FabSwingers.com forum: What's a guy to do?

By *ottotrot688 OP Man
over a year ago

Newbridge

Been here for a while, maybe not as not as active here ad I should be, but as a married straight guy looking for a little fun, I'm wondeting what's wrong...so what's a guy gotta do?????

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

Unfortunately your main problem at the moment it being here for over a year with no verifications. I think this will put most off straight away. Id suggest, if you are serious about fab, which i feel a lot here actually arent, you need to be a regular participant in the threads or chat rooms so people will get to know who you are. Your profile isnt the worst to be fair, maybe just a bit more info on your bio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been here for a while, maybe not as not as active here ad I should be, but as a married straight guy looking for a little fun, I'm wondeting what's wrong...so what's a guy gotta do?????"

Have a cup of tea and a chat with the wife Barry's tea not lyons... Dont make that mistake.. Two different outcomes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you get yourself to a meet and greet?

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By *ottotrot688 OP Man
over a year ago

Newbridge

Thank God for MOTD hehehe

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By *lan5200Man
over a year ago

cavan

"Been here for a while, maybe not as not as active here ad I should be, but as a married straight guy looking for a little fun, I'm wondeting what's wrong...so what's a guy gotta do?????"

God love you. You’re a married guy and you’re looking for extracurricular fun and you can understand why the single ladies aren’t mad after you....

ever hear the saying: can’t see the wood for the trees ??

Poor you

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By *lan5200Man
over a year ago

cavan

"Been here for a while, maybe not as not as active here ad I should be, but as a married straight guy looking for a little fun, I'm wondeting what's wrong...so what's a guy gotta do?????

God love you. You’re a married guy and you’re looking for extracurricular fun and you can understand why the single ladies aren’t mad after you....

ever hear the saying: can’t see the wood for the trees ??

Poor you"

*cant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man asked for some advice not judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to be blunt with my advice I hope you won't be offended. You need to delete the cock shot you have and replace with a more tasteful one. Try to maybe add more photo's. Two is not many to go on. A bit more effort on the profile would be good as well. Most women read profiles so you need one that stands out from the hundreds the average lady reads.

As the others have said you being here a year with no verification will put a lot of people off as well as the fact that you are married. Try to even get a coffee meet or even a webcam verification. Good luck ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been here for a while, maybe not as not as active here ad I should be, but as a married straight guy looking for a little fun, I'm wondeting what's wrong...so what's a guy gotta do?????

God love you. You’re a married guy and you’re looking for extracurricular fun and you can understand why the single ladies aren’t mad after you....

ever hear the saying: can’t see the wood for the trees ??

Poor you"

Jesus lad lay off a bit, he asked for advise to help him, no complaints or pissing and moaning.

Whats the issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re married and probably have kids so for me I hope u don’t get any meets

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Why do people have to judge so much if he's married, wonder would most the lads commenting would say the same if a woman posted ....

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

"You’re married and probably have kids so for me I hope u don’t get any meets "

Bit harsh, maybe he has or maybe he hasnt. Maybe his wife is cheating on him, maybe he is stuck in a dead end situation where leaving could cause an even worse situation. Its surprising some of the comments on here from a supposedly openminded, non judgemental community

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

"Why do people have to judge so much if he's married, wonder would most the lads commenting would say the same if a woman posted ....

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dont think you need to wonder too hard about that one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm separated and we were only together for kid's sake for a number of years but no one outside the house had a clue...thought we were perfect couple....no one knows or needs to know what's behind closed doors...everyone has there reasons why they ended up on fab...don't think anyone can or should judge

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By *ottotrot688 OP Man
over a year ago

Newbridge

Interesting to see the different views, suddenly some people think they know you and pass judgment, from a forum on a site for 'supposed open minded people' others....thankfully a little more understanding and not so self righteous ...well we all have opinion and that's ok...some I'll take on board and the others.....well....don't think I need I need to say anymore...but thanks for voicing your opinions

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

I think your profile is pretty good and fairplay for being honest and upfront from the start about being married as a lot of guys here aren't

1. I would say decide on what three attributes describe you best (e.g. sarcastic, genuine and honest) and highlight your strengths in your profile.

2. Creative, original pics of yourself that will stand out in a different way (from the other 99% of men here

)

3. Have a good ice-breaker. Something that's refreshing or quirky that will get your message opened and read instead of "Hi" "Hi hun" or "Nice arse"

4. have fun, chat and just get to know people as people here

...I've said it before and will say it again...

"Be the flame not the moth" here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people have to judge so much if he's married, wonder would most the lads commenting would say the same if a woman posted ....

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is pretty good and fairplay for being honest and upfront from the start about being married as a lot of guys here aren't

1. I would say decide on what three attributes describe you best (e.g. sarcastic, genuine and honest) and highlight your strengths in your profile.

2. Creative, original pics of yourself that will stand out in a different way (from the other 99% of men here

)

3. Have a good ice-breaker. Something that's refreshing or quirky that will get your message opened and read instead of "Hi" "Hi hun" or "Nice arse"

4. have fun, chat and just get to know people as people here

...I've said it before and will say it again...

"Be the flame not the moth" here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is pretty good and fairplay for being honest and upfront from the start about being married as a lot of guys here aren't

1. I would say decide on what three attributes describe you best (e.g. sarcastic, genuine and honest) and highlight your strengths in your profile.

2. Creative, original pics of yourself that will stand out in a different way (from the other 99% of men here

)

3. Have a good ice-breaker. Something that's refreshing or quirky that will get your message opened and read instead of "Hi" "Hi hun" or "Nice arse"

4. have fun, chat and just get to know people as people here

...I've said it before and will say it again...

"Be the flame not the moth" here!

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By *ottotrot688 OP Man
over a year ago

Newbridge

I think your profile is pretty good and fairplay for being honest and upfront from the start about being married as a lot of guys here aren't

1. I would say decide on what three attributes describe you best (e.g. sarcastic, genuine and honest) and highlight your strengths in your profile.

2. Creative, original pics of yourself that will stand out in a different way (from the other 99% of men here

)

3. Have a good ice-breaker. Something that's refreshing or quirky that will get your message opened and read instead of "Hi" "Hi hun" or "Nice arse"

4. have fun, chat and just get to know people as people here

...I've said it before and will say it again...

"Be the flame not the moth" here!

Thanks a lot, makes sense appreciate it

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo

Some lads on here really are afraid of a little competition.

Best of luck op.

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By *ottotrot688 OP Man
over a year ago

Newbridge

"Some lads on here really are afraid of a little competition.

Best of luck op."

Hahaha May be you've a point, cheers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some lads on here really are afraid of a little competition.

Best of luck op.

Hahaha May be you've a point, cheers...

Ya if ye could all kindly fuck off and take the rest of the single lads with ye I'd greatly appriciate it

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By *lan5200Man
over a year ago

cavan

"The man asked for some advice not judgement "

Apologies if I offended

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