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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never had a women text me first on here ..what am I doing wrong ?

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Paying attention to the fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age is incorrect as you admit in your written text. Perhaps contact admin to see if it can be changed.

And no offence to your cock but your profile pic could be changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leap year is every 4 years even in Ireland ,

I did not hear about exceptions.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I always message when i see a profile i like......

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Not a great profile pic.

No other pics.

Want a connection.... It's not a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a great profile pic.

No other pics.

Want a connection.... It's not a dating site.

"

Its also not an escort site what is wrong with him wanting a connection with a person before a meet?

Get involved more in the forums OP it usually leads to a few interactions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay cheers

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I have been lucky to receive a few messages from ladies from Ireland. You're a lovely bunch of people.

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

Top of the page, go into Account

Click on Edit Details

You're given the option to change your age of you need to

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a great profile pic.

No other pics.

Want a connection.... It's not a dating site.

Its also not an escort site what is wrong with him wanting a connection with a person before a meet?

Get involved more in the forums OP it usually leads to a few interactions"

Aw you cutie pie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can’t change it sorry not allowed

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Some women domail first. I rarely if ever mail first. So there are some that do mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a great profile pic.

No other pics.

Want a connection.... It's not a dating site.

Its also not an escort site what is wrong with him wanting a connection with a person before a meet?

Get involved more in the forums OP it usually leads to a few interactions"

This

I like a connection and to know we’ll have the craic together. I’ll sometimes mail the first time if maybe the person has interacted with me on a forum or their profile bio makes me laugh!

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away


"I can’t change it sorry not allowed "

You must have changed your age previously, as far as I'm aware you can only change your age once. Proper order as too many would be reducing their age to meet requirements for possible future meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a great profile pic.

No other pics.

Want a connection.... It's not a dating site.

Its also not an escort site what is wrong with him wanting a connection with a person before a meet?

Get involved more in the forums OP it usually leads to a few interactions

Aw you cutie pie "

Shhhhh you Ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent couple of messages 1st.got nowhere though so barely send 1st message now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not send messages so to be fair cannot expect

Messages unless i am org a social or party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see profile I like I always send first message.

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

I've received 1st messages from ladies. Most of them are currently friends. Because of the very limited number of ladies genuinely intetested in someone my age,I very rarely message first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done the first message in the past with a few.some have worked out some havent.been a while since done the first contact though

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

I rarely message first. An exceptional profile matching my interests will get my attention. I post on the forums and that seems to get me some attention, often from around the world. I'm happy with that.

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By *adylover321Man
over a year ago

navan

Perfectly ok for guys too make the first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been messaged first but I figure women get so many messages anyway they find it hard enough just scrolling through that. When I had a profile as a CD I got a little taste of what it would be like as a women on here and it wasn't fun .

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By *hadowcookieCouple
over a year ago

Portlaoise


"I have been lucky to receive a few messages from ladies from Ireland. You're a lovely bunch of people. "

That's because your profile pic is your handsome face not a dick pic... Not having a dig at your pic op, just if I had a choice between anyone's dick pic and their face I know which one I'd pick.. And yes I know people don't want to put up face pics but how about a classy pic that grabs the women's attention?

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you

I rearly send a first message

I just got sick of sending messages to have no reply

I posted this fact on my profile and instead ill fab a pic or give F or MF a wink and if im their cup of tea they will get back to me plus who wants to feel like a pest and so far it has worked

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I've sent messages first. Granted not very many but I've no issue been first..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day, if you like the person then just send the message - nothing ventured nothing gained and all that

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

This place is a lot of things to a lot of people and we can’t be what everyone is after. Your profile and how you carry yourself will dictate who is interested in you or who isn’t. Just be yourself and respect what others want or don’t want, that’s why you read profiles. I’ve been lucky enough to have been messaged even when it’s not a chat up. Though it’s easy for a polite reply as unlike the ladies here we aren’t inundated with the weird and wonderful requests or pictures. Maybe put a bit more into your profile and change the picture, good luck

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By *hadowcookieCouple
over a year ago

Portlaoise


"I rearly send a first message

I just got sick of sending messages to have no reply

I posted this fact on my profile and instead ill fab a pic or give F or MF a wink and if im their cup of tea they will get back to me plus who wants to feel like a pest and so far it has worked "

That's actually a great idea.. More effective than having to send the same old message.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been lucky to receive a few messages from ladies from Ireland. You're a lovely bunch of people.

That's because your profile pic is your handsome face not a dick pic... Not having a dig at your pic op, just if I had a choice between anyone's dick pic and their face I know which one I'd pick.. And yes I know people don't want to put up face pics but how about a classy pic that grabs the women's attention? "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would a woman not be the first to message - we’re all big girls and boys here.

Nothing ventured....

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