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Grieving. Ceremonial or necessary

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By *lucard5 OP   Man
over a year ago

kerry capital

I have mixed feelings on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, i think... i wouldnt be one that has gone through the typical stages of grief as laid out by kubler-ross, but i do miss my dog, and often recall fond memories of him. And strangely enough, i couldnt attempt to replace him. I find that unusual, how someone can replace the people they purport to love so quickly, i see this on fab, amongst other places and find it so disrespectful to the persons memory..anyways just reminiscing of people ive lost at this time of the year

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

necessary, altho i have issues in that dept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, i think... i wouldnt be one that has gone through the typical stages of grief as laid out by kubler-ross, but i do miss my dog, and often recall fond memories of him. And strangely enough, i couldnt attempt to replace him. I find that unusual, how someone can replace the people they purport to love so quickly, i see this on fab, amongst other places and find it so disrespectful to the persons memory..anyways just reminiscing of people ive lost at this time of the year "

Everyone is different I guess some need to fill the void with something/someone as they cant cope with the loss and gap it leaves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, i think... i wouldnt be one that has gone through the typical stages of grief as laid out by kubler-ross, but i do miss my dog, and often recall fond memories of him. And strangely enough, i couldnt attempt to replace him. I find that unusual, how someone can replace the people they purport to love so quickly, i see this on fab, amongst other places and find it so disrespectful to the persons memory..anyways just reminiscing of people ive lost at this time of the year

Everyone is different I guess some need to fill the void with something/someone as they cant cope with the loss and gap it leaves.

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Yeah, id like to be that understanding at times, but i do genuinely believe that some are too fucking selfish to consider anyone but themselves..anyways, not my bag i suppose, im struggling with the holdall

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Everybody is different and deals with grief in different ways. There is no set right or wrong way to grieve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody is different and deals with grief in different ways. There is no set right or wrong way to grieve. "

I totally agree with you, if you dont mind me saying your profile name reminds me of your deceased partner, i never met the lady, but i was involved in some of the discussions that took place here involving you both..maybe your not aware of, or even care for that matter, that your profile name is inextricably linked to your former partner.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Everybody is different and deals with grief in different ways. There is no set right or wrong way to grieve.

I totally agree with you, if you dont mind me saying your profile name reminds me of your deceased partner, i never met the lady, but i was involved in some of the discussions that took place here involving you both..maybe your not aware of, or even care for that matter, that your profile name is inextricably linked to your former partner. "

Yeah I will change my username in due course once I think of a new one and am ready to move beyond chat.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Grief is something we all go through in our lives. The grieving process is different for everyone.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Everybody is different and deals with grief in different ways. There is no set right or wrong way to grieve.

I totally agree with you, if you dont mind me saying your profile name reminds me of your deceased partner, i never met the lady, but i was involved in some of the discussions that took place here involving you both..maybe your not aware of, or even care for that matter, that your profile name is inextricably linked to your former partner.

Yeah I will change my username in due course once I think of a new one and am ready to move beyond chat. "
you do what is right for you, you make it clear on your profile your reasons for being on site and if you feel it's not right to change your name than don't...

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Everybody is different and deals with grief in different ways. There is no set right or wrong way to grieve.

I totally agree with you, if you dont mind me saying your profile name reminds me of your deceased partner, i never met the lady, but i was involved in some of the discussions that took place here involving you both..maybe your not aware of, or even care for that matter, that your profile name is inextricably linked to your former partner.

Yeah I will change my username in due course once I think of a new one and am ready to move beyond chat. you do what is right for you, you make it clear on your profile your reasons for being on site and if you feel it's not right to change your name than don't... "

I haven't really thought too far ahead. Everything is just sort of day by day at present.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

It hurts people in different ways . A friend of mine is still grieving over her father cos he died way to young where my dad died of old age and lived his life

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Everybody is different and deals with grief in different ways. There is no set right or wrong way to grieve.

I totally agree with you, if you dont mind me saying your profile name reminds me of your deceased partner, i never met the lady, but i was involved in some of the discussions that took place here involving you both..maybe your not aware of, or even care for that matter, that your profile name is inextricably linked to your former partner.

Yeah I will change my username in due course once I think of a new one and am ready to move beyond chat. you do what is right for you, you make it clear on your profile your reasons for being on site and if you feel it's not right to change your name than don't...

I haven't really thought too far ahead. Everything is just sort of day by day at present. "

Xx

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

We all grieve in our own way. We all have different coping mechanisms.

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