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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

There are lots of threads going at the moment about married people and would you/wouldn't you? Is it right, is it wrong.

Two things....

1. Why do people think that this is a sex site only?

2. If the married people on here found out their partners were having sex with strangers behind their backs what or how would they feel?. I doubt if they would be happy about it or the implications that would ensure.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

We are on here as a couple however, if hubby was to cheat and I found out I would be devastated to the core, i wouldn't entertain an attached guy but, that's for their conscience to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of threads going at the moment about married people and would you/wouldn't you? Is it right, is it wrong.

Two things....

1. Why do people think that this is a sex site only?

2. If the married people on here found out their partners were having sex with strangers behind their backs what or how would they feel?. I doubt if they would be happy about it or the implications that would ensure. "
we on here as a couple...socials as a couple and / or play meets as a couple....I'm very certain of Mrs snickers view on it but il let her say..as for mine i would go ape shit if play was going on behind my back and it would show..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of threads going at the moment about married people and would you/wouldn't you? Is it right, is it wrong.

Two things....

1. Why do people think that this is a sex site only?

2. If the married people on here found out their partners were having sex with strangers behind their backs what or how would they feel?. I doubt if they would be happy about it or the implications that would ensure. "

Easy answer is no one wants to the bad guy or gal so it's easy to say sexless marriage and other excuses but that's what it is and when it if caught they be defending themselves to the hilt. As for sex site fab is essentially a swingers site and then a load of singles joined for an easy ride and hence it became a sex site also .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand all the previous comments, but in certain relationships it can be quite different!!! My relationship is nearly more platonic now as there is rarely ( maybe 3/4 times a year!!) Any physical relationship. So what should I do then???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really care what other people do.

What I find strange is peoples assumption swingers would be less "judgemental".

Like the couples here would be more open to cheating.

Now I have never been in a seingimg couple so wpuld not profess to knowing the exact dynamics of it. But I think that shows a real lack of understanding of the whole lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone to their own I say!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's time for fab to set up a site for married folks

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By *tiffy999Man
over a year ago

Galway/Donegal

Leave her if you aint happy od sot down and have a heart to heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's time for fab to set up a site for married folks "

Maybe, but there will still be people saying that their single!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Leave her if you aint happy od sot down and have a heart to heart "

Heart to heart plenty of times!! Rather be fucked up than Fuck up the kids!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Leave her if you aint happy od sot down and have a heart to heart

Heart to heart plenty of times!! Rather be fucked up than Fuck up the kids!!!"

Sometimes been caught is worse then walking away but it's your risk to take and that's not judgement so u know

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By *aleeraWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm here with my husband, we play together and separately if we wish. I wouldn't meet married person if I know their partner isn't aware about what they're doing. Its pure cheating for me!

P.S. There is one site for unfaithful married people already

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I'm here with my husband, we play together and separately if we wish. I wouldn't meet married person if I know their partner isn't aware about what they're doing. Its pure cheating for me!

P.S. There is one site for unfaithful married people already "

There are several sites for married people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who has been married, I do feel it's very easy to pass judgement on people male and female who are married on this site

None of us know what their married lives are like and so many are quick to assume they are on fab for easy f@#k

We all have our reasons for being on fab

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Fab is for EVERYONE not gender based or your sexuality or where your from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who has been married, I do feel it's very easy to pass judgement on people male and female who are married on this site

None of us know what their married lives are like and so many are quick to assume they are on fab for easy f@#k

We all have our reasons for being on fab

"

You couldn't have said it any better!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is for EVERYONE not gender based or your sexuality or where your from. "

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"As someone who has been married, I do feel it's very easy to pass judgement on people male and female who are married on this site

None of us know what their married lives are like and so many are quick to assume they are on fab for easy f@#k

We all have our reasons for being on fab

"

Totally agree. But be upfront about it. Most married people on here don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont really care what other people do.

What I find strange is peoples assumption swingers would be less "judgemental".

Like the couples here would be more open to cheating.

Now I have never been in a seingimg couple so wpuld not profess to knowing the exact dynamics of it. But I think that shows a real lack of understanding of the whole lifestyle"

I'm in a swinging couple, the dynamics are different,when your together with other people its just good fun together, we've taken a different direction at the moment and honasty is key to making it work..without that your in trouble, but at the same time I'm not here to judge other people's circumstance.

If your into attached people or not let them make their life choice and deal with the consequences.. Their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here with my husband, we play together and separately if we wish. I wouldn't meet married person if I know their partner isn't aware about what they're doing. Its pure cheating for me!

P.S. There is one site for unfaithful married people already

There are several sites for married people. "

Any good ones?

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By *aleeraWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I do agree that everyone can be here no matter what's their relationship status, partners are aware or not, its their business. They have their needs and if someone is willing to meet them without feeling guilty that's fine with me.

Nobody is forcing me to fuck them, and I have strong opinion about that, all in my profile. What I dont like is when desperate married guys are judging me that my rules are unfair Like its just NSA fun right, so their status and private life shouldn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who has been married, I do feel it's very easy to pass judgement on people male and female who are married on this site

None of us know what their married lives are like and so many are quick to assume they are on fab for easy f@#k

We all have our reasons for being on fab

Totally agree. But be upfront about it. Most married people on here don't. "

It's the first thing I tell someone when I'm chatting with them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do agree that everyone can be here no matter what's their relationship status, partners are aware or not, its their business. They have their needs and if someone is willing to meet them without feeling guilty that's fine with me.

Nobody is forcing me to fuck them, and I have strong opinion about that, all in my profile. What I dont like is when desperate married guys are judging me that my rules are unfair Like its just NSA fun right, so their status and private life shouldn't bother me "

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I dont really care what other people do.

What I find strange is peoples assumption swingers would be less "judgemental".

Like the couples here would be more open to cheating.

Now I have never been in a seingimg couple so wpuld not profess to knowing the exact dynamics of it. But I think that shows a real lack of understanding of the whole lifestyle

I'm in a swinging couple, the dynamics are different,when your together with other people its just good fun together, we've taken a different direction at the moment and honasty is key to making it work..without that your in trouble, but at the same time I'm not here to judge other people's circumstance.

If your into attached people or not let them make their life choice and deal with the consequences.. Their choice "

Honesty is the key you're right . Id just like to know what if they were cheated on. Genuine question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who has been married, I do feel it's very easy to pass judgement on people male and female who are married on this site

None of us know what their married lives are like and so many are quick to assume they are on fab for easy f@#k

We all have our reasons for being on fab

Totally agree. But be upfront about it. Most married people on here don't. "

And away from fab plenty of people male and female aren't upfront about the status of their relationship

If you are on fab or any chat/dating site you are going to come across married people not stating they are married

Its up to you as an individual to assess the person your chatting with, it is what it is, and I have came across and got messages from men who state on their profile they are married and it's my choice as an individual if I want to persue things any further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont really care what other people do.

What I find strange is peoples assumption swingers would be less "judgemental".

Like the couples here would be more open to cheating.

Now I have never been in a seingimg couple so wpuld not profess to knowing the exact dynamics of it. But I think that shows a real lack of understanding of the whole lifestyle

I'm in a swinging couple, the dynamics are different,when your together with other people its just good fun together, we've taken a different direction at the moment and honasty is key to making it work..without that your in trouble, but at the same time I'm not here to judge other people's circumstance.

If your into attached people or not let them make their life choice and deal with the consequences.. Their choice

Honesty is the key you're right . Id just like to know what if they were cheated on. Genuine question. "

If it was me, I'd be bulling!!! If I'm not getting it at home and she's getting it somewhere else? Then I'd ask can we go on fab as a couple!!!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Married people in general cant win if they on without partners knowledge they classed as cheats...if they lie and say nothing bout there marital status they told they liars... imo married people know what they can loose, it's there choice to join up and it's not gonna stop cause people disagree.. let them make a choice no one is forcing them to join and no matter what you say if you don't like it they won't leave

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I dont really care what other people do.

What I find strange is peoples assumption swingers would be less "judgemental".

Like the couples here would be more open to cheating.

Now I have never been in a seingimg couple so wpuld not profess to knowing the exact dynamics of it. But I think that shows a real lack of understanding of the whole lifestyle

I'm in a swinging couple, the dynamics are different,when your together with other people its just good fun together, we've taken a different direction at the moment and honasty is key to making it work..without that your in trouble, but at the same time I'm not here to judge other people's circumstance.

If your into attached people or not let them make their life choice and deal with the consequences.. Their choice

Honesty is the key you're right . Id just like to know what if they were cheated on. Genuine question.

If it was me, I'd be bulling!!! If I'm not getting it at home and she's getting it somewhere else? Then I'd ask can we go on fab as a couple!!! "

Ahhh it's not just about not getting it at home. It's about the hurt. Most of it is irreparable.

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