FabSwingers.com forum: Relationship and living together

By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Spoke to a man lately who is divorced a number of years. Want a to get back into dating but says to me he would love to get into a relationship with a woman again but under no circumstances does he want a woman living with him full time. Can you see his point of view? Anyone here like a situation like that?

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By *amelman7823Man
over a year ago

Ashbourne

He is probably afraid they might take to cleaning the place or something like that. His issue with women is probably a timing thing

Most men live for the future, " i will bring out the bins" , " I will fill/empty the dishwasher, "I will do the laundry, or change my toothbrush"

In General most women live for the now...

ahem ..god help me

I do have a similar friend, she would like a man, but doesn't want him hanging round the house, unless he can fix things and walk the dog, even then, i think she would just like someone handy, not sure what you call them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally get this. I have spent a lot of years living on my own and don't think I could share a house again, but would like the companionship and regular sex that a 'relationship' could bring. Without all the other shite that goes with living together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is 100%

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Totally get this. I have spent a lot of years living on my own and don't think I could share a house again, but would like the companionship and regular sex that a 'relationship' could bring. Without all the other shite that goes with living together"
I think he loves his own company and can leave things fucked around the house and clean it when he wants without some body nagging at him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally get this. I have spent a lot of years living on my own and don't think I could share a house again, but would like the companionship and regular sex that a 'relationship' could bring. Without all the other shite that goes with living togetherI think he loves his own company and can leave things fucked around the house and clean it when he wants without some body nagging at him. "

Nothing wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This 150%. Have spent over the last year sharing with people because of work and never again. Have lived on my own for last 22 yes with my son (I know technically not alone) but hated every minute of sharing a house. I like my own space, like to listen and watch what I want, just be handy to have someone around every now And than.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't live together, makes us appreciate time spent together.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

If it was me I would really have to live together . It's not a proper relationship I think but that's me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The times we live in have changed relationships too. I work with several guys who live in a different country to their wives and children. They moved for the job and only see their family a few times a year, or some every weekend if not so far away.

They all seem very happy with the arrangement

Horses for courses

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

Man walks into toy shop wants to buy a barbie for his daughter

Sees a few in boxes then this massive Barbie box

Asks assistant what the massive Barbie box contains

Assistant says "thats divorced Barbie, with it comes Kens house Kens car Kens boat, furniture etc!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man walks into toy shop wants to buy a barbie for his daughter

Sees a few in boxes then this massive Barbie box

Asks assistant what the massive Barbie box contains

Assistant says "thats divorced Barbie, with it comes Kens house Kens car Kens boat, furniture etc!" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't think I could live full time with anyone, used to having my own personal space on the short term I don't mind but usually after a day I'm like when tf are they leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The times we live in have changed relationships too. I work with several guys who live in a different country to their wives and children. They moved for the job and only see their family a few times a year, or some every weekend if not so far away.

They all seem very happy with the arrangement

Horses for courses"

For the times they are a changing

songs in my head now!

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

I'm so happy doing my own thing, couldn't share my space with anyone . I like sleeping in my own bed too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a casual relationship with a cleaner would be ideal for most men on this post..

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Never say never !! I thought that too and we are now getting married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never say never !! I thought that too and we are now getting married

Getting married doesn't mean you have to live in the same house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a casual relationship with a cleaner would be ideal for most men on this post..

Or on the site in general judging by the background mess in some pics

Not that I mean any disrespect to cleaners, far from it

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

"Never say never !! I thought that too and we are now getting married

Getting married doesn't mean you have to live in the same house

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Haha don't be giving me ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living on my own at the moment but hopefully in the new year that will change i love to share and the company of a lady with the same outlook as myself on life so going to give it my all new house new neighbourhood

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By *arbiegirl19Woman
over a year ago

Hollymount

"Spoke to a man lately who is divorced a number of years. Want a to get back into dating but says to me he would love to get into a relationship with a woman again but under no circumstances does he want a woman living with him full time. Can you see his point of view? Anyone here like a situation like that?"

Was dating a guy for nearly two years after my marriage break up.... And I wouldn't be rushing into living with a man again... It was very easy going relationship... We spent weekends together ... And headed off on a few holidays together... I kept my family life separate to my relationship... And it was good while it lasted...

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By *rBakersMan
over a year ago

dublin/kildare/wicklow

I can really see this being a very popular option in time to come.

Imagine the housing problems then!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Fuck and then fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck and then fuck off

Not at all i like cuddling afterwards

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Fuck and then fuck off

Not at all i like cuddling afterwards

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awwweee.

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By *im tim timMan
over a year ago

sounds ok..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly don't think I could live full time with anyone, used to having my own personal space on the short term I don't mind but usually after a day I'm like when tf are they leaving

All this.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

My parents are separated for years, both have new partner, everyone has their own flat, none of the four would want to give up their own four walls. Works well.

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By *rinibooWoman
over a year ago

clare

I totally agree with him . Wanting his own space . If they got married that would be a different story . I think I’m this day and age it’s ok to be living apart and still have a relationship.

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By *un chickWoman
over a year ago

Fermanagh

I’m very happily married to a perv like myself but we only see each other 4 months during the year due to work, It’s been like this on and off half of the 15 years we are together. We enjoy and make the most of the months we do have together but we could as easily and have done, go back to living together full time. Everyone is different in their feeling on how a relationship should work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly don't think I could live full time with anyone, used to having my own personal space on the short term I don't mind but usually after a day I'm like when tf are they leaving

This is legit me.... spend time together do cute stuff. Then kindly bugger off pleaseeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly don't think I could live full time with anyone, used to having my own personal space on the short term I don't mind but usually after a day I'm like when tf are they leaving

All this."

I'm like that with family. Ok you've had ur cuppa u can feck.off now

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

What way would ye be Xmas day night? Stay on your own or go to some body elses?

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Happily married a long time...but if i was alone tomorrow no way would i live with anyone again and thats coming from a happy prospective....

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By *un chickWoman
over a year ago

Fermanagh

"What way would ye be Xmas day night? Stay on your own or go to some body elses?"

I’ve spent the last 4 Xmas on my own, I just head for sunshine and chill and ignore the silly season

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By *un chickWoman
over a year ago

Fermanagh

"I honestly don't think I could live full time with anyone, used to having my own personal space on the short term I don't mind but usually after a day I'm like when tf are they leaving

All this.

I'm like that with family. Ok you've had ur cuppa u can feck.off now

Lol I’m like that too with most ppl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What way would ye be Xmas day night? Stay on your own or go to some body elses?"

Christmas day is after all, just another day, if you are happy with your own company the rest of the year, why should it be different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What way would ye be Xmas day night? Stay on your own or go to some body elses?

Christmas day is after all, just another day, if you are happy with your own company the rest of the year, why should it be different? "

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By *im tim timMan
over a year ago

"Happily married a long time...but if i was alone tomorrow no way would i live with anyone again and thats coming from a happy prospective...."
i would be the same way as you on that..live seperate and have a fun relationship..

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

I see some people making a song and dance about people staying on their own at Xmas. I'm like, why? Maybe they like it/ want it that way. Some think you have to get into a group meal or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see some people making a song and dance about people staying on their own at Xmas. I'm like, why? Maybe they like it/ want it that way. Some think you have to get into a group meal or whatever. "

Totally agree. So far I only got to spend that day alone once and oh my it was a true blessing. Loved every minute of it.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Everyone off much over Xmas?

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"I see some people making a song and dance about people staying on their own at Xmas. I'm like, why? Maybe they like it/ want it that way. Some think you have to get into a group meal or whatever. "

I think it's because some make it a big deal. Pressurised into old traditions. Do what makes you happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone off much over Xmas?"

Normally I am just off for the 3 bank holidays, buy this year I'm taking my girls to London for 4 days on the 27th, can't imagine wasting my precious holiday leave to sit around at home in December.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Everyone off much over Xmas?

Normally I am just off for the 3 bank holidays, buy this year I'm taking my girls to London for 4 days on the 27th, can't imagine wasting my precious holiday leave to sit around at home in December.

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I'll come in the case. I can bundle up small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone off much over Xmas?

Normally I am just off for the 3 bank holidays, buy this year I'm taking my girls to London for 4 days on the 27th, can't imagine wasting my precious holiday leave to sit around at home in December.

I'll come in the case. I can bundle up small"

Sorry girls only

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Everyone off much over Xmas?

Normally I am just off for the 3 bank holidays, buy this year I'm taking my girls to London for 4 days on the 27th, can't imagine wasting my precious holiday leave to sit around at home in December.

I'll come in the case. I can bundle up small

Sorry girls only

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thanks

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