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By *arbiegirl19 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hollymount

Got a message from couple during week... 1st message he insults me 2nd message tells me that his wife is not interested as I have too many verifications in the short length of time I'm on fab... And than I get the block button... Does people not understand the difference between a meet n greet a social nite.. only a handful of my verifications even suggests bedroom action.... Fuming that I didn't get my speak in before I was blocked.... Rant over...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I know you and your a gorgeous funny intelligent lady.....

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Yep lady I get you . I could count on my one hand how many plays we have had but people judge by veris without reading them . Do what we do and hide the veris ... easier in the long run x (and ignore those ignorant people)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cheeky tyke - people like that shall not get far on here.

Darling exhale and know you are a beautiful gorgeous lady that doesn’t need terrible people like that.

Big squishy hugs x x

Psyche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bubbly obviously can't read. Was chatting a guy for a few days than he had a go at me that with 19 veris I was a bit of a tramp. All mine bar 2 are social veris. When I pointed this out, sure that doesn't mean anything.

Since found out he chatting to someone with a hell of a lot more veris than me with no issue and the majority we're playing meets, so as far as I can see it's double standards.

Making a presumption before even chatting.

Hope you keeping well. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is hilarious that anyone gets criticized for having too many verifications on fab, it is a sex site. Some real dumbasses on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the lady .many ppl don't read verification just judging without reading it.happened to me too.might pick up ur favourite ones and hide the rest or just ignore the idiots.

You know my number if you need me anytime.

You are intelligent,hot,kind all heart of lady don't let some tunnel visioned spoil your day

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Why not have a quantity of quality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should not matter if your veries are for socials or full meets its your business not sure if some here get what swinging is all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sounds like they were just out to insult....

I dont think it would have matteres if you had 1 or 100 veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just sound like dicks to be fair and wouldnt even warrant a reply to rant as that would have only encouraged their insulting behaviour.

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By *arbiegirl19 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hollymount

Yes we are all on a Sex site... And I'm more interested in the social side of fab than just meeting up for Sex... Even though I have been tempted into bed once or twice... Lol

But some people don't realise the amount of verifications u can get from one nite at a social... He made me feel like a slapper that I jumped into bed with anyone... Some people wld want to be educated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not have a quantity of quality? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we are all on a Sex site... And I'm more interested in the social side of fab than just meeting up for Sex... Even though I have been tempted into bed once or twice... Lol

But some people don't realise the amount of verifications u can get from one nite at a social... He made me feel like a slapper that I jumped into bed with anyone... Some people wld want to be educated "

Yes they have to learn to read first of all.The main thing.

You can't change some ppl they have their own mindsets and even if u use a hammer no more wisdom will go in their heads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we are all on a Sex site... And I'm more interested in the social side of fab than just meeting up for Sex... Even though I have been tempted into bed once or twice... Lol

But some people don't realise the amount of verifications u can get from one nite at a social... He made me feel like a slapper that I jumped into bed with anyone... Some people wld want to be educated "

If my old memory serves me right u are a chatter box at socials and talk to everybody there hence the reason u get so many veries if only i could have pulled u away fro the crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is also funny is someone making an assumption on your sex life based on verifications. A person may have one veri but be sowing their oats near and far. Same goes for 'straight' guys having sex with guys, just not publicising it because of the amount of women that won't meet bisexual men on here. People really do put far too much faith in the internet haha.

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By *arbiegirl19 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hollymount


"Yes we are all on a Sex site... And I'm more interested in the social side of fab than just meeting up for Sex... Even though I have been tempted into bed once or twice... Lol

But some people don't realise the amount of verifications u can get from one nite at a social... He made me feel like a slapper that I jumped into bed with anyone... Some people wld want to be educated

If my old memory serves me right u are a chatter box at socials and talk to everybody there hence the reason u get so many veries if only i could have pulled u away fro the crowd "

Oh James u weren't quick enuf for me that nite....

????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is also funny is someone making an assumption on your sex life based on verifications. A person may have one veri but be sowing their oats near and far. Same goes for 'straight' guys having sex with guys, just not publicising it because of the amount of women that won't meet bisexual men on here. People really do put far too much faith in the internet haha."

You mean people lie on the internet????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not have a quantity of quality? "

We can all dream eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a low verification count, however, I’ve played multiple times with all and have to say, absolutely top marks as people and and sexy deviants everyone on my list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is also funny is someone making an assumption on your sex life based on verifications. A person may have one veri but be sowing their oats near and far."

Ya tinder is great isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve a low verification count, however, I’ve played multiple times with all and have to say, absolutely top marks as people and and sexy deviants everyone on my list."

Is that because u do not show up after org to meet somebody lol

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Got a message from couple during week... 1st message he insults me 2nd message tells me that his wife is not interested as I have too many verifications in the short length of time I'm on fab... And than I get the block button... Does people not understand the difference between a meet n greet a social nite.. only a handful of my verifications even suggests bedroom action.... Fuming that I didn't get my speak in before I was blocked.... Rant over... "

You really shouldn't let the opinion of a complete stranger bother you. You know the kind of person you are and that's what should matter most.. Do what you always do and don't even let those messages entertain your mind they get what they wanted to achieve if you do.

Jealously is awful it consumes so many ppl thats usually 80% reason for messages like that.. chalk down and move on have fun xxx

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