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By *ommando4 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

What preference do you have ? One off meets in the true spirit of NSA, 3 or 4 follow up meets or regular medium long term meets ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hands down regular

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Regular 100%

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

I like regularly

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By *hancer43Man
over a year ago

Ormesby

Regular would be my first thought, but often regular meets can leave one or more finding themselves with more then physical attraction, can get messy..

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By *m35279Woman
over a year ago

belfast

Depends on the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both can and have been great. Depends where those involved are at the time, situation etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers "

To me it's something like - having someone you can be open with and rely on for having a good time without having to report what you're doing, where you're going, when you'll be back, who you're with... someone who will not ask to spend all your waking time with them and mind their own business in between

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford

Depends on the person u are meeting, some people aren’t able to handle regular meets without developing feelings. Can start off as a no strings agreement but end up one side wanting commitment

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford


"So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers

To me it's something like - having someone you can be open with and rely on for having a good time without having to report what you're doing, where you're going, when you'll be back, who you're with... someone who will not ask to spend all your waking time with them and mind their own business in between "

I have this, sometimes we meet every week, sometimes 6months go by but either way when we meet it’s worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular... its hard to organise meets alot of the time with work and travel so finding someone that I click with amd is availabl the same times as me is handy.

Saying that there are a few ladies that distance wise might mean once offs but I'm willing to sacrificrle myself for the cause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers

To me it's something like - having someone you can be open with and rely on for having a good time without having to report what you're doing, where you're going, when you'll be back, who you're with... someone who will not ask to spend all your waking time with them and mind their own business in between

I have this, sometimes we meet every week, sometimes 6months go by but either way when we meet it’s worth it "

Exactly that.

That's another one of my reasons for only meeting local people - if I ever want to see them again it's less hassle for both parties

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By *orinaTSTV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin

Regular but I don't want to check the whole site to find them .

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By *oungGent21Man
over a year ago

;)


"Regular 100% "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular depending.

But I don't know.....that one amazing night/Wed morn between hours of 10-12, has a romantic ring to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Afew regulars would be nice

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I have learned the hard way. Regular sex with somebody you see alot of, feelings on one side could become a problem. I think it's easier for men to shag diff amounts of women then it is for women to shag diff amounts of men. I'll ask men this. Have you ever had sex and Not cum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers "
Exactly but most guys that are married would prefer regular easier for them i guess

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

They are two different experiences so it depends what you are after. Never enough time with one meet to fully explore and the more you get to know someone then the better it can be on my opinion, so regular

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

Oh one off meets would be my pet hate. A few regulars where we could meet when the timing is right is ideal as meeting socially for a drink first is all ways good.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers "
exactly. A regular is to intimate in a sexual context. Well, obviously depends how much you're seen of one another

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By *oisyoctopusWoman
over a year ago

Drogheda

I've no real preference. I like one off meets for variety and new adventures and I like regular meets for the conversation, trust and exploration.

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By *ifeisforliving2016Man
over a year ago

waterford

A regular local fcuk buddy would be my preference ,but if the sex ain't mindblowing,well there's not much point making it a regular thing !

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By *ad IdeaMan
over a year ago

Limerick

With right person definitely regulars. And it is possible without developing feelings.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I like one offs (but haven chatted and gotten to know them a bit first). I do also like to re-meet people but nothing too regular as that way the excitement and spontaneity can remain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular once offs mixed together maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular once offs mixed together maybe"

This is a brilliant answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for sure, the hassle setting up meets on here makes most take the “comfortable” option once you got talking..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular once offs mixed together maybe"

The perfect solution!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Both!!! Why choose?? I adore my fwb and all the fun times we've had over the years, but that doesn't mean that if I had the time and opportunity to meet someone else I fancied at some point, I did't... We both had other meets and enjoyed ourselves without it taking away from our own connection

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road

It's probably different for singles and couples. I'd imagine single females would feel safer meeting with the people they have grown to know and trust. As a couple for us anyway it's great meeting new people and making new friends. Love a second or even third meet but after that we would always be conscious that we don't get too emotionally connected. We have each other for that. Does that make sense?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Regular 100%

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Definently regular.

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

regular if can get a married couple off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything at this stage lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have learned the hard way. Regular sex with somebody you see alot of, feelings on one side could become a problem. I think it's easier for men to shag diff amounts of women then it is for women to shag diff amounts of men. I'll ask men this. Have you ever had sex and Not cum?"

I know cant trust them lady folk not to catch feels

I get the orgasim point alright though, but I dont think you can just generalise about it being easier for men than women. I know plenty women that are happy to have one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers Exactly but most guys that are married would prefer regular easier for them i guess "

And most of the "single " men on here, well the ones that have contacted us are married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have learned the hard way. Regular sex with somebody you see alot of, feelings on one side could become a problem. I think it's easier for men to shag diff amounts of women then it is for women to shag diff amounts of men. I'll ask men this. Have you ever had sex and Not cum?

I know cant trust them lady folk not to catch feels

I get the orgasim point alright though, but I dont think you can just generalise about it being easier for men than women. I know plenty women that are happy to have one offs"

Somehow I always find the person I'm kinda seeing catch feelings first then all the hassle of getting rid of them... I must be a man

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Personally , prefer regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo regular to make the greatest pleasure.unless he's a fucktard.then once is too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have learned the hard way. Regular sex with somebody you see alot of, feelings on one side could become a problem. I think it's easier for men to shag diff amounts of women then it is for women to shag diff amounts of men. I'll ask men this. Have you ever had sex and Not cum?

I know cant trust them lady folk not to catch feels

I get the orgasim point alright though, but I dont think you can just generalise about it being easier for men than women. I know plenty women that are happy to have one offs

Somehow I always find the person I'm kinda seeing catch feelings first then all the hassle of getting rid of them... I must be a man "

I mean we were all thinking it.......

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

I tend to enjoy repeats but if someone entices me im open to new experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why I prefer the married man for regular fun. Less likelihood of feelings catching! You know from get-go that anything more than sex isn't on the cards. It's a win-win when you're not seeking a relationship...but got needs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm after regular lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm after regular lad "

Drop mike a message

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

we would love some regular fun with cpls , be nice to meet up have a drink and a dance and then some naughty fun , win win really heres hoping it could happen hit us up some of ye sexy cpls out there who are up for the same as as us fun fun and more fun

mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular would be nice, but I'm sure like everyone, it's getting that quality time, and any time that is found is nice being spent exploring the same body and mind further, rather than starting from scratch with someone else.... Jesus I think I've turned into my granny .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular would be nice, but I'm sure like everyone, it's getting that quality time, and any time that is found is nice being spent exploring the same body and mind further, rather than starting from scratch with someone else.... Jesus I think I've turned into my granny ..... "

Does your Granny swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular would be nice, but I'm sure like everyone, it's getting that quality time, and any time that is found is nice being spent exploring the same body and mind further, rather than starting from scratch with someone else.... Jesus I think I've turned into my granny .....

Does your Granny swing? "

I believe she takes her teeth out for triple penetration..... Oh jesus I'm going to hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular would be nice, but I'm sure like everyone, it's getting that quality time, and any time that is found is nice being spent exploring the same body and mind further, rather than starting from scratch with someone else.... Jesus I think I've turned into my granny .....

Does your Granny swing?

I believe she takes her teeth out for triple penetration..... Oh jesus I'm going to hell"

Perhaps time to stop now Sir..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular would be nice, but I'm sure like everyone, it's getting that quality time, and any time that is found is nice being spent exploring the same body and mind further, rather than starting from scratch with someone else.... Jesus I think I've turned into my granny .....

Does your Granny swing?

I believe she takes her teeth out for triple penetration..... Oh jesus I'm going to hell

Perhaps time to stop now Sir.."

I have my texting thumb muzzled

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford

Some people are saying regular... and I’m thinking - they are really looking for regular to turn into something more.....

Maybe I’m wrong?!

Regular still means casually meeting no strings to everyone here?...right??;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people are saying regular... and I’m thinking - they are really looking for regular to turn into something more.....

Maybe I’m wrong?!

Regular still means casually meeting no strings to everyone here?...right??;)"

Why complicate things with anything more?

There can be 3 or 4 regulars you know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people are saying regular... and I’m thinking - they are really looking for regular to turn into something more.....

Maybe I’m wrong?!

Regular still means casually meeting no strings to everyone here?...right??;)"

As has been said before, it all depends on emotions being kept under wraps. I had an unfortunate experience on another site which started as regular meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular as the sex tends to get better

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By *ommando4 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"I have learned the hard way. Regular sex with somebody you see alot of, feelings on one side could become a problem. I think it's easier for men to shag diff amounts of women then it is for women to shag diff amounts of men. I'll ask men this. Have you ever had sex and Not cum?"
Yes....quite a common occurrence for me recently....should I see a doctor ? Fun had been great by the way regardless of the climax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular as the sex tends to get better "

Exactly, the more you learn about a body and mind, the better the next experience with that same person, once both people are on the same page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular meets

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over a year ago

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford


"Some people are saying regular... and I’m thinking - they are really looking for regular to turn into something more.....

Maybe I’m wrong?!

Regular still means casually meeting no strings to everyone here?...right??;)

Why complicate things with anything more?

There can be 3 or 4 regulars you know... "

That’s what I’d be thinking, yes!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I hate once off meets rather regular meets much better fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular meets can lead to amazing sex and all round great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular meets can lead to amazing sex and all round great fun"

They definately can though emotions can become involved if not careful

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By *rs EmilyWoman
over a year ago

dublin

We (markandem14) always tend to repeat with couples and females. The trill of a new meet is exciting but the sex and fun of the familar is definetly more our preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular meets can lead to amazing sex and all round great fun

They definately can though emotions can become involved if not careful"

Yeah agree with that but suppose both parties know the score from the outset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the chemistry is there for both of you,repeat until the magic fades!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start off as a once off and if things go well then why not keep it going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's kinda funny how we all had relationship threads going a few weeks ago and everyone was like "yes, matching your kinks with someone and ended up being together is a brilliant thing" now on this thread everyone is avoiding feelings like a hellfire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's kinda funny how we all had relationship threads going a few weeks ago and everyone was like "yes, matching your kinks with someone and ended up being together is a brilliant thing" now on this thread everyone is avoiding feelings like a hellfire "
lol kinda love 'em and leave'em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both would be good I think provided everyone knows the boundaries!

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By *ommando4 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"Both would be good I think provided everyone knows the boundaries!"
Do mean a hard border on the island from end of March ? Possibly getting attached and dare I say besotted ? Perhaps a Sargent John Stalker ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both would be good I think provided everyone knows the boundaries! Do mean a hard border on the island from end of March ? Possibly getting attached and dare I say besotted ? Perhaps a Sargent John Stalker ?"

Well there’s some chance that people will understand the boundaries of swinging but F all chance of understanding what is going to happen with the hard border!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Whatever you prefer, most likely we all have some once offs in order to find a regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me too thats when the fun really happens when two people are more comfortable with each other

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By *ifeisforliving2016Man
over a year ago

waterford


"Whatever you prefer, most likely we all have some once offs in order to find a regular. "

That's what I was trying to say ! Well worded !

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Regular but not really regular

More like someone or a few people that you can always go back to for a fun day/night

I’m not looking for someone I can meet with every week more like once every few months so that we can tease each other and look forward to the next time

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Regular but not really regular

More like someone or a few people that you can always go back to for a fun day/night

I’m not looking for someone I can meet with every week more like once every few months so that we can tease each other and look forward to the next time

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Perfect scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both would be good I think provided everyone knows the boundaries! Do mean a hard border on the island from end of March ? Possibly getting attached and dare I say besotted ? Perhaps a Sargent John Stalker ?

Well there’s some chance that people will understand the boundaries of swinging but F all chance of understanding what is going to happen with the hard border!"

It will be grand the only difference is we'll be eating more tayto than walkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both would be good I think provided everyone knows the boundaries! Do mean a hard border on the island from end of March ? Possibly getting attached and dare I say besotted ? Perhaps a Sargent John Stalker ?

Well there’s some chance that people will understand the boundaries of swinging but F all chance of understanding what is going to happen with the hard border!

It will be grand the only difference is we'll be eating more tayto than walkers

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What about King and Hunky Dory though?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both would be good I think provided everyone knows the boundaries! Do mean a hard border on the island from end of March ? Possibly getting attached and dare I say besotted ? Perhaps a Sargent John Stalker ?

Well there’s some chance that people will understand the boundaries of swinging but F all chance of understanding what is going to happen with the hard border!

It will be grand the only difference is we'll be eating more tayto than walkers

What about King and Hunky Dory though?"

King no hunky dory no.1 in my house.. But back to the thread, regular is better for obvious reasons but I do wonder what percentage leave the inevitable feelings out? Couples have more control when their together in a given situation, singles however it's more intimate I mean if you really click its only natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular i have 2 fwbs reason being im very fond of one of them and having 2 takes my mind of him

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Regular but not really regular

More like someone or a few people that you can always go back to for a fun day/night

I’m not looking for someone I can meet with every week more like once every few months so that we can tease each other and look forward to the next time

Perfect scenario "

Rover I think we need a trial period

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By *aidRXTV/TS
over a year ago

ashbourne

A bit of both.... Regular would be the preference but a once off also has its attraction and advantages!!!

maybe a 70/30 split in favour of regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer regular meets, especially if the sex is good and the person is fun to be around. Why stop after once or twice?

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
over a year ago

Donegal Border


"Hands down regular "

Definitely regular with that ass

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I prefer regular meets because you get to know each other’s likes and dislikes and you can push boundaries with someone you’re comfortable with. But there is a danger of feelings getting involved. I’ve been on both sides of that problem in the past. It’s all about finding the right balance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer regular meets because you get to know each other’s likes and dislikes and you can push boundaries with someone you’re comfortable with. But there is a danger of feelings getting involved. I’ve been on both sides of that problem in the past. It’s all about finding the right balance. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular i have 2 fwbs reason being im very fond of one of them and having 2 takes my mind of him "

The ideal scenario love it

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Regular but not really regular

More like someone or a few people that you can always go back to for a fun day/night

I’m not looking for someone I can meet with every week more like once every few months so that we can tease each other and look forward to the next time

Perfect scenario

Rover I think we need a trial period

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See if were compatible

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

Love regular as you can push boundaries as you get more comfortable with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no real preference. I like one off meets for variety and new adventures and I like regular meets for the conversation, trust and exploration."

Totally agree with you!!!

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Galway

I prefer regular meets. I like to get to know and trust people.

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

Yes regularly please fwb or fb ideally for me

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