperatures?!?

Spring or autumn resolutions are far more likely to succeed

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By *rossflow daveMan
over a year ago

Mullingar

"For me it's the dreaded cigarettes , again

I'm actually embarrassed when I think of the money I'm wasting every day never mind the obvious health benefits

Have you tried the vaping? I went from a 10 box (when you could buy them) a day to a 20 box a day.

Tried some of the entry level vape pens but couldn't quite get away from the smokes.

Invested €60 in a decent vape mod and have never looked back. Went with the menthol flavour to get completely get away from tobacco.

That was 5 years ago on New year's day. I Vaped for 12 months reducing the nicotine mg and gave it up entirely on New year's 2015.

Smoke for 20 years. If I can do then anyone. Trust me.

Happy to help if I can. Feel free to dm me."

Thanks mate , I'm an all or nothing sort of guy so I'm booking a nice foreign holiday for 2020 and going to put the money I would spend on them at the beginning of each week away , a nice incentive to keep me motivated

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