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Is the unicorn hunt a fiction?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

as couples go we are pretty open, we play with couples, we play with guys but like a lot of couples we would love the experience of another girl, while we have been on here we have spoken to a good number of single girl and they always turn out to have a friend they would want to come along, we get that and understand it, safety has to come first and a woman has to feel safe but it is also very frustrating, are unicorns real and have we been talking to them wrong or does our profile look like a couple to be nervous about, what does the community think?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I know lots of these unicorns so they do exist.

The problem is like everyone it's down to finding people that you find attractive so if it's a single it's only on person you have to find attractive if it's a couple it's two people so it's twice as difficult. If it's two cpls it's 4 people etc.. Its just simple statistics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah we get that and maybe we just need to get out around the rest of the country, we have been pretty stuck to limerick since we joined

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Those ladies are here but most of them are very cautious when meeting couples. Single guys although they could be in danger meeting a couple with a single female she is more so.

There is also the jealousy issue. I've personally not had any issues with a 'jealous husband' or have I heard any stories. I've heard many first hand stories from single women dealing with issues surrounding jealousy of wives following an mff scenario.

Those so called 'unicorns' are there, however they need to believe that their needs are also being met and that they won't have to deal with the issues I've just outlined (and any others).

Good luck in your search

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

In my opinion real unicorns are very rare and actually don't like to be labelled as such .Your a hot looking couple if your pictures are anything to go by and I'd say the right lady will eventually come looking for you .

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we have defiantly experience the jealously side, not something that effects us but have played with couples where it has become a thing, usually it's all OK when either of the couple player with tattooed baby but when I get involved it has kicked up but we have also been lucky to meet some fabulous couples and single guys, she is defiantly the more attractive of us and I'm man enough to admit that hopefully time will bring us that experience and in the mean time we will continue to have a lot of fun doing what we do hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're everywhere.

One just has to know where to look....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

over the rainbow hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what you're saying, so coming from someone where I've had ffmm,ffm,ff,fm, yes I've tried and tested,that's what I used my swing experience,test my boundaries so to speak, out of all I found the jealousy situation a turn off. But it was more the male than female where it happened

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we had it at a club where it swung, first she got jealous at him and after we spoke to them and calmed down and they assured us that it was OK and they would like to continue then he got jealous at her, it was very off putting and not only did they go home unhappy it left us feeling really uncomfortable that we caused this discourd in another relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as couples go we are pretty open, we play with couples, we play with guys but like a lot of couples we would love the experience of another girl, while we have been on here we have spoken to a good number of single girl and they always turn out to have a friend they would want to come along, we get that and understand it, safety has to come first and a woman has to feel safe but it is also very frustrating, are unicorns real and have we been talking to them wrong or does our profile look like a couple to be nervous about, what does the community think?"

Some of us prefer to play at clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as couples go we are pretty open, we play with couples, we play with guys but like a lot of couples we would love the experience of another girl, while we have been on here we have spoken to a good number of single girl and they always turn out to have a friend they would want to come along, we get that and understand it, safety has to come first and a woman has to feel safe but it is also very frustrating, are unicorns real and have we been talking to them wrong or does our profile look like a couple to be nervous about, what does the community think?

Some of us prefer to play at clubs "

there is that and you play so well

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

Unfortunately I’ve had problems with jealousy from couples I’ve met before. So I’m now very cautious about who I meet and like was said earlier it’s not always easy to find three people that are attracted to each other. But it is amazing when it all works out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is truly fantastic when it happens, luckily I've had the opportunity to play with a fab couple,where there was no jealousy...bring back the good times!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah the jealously thing seams to be a big trigger for most

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

There are loads out there that will be with couples, its just they are slower to meet as they have to like both people, trust both people, but also they are not interested in being sucked into drama so you have to show them it wont end up in divorce court or a thread on the forum made about them, etc etc.

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By *oisyoctopusWoman
over a year ago

Drogheda

I hate the term unicorn. I'm a bi woman who enjoys the company of couples; I'm bloody real with my own desires, not an imaginary creature to be hunted or fetishized. Being called a unicorn by anyone makes me wonder how much my pleasure is being considered, as I want to know that anyone I'm playing with wants to play with me, not just to tick something off their bucket list.

Obviously, some like the term and use it about themselves, but my experience is those who hunt unicorns are purely interested in their own fun with no consideration of mine. And feck that!

Tldr; bi single women are people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

everyone will have terms and saying they will hate, as I our case I have take the word pervert to be a positive thing where as tattooedbabe hates the word, anyone can use as word but the only way to find out how they precive the word is to talk to them, we take a attitude of openness and inclusiveness into anything we do, weiter we play with a couple or a single those people are part of our life for that bit of time and going forward and never just an experience to tick off a list, neither of us is built that way, yes we like sex with different people but we can't be emotionaless about it, we want anyone who gifts us some of there time to have as good a time as we do so while I understand and value your past experience with people who use that term, that is not us

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By *ixenxoxWoman
over a year ago

limerick

It can be quite daunting as a single girl to just call around to a couple when invited, iv met plenty of couples and yes some have been all for themselves but more so they have been an equally pleasurable experience, i think meeting socially first at clubs parties or meets and greets, or even a pint is very important, with couples or guys, as the attracting has to be there initially

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"as couples go we are pretty open, we play with couples, we play with guys but like a lot of couples we would love the experience of another girl, while we have been on here we have spoken to a good number of single girl and they always turn out to have a friend they would want to come along, we get that and understand it, safety has to come first and a woman has to feel safe but it is also very frustrating, are unicorns real and have we been talking to them wrong or does our profile look like a couple to be nervous about, what does the community think?"

Looks dodgy as fook to me

Whats for u wont pass u theres someone for everyone here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we are real

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

A lady friend of mine told me she went to meet a couple but ended up getting up and going home cos they left her there and would not play with her .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know lots of these unicorns so they do exist.

The problem is like everyone it's down to finding people that you find attractive so if it's a single it's only on person you have to find attractive if it's a couple it's two people so it's twice as difficult. If it's two cpls it's 4 people etc.. Its just simple statistics "

Unicorns are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those ladies are here but most of them are very cautious when meeting couples. Single guys although they could be in danger meeting a couple with a single female she is more so.

There is also the jealousy issue. I've personally not had any issues with a 'jealous husband' or have I heard any stories. I've heard many first hand stories from single women dealing with issues surrounding jealousy of wives following an mff scenario.

Those so called 'unicorns' are there, however they need to believe that their needs are also being met and that they won't have to deal with the issues I've just outlined (and any others).

Good luck in your search "

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By *arti and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

We are also finding it very difficult to find a suitable female to join us.. Belfast just does not seem to have very many genuine females. Either that or we are doing something very wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep trying

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"We are also finding it very difficult to find a suitable female to join us.. Belfast just does not seem to have very many genuine females. Either that or we are doing something very wrong "

You're here a week... Don't give up quite yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t give up yet.

We were in similar situation when we joined Fabs and went through ups and downs about this but we stuck to our dreams and it was worth it. Sometimes you have to enjoy the path without forgeting your target/ fantasy. So hang on in there, get out and about to socials to meet people and it will happen!

Best of luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t give up yet.

We were in similar situation when we joined Fabs and went through ups and downs about this but we stuck to our dreams and it was worth it. Sometimes you have to enjoy the path without forgeting your target/ fantasy. So hang on in there, get out and about to socials to meet people and it will happen!

Best of luck xx"

We most defiantly won't give up and we are have ignored lots of fun with the couples and single guys we have met, it's something we would like to experience with the right people but it's not the only thing we are here for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the term unicorn. I'm a bi woman who enjoys the company of couples; I'm bloody real with my own desires, not an imaginary creature to be hunted or fetishized. Being called a unicorn by anyone makes me wonder how much my pleasure is being considered, as I want to know that anyone I'm playing with wants to play with me, not just to tick something off their bucket list.

Obviously, some like the term and use it about themselves, but my experience is those who hunt unicorns are purely interested in their own fun with no consideration of mine. And feck that!

Tldr; bi single women are people."

You've got a very valid point.

Altough I do like being called a unicorn, but for completely different reasons.

As much as I love playing with couples - it has to be spontaneous and organic.

Being put on someone's "to do" list just makes you feel cheap. Can spot those people a mile off and avoid them like a wild fire.

Ghosted a lot of guys I genuinely liked just because kept pestering me how I must make their ffm fantasy come true just because I'm bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate the term unicorn. I'm a bi woman who enjoys the company of couples; I'm bloody real with my own desires, not an imaginary creature to be hunted or fetishized. Being called a unicorn by anyone makes me wonder how much my pleasure is being considered, as I want to know that anyone I'm playing with wants to play with me, not just to tick something off their bucket list.

Obviously, some like the term and use it about themselves, but my experience is those who hunt unicorns are purely interested in their own fun with no consideration of mine. And feck that!

Tldr; bi single women are people.

You've got a very valid point.

Altough I do like being called a unicorn, but for completely different reasons.

As much as I love playing with couples - it has to be spontaneous and organic.

Being put on someone's "to do" list just makes you feel cheap. Can spot those people a mile off and avoid them like a wild fire.

Ghosted a lot of guys I genuinely liked just because kept pestering me how I must make their ffm fantasy come true just because I'm bi. "

there defiantly is that side to some people and we have seen it a bit in how some couples and single contact us and ignore the fact we are a couple and only want to talk to tattooed babe, when we say we want to try it more we want to find someone that fits with us, both of us have had ffm 3somes before with other people, we would like someone who add to the situation, not just a extra body but an extra mind if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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there defiantly is that side to some people and we have seen it a bit in how some couples and single contact us and ignore the fact we are a couple and only want to talk to tattooed babe, when we say we want to try it more we want to find someone that fits with us, both of us have had ffm 3somes before with other people, we would like someone who add to the situation, not just a extra body but an extra mind if that makes sense"

Wasn't pointing my finger at you, guys, just expressing my opinion why is it so hard to find that single girl and why we're so defensive..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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there defiantly is that side to some people and we have seen it a bit in how some couples and single contact us and ignore the fact we are a couple and only want to talk to tattooed babe, when we say we want to try it more we want to find someone that fits with us, both of us have had ffm 3somes before with other people, we would like someone who add to the situation, not just a extra body but an extra mind if that makes sense

Wasn't pointing my finger at you, guys, just expressing my opinion why is it so hard to find that single girl and why we're so defensive.. "

I'm sorry that did come across defensive from us too, we didn't think you where but just trying to show who we are, no better or worse than anyone but just ourselves in our own special way

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By *hill_Vin68Man
over a year ago

Galway

Excuse my ignorance please, but what is a unicorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a rare horse with a horn on it's head

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By *aleeraWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"It's a rare horse with a horn on it's head "

lol

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By *arbiegirl19Woman
over a year ago

Hollymount

I'm a unicorn and have been invited to party with couples... And have refused as It's a bit daunting meeting on ur own.... Maybe if ye find a girl that ye can form a friendship it might be easier on ye... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a rare horse with a horn on it's head "

There's a unicon convention at Vanilla Club on 21 December

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a unicorn

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By *aleeraWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"It's a rare horse with a horn on it's head

There's a unicon convention at Vanilla Club on 21 December "

All the unicorns in one place! Ah its gonna be fun!!! Can't wait!

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby


"It's a rare horse with a horn on it's head

There's a unicon convention at Vanilla Club on 21 December

All the unicorns in one place! Ah its gonna be fun!!! Can't wait! "

How do we get an invite to that!

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By *aleeraWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"It's a rare horse with a horn on it's head

There's a unicon convention at Vanilla Club on 21 December

All the unicorns in one place! Ah its gonna be fun!!! Can't wait!

How do we get an invite to that!"

Cut your dick off, grow some boobs and youre free to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a rare horse with a horn on it's head

There's a unicon convention at Vanilla Club on 21 December

All the unicorns in one place! Ah its gonna be fun!!! Can't wait!

How do we get an invite to that!

Cut your dick off, grow some boobs and youre free to come "

There's another post with the hottest profile pic.. Sorry rosey red lips, you've serious competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll be the hottest party in Dublin I reckon!

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Indiana Jones thought the same until he found what he was looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a unicorn and have been invited to party with couples... And have refused as It's a bit daunting meeting on ur own.... Maybe if ye find a girl that ye can form a friendship it might be easier on ye... X"

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By *arti and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

What we have learned very quickly on this site (and we aren’t here very long) is rather than search for a particular,thing talk to everyone it’s not just about searching for a particular thing, that’s just cold. Being attractive to people through personality will get you a very long way! In fact we had our first girl looking to meet up over the weekend unfortunately it was just not possible as short notice.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"It's a rare horse with a horn on it's head

There's a unicon convention at Vanilla Club on 21 December "

That's not just for the single bi women either, attached ones too. Just a ladies night

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby


"It's a rare horse with a horn on it's head

There's a unicon convention at Vanilla Club on 21 December

All the unicorns in one place! Ah its gonna be fun!!! Can't wait!

How do we get an invite to that!

Cut your dick off, grow some boobs and youre free to come "

Jesus. Theres a vicious sode to you isnt there!

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Of course they are real

We have been lucky to experience a few

The fun for all concerned is great

We will always be on the lookout for more

So feel free to pm us

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