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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay guys quick question if you say your not interested in someone and they block you would you find it offensive and start badmouthing them to other people or just move on? We tend to block as not to repeatedly text the same people and annoy them but I was in a Kik group tonight and their was people dogging me over it to other potential meet . just want to know others opinions. Am I been totally rude by blocking or is it the easier option not to torment people that have already stated we weren't for them? Which I know we ain't for everyone and I have no problems with that at all! All feedback welcome because I'm seriously confused and considering leaving Fab for good!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it wouldn't bother me. I have told guys I'm not interested and every few days it weeks get a message again, I hardly have changed my mind in that time. So I sooner be blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually block so I don't accidentally message them again in the future. Nothing rude, just so I don't keep seeing their profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your feedback guys .. glad I'm not the only one thinks like this. Just seen the Kik chat got me thinking coz I don't want to come across as rude we give everyone a fair chance but the things they were saying were horrible.. guess I'll just ignore it and leave the childish behavior to them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your feedback guys .. glad I'm not the only one thinks like this. Just seen the Kik chat got me thinking coz I don't want to come across as rude we give everyone a fair chance but the things they were saying were horrible.. guess I'll just ignore it and leave the childish behavior to them.."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for your feedback guys .. glad I'm not the only one thinks like this. Just seen the Kik chat got me thinking coz I don't want to come across as rude we give everyone a fair chance but the things they were saying were horrible.. guess I'll just ignore it and leave the childish behavior to them..

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Great profile btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your feedback guys .. glad I'm not the only one thinks like this. Just seen the Kik chat got me thinking coz I don't want to come across as rude we give everyone a fair chance but the things they were saying were horrible.. guess I'll just ignore it and leave the childish behavior to them..

Great profile btw "

Thanks

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

The way you work things here for yourselves is your choice, not anyone else's. You do what works for you. If blocking helps you keep track of who you've decided is not for you then so be it.

No one is here to follow the rules of other members.

We all do what we do to suit ourselves, our time for meeting is limited enough, if blocking saves you time on finding potential meets then do it

If people have a problem with what you do then it's just that,,,, their problem.

That's just my opinion

Happy fabbing YOUR way

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope i wouldnt be

Have had a situation where the same guy has mailed me at three seperate times and im not inteterested and he has a bad memory.so block away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will always be those who want to create drama, leave them to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of disappointment on this site by having messages read and not answered or deleted. So being blocked would add to that disappointment. But I move on as such is life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block when I don’t get a response, lack of response indicates that they are not interested imo.

My block list is massive due to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t block cos I’d be worried I’d come across rude (stupid I know!), particularly if the person was sound and didn’t do anything to upset me etc but I do wonder would it be easier. It’s probably easier to thin out the mails!

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"No it wouldn't bother me. I have told guys I'm not interested and every few days it weeks get a message again, I hardly have changed my mind in that time. So I sooner be blocked."

This.......blocked 2 at the weekend because of constant messaging after saying no thankyou. Wouldn't consider it rude just another filter

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

it depends on the person. Iv messaged a few ladies to chat, even though they dont want to meet. Weve still had a bit of a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block away, it is your choice who you talk to and will stop the unwanted few that persist on messaging. Your profile, your rules. The block funtion is there for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t care about being blocked or Unfriended but I unfriended a couple of people before and they got upset so I dunno... I think I might just go nuclear and start blocking!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aww thanks you guys your all very good .

It's great to see so many share the same opinion.. as we all know there is nothing worse than repeat mails over n over when one or the other party just isn't interested.. Thanks guys and good morning to everyone have a great Tuesday

Minnie xo

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By *nthony18Man
over a year ago

Ireland

You have me blocked. Ive no offence taken to it. Cant see why you are getting hassle from people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have me blocked. Ive no offence taken to it. Cant see why you are getting hassle from people."

Same here have never sent u a message the way i look at it its your loss

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im blocked by numerous people on here women, men and couple's no idea why but hey less crap ye have to read....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me if I'm blocked by another profile it's just one of those things

I only block if someone has been rude to me or repeatedly messaging to the point its irritating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get blocked just for looking at someone’s profile - what’s that all about ?

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"I get blocked just for looking at someone’s profile - what’s that all about ? "

i think sometimes its just a way to sort out profilesthey might not like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well mini...in the last few minutes you randomly contacted me(weve never had any contact before),, u asked if wed like to chat,u gave me your kik contact, and when id replied saying id love to get in touch...u then block me!! Care to explain yourself? r is this some attention seeking post of yours..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id leave the kik group before leaving fab......

And be a little more selective about the people you choose to move onto kik conversation with.

Block as much as you want. Thats what its there for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well mini...in the last few minutes you randomly contacted me(weve never had any contact before),, u asked if wed like to chat,u gave me your kik contact, and when id replied saying id love to get in touch...u then block me!! Care to explain yourself? r is this some attention seeking post of yours.."

It seems rude alright, and like a lot of threads they can be skewed to suit a persons particular narrative..

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

I personally wouldnt block someone because theyve said no, it would be more caused by repeat mails asking the same questions.. ive also blocked several people over how i see them treating others in thw forums, no time for this 'better than you' attitide..

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

We block to enhance our enjoyment of the site whether it be because of comments in forum, aggressive/persistent messages, or any number of reasons.

We block as frequently as Dikembe Mutombo but without the finger wags (if you get that reference then you are awesome!)

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

We block so as not to waste our time and theirs if there is no chance of meeting. We've been blocked by several and take no offense, we are not for everyone and vice versa

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

It wouldn't bother me if I get blocked over me saying not interested... it saves the abuse I have received in the past.

Maybe the reason for blocking is so they don't mail again .

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I think people take blocking too seriously as a instance dislike to you while it can be true blocking is for many reasons...

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