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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah its really not, its free (for us free loaders) or at least very cheap, the site provides plenty tools to out those you do not want to interact with, there is an abundance of hot women, men and couples and the forums can throw out some properly laugh out loud moments.

My question is this?. Are those people, who constantly have miserable status updates and post on the forums about how bad it all is, really having such a bad time or is it all a ploy for attention?

If its that bad just leave, surely it cannot be worth enduring it all just for the chance to get you bits fiddled with?

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By *omripleyMan
over a year ago

blackrock

its only bad if you're a single male starting off. i used to be here as part of a couple and that was easy. but now as single guy you really have to put effort in but once you get your first verification doors and legs open lol

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By *asparMan
over a year ago

Dublins fair city

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whining is a way of life for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whining is a way of life for some. "
...moaning is much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah its really not, its free (for us free loaders) or at least very cheap, the site provides plenty tools to out those you do not want to interact with, there is an abundance of hot women, men and couples and the forums can throw out some properly laugh out loud moments.

My question is this?. Are those people, who constantly have miserable status updates and post on the forums about how bad it all is, really having such a bad time or is it all a ploy for attention?

If its that bad just leave, surely it cannot be worth enduring it all just for the chance to get you bits fiddled with?"

I’d imagine it’s 65% attention seeking and 35% moaning, it is tough for a single male, Jesus if they put half the effort in and go to a social or something and embrace the whole aspect of FAB instead of just hiding behind their phone or computer expecting the flood gates to open it would be better for them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah its really not, its free (for us free loaders) or at least very cheap, the site provides plenty tools to out those you do not want to interact with, there is an abundance of hot women, men and couples and the forums can throw out some properly laugh out loud moments.

My question is this?. Are those people, who constantly have miserable status updates and post on the forums about how bad it all is, really having such a bad time or is it all a ploy for attention?

If its that bad just leave, surely it cannot be worth enduring it all just for the chance to get you bits fiddled with?

I’d imagine it’s 65% attention seeking and 35% moaning, it is tough for a single male, Jesus if they put half the effort in and go to a social or something and embrace the whole aspect of FAB instead of just hiding behind their phone or computer expecting the flood gates to open it would be better for them? "

I do get that some people find it hard alright, I was just wondering about the ines who just seem miserable to be on here, what theu get out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah its really not, its free (for us free loaders) or at least very cheap, the site provides plenty tools to out those you do not want to interact with, there is an abundance of hot women, men and couples and the forums can throw out some properly laugh out loud moments.

My question is this?. Are those people, who constantly have miserable status updates and post on the forums about how bad it all is, really having such a bad time or is it all a ploy for attention?

If its that bad just leave, surely it cannot be worth enduring it all just for the chance to get you bits fiddled with?

I’d imagine it’s 65% attention seeking and 35% moaning, it is tough for a single male, Jesus if they put half the effort in and go to a social or something and embrace the whole aspect of FAB instead of just hiding behind their phone or computer expecting the flood gates to open it would be better for them?

I do get that some people find it hard alright, I was just wondering about the ines who just seem miserable to be on here, what theu get out of it.

"

Hope? Maybe the expectation of joining a page that is for sex and not getting anywhere is a major let down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get outta life what you put in! Same goes for fab.

I'd love to be a millionaire but I'll likely never be, I don't do the lottery

I could whinge and moan but in reality it's my own doing and as a poster already said it's a way of life for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is 80% attention seeking. Everyone knows the male:female ratio here, it is part of fab life just deal with it, have a laugh with whomever chats and move on from those who dont. It aint rocket science.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Attention seeking and feeling sorry for themselves cause they didn't get the ride -Just leave already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attention seeking and feeling sorry for themselves cause they didn't get the ride -Just leave already "

100%

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Ah its really not, its free (for us free loaders) or at least very cheap, the site provides plenty tools to out those you do not want to interact with, there is an abundance of hot women, men and couples and the forums can throw out some properly laugh out loud moments.

My question is this?. Are those people, who constantly have miserable status updates and post on the forums about how bad it all is, really having such a bad time or is it all a ploy for attention?

If its that bad just leave, surely it cannot be worth enduring it all just for the chance to get you bits fiddled with?"
the reality is as a man you will struggle and eventually get lucky if u persist. Women aint easy please plus from the choice many are on a pedestal. They're getting shit loads of attention from doses of men. Add in location also. It's a huge issue even if one or both parties drive. I don't frown upon men having statuses up about this. Most of what they say is the truth. You could easily do something about the numbers issue but because the site owners gain income they're not gonna level the playing field.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah its really not, its free (for us free loaders) or at least very cheap, the site provides plenty tools to out those you do not want to interact with, there is an abundance of hot women, men and couples and the forums can throw out some properly laugh out loud moments.

My question is this?. Are those people, who constantly have miserable status updates and post on the forums about how bad it all is, really having such a bad time or is it all a ploy for attention?

If its that bad just leave, surely it cannot be worth enduring it all just for the chance to get you bits fiddled with?the reality is as a man you will struggle and eventually get lucky if u persist. Women aint easy please plus from the choice many are on a pedestal. They're getting shit loads of attention from doses of men. Add in location also. It's a huge issue even if one or both parties drive. I don't frown upon men having statuses up about this. Most of what they say is the truth. You could easily do something about the numbers issue but because the site owners gain income they're not gonna level the playing field. "

It might the the truth for them but there are plenty of guys on here that do just fine, they never seem to accept that they might be the problem.

But again that wa my point if these guys find it so hard to the point they need to piss and moan about it why do they keep subjecting themselves to it?

As for the women being hard to please, I think thats only true if you are trying to please them all, as you cant be to everyones taste.

The ladies I have chatted and met were easy to be with because we clicked

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I know plenty of guys who are havin loadsa fun and meeting regulary so I always wonder what’s the difference between them and the ones who always have the can’t get a ride status up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately most come here expecting a fuckfest coming at them . Most have no interest in clubs or anything social as they are too shy or it's not for them . They just came for easy rides in cars and don't want to make any effort as they are so popular on other sites they expect it to cross over to fab

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Ah its really not, its free (for us free loaders) or at least very cheap, the site provides plenty tools to out those you do not want to interact with, there is an abundance of hot women, men and couples and the forums can throw out some properly laugh out loud moments.

My question is this?. Are those people, who constantly have miserable status updates and post on the forums about how bad it all is, really having such a bad time or is it all a ploy for attention?

If its that bad just leave, surely it cannot be worth enduring it all just for the chance to get you bits fiddled with?the reality is as a man you will struggle and eventually get lucky if u persist. Women aint easy please plus from the choice many are on a pedestal. They're getting shit loads of attention from doses of men. Add in location also. It's a huge issue even if one or both parties drive. I don't frown upon men having statuses up about this. Most of what they say is the truth. You could easily do something about the numbers issue but because the site owners gain income they're not gonna level the playing field.

It might the the truth for them but there are plenty of guys on here that do just fine, they never seem to accept that they might be the problem.

But again that wa my point if these guys find it so hard to the point they need to piss and moan about it why do they keep subjecting themselves to it?

As for the women being hard to please, I think thats only true if you are trying to please them all, as you cant be to everyones taste.

The ladies I have chatted and met were easy to be with because we clicked"
the simple reality is as a man you message women. The women you're interested in, more then one, maybe a multitude at a time. I don't see a man sending polite opening mails as the problem. Whether you want to admit it or not many women on here are on a sky high pedestal. Throw into the mix the amount of messages they receive (we all know the numbers are crazily lobsideed). I saw a woman say lately she got on like a house on fire with a lad she met at a meet and greet, the same lad she continuously ignored his messages on fab. She even admitted they were normal polite opening mails. It's all luck at the end of the day but as a man if you're actively looking to meet, sending polite opening mails and getting nowhere. It's bound to frustrate them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah its really not, its free (for us free loaders) or at least very cheap, the site provides plenty tools to out those you do not want to interact with, there is an abundance of hot women, men and couples and the forums can throw out some properly laugh out loud moments.

My question is this?. Are those people, who constantly have miserable status updates and post on the forums about how bad it all is, really having such a bad time or is it all a ploy for attention?

If its that bad just leave, surely it cannot be worth enduring it all just for the chance to get you bits fiddled with?"

I think the status depends on the people's mood. Well, we all have good and bad days...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"its only bad if you're a single male starting off. i used to be here as part of a couple and that was easy. but now as single guy you really have to put effort in but once you get your first verification doors and legs open lol"

So couples dont have to put effort in hmmm

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Attention seeking and feeling sorry for themselves cause they didn't get the ride -Just leave already "

Then we would have to whinge about having to leave

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By *ussieGMan
over a year ago

Newry

Im still in my infancy on the site and don’t post too often. I’ve had plenty of interaction with a lot of really cool ladies on here . As others have touched on , too many men join on here and expect the floodgates to open , easy ride central , couldn’t be further from the truth .

Yes , many ladies on here you wouldn’t have a second look at on the street, who ,through the sheer volume of men that send messages , can be very selective . More power to them .

I believe you’ll get back whatever you put into the site . Be polite , read the profile and engage , The good people on here will eventually catch one of your messages. You’ll also learn what kind of wording works and what doesn’t .

I’m naturally laid back and I put on my messages that I’m mature enough to move on if we don’t connect . You have to take the no replies or deleted messages for what they are and move on .

It’s not as bad as lads make out .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im still in my infancy on the site and don’t post too often. I’ve had plenty of interaction with a lot of really cool ladies on here . As others have touched on , too many men join on here and expect the floodgates to open , easy ride central , couldn’t be further from the truth .

Yes , many ladies on here you wouldn’t have a second look at on the street, who ,through the sheer volume of men that send messages , can be very selective . More power to them .

I believe you’ll get back whatever you put into the site . Be polite , read the profile and engage , The good people on here will eventually catch one of your messages. You’ll also learn what kind of wording works and what doesn’t .

I’m naturally laid back and I put on my messages that I’m mature enough to move on if we don’t connect . You have to take the no replies or deleted messages for what they are and move on .

It’s not as bad as lads make out ....."

I completely agree with this statement. One of my friends and a regular contributor to the forums is a great example of putting in the work. He's gone to mingles he's met people for coffee he's attended the clubs. He's now reaping the Fab rewards. Slowly and surely with manners and hard work he's doing very well here. He spent less time bitching and more time meeting people

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Attention seeking and feeling sorry for themselves cause they didn't get the ride -Just leave already "

Maybe fab should just introduce a fuck buddy seat idea, a variation of the school system buddy seats.

Essentially, it is selected area on the site for those who can’t get a ride through lack or effort, manners, or other factors.

Couples and single women would be obligated to buddy up, at least once a month, to ensure fairness and an overall sense of website utopia.

After all, if we are on a swing site, then we will clearly fuck any person that can spend 5 minutes of their precious time signing up to a free website and hitting send on a couple of ‘hi’ ‘I’d fuck ye’ I’d chew the box of ya’ type tantalizing messages.

We should all work together ‘for the greater good’

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Im still in my infancy on the site and don’t post too often. I’ve had plenty of interaction with a lot of really cool ladies on here . As others have touched on , too many men join on here and expect the floodgates to open , easy ride central , couldn’t be further from the truth .

Yes , many ladies on here you wouldn’t have a second look at on the street, who ,through the sheer volume of men that send messages , can be very selective . More power to them .

I believe you’ll get back whatever you put into the site . Be polite , read the profile and engage , The good people on here will eventually catch one of your messages. You’ll also learn what kind of wording works and what doesn’t .

I’m naturally laid back and I put on my messages that I’m mature enough to move on if we don’t connect . You have to take the no replies or deleted messages for what they are and move on .

It’s not as bad as lads make out ....."

I know I’m often very sarcastic, but you’ve pretty much hit the nail on the head.

Pretty insightful... for an Aussie! (Just messing, I’m antipodean originally too!)

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Aren't we all attention seeking in one way or another, it's just that the whingy way is the least sexy and there's no pity fuck to get on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im still in my infancy on the site and don’t post too often. I’ve had plenty of interaction with a lot of really cool ladies on here . As others have touched on , too many men join on here and expect the floodgates to open , easy ride central , couldn’t be further from the truth .

Yes , many ladies on here you wouldn’t have a second look at on the street, who ,through the sheer volume of men that send messages , can be very selective . More power to them .

I believe you’ll get back whatever you put into the site . Be polite , read the profile and engage , The good people on here will eventually catch one of your messages. You’ll also learn what kind of wording works and what doesn’t .

I’m naturally laid back and I put on my messages that I’m mature enough to move on if we don’t connect . You have to take the no replies or deleted messages for what they are and move on .

It’s not as bad as lads make out .....

I completely agree with this statement. One of my friends and a regular contributor to the forums is a great example of putting in the work. He's gone to mingles he's met people for coffee he's attended the clubs. He's now reaping the Fab rewards. Slowly and surely with manners and hard work he's doing very well here. He spent less time bitching and more time meeting people "

He must be a sexy bastard though too.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

The line you'll get back whatever u put in. Some people must think lads live on this 24/7, plus a polite opening mail is very much acceptable. Women, do ye open every mail to your inbox?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im still in my infancy on the site and don’t post too often. I’ve had plenty of interaction with a lot of really cool ladies on here . As others have touched on , too many men join on here and expect the floodgates to open , easy ride central , couldn’t be further from the truth .

Yes , many ladies on here you wouldn’t have a second look at on the street, who ,through the sheer volume of men that send messages , can be very selective . More power to them .

I believe you’ll get back whatever you put into the site . Be polite , read the profile and engage , The good people on here will eventually catch one of your messages. You’ll also learn what kind of wording works and what doesn’t .

I’m naturally laid back and I put on my messages that I’m mature enough to move on if we don’t connect . You have to take the no replies or deleted messages for what they are and move on .

It’s not as bad as lads make out .....

I completely agree with this statement. One of my friends and a regular contributor to the forums is a great example of putting in the work. He's gone to mingles he's met people for coffee he's attended the clubs. He's now reaping the Fab rewards. Slowly and surely with manners and hard work he's doing very well here. He spent less time bitching and more time meeting people

He must be a sexy bastard though too. "

Ah stop he's awful ridey this mysterious man

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I've been on sites which charge you to send or read messages. Not only that but the sites then send you fake messages supposedly from other site members in order to make you buy paid membership so as to read them.

Fab has free membership which allow you to tell if someone is verified or not and to set your profile so that only people you're interested in can message you.

Does this mean you're going to get laid every night? Of course not. But if you're prepared to make the effort and not be an idiot, you might actually find yourself having meets and maybe even sex! Sounds all right to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah its really not, its free (for us free loaders) or at least very cheap, the site provides plenty tools to out those you do not want to interact with, there is an abundance of hot women, men and couples and the forums can throw out some properly laugh out loud moments.

My question is this?. Are those people, who constantly have miserable status updates and post on the forums about how bad it all is, really having such a bad time or is it all a ploy for attention?

If its that bad just leave, surely it cannot be worth enduring it all just for the chance to get you bits fiddled with?the reality is as a man you will struggle and eventually get lucky if u persist. Women aint easy please plus from the choice many are on a pedestal. They're getting shit loads of attention from doses of men. Add in location also. It's a huge issue even if one or both parties drive. I don't frown upon men having statuses up about this. Most of what they say is the truth. You could easily do something about the numbers issue but because the site owners gain income they're not gonna level the playing field.

It might the the truth for them but there are plenty of guys on here that do just fine, they never seem to accept that they might be the problem.

But again that wa my point if these guys find it so hard to the point they need to piss and moan about it why do they keep subjecting themselves to it?

As for the women being hard to please, I think thats only true if you are trying to please them all, as you cant be to everyones taste.

The ladies I have chatted and met were easy to be with because we clickedthe simple reality is as a man you message women. The women you're interested in, more then one, maybe a multitude at a time. I don't see a man sending polite opening mails as the problem. Whether you want to admit it or not many women on here are on a sky high pedestal. Throw into the mix the amount of messages they receive (we all know the numbers are crazily lobsideed). I saw a woman say lately she got on like a house on fire with a lad she met at a meet and greet, the same lad she continuously ignored his messages on fab. She even admitted they were normal polite opening mails. It's all luck at the end of the day but as a man if you're actively looking to meet, sending polite opening mails and getting nowhere. It's bound to frustrate them."

I am not sayong peoples mails always get answered no matter how polite they are, and I have no doubt it can be frustrating.

What I am trying to get at is why those people continiously use the site if they get no enjoyment out of it at all?

There are far easier ways to meet someone for sex, its really never been easier with tinder etc.....

I think you can find it hard to get a meet but still enjoy the fab expriance, I know I did when I first joined. I dont know maybe its a sense of entitlement because its so easy on tinder....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah its really not, its free (for us free loaders) or at least very cheap, the site provides plenty tools to out those you do not want to interact with, there is an abundance of hot women, men and couples and the forums can throw out some properly laugh out loud moments.

My question is this?. Are those people, who constantly have miserable status updates and post on the forums about how bad it all is, really having such a bad time or is it all a ploy for attention?

If its that bad just leave, surely it cannot be worth enduring it all just for the chance to get you bits fiddled with?

I think the status depends on the people's mood. Well, we all have good and bad days...

"

I kind of ment the ones that pop up daily moaning about how bad the site is to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah its really not, its free (for us free loaders) or at least very cheap, the site provides plenty tools to out those you do not want to interact with, there is an abundance of hot women, men and couples and the forums can throw out some properly laugh out loud moments.

My question is this?. Are those people, who constantly have miserable status updates and post on the forums about how bad it all is, really having such a bad time or is it all a ploy for attention?

If its that bad just leave, surely it cannot be worth enduring it all just for the chance to get you bits fiddled with?

I think the status depends on the people's mood. Well, we all have good and bad days...

I kind of ment the ones that pop up daily moaning about how bad the site is to be fair.

"

Aw I would miss the dramatic "this site is shit leaving tomorrow" updates

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Looking for sex is looking for sex regardless of here POF or tinder etc. I have an active social life, don't depend on here for fun but some do who don't have an active social life for whatever reason. A bit of politeness and it shouldnt be rocket science

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By *ussieGMan
over a year ago

Newry


"Im still in my infancy on the site and don’t post too often. I’ve had plenty of interaction with a lot of really cool ladies on here . As others have touched on , too many men join on here and expect the floodgates to open , easy ride central , couldn’t be further from the truth .

Yes , many ladies on here you wouldn’t have a second look at on the street, who ,through the sheer volume of men that send messages , can be very selective . More power to them .

I believe you’ll get back whatever you put into the site . Be polite , read the profile and engage , The good people on here will eventually catch one of your messages. You’ll also learn what kind of wording works and what doesn’t .

I’m naturally laid back and I put on my messages that I’m mature enough to move on if we don’t connect . You have to take the no replies or deleted messages for what they are and move on .

It’s not as bad as lads make out .....

I know I’m often very sarcastic, but you’ve pretty much hit the nail on the head.

Pretty insightful... for an Aussie! (Just messing, I’m antipodean originally too!) "

A very common misconception ,which has been slightly beneficial for me i must add , is that I’m an Aussie, I’m actually Irish , sorry to disappoint you all ...

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

I hate whinging and whining. Ive been here for over a year, some shit things have happened, some great things. I might leave for a while.....come back....repeat. but all in all i think the site is great. Ive met some great people and attended a couple of m and gs and looking forward to more next year. Am i just lucky?? No. Ive put myself out there, cancelled things in my real life to make meets happen, travelled ( as far as kerry) because i want to be part of the swinging scene, social as well as the naughty stuff. A lot of people just couldnt be arsed putting the effort in and think a "poor me" thread will get them a shag. Dont think its necessarily all attention seeking. I think its mostly laziness which is third on my list of things i hate

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over a year ago

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I hate whinging and whining. Ive been here for over a year, some shit things have happened, some great things. I might leave for a while.....come back....repeat. but all in all i think the site is great. Ive met some great people and attended a couple of m and gs and looking forward to more next year. Am i just lucky?? No. Ive put myself out there, cancelled things in my real life to make meets happen, travelled ( as far as kerry) because i want to be part of the swinging scene, social as well as the naughty stuff. A lot of people just couldnt be arsed putting the effort in and think a "poor me" thread will get them a shag. Dont think its necessarily all attention seeking. I think its mostly laziness which is third on my list of things i hate "
see that's the thing. A person coming onto fab with no interest in parties meets and greets etc might struggle but they shouldn't. Hoping to meet one to one is also huge but many women won't take that chance. They prefer to meet people in that group setting environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its only bad if you're a single male starting off. i used to be here as part of a couple and that was easy. but now as single guy you really have to put effort in but once you get your first verification doors and legs open lol

So couples dont have to put effort in hmmm "

Having a couples profile here before there's less of an effort involved, but can be be hard to find a mutual attraction between couples so can be even more frustrating.. Why won't you fuck him? she's hot! Please do it for me!..

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town


"I hate whinging and whining. Ive been here for over a year, some shit things have happened, some great things. I might leave for a while.....come back....repeat. but all in all i think the site is great. Ive met some great people and attended a couple of m and gs and looking forward to more next year. Am i just lucky?? No. Ive put myself out there, cancelled things in my real life to make meets happen, travelled ( as far as kerry) because i want to be part of the swinging scene, social as well as the naughty stuff. A lot of people just couldnt be arsed putting the effort in and think a "poor me" thread will get them a shag. Dont think its necessarily all attention seeking. I think its mostly laziness which is third on my list of things i hate see that's the thing. A person coming onto fab with no interest in parties meets and greets etc might struggle but they shouldn't. Hoping to meet one to one is also huge but many women won't take that chance. They prefer to meet people in that group setting environment. "
thats true, but all the more reason to put a bit more effort into their profile

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"its only bad if you're a single male starting off. i used to be here as part of a couple and that was easy. but now as single guy you really have to put effort in but once you get your first verification doors and legs open lol

So couples dont have to put effort in hmmm

Having a couples profile here before there's less of an effort involved, but can be be hard to find a mutual attraction between couples so can be even more frustrating.. Why won't you fuck him? she's hot! Please do it for me!.."

Exactly ,we re here 5 weeks and still haven't got the ride ,don't hear us moaning about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its only bad if you're a single male starting off. i used to be here as part of a couple and that was easy. but now as single guy you really have to put effort in but once you get your first verification doors and legs open lol

So couples dont have to put effort in hmmm

Having a couples profile here before there's less of an effort involved, but can be be hard to find a mutual attraction between couples so can be even more frustrating.. Why won't you fuck him? she's hot! Please do it for me!..

Exactly ,we re here 5 weeks and still haven't got the ride ,don't hear us moaning about it "

It's OK for couples to moan though?.. Oh shit i have a single profile now..

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By *ackd1000Man
over a year ago

Donegal


"Unfortunately most come here expecting a fuckfest coming at them . Most have no interest in clubs or anything social as they are too shy or it's not for them . They just came for easy rides in cars and don't want to make any effort as they are so popular on other sites they expect it to cross over to fab "

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Personally I think fab is a great site and relatively easy to make connections as a single male. You do need to put in some effort, attend a couple of socials, get to know people in the lifestyle. You also need to be genuine, pleasant, sane, normal, turn up for all meets you've arrange and not cancel at the last minute. Once people find out that you are sane, not a serial killer, respectful, genuine and good in the sack, word gets around and you will have offers of more meets than you have time for. Don't whinge about the gender imbalance on here but accept it for what it is and react accordingly. Nobody is looking to meet a desperate loner with a chip on his shoulder. Swinging is all about female desires and fantasies. You need to market yourselves as material to full fill those fantasies and then when called upon, deliver, deliver, deliver. You need to build and maintain a reputation that spreads by word of mouth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I think fab is a great site and relatively easy to make connections as a single male. You do need to put in some effort, attend a couple of socials, get to know people in the lifestyle. You also need to be genuine, pleasant, sane, normal, turn up for all meets you've arrange and not cancel at the last minute. Once people find out that you are sane, not a serial killer, respectful, genuine and good in the sack, word gets around and you will have offers of more meets than you have time for. Don't whinge about the gender imbalance on here but accept it for what it is and react accordingly. Nobody is looking to meet a desperate loner with a chip on his shoulder. Swinging is all about female desires and fantasies. You need to market yourselves as material to full fill those fantasies and then when called upon, deliver, deliver, deliver. You need to build and maintain a reputation that spreads by word of mouth."

I agree with you for the most part..... but surely it is about fulfilling your own desires and fantasies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think fab is a great site and relatively easy to make connections as a single male. You do need to put in some effort, attend a couple of socials, get to know people in the lifestyle. You also need to be genuine, pleasant, sane, normal, turn up for all meets you've arrange and not cancel at the last minute. Once people find out that you are sane, not a serial killer, respectful, genuine and good in the sack, word gets around and you will have offers of more meets than you have time for. Don't whinge about the gender imbalance on here but accept it for what it is and react accordingly. Nobody is looking to meet a desperate loner with a chip on his shoulder. Swinging is all about female desires and fantasies. You need to market yourselves as material to full fill those fantasies and then when called upon, deliver, deliver, deliver. You need to build and maintain a reputation that spreads by word of mouth.

I agree with you for the most part..... but surely it is about fulfilling your own desires and fantasies?"

I also agree for the most part, but who wants to build a reputation that their great in the sack on word of mouth?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Chat meet and ride. Jump on the gravy train

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think fab is a great site and relatively easy to make connections as a single male. You do need to put in some effort, attend a couple of socials, get to know people in the lifestyle. You also need to be genuine, pleasant, sane, normal, turn up for all meets you've arrange and not cancel at the last minute. Once people find out that you are sane, not a serial killer, respectful, genuine and good in the sack, word gets around and you will have offers of more meets than you have time for. Don't whinge about the gender imbalance on here but accept it for what it is and react accordingly. Nobody is looking to meet a desperate loner with a chip on his shoulder. Swinging is all about female desires and fantasies. You need to market yourselves as material to full fill those fantasies and then when called upon, deliver, deliver, deliver. You need to build and maintain a reputation that spreads by word of mouth.

I agree with you for the most part..... but surely it is about fulfilling your own desires and fantasies?

I also agree for the most part, but who wants to build a reputation that their great in the sack on word of mouth? "

Married men primarily, time is of the essence

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