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"Does anyone agree with me that a guy is NOT 'straight' if he is willing to fuck or suck the cock of another guy? Seriously? He would be Bi-Sexual at the very least? " Or could be bi curious and experimental...why label it  | |||
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"Yes...there're business...but be accurate and say bi curious or bi...to say 'straight' is just a lie or dilusional" No not at all maybe they unsure about their sexuality. Why judge them, have they judged you or posted about you being here behind your partner's back? | |||
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"Yes...there're business...but be accurate and say bi curious or bi...to say 'straight' is just a lie or dilusional" No its none of your buisness.... as long as his willy is wrapped who it was in before is none of your buisness. Your not in a relationship | |||
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"Does anyone agree with me that a guy is NOT 'straight' if he is willing to fuck or suck the cock of another guy? Seriously? He would be Bi-Sexual at the very least? " He could be willing to play without being slightly attracted to guys in which case he would be straight technically. It happens in prison. | |||
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"Yip...i agree...but why call yorself straight...its like someone is trying to hide there true sexuality...i just think people on here should be true about they're sexuality...just me i suppose. I simply think its wrong and trying they are trying to hide from admitting it" Why?? I hate the bi-cur label, everybody is curious some just have the inclination to try it out is all. So what? Why do you need to know? | |||
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"I dont need to know...but if someone has straight on there profile i wont reply to any mails...if they cant be truthful then im not interested" Trying a cock shouldnt define a sexuality nor lead to judgement, if they feel straight then they are. What of it? | |||
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"I dont need to know...but if someone has straight on there profile i wont reply to any mails...if they cant be truthful then im not interested" Ah! You're suffering from the inundated with mails/males thing. Now you'll have the female section backing anyway. I agree with Rover (I know, typical), if the willy's wrapped, where's your issue? If it says Straight on their profile but they're contacting you, then what do you care about their profile status, if you like the look/sound of them? Seems you are making a mountain out of a molehill here, or what some regard as attention grabbing thread. | |||
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"I also agree about the bi cur label...you are either straight...bi...or gay..dosent matter which one...but at least be honest about it...and not try to decieve" You need to loosen up a bit there. Loose the labeling, you will enjoy yourself more! | |||
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"Try a cock and be straight? Dont be ridiculous...that means you are bi...simple NO completely straight guy would even contemplate going near a cock" I dont care ...its none of my buisness. Im not marrying these guys  | |||
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"I dont need to know...but if someone has straight on there profile i wont reply to any mails...if they cant be truthful then im not interested Ah! You're suffering from the inundated with mails/males thing. Now you'll have the female section backing anyway. I agree with Rover (I know, typical), if the willy's wrapped, where's your issue? If it says Straight on their profile but they're contacting you, then what do you care about their profile status, if you like the look/sound of them? Seems you are making a mountain out of a molehill here, or what some regard as attention grabbing thread. " Ohhh wisdom in them words JD | |||
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"Yip maybe my problem...i just think its a complete dilusion to think you are straight if you want to suck a cock or fuck a guys ass" So by that measure, would any guy wanting to be pegged by a woman with a strapon also be bi/gay in your opinion? | |||
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"Yip maybe my problem...i just think its a complete dilusion to think you are straight if you want to suck a cock or fuck a guys ass" So be it then ... don't meet them | |||
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"Yip maybe my problem...i just think its a complete dilusion to think you are straight if you want to suck a cock or fuck a guys ass So by that measure, would any guy wanting to be pegged by a woman with a strapon also be bi/gay in your opinion?" No he would be wise!! | |||
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"True...not getting martied to them...but they still want to label themselves as straight when they are far from it" No you want to label on this occasion | |||
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"Im not labelling...they are...and lying in the process" Ok but again its their buisness not mine | |||
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"I dont believe me...could never trust someone who lies like that" Its a swing site .... very few here for a relationship .... im very confused by your strong reaction and desire for that level of trust. Theres two people i trust that ive met here in two yrs, after that well its temporary | |||
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"I dont believe me...could never trust someone who lies like that" It aint a lie, bi is living bi, being sexually and emotionally attracted to men and women. Sucking a cock now and again is just being horny. | |||
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"It only matters if you're about to meet a liar...its scary enough meeting ones off here without knowing they are a liar as well" You'll find most are lying to some degree. | |||
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"Pegged by a strapon? ...yip...bi...i have loads and loads of truly straight mates who would freak out at the proposal of having something shoved up there ass" Ok, maybe you should educate them on where the male G Spot is then and see their eyes widen, if nothing else. I consider myself straight, not Fab straight, though I'd definitely allow a lady to bring me to the ultimate male orgasm, by including my G/P Spot in the play (after advance warning and due cleansing process) and don't see anything non-straight in that. Everyone has different views on these topics but biology cannot be denied and determining potential playmates just because of their labels is a limiting factor on one person. You. You're the one missing out on potential fun, not them. I'm not deprecating your view, just trying to make you aware of its limitations. | |||
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"Pegged by a strapon? ...yip...bi...i have loads and loads of truly straight mates who would freak out at the proposal of having something shoved up there ass Ok, maybe you should educate them on where the male G Spot is then and see their eyes widen, if nothing else. I consider myself straight, not Fab straight, though I'd definitely allow a lady to bring me to the ultimate male orgasm, by including my G/P Spot in the play (after advance warning and due cleansing process) and don't see anything non-straight in that. Everyone has different views on these topics but biology cannot be denied and determining potential playmates just because of their labels is a limiting factor on one person. You. You're the one missing out on potential fun, not them. I'm not deprecating your view, just trying to make you aware of its limitations. " Ahh JD ... a little strap on, you'd love it | |||
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"Pegged by a strapon? ...yip...bi...i have loads and loads of truly straight mates who would freak out at the proposal of having something shoved up there ass Ok, maybe you should educate them on where the male G Spot is then and see their eyes widen, if nothing else. I consider myself straight, not Fab straight, though I'd definitely allow a lady to bring me to the ultimate male orgasm, by including my G/P Spot in the play (after advance warning and due cleansing process) and don't see anything non-straight in that. Everyone has different views on these topics but biology cannot be denied and determining potential playmates just because of their labels is a limiting factor on one person. You. You're the one missing out on potential fun, not them. I'm not deprecating your view, just trying to make you aware of its limitations. Ahh JD ... a little strap on, you'd love it "Some day  | |||
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"Pegged by a strapon? ...yip...bi...i have loads and loads of truly straight mates who would freak out at the proposal of having something shoved up there ass Ok, maybe you should educate them on where the male G Spot is then and see their eyes widen, if nothing else. I consider myself straight, not Fab straight, though I'd definitely allow a lady to bring me to the ultimate male orgasm, by including my G/P Spot in the play (after advance warning and due cleansing process) and don't see anything non-straight in that. Everyone has different views on these topics but biology cannot be denied and determining potential playmates just because of their labels is a limiting factor on one person. You. You're the one missing out on potential fun, not them. I'm not deprecating your view, just trying to make you aware of its limitations. Ahh JD ... a little strap on, you'd love it
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"Pegged by a strapon? ...yip...bi...i have loads and loads of truly straight mates who would freak out at the proposal of having something shoved up there ass Ok, maybe you should educate them on where the male G Spot is then and see their eyes widen, if nothing else. I consider myself straight, not Fab straight, though I'd definitely allow a lady to bring me to the ultimate male orgasm, by including my G/P Spot in the play (after advance warning and due cleansing process) and don't see anything non-straight in that. Everyone has different views on these topics but biology cannot be denied and determining potential playmates just because of their labels is a limiting factor on one person. You. You're the one missing out on potential fun, not them. I'm not deprecating your view, just trying to make you aware of its limitations. Ahh JD ... a little strap on, you'd love it
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"Pegged by a strapon? ...yip...bi...i have loads and loads of truly straight mates who would freak out at the proposal of having something shoved up there ass Ok, maybe you should educate them on where the male G Spot is then and see their eyes widen, if nothing else. I consider myself straight, not Fab straight, though I'd definitely allow a lady to bring me to the ultimate male orgasm, by including my G/P Spot in the play (after advance warning and due cleansing process) and don't see anything non-straight in that. Everyone has different views on these topics but biology cannot be denied and determining potential playmates just because of their labels is a limiting factor on one person. You. You're the one missing out on potential fun, not them. I'm not deprecating your view, just trying to make you aware of its limitations. Ahh JD ... a little strap on, you'd love it
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"Does anyone agree with me that a guy is NOT 'straight' if he is willing to fuck or suck the cock of another guy? Seriously? He would be Bi-Sexual at the very least? " If he does just one of them he is bi or gay definitely not straight | |||
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"No sorry...dont agree...if you suck cocks you are either bi or gay....simple as" Lol .... so pansexuality is wasted on you | |||
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"No sorry...dont agree...if you suck cocks you are either bi or gay....simple as" Not sure who you're replying to there OP. Please use Reply & Quote. Regardless, I've just realised I haven't had my daily perv through 15 pages of ladies so, I'll leave you to it for a bit. I have to say you really are over thinking this one though. Live and let live and be happy with the fun moments you do find on Fab and elsewhere | |||
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"No sorry...dont agree...if you suck cocks you are either bi or gay....simple as Not sure who you're replying to there OP. Please use Reply & Quote. Regardless, I've just realised I haven't had my daily perv through 15 pages of ladies so, I'll leave you to it for a bit. I have to say you really are over thinking this one though. Live and let live and be happy with the fun moments you do find on Fab and elsewhere "Oops ...sorry...didnt use the reply and quote thing | |||
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"No sorry...dont agree...if you suck cocks you are either bi or gay....simple as Lol .... so pansexuality is wasted on you "Pansexuality includes bi gay and straight...not exculsively straight...as some on here state Pity there isn't an option on the profile page for that | |||
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"No sorry...dont agree...if you suck cocks you are either bi or gay....simple as Lol .... so pansexuality is wasted on you
Pansexuality includes bi gay and straight...not exculsively straight...as some on here state
Pity there isn't an option on the profile page for that
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"No sorry...dont agree...if you suck cocks you are either bi or gay....simple as Lol .... so pansexuality is wasted on you
Pansexuality includes bi gay and straight...not exculsively straight...as some on here state
Pity there isn't an option on the profile page for that
Pansexuals dont do labels "They cant on here...there isnt an option for it ... And 'Pansexual' by the very nature of the term is a label | |||
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"No sorry...dont agree...if you suck cocks you are either bi or gay....simple as Lol .... so pansexuality is wasted on you
Pansexuality includes bi gay and straight...not exculsively straight...as some on here state
Pity there isn't an option on the profile page for that
Pansexuals dont do labels
They cant on here...there isnt an option for it ...
And 'Pansexual' by the very nature of the term is a label"Look it up hun ... to be pansexual is to attracted to a person irregardless of gender. | |||
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"Does anyone agree with me that a guy is NOT 'straight' if he is willing to fuck or suck the cock of another guy? Seriously? He would be Bi-Sexual at the very least? If he does just one of them he is bi or gay definitely not straight " Thanks for agreeing At last...someone else who isnt attacking the premise | |||
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"No sorry...dont agree...if you suck cocks you are either bi or gay....simple as Lol .... so pansexuality is wasted on you
Pansexuality includes bi gay and straight...not exculsively straight...as some on here state
Pity there isn't an option on the profile page for that
Pansexuals dont do labels
They cant on here...there isnt an option for it ...
And 'Pansexual' by the very nature of the term is a label
Look it up hun ... to be pansexual is to attracted to a person irregardless of gender. "Yip...exactly...but not someone who says they are straight when they're not | |||
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"No sorry...dont agree...if you suck cocks you are either bi or gay....simple as Lol .... so pansexuality is wasted on you
Pansexuality includes bi gay and straight...not exculsively straight...as some on here state
Pity there isn't an option on the profile page for that
Pansexuals dont do labels
They cant on here...there isnt an option for it ...
And 'Pansexual' by the very nature of the term is a label
Look it up hun ... to be pansexual is to attracted to a person irregardless of gender.
Yip...exactly...but not someone who says they are straight when they're not"Your missing the point they dont label themselves, neither gay, bi or straight. Listen fair play to you ... your stubbernly conservative. Me and my liberal ideals are off to bed ... you can carry on redefining someone's sexuality | |||
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"Some lads find that if they describe themselves as bi they'll be less of a man or something like that. We've encountered some couples where the male part played with Dom when on their profile they're listed as straight, but that's life." I agree...its like they will be considered 'less' of a man when in fact they would be thought more of if they would just be truthful. Up to them i suppose...i just think its a phoney way of trying to disguise the truth | |||
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"No sorry...dont agree...if you suck cocks you are either bi or gay....simple as Lol .... so pansexuality is wasted on you
Pansexuality includes bi gay and straight...not exculsively straight...as some on here state
Pity there isn't an option on the profile page for that
Pansexuals dont do labels
They cant on here...there isnt an option for it ...
And 'Pansexual' by the very nature of the term is a label
Look it up hun ... to be pansexual is to attracted to a person irregardless of gender.
Yip...exactly...but not someone who says they are straight when they're not
Your missing the point they dont label themselves, neither gay, bi or straight.
Listen fair play to you ... your stubbernly conservative. Me and my liberal ideals are off to bed ... you can carry on redefining someone's sexuality "Lol...night night...and thanks for the opinions | |||
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"Some lads find that if they describe themselves as bi they'll be less of a man or something like that. We've encountered some couples where the male part played with Dom when on their profile they're listed as straight, but that's life. I agree...its like they will be considered 'less' of a man when in fact they would be thought more of if they would just be truthful. Up to them i suppose...i just think its a phoney way of trying to disguise the truth " Thought more of by you, perhaps but, you may not be their main quarry, merely a side dish. Really man, live and let live. People classify themselves as they see fit to do so. Your classification may differ but that's your issue, not theirs. So get over it and move on. The rest of us are off to the land of nod zzzzzzz | |||
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"Some lads find that if they describe themselves as bi they'll be less of a man or something like that. We've encountered some couples where the male part played with Dom when on their profile they're listed as straight, but that's life. I agree...its like they will be considered 'less' of a man when in fact they would be thought more of if they would just be truthful. Up to them i suppose...i just think its a phoney way of trying to disguise the truth Thought more of by you, perhaps but, you may not be their main quarry, merely a side dish. Really man, live and let live. People classify themselves as they see fit to do so. Your classification may differ but that's your issue, not theirs. So get over it and move on. The rest of us are off to the land of nod zzzzzzz" It got boring tbh ... night night JD | |||
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"Yes...there're business...but be accurate and say bi curious or bi...to say 'straight' is just a lie or dilusional No not at all maybe they unsure about their sexuality. Why judge them, have they judged you or posted about you being here behind your partner's back?" There's no "clapping emjoi" but that's what I did before picking the phone back up and typing this. | |||
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"If your bi or gay you will fancy men or even fall in love. Sex is different. It's a means to an end, a fantasy come reality. No emotions involved." I have a big issue with this labelling. Sexuality is concerned with sex, and being bi-sexual or homosexual is to do with sexual attraction, not emotions. Too many men have used the ‘it’s just sex’ justification. Emotions are important but don’t use them as weapons against others like this. I sometimes have sex with men with no emotion involved, so am I straight then? Or if I had sex with a woman with no emotion would I stay bi or gay?? Labelling in general is silly but pretending to yourself you are straight coz you won’t fall in love with a man is just crazy. | |||
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"Whatever he wants ...no one elses buisness tbh. " Exactly! | |||
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"It only matters if you're about to meet a liar...its scary enough meeting ones off here without knowing they are a liar as well" Says the bloke who's partner doesn't know about his bi side or that he's on here looking for sex with men. I'd say your the liar. | |||
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"I dont believe me...could never trust someone who lies like that" Aren't you also lying? To your other half ? Don't be a hypocrite | |||
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"I dont believe me...could never trust someone who lies like that Aren't you also lying? To your other half ? Don't be a hypocrite " | |||
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"So tell me op what are you ? I look at your profile and it says man ! I look at your pics and I see boobies ! I also see female underwear! So are you a man, a man with boobs,a transvestite, a transsexual, a cross dresser or none of the above ! It's just that I'd like to be able to put a label on you the same as you'd like to label everyone else " BRILLIANT!! Get back in your “labelled” box OP | |||
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"It only matters if you're about to meet a liar...its scary enough meeting ones off here without knowing they are a liar as well Says the bloke who's partner doesn't know about his bi side or that he's on here looking for sex with men. I'd say your the liar." I take it you mean 'you're' | |||
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"So tell me op what are you ? I look at your profile and it says man ! I look at your pics and I see boobies ! I also see female underwear! So are you a man, a man with boobs,a transvestite, a transsexual, a cross dresser or none of the above ! It's just that I'd like to be able to put a label on you the same as you'd like to label everyone else BRILLIANT!! Get back in your “labelled” box OP" I already have 'labelled' myself truthfully...not like some of the 'macho' 'straight' guys who wanna fuck another guy...good god! | |||
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"I dont believe me...could never trust someone who lies like that Aren't you also lying? To your other half ? Don't be a hypocrite " Technically not no...just doing what about 99% of other married guys are doing on here | |||
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"So tell me op what are you ? I look at your profile and it says man ! I look at your pics and I see boobies ! I also see female underwear! So are you a man, a man with boobs,a transvestite, a transsexual, a cross dresser or none of the above ! It's just that I'd like to be able to put a label on you the same as you'd like to label everyone else BRILLIANT!! Get back in your “labelled” box OP" Like I said ....you don't have to label me....I already have labelled myself as bi....truthfully | |||
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"Yes...there're business...but be accurate and say bi curious or bi...to say 'straight' is just a lie or dilusional No not at all maybe they unsure about their sexuality. Why judge them, have they judged you or posted about you being here behind your partner's back?" Well said...
I'm bi curious and so what? Experimenting in this area of our lifes isn't something wrong till you wouldn't hurt anyone.
Why you OP judge or label people?
I don't mind if a man is straight or bi. It's about personality. I know there are many men who set up their profiles as straight but want to try other possibilities... | |||
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"Yes...there're business...but be accurate and say bi curious or bi...to say 'straight' is just a lie or dilusional No not at all maybe they unsure about their sexuality. Why judge them, have they judged you or posted about you being here behind your partner's back? Well said...
I'm bi curious and so what? Experimenting in this area of our lifes isn't something wrong till you wouldn't hurt anyone.
Why you OP judge or label people?
I don't mind if a man is straight or bi. It's about personality. I know there are many men who set up their profiles as straight but want to try other possibilities... "So if you’re bi curious why lie about it? | |||
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"Does anyone agree with me that a guy is NOT 'straight' if he is willing to fuck or suck the cock of another guy? Seriously? He would be Bi-Sexual at the very least? " Well he was bi/gay when he did it thats for sure but then he might have started out as straight and gone bi so its fair to say people can start out bi and end up being straight can't it?  | |||
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"Yes...there're business...but be accurate and say bi curious or bi...to say 'straight' is just a lie or dilusional No not at all maybe they unsure about their sexuality. Why judge them, have they judged you or posted about you being here behind your partner's back? Well said...
I'm bi curious and so what? Experimenting in this area of our lifes isn't something wrong till you wouldn't hurt anyone.
Why you OP judge or label people?
I don't mind if a man is straight or bi. It's about personality. I know there are many men who set up their profiles as straight but want to try other possibilities...
So if you’re bi curious why lie about it? "I don't lie. I won't be chased as "unicorn" here, so changed it as straight.   | |||
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"Yes...there're business...but be accurate and say bi curious or bi...to say 'straight' is just a lie or dilusional No not at all maybe they unsure about their sexuality. Why judge them, have they judged you or posted about you being here behind your partner's back? Well said...
I'm bi curious and so what? Experimenting in this area of our lifes isn't something wrong till you wouldn't hurt anyone.
Why you OP judge or label people?
I don't mind if a man is straight or bi. It's about personality. I know there are many men who set up their profiles as straight but want to try other possibilities...
So if you’re bi curious why lie about it?
I don't lie. I won't be chased as "unicorn" here, so changed it as straight.
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So I do think your bi if you do anything with someone not your sex.
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"I dont believe me...could never trust someone who lies like that Aren't you also lying? To your other half ? Don't be a hypocrite Technically not no...just doing what about 99% of other married guys are doing on here" Buy by label your lying just the same as you labelled the person Ur judging | |||
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"I dont believe me...could never trust someone who lies like that Aren't you also lying? To your other half ? Don't be a hypocrite Technically not no...just doing what about 99% of other married guys are doing on here " Yep and any of us married guys doing this are lying, no two ways about it, no matter the reason, no technically about it. So get over yourself and the judgemental shit. | |||
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"I don't really fancy guys. But if am with a couple . I happy suck cock. Or if the Mistress command me to suck I obey her. But I wouldn't go looking for a guy.A TV Mistress sometimes. So Cindi is Bi/ Bisexual.My male self is only female only. It's a funny submissive TV thing
So I do think your bi if you do anything with someone not your sex.
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"I dont believe me...could never trust someone who lies like that Aren't you also lying? To your other half ? Don't be a hypocrite Technically not no...just doing what about 99% of other married guys are doing on here Yep and any of us married guys doing this are lying, no two ways about it, no matter the reason, no technically about it. So get over yourself and the judgemental shit. " Judgemental shit? So reverting to personal insults is your way of having a conversation? I think you should read the rest of this thread and see how many agree with me. FYI to date i've had 121 mails agreeing with me and 4 disagreeing...so trust me you are in the minority with your opinion. But at least the 4 had the manners not to revert to insults. Get yourself an education before its too late...or maybe it already is | |||
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"I dont believe me...could never trust someone who lies like that Aren't you also lying? To your other half ? Don't be a hypocrite Technically not no...just doing what about 99% of other married guys are doing on here Yep and any of us married guys doing this are lying, no two ways about it, no matter the reason, no technically about it. So get over yourself and the judgemental shit. Judgemental shit? So reverting to personal insults is your way of having a conversation? I think you should read the rest of this thread and see how many agree with me. FYI to date i've had 121 mails agreeing with me and 4 disagreeing...so trust me you are in the minority with your opinion. But at least the 4 had the manners not to revert to insults. Get yourself an education before its too late...or maybe it already is" I dont see how calling you judgemental for judging others is being personal. I did read the full thread and there are many who dont agree with you. My point bring the whole time if someone identifies themselves as a label or not at all whos business is it one way or another. Calling others liars while lying yourself I see as outright hypocritical. | |||
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"I don't really fancy guys. But if am with a couple . I happy suck cock. Or if the Mistress command me to suck I obey her. But I wouldn't go looking for a guy.A TV Mistress sometimes. So Cindi is Bi/ Bisexual.My male self is only female only. It's a funny submissive TV thing
So I do think your bi if you do anything with someone not your sex.
If this makes sense "Well said Cindi....its not rocket science...just fact | |||
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"I dont believe me...could never trust someone who lies like that Aren't you also lying? To your other half ? Don't be a hypocrite Technically not no...just doing what about 99% of other married guys are doing on here Yep and any of us married guys doing this are lying, no two ways about it, no matter the reason, no technically about it. So get over yourself and the judgemental shit. Judgemental shit? So reverting to personal insults is your way of having a conversation? I think you should read the rest of this thread and see how many agree with me. FYI to date i've had 121 mails agreeing with me and 4 disagreeing...so trust me you are in the minority with your opinion. But at least the 4 had the manners not to revert to insults. Get yourself an education before its too late...or maybe it already is I dont see how calling you judgemental for judging others is being personal. I did read the full thread and there are many who dont agree with you. My point bring the whole time if someone identifies themselves as a label or not at all whos business is it one way or another. Calling others liars while lying yourself I see as outright hypocritical. " It's personal when you start insulting...is what I meant And I'm not being judgemental...I simply asked if someone puts their orientation as 'straight' but are happy enough to have sex with their own sex is that not a lie? I'm not judging them per se...I'd just wish they would be more accurate with their information. Where the whole 'labelling' thing came from I've no idea? | |||
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"Called into a gay friends party at the weekend half lit cos hadnt seen the we tart in ages grabbed him by his big ears and gave him a big kiss on the lips infront of all his gay friends and a girl id brought with me...does that mean im bi or gay "So gay | |||
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"Called into a gay friends party at the weekend half lit cos hadnt seen the we tart in ages grabbed him by his big ears and gave him a big kiss on the lips infront of all his gay friends and a girl id brought with me...does that mean im bi or gay
So gay "No bi, defintly bi. | |||
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"Called into a gay friends party at the weekend half lit cos hadnt seen the we tart in ages grabbed him by his big ears and gave him a big kiss on the lips infront of all his gay friends and a girl id brought with me...does that mean im bi or gay
So gay
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"Called into a gay friends party at the weekend half lit cos hadnt seen the we tart in ages grabbed him by his big ears and gave him a big kiss on the lips infront of all his gay friends and a girl id brought with me...does that mean im bi or gay
So gay
No bi, defintly bi.
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"Food for thought: In my profile I have not listed that I'm looking for couples, but I do play with them. Anal is not in my interests but I do occasionally enjoy it. Cam or phone sex is also not in my interests but I do it with people I like. My profile says bisexual while I like occasionally playing with the same sex - it's rarely my first choice and I'm not really looking for it. In our profiles we list our preferences not to attract random people to things that are not our first choice. To things that we may want to do with a right person at a right time rather than spend our time directly looking for them or even worse - mislead unwanted crowd with a false invitation into assuming that it's okay to make direct suggestions into something that only someone truly special can claim without even asking for it. Your world is black and white and it's awful sad that you don't seem to be capable to accept that we all have our reasons why our profiles are different. When my gay friends decide that I'm attractive enough for them to kiss me or play with me I consider it a great privilege and a compliment instead of starting to point a finger and whine "heeeey you're not gay, You're really bi, stop lying". Rant over " Look...I'll explain this again because obviously it's gone way above some people's heads. I'm NOT labelling anyone. On FAB you have to 'label' yourself...it's a requirement to create a profile...you have to pick a sexual orientation. What people 'label' themselves is of no interest to me...I don't care...AND I don't judge...I couldn't give a damm what they put. All I'm quering is the accuracy or truthfulness of SOME people who declare themselves Straight yet actively seek and are willing to have sex with someone of their own sex....this means they are NOT straight...they are either Bi or Gay....its not my opinion it is fact by definition So all I asked does anyone else agree with me? and for some reason the whole thread got warped into some discussion about me labelling people???? I'm NOT...I don't care what people call themselves...get it? Understand? I just laugh at the ones who profess to be straight but are far from it. They seem to think (in the case of men especially) that if they put bi then they will limit the women on here who might just be interested in meeting them or they are deluded or in complete denial of their sexuality. So...there you have it... No labelling...no judging...no caring what people profess to be...just a question as to the accuracy of what they say their sexual orientation is. I'll head off now and reply to the now 143 mails I've received from people who agree with me. Bye bye | |||
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"Food for thought: In my profile I have not listed that I'm looking for couples, but I do play with them. Anal is not in my interests but I do occasionally enjoy it. Cam or phone sex is also not in my interests but I do it with people I like. My profile says bisexual while I like occasionally playing with the same sex - it's rarely my first choice and I'm not really looking for it. In our profiles we list our preferences not to attract random people to things that are not our first choice. To things that we may want to do with a right person at a right time rather than spend our time directly looking for them or even worse - mislead unwanted crowd with a false invitation into assuming that it's okay to make direct suggestions into something that only someone truly special can claim without even asking for it. Your world is black and white and it's awful sad that you don't seem to be capable to accept that we all have our reasons why our profiles are different. When my gay friends decide that I'm attractive enough for them to kiss me or play with me I consider it a great privilege and a compliment instead of starting to point a finger and whine "heeeey you're not gay, You're really bi, stop lying". Rant over Look...I'll explain this again because obviously it's gone way above some people's heads. I'm NOT labelling anyone. On FAB you have to 'label' yourself...it's a requirement to create a profile...you have to pick a sexual orientation. What people 'label' themselves is of no interest to me...I don't care...AND I don't judge...I couldn't give a damm what they put. All I'm quering is the accuracy or truthfulness of SOME people who declare themselves Straight yet actively seek and are willing to have sex with someone of their own sex....this means they are NOT straight...they are either Bi or Gay....its not my opinion it is fact by definition So all I asked does anyone else agree with me? and for some reason the whole thread got warped into some discussion about me labelling people???? I'm NOT...I don't care what people call themselves...get it? Understand? I just laugh at the ones who profess to be straight but are far from it. They seem to think (in the case of men especially) that if they put bi then they will limit the women on here who might just be interested in meeting them or they are deluded or in complete denial of their sexuality. So...there you have it... No labelling...no judging...no caring what people profess to be...just a question as to the accuracy of what they say their sexual orientation is. I'll head off now and reply to the now 143 mails I've received from people who agree with me. Bye bye " Clearly my point went way over your head. As expected. | |||
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"Food for thought: In my profile I have not listed that I'm looking for couples, but I do play with them. Anal is not in my interests but I do occasionally enjoy it. Cam or phone sex is also not in my interests but I do it with people I like. My profile says bisexual while I like occasionally playing with the same sex - it's rarely my first choice and I'm not really looking for it. In our profiles we list our preferences not to attract random people to things that are not our first choice. To things that we may want to do with a right person at a right time rather than spend our time directly looking for them or even worse - mislead unwanted crowd with a false invitation into assuming that it's okay to make direct suggestions into something that only someone truly special can claim without even asking for it. Your world is black and white and it's awful sad that you don't seem to be capable to accept that we all have our reasons why our profiles are different. When my gay friends decide that I'm attractive enough for them to kiss me or play with me I consider it a great privilege and a compliment instead of starting to point a finger and whine "heeeey you're not gay, You're really bi, stop lying". Rant over Look...I'll explain this again because obviously it's gone way above some people's heads. I'm NOT labelling anyone. On FAB you have to 'label' yourself...it's a requirement to create a profile...you have to pick a sexual orientation. What people 'label' themselves is of no interest to me...I don't care...AND I don't judge...I couldn't give a damm what they put. All I'm quering is the accuracy or truthfulness of SOME people who declare themselves Straight yet actively seek and are willing to have sex with someone of their own sex....this means they are NOT straight...they are either Bi or Gay....its not my opinion it is fact by definition So all I asked does anyone else agree with me? and for some reason the whole thread got warped into some discussion about me labelling people???? I'm NOT...I don't care what people call themselves...get it? Understand? I just laugh at the ones who profess to be straight but are far from it. They seem to think (in the case of men especially) that if they put bi then they will limit the women on here who might just be interested in meeting them or they are deluded or in complete denial of their sexuality. So...there you have it... No labelling...no judging...no caring what people profess to be...just a question as to the accuracy of what they say their sexual orientation is. I'll head off now and reply to the now 143 mails I've received from people who agree with me. Bye bye Clearly my point went way over your head. As expected. "Oh dear....just as I said...way over the head of some on here. I'm just bored now by all this pejorative drivel...I think I'll just head off to talk to the adults now. | |||
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" What people 'label' themselves is of no interest to me...I don't care...AND I don't judge...I couldn't give a damm what they put. All I'm quering is the accuracy or truthfulness of SOME people who declare themselves Straight yet actively seek and are willing to have sex with someone of their own sex....this means they are NOT straight...they are either Bi or Gay....its not my opinion it is fact by definition I'm NOT...I don't care what people call themselves...get it? Understand? I just laugh at the ones who profess to be straight but are far from it. They seem to think (in the case of men especially) that if they put bi then they will limit the women on here who might just be interested in meeting them or they are deluded or in complete denial of their sexuality. " To laugh at people who profess to being straight yet have sex with those of the same sex is judging. So you do judge. using the words deluded or complete denial is also judging. If how people label themselves on fab is of no interest to you, why did you start the post? I think this is complete attention seeking give a statement the you received 148 emails saying you were right. Well done. Some people agree with your OPINION and your JUDGING of others. Sexuality is complex and spectrum based and to judge people coz they don’t conform to your demarcation of three arbitrary boundaries is petty. Some straight men have sex with men, some gay men have sex with women and some bi men have no sex at all. I chose men here coz you have an issue with straight men. Sounds like you got hurt by one and are out to get them all | |||
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" What people 'label' themselves is of no interest to me...I don't care...AND I don't judge...I couldn't give a damm what they put. All I'm quering is the accuracy or truthfulness of SOME people who declare themselves Straight yet actively seek and are willing to have sex with someone of their own sex....this means they are NOT straight...they are either Bi or Gay....its not my opinion it is fact by definition I'm NOT...I don't care what people call themselves...get it? Understand? I just laugh at the ones who profess to be straight but are far from it. They seem to think (in the case of men especially) that if they put bi then they will limit the women on here who might just be interested in meeting them or they are deluded or in complete denial of their sexuality. To laugh at people who profess to being straight yet have sex with those of the same sex is judging. So you do judge. using the words deluded or complete denial is also judging. If how people label themselves on fab is of no interest to you, why did you start the post? I think this is complete attention seeking give a statement the you received 148 emails saying you were right. Well done. Some people agree with your OPINION and your JUDGING of others. Sexuality is complex and spectrum based and to judge people coz they don’t conform to your demarcation of three arbitrary boundaries is petty. Some straight men have sex with men, some gay men have sex with women and some bi men have no sex at all. I chose men here coz you have an issue with straight men. Sounds like you got hurt by one and are out to get them all" Straight men have sex with men??? That’ll go down as the biggest paradox of the week lol  | |||
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" What people 'label' themselves is of no interest to me...I don't care...AND I don't judge...I couldn't give a damm what they put. All I'm quering is the accuracy or truthfulness of SOME people who declare themselves Straight yet actively seek and are willing to have sex with someone of their own sex....this means they are NOT straight...they are either Bi or Gay....its not my opinion it is fact by definition I'm NOT...I don't care what people call themselves...get it? Understand? I just laugh at the ones who profess to be straight but are far from it. They seem to think (in the case of men especially) that if they put bi then they will limit the women on here who might just be interested in meeting them or they are deluded or in complete denial of their sexuality. To laugh at people who profess to being straight yet have sex with those of the same sex is judging. So you do judge. using the words deluded or complete denial is also judging. If how people label themselves on fab is of no interest to you, why did you start the post? I think this is complete attention seeking give a statement the you received 148 emails saying you were right. Well done. Some people agree with your OPINION and your JUDGING of others. Sexuality is complex and spectrum based and to judge people coz they don’t conform to your demarcation of three arbitrary boundaries is petty. Some straight men have sex with men, some gay men have sex with women and some bi men have no sex at all. I chose men here coz you have an issue with straight men. Sounds like you got hurt by one and are out to get them all Straight men have sex with men??? That’ll go down as the biggest paradox of the week lol "This whole place is a paradox...as are some of the opinions on here too | |||
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"I avoid anyone with straight in their profile. If they come on to me they like cock. Therefore they are bisexual. What this says is they are still stuck in the hetro rigid land and won't be confidential or comfortable with me, so I don't waste my time " Totally and utterly agree Lorina... At last...someone who talks some sense! | |||
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" What people 'label' themselves is of no interest to me...I don't care...AND I don't judge...I couldn't give a damm what they put. All I'm quering is the accuracy or truthfulness of SOME people who declare themselves Straight yet actively seek and are willing to have sex with someone of their own sex....this means they are NOT straight...they are either Bi or Gay....its not my opinion it is fact by definition I'm NOT...I don't care what people call themselves...get it? Understand? I just laugh at the ones who profess to be straight but are far from it. They seem to think (in the case of men especially) that if they put bi then they will limit the women on here who might just be interested in meeting them or they are deluded or in complete denial of their sexuality. To laugh at people who profess to being straight yet have sex with those of the same sex is judging. So you do judge. using the words deluded or complete denial is also judging. If how people label themselves on fab is of no interest to you, why did you start the post? I think this is complete attention seeking give a statement the you received 148 emails saying you were right. Well done. Some people agree with your OPINION and your JUDGING of others. Sexuality is complex and spectrum based and to judge people coz they don’t conform to your demarcation of three arbitrary boundaries is petty. Some straight men have sex with men, some gay men have sex with women and some bi men have no sex at all. I chose men here coz you have an issue with straight men. Sounds like you got hurt by one and are out to get them all" You truly have no clue...so sad... Oh well... Onward and upwards | |||
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"They still bi then A person with significant attraction and desire for both sexes,both sexually and romantically. The desire to the two sexes is not necessary equal. my dictionary"It doesn't matter what sexuality or interests someone chooses to put on their profile. People put on their main preferences, what they are mainly looking for. How bloody hard is it to understand? I had girlfriends who were straight before me and never even thought about going near a woman after. People go through phases. How hard is it to grasp the concept? | |||
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"They still bi then A person with significant attraction and desire for both sexes,both sexually and romantically. The desire to the two sexes is not necessary equal. my dictionary
It doesn't matter what sexuality or interests someone chooses to put on their profile. People put on their main preferences, what they are mainly looking for. How bloody hard is it to understand?
I had girlfriends who were straight before me and never even thought about going near a woman after.
People go through phases. How hard is it to grasp the concept?" | |||
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"If your bi or gay you will fancy men or even fall in love. Sex is different. It's a means to an end, a fantasy come reality. No emotions involved." Totally this | |||
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"If your bi or gay you will fancy men or even fall in love. Sex is different. It's a means to an end, a fantasy come reality. No emotions involved. Totally this" Really? Emotions dictate sexuality?? | |||
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"They still bi then A person with significant attraction and desire for both sexes,both sexually and romantically. The desire to the two sexes is not necessary equal. my dictionary
It doesn't matter what sexuality or interests someone chooses to put on their profile. People put on their main preferences, what they are mainly looking for. How bloody hard is it to understand?
I had girlfriends who were straight before me and never even thought about going near a woman after.
People go through phases. How hard is it to grasp the concept?"True, guys say that all the time.. but that would still be bi curious | |||
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