FabSwingers.com forum: Honestly, do you like it ladies?

By *ofistimacated OP Man
over a year ago

cavan town

This may seem like a self advertisement, but it is not my intention. I am quite a confident person, when it comes to meets i am confident in my ability to put myself across as who i am. If people like it great, if not thats ok too. I never resort to things like "i could make you cum in 2 seconds with my little finger" "i am unbelieveable in the sack" "i never fail to make a woman squirt" etc etc etc. I went against my own judgement and put a cock pic as my profile pic yesterday and got more attention than i ever had in one day, but personally i am much more attracted to women i can have a laugh with and a mutual connection with fully clothed before any fun. Just wondering if these "self professed sex god" statements and cock pics actally attract the majority/minority of ladies here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use them as a filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile picture is admittedly hot but what attracts me to your profile is two things. Firstly I can't see what your cock looks like. Give me a bit of mystery and suspense all day long. Secondly you have put a lot of effort into writing your profile instead of doing the usual "will fill in later" approach.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Ok I think everyone is different. When you say you got more attention was it views or messages?. I personally prefer a torso pic and someone I can have a laugh with . Everyone is looking for something different on here ,something that might lead to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

I use them as a filter"

Same as this

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I don't see how a picture of a person's body part can put you off on a sex site. It's like me saying "Not interested, your vagina is your profile pic". It seems very small minded to me. As I and others have said before, the true reflection of somebody is when you talk to them. I have even read women's comments on here saying they have met lads at meet and greets and got on like a house on fire. Very same lads they ignored on fab. Just shows you how things work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There could be a cock wrapped around another cock with a third cock on top on a profile picture. As long as received message from that profile is sound, clever, without any spelling mistakes with a face picture attached and all boxes ticked in a profile - consider me interested to at least have a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see how a picture of a person's body part can put you off on a sex site. It's like me saying "Not interested, your vagina is your profile pic". It seems very small minded to me. As I and others have said before, the true reflection of somebody is when you talk to them. I have even read women's comments on here saying they have met lads at meet and greets and got on like a house on fire. Very same lads they ignored on fab. Just shows you how things work."

Mate one thing I learned from this site... Women are extremely picky and control everything on this site. Took me a long time to get attention or meets. I had to go to swinging parties and sex parties and their they do be all over me. But on this it's a different story. Don't know what the crac is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I say I’m shallow I’m honest and I think a bio tells a lot about a person op you seem nice and put effort in. What one person likes another mightn’t so I’d never take offense.... horses for courses

As for the growtesk msgs I like to rip the piss and would never meet anyone that sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There could be a cock wrapped around another cock with a third cock on top on a profile picture. As long as received message from that profile is sound, clever, without any spelling mistakes with a face picture attached and all boxes ticked in a profile - consider me interested to at least have a conversation

That sounds like one very useful guy in that profile pic!

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I see a profile with a cock pic and think to myself, well that's what he sees himself as.. a cock.. nothing more.

A man that puts effort in to his profile and a pic with a bit of thought has much more respect from me and i'm more likely to chat with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see a profile with a cock pic and think to myself, well that's what he sees himself as.. a cock.. nothing more.

A man that puts effort in to his profile and a pic with a bit of thought has much more respect from me and i'm more likely to chat with him."

Just for personal advice for me ... Do you think my profile picture says that? I chose to leave boxers on to leave something to the imagination. If you think so I'm gonna go change it now haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I say I’m shallow I’m honest and I think a bio tells a lot about a person op you seem nice and put effort in. What one person likes another mightn’t so I’d never take offense.... horses for courses

As for the growtesk msgs I like to rip the piss and would never meet anyone that sad "
Whats rip the piss mean ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think us guys need to stand out from all the others on here. I thought my profile was honest and funny. After I looked at yours I need to up my game.

I see so many profiles that make minimalistic look overweight (nothing wrong with being overweight). And these same profiles can’t even get photo verified and I am starting to shy away from them as they’re either fake or not worth the effort in return.

I agree with others about horses for courses. Picture wise you could do one or two of fully nude to please those. But it seems them women like mystery. And if that’s the case why do they insist on a face pic. Haha.

Good luck mate

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I couldn't care less what a profile picture is. The true reflection of a person is when you speak to them.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Great post OP and as I was the one who instigated the cock thread yesterday,I would just like to say it was only a bit of fun as I was off sick with flu.Anyway I never checked out any of the profiles tbh.As the lady above said ,all the bravado talk from guys about what they can and cant do I take with a pinch of salt and would actually avoid those types of profiles .We prefer straight up people who aren't up their own arsesand can have a decent conversation about things other then sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great post OP and as I was the one who instigated the cock thread yesterday,I would just like to say it was only a bit of fun as I was off sick with flu.Anyway I never checked out any of the profiles tbh.As the lady above said ,all the bravado talk from guys about what they can and cant do I take with a pinch of salt and would actually avoid those types of profiles .We prefer straight up people who aren't up their own arsesand can have a decent conversation about things other then sex .

I wonder if reverse psychology would work. Instead of bragging about what you (think) you can do, highlight the things you can’t so it may invoke a challenge. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I'm partial to the odd cock or even two, they aren't the most aesthetically pleasing aspect of the male physique. There is also the suggestion when faced with an array of cock pics that either this is all the owner has to offer, or else he thinks great sex is all about the cock, neither of these prospects are particularly appealing to me personally.

So while I have no objection to cock pics per se, if they are the dominant aspect of a profile visually, it encourages me to look elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for the growtesk msgs I like to rip the piss and would never meet anyone that sad Whats rip the piss mean ?"

Means if there smart asses I’ll be worse and be sarcastic etc

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah, despite what you might think on the forum, cock pics, cum pics etc get the most attention.

Some people with nothing bud cock pics doing just fine

If youre going down that route you basically have to wait for a woman to be horny and she will message, and then you have to be ready accomodate/travel. If you leave it too long they will wonder why they have a dick as a penal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So while I have no objection to cock pics per se, if they are the dominant aspect of a profile visually, it encourages me to look elsewhere. "

Good idea. I’ve now only have1 cock pic on my profile. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t expect a cock pic and like someone said above a good torso pic is way more impressive. Being honest I’ve only ever seen one dick pic that made me think “Wow” (rightly so as it turns out!!), mostly cos it was very cool and attached to a smoking body and handsome face... personally the face is the most important... I like watching a good looking guy’s face in the heat of the moment

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By *ofistimacated OP Man
over a year ago

cavan town

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you are a bad influence

dont get me wrong, im not complaining. Nothing wrong with the thread. Fun threads like that are part of fab and it gets a bit of banter going. I am just curious as to what the fab women really think of the over confident guys. (Over confident in my eyes but obviously thats subjective)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it's a kinda " Your damned if you do and damned if you don't kinda site!!". Your profile has to show "how you stand out from the other guys on this!!" Guessing there a ratio of 25:1 men to women on this, guys probably use what they think will be more advantageous to get a reply from a lady! Still say there's only one way to get to know someone on this and have a chat, bit of banter and then decide? Fair enough if you get the "no thanks!" reply, at least they had the decency to reply and not delete or block you!! Good thread OP, happy fabbing!

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By *ellowguy13Man
over a year ago

Sligo Leitrim

With the ratio of men to women I guess they can afford to be picky. For me its about the chase, the mystery of what you can't see. Vagina pics not my thing. You sound down to earth, looking for similar with no dramas. Wishing us luck

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

It's like when they say they dont do married men.

Same thing they cant say out loud they just want dick pics.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

you are a bad influence

Oh you guys are just easily led astray that's all,as I said earlier I don't take what they say as gospel and even if I did it doesn't mean I'd be interested in them .

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

I much prefer a profile with some coverage, both clothing and details. They are the kind that catch my attention and make me go through the rest of the persons public pics, if there are any.

I'm also drawn to people in the forums and how they come across

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures that don't show everything catches my attention much more than cock pics.

And a well written profile tells a lot about a person.

Really sexy pics op btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness it was a fun thread..im not a dick pic person but also in fairness op it was a very very nice photo..i just had to view the rest of your profile and wasn't disappointed..

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By *handycornWoman
over a year ago

BELFAST

I've come across that judgement of people based on their profile pics by members on here. Small minded is a good way of putting it. Some people prefer the mystery, others like to know what they're getting themselves into (so to speak).

Personally I don't have strong feelings about a cock pic but I wouldn't choose to see it in place of the rest of the body. The entirety of a person is what turns me on... each part and that includes a nice looking willy :'D

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By *handycornWoman
over a year ago

BELFAST

The thing that turns me on most is when a guy writes in full sentences and I love that about your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume like most things on fab and the real world its horses for courses.

Some people love cock pics, some people hate them, some people like a tastefull one(pic of the cock not a tastey cock ye pervs), some people like a few pics but more body... ya see where I am gping with this.

I imagine the bravado is the same.. some people like it some will just take it as a bit of harmless banter

No definitive answet but at least you will get to know your audience

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By *handycornWoman
over a year ago

BELFAST

I meant to quote this. Not good at this stuff.

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By *ofistimacated OP Man
over a year ago

cavan town

"In fairness it was a fun thread..im not a dick pic person but also in fairness op it was a very very nice photo..i just had to view the rest of your profile and wasn't disappointed..

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why thank you so much miss spirit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hands up for having a half arsed profile at the minute, some people may call it lazy, a smashing lady on here even wrote me a new one and sent it by message

, and I will amend it.

My point is, I don't think a well written profile is the most important thing, it's probably more important how you put yourself across on the forum or being funny and original in your messages.. Works for me until they read my profile

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By *ofistimacated OP Man
over a year ago

cavan town

"The thing that turns me on most is when a guy writes in full sentences and I love that about your profile. "
thanks _handycorn ill pass the message on to the person who wrote it for me lol yeah im not a huge fan of text speak myself but an odd

is grand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And keep the dick pics cuming lads, to much competition around here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hands up for having a half arsed profile at the minute, some people may call it lazy, a smashing lady on here even wrote me a new one and sent it by message

, and I will amend it.

Tsk tsk you haven't finished your homework yet. See me after class

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By *ofistimacated OP Man
over a year ago

cavan town

"Hands up for having a half arsed profile at the minute, some people may call it lazy, a smashing lady on here even wrote me a new one and sent it by message

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why didnt i think of that?

jaysus for a man thats only been here a wet week, by fab standards your profile is far from lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hands up for having a half arsed profile at the minute, some people may call it lazy, a smashing lady on here even wrote me a new one and sent it by message

, and I will amend it.

Tsk tsk you haven't finished your homework yet. See me after class

Ive been a naughty boy miss please don't spank me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hands up for having a half arsed profile at the minute, some people may call it lazy, a smashing lady on here even wrote me a new one and sent it by message

why didnt i think of that?

jaysus for a man thats only been here a wet week, by fab standards your profile is far from lazy

I Was here with a couple profile before and she's Feckin looking to come back again.. So not a newbie,

and won't be responding to single males either, apologies

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Damn I missed that cock pic of the op.

cock pics are great but i also like to see what's attached to the cock.

As for the braggers: avoid, avoid, avoid. The more talk the lesser the skills.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Damn I missed that cock pic of the op.

cock pics are great but i also like to see what's attached to the cock.

As for the braggers: avoid, avoid, avoid. The more talk the lesser the skills.

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totally agree. When a woman says "I'm good in bed" = "I'm shit in bed" but I can sleep for ireland.

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By *ofistimacated OP Man
over a year ago

cavan town

"Damn I missed that cock pic of the op.

cock pics are great but i also like to see what's attached to the cock.

As for the braggers: avoid, avoid, avoid. The more talk the lesser the skills.

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ah to be honest you didnt miss much ... i mean... my god it was beautiful, you should have seen it, a site to behold

is that the type of bragging youre talking about doghunter

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By *orinaTSTV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin

Being honest in your profile is important. For me cock pics and pussy pics don't do anything . I Prefer personality then see where it goes physically ..

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Damn I missed that cock pic of the op.

cock pics are great but i also like to see what's attached to the cock.

As for the braggers: avoid, avoid, avoid. The more talk the lesser the skills.

ah to be honest you didnt miss much ... i mean... my god it was beautiful, you should have seen it, a site to behold

is that the type of bragging youre talking about doghunter

I'm afraid you're not very good at it. You should have brought in some inches or size reference there, it doesn't matter if it's true or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a dick attached to a nice cock that presses the whole impression down below.You can't make perfect sex with someone u can't laugh with.

Male or female a sense of humour is essential in my opinion and of course no harm if u can have a banter and a good chat with him/her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a dick attached to a nice cock that presses the whole impression down below.You can't make perfect sex with someone u can't laugh with.

Male or female a sense of humour is essential in my opinion and of course no harm if u can have a banter and a good chat with him/her"

Well said!! Sick saying that!! You might look like a porn star, but if the intelligence isn't there to have a chat, what's the point?? I know guys what your going to say!!!

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