FabSwingers.com forum: Face pics

By *arti and Paul OP Couple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

So generally when is everyone comfortable sending face pics after first contact?. For us we like to be discreet and only send them after a day or two of pm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends you have people that expect a pic on the first mail. There the nosey feckers with plenty to hide( I've called there bluff). Then you have those that refuse to send one. So it all depends as they say what's good for the goose is good for the gander

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Some people send face pics with first message!! Than expect one in return, I'm not comfortable doing that and that's my choice like it's the sender's choice to do it straight away. I've had said to me I'm a timewaister if I don't reply with a picture Or I must be minger if I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We no longer exchange face pics at all, simply too many weirdos and people with no concept of discretion on here. We will meet socially, pictures aren't a true representation of people anyway, attraction we find comes mainly from personality and interaction.

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By *arti and Paul OP Couple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

"Some people send face pics with first message!! Than expect one in return, I'm not comfortable doing that and that's my choice like it's the sender's choice to do it straight away. I've had said to me I'm a timewaister if I don't reply with a picture Or I must be minger if I don't

We had more or less the same thing as above last night frustrated!!

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By *arti and Paul OP Couple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

"We no longer exchange face pics at all, simply too many weirdos and people with no concept of discretion on here. We will meet socially, pictures aren't a true representation of people anyway, attraction we find comes mainly from personality and interaction.

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martine would take this view a lot more than me! Can never be too careful.

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Nope rarely send them ... will if there is a huge distance so not to make a long journey to find Shrek and Fiona

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford

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By *arti and Paul OP Couple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

"Nope rarely send them ... will if there is a huge distance so not to make a long journey to find Shrek and Fiona "
Fiona might not be so bad ! Thanks for all the reply’s

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford

Every other day u read in the papers about someone being scammed and gangs threatening to post pictures on fb etc if people don’t pay thousands to them

Some people post face pics freely,

some I guess this is their job,

some just aren’t even real I guess and

some I guess don’t mind their face and nudes being seen by the world?

I come from small town Ireland where this type of thing would see you ostracised from the community. I wish we didn’t live in a world where we had to care what other people think, but I do;(

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By *arti and Paul OP Couple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

"Every other day u read in the papers about someone being scammed and gangs threatening to post pictures on fb etc if people don’t pay thousands to them

Some people post face pics freely,

some I guess this is their job,

some just aren’t even real I guess and

some I guess don’t mind their face and nudes being seen by the world?

I come from small town Ireland where this type of thing would see you ostracised from the community. I wish we didn’t live in a world where we had to care what other people think, but I do;(

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could not agree more with you

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Every other day u read in the papers about someone being scammed and gangs threatening to post pictures on fb etc if people don’t pay thousands to them

Some people post face pics freely,

some I guess this is their job,

some just aren’t even real I guess and

some I guess don’t mind their face and nudes being seen by the world?

I come from small town Ireland where this type of thing would see you ostracised from the community. I wish we didn’t live in a world where we had to care what other people think, but I do;(

But most don't because they don't want people seeing them and telling the wife though don't they!!!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Face pics are very important before a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many different views on face pics and they are kinda used as a weapon to a degree by many ppl , eg send one or no reply . In the fourm like face pic Friday swap with ppl but there are many who just collect and not send out there . I think they should be banned and only used by administration for verification purposes and the same rule apply to cock pics also .

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By *arti and Paul OP Couple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

"There are many different views on face pics and they are kinda used as a weapon to a degree by many ppl , eg send one or no reply . In the fourm like face pic Friday swap with ppl but there are many who just collect and not send out there . I think they should be banned and only used by administration for verification purposes and the same rule apply to cock pics also ."
totally agree on being used as a weapon! The thing that got me rattled about the one last night we all live within a mile of each other so for us it would make lots more sense to chat for a day or two and then exchange as stated on our profile or even pop down to one of the many coffee shops

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford

"Every other day u read in the papers about someone being scammed and gangs threatening to post pictures on fb etc if people don’t pay thousands to them

Some people post face pics freely,

some I guess this is their job,

some just aren’t even real I guess and

some I guess don’t mind their face and nudes being seen by the world?

I come from small town Ireland where this type of thing would see you ostracised from the community. I wish we didn’t live in a world where we had to care what other people think, but I do;(

But most don't because they don't want people seeing them and telling the wife though don't they!!!

That too! I agree that there comes a point where u have to share face pics or ur not going to be interested in meeting. But I guess u can only work on instinct and decide if u can trust someone or not. If someone’s pics look like they are from a magazine, they probably are! If they say they are a Nigerian princess, u can’t get much more trustworthy than royalty....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally, I send face pic whenever I am sending the first message. I think it saves time for the other person/persons as they can see if theere might be attraction there. Could be wrong but that's my take

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I think it boils down to the connection and personal comfort levels. Generally I will only share if I think I’d meet and that goes for a social meet. Then when also comes down to that gut instinct the same as the time spent talking or mailing before meeting. I trust my instincts with people and so far I’ve been lucky though and have known about someone very quickly, swapped pictures and got on great. Then again I’ve also spoken to someone for ages before the subject ever came up and we are still great friends off here. Trust how you feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it boils down to the connection and personal comfort levels. Generally I will only share if I think I’d meet and that goes for a social meet. Then when also comes down to that gut instinct the same as the time spent talking or mailing before meeting. I trust my instincts with people and so far I’ve been lucky though and have known about someone very quickly, swapped pictures and got on great. Then again I’ve also spoken to someone for ages before the subject ever came up and we are still great friends off here. Trust how you feel. "

Judge each case one for one. Trust your instincts and be cautious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am one of those people who asks for a face picture upfront.

Some call me a collector, even if I delete them right after looking at it.

Most just send me a pic without a coherent message and get quickly deleted too.

Being attracted to someone is a big deal for me and I'm not looking for penpals which ends up being the case with all that "chat for a bit and then may or may not exchange for discression purposes".

If I decide to message someone first - always attach a pic of myself with a message.

As long as you don't send them pictures to every dodgy profile on site - it should be safe enough. But why would anyone want to message dodgy profiles in a first place...

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford

"I am one of those people who asks for a face picture upfront.

Some call me a collector, even if I delete them right after looking at it.

Most just send me a pic without a coherent message and get quickly deleted too.

Being attracted to someone is a big deal for me and I'm not looking for penpals which ends up being the case with all that "chat for a bit and then may or may not exchange for discression purposes".

If I decide to message someone first - always attach a pic of myself with a message.

As long as you don't send them pictures to every dodgy profile on site - it should be safe enough. But why would anyone want to message dodgy profiles in a first place... "

I agree it come down to making a call on the vibe you get, I made a call that you weren’t dodgy!! But who really knows

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By *arti and Paul OP Couple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

"I am one of those people who asks for a face picture upfront.

Some call me a collector, even if I delete them right after looking at it.

Most just send me a pic without a coherent message and get quickly deleted too.

Being attracted to someone is a big deal for me and I'm not looking for penpals which ends up being the case with all that "chat for a bit and then may or may not exchange for discression purposes".

If I decide to message someone first - always attach a pic of myself with a message.

As long as you don't send them pictures to every dodgy profile on site - it should be safe enough. But why would anyone want to message dodgy profiles in a first place... "
I get this and to be honest we would not have a problem sending face pics to a profile like yours 26 Veri meets etc but unfortunately profiles like yours is very rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people do. I constantly get messages saying "how do I know that you're not some old man and your veris are real" which I find hilarious...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of people do. I constantly get messages saying "how do I know that you're not some old man and your veris are real" which I find hilarious..."

That is some body for an old man!! Fair play!

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By *arti and Paul OP Couple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

"A lot of people do. I constantly get messages saying "how do I know that you're not some old man and your veris are real" which I find hilarious..."
yes someone with very few veri I could understand, but as I say someone with lots like you I don’t think anyone could question the authenticity of your profile, I can’t understand why anyone in their right mind would question it..

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By *arti and Paul OP Couple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

"A lot of people do. I constantly get messages saying "how do I know that you're not some old man and your veris are real" which I find hilarious...

That is some body for an old man!! Fair play!"
if that’s an old man I’m Jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of people do. I constantly get messages saying "how do I know that you're not some old man and your veris are real" which I find hilarious...

That is some body for an old man!! Fair play! if that’s an old man I’m Jesus "

Pass us some wine and bread there, cheers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of people do. I constantly get messages saying "how do I know that you're not some old man and your veris are real" which I find hilarious...

That is some body for an old man!! Fair play! if that’s an old man I’m Jesus

Pass us some wine and bread there, cheers!"

Old secretly bisexual man at that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of people do. I constantly get messages saying "how do I know that you're not some old man and your veris are real" which I find hilarious...

That is some body for an old man!! Fair play! if that’s an old man I’m Jesus

Pass us some wine and bread there, cheers!

Old secretly bisexual man at that lol "

I knew there was something funny about you Missus!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now going back to being serious - my face pic rule applied from a day 1. Way before I had any verifications...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been known to share a facepic from time to time, but had to stop due to my gawwwjus face sending people into a tizzy

There was so much squirting it caused a countrywide hosepipe ban!

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By *arti and Paul OP Couple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

So it really is down to making sure you check profiles and ensuring it’s genuine before even making contact. Meet and greets sound so much easier ??

I wondered who was responsible for that hosepipe ban lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been known to share a facepic from time to time, but had to stop due to my gawwwjus face sending people into a tizzy

There was so much squirting it caused a countrywide hosepipe ban!

I'm now curious...

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

Can understand people who are in some jobs... but in saying that we send face pictures early on because we have no interest in wasting other people's time if we don't find an attraction

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