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“I’m in the area”

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By *iscreetbuddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Kilmainham

Lots of people put “don’t mail me if you’re in the area with work” but a good bit of time I am in the area with work

Any tips for a genuine guy who travels a bit with work for how to approach this issue.

Maybe giving lots of notice??

I’m not sure? Or offer house visits from a guy in snickers pants, work boots and a high viz jacket

Or do people just not like guys who are only passing through?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

For me I would class is as I'm in your area now!!!! I get a lot of people saying in your area now, I kind of chuckle thinking ok on my way with my knickers round my knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are okay to do a one off with someone random in the area at a given time, others are not looking for that type of thing.

Theres no need to go around anything. We all have our own rules.

If you really are (not you think you are) what some are looking for and vice versa - it will work out naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to get in some ladies areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a tricky one, if they determined that this is an issue then what you say is never going to change that fact... feel your pain though i only work here but its a regular thing so can be misinterpreted too...

Faint heart and all that. Try your best, whats the worst that could happen?? Another block from someone who wasnt going to meet you anyway

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By *ebelRoadMan
over a year ago

Cork / Wexford

I travel around ireland and have hotel over nighters. Mostly not meeting even for a social. It ain't easy for us guys on the road.

Only thing you can do, I think is plenty of notice and if in the same area regularly why not do a social meet.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

They just say that cause its always ugly people wanting a quickie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe is something the people at "just eat" could add to their menu

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe is something the people at "just eat" could add to their menu

L"

No need to be passing through then, just order and wait for your delivery.

I wonder how much tip to give the driver?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me I would class is as I'm in your area now!!!! I get a lot of people saying in your area now, I kind of chuckle thinking ok on my way with my knickers round my knees "

Pmsl..... hopefully your neighbours didn't see u heading out with your knickers around your ankles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am around a certain area daily and get a fair few of last minute meets.

Would never pester anyone for one tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a tricky one, if they determined that this is an issue then what you say is never going to change that fact... feel your pain though i only work here but its a regular thing so can be misinterpreted too...

Faint heart and all that. Try your best, whats the worst that could happen?? Another block from someone who wasnt going to meet you anyway "

This post is everything thats wrong with fab and what gets guys a bad name! "Reads profile, see's he's not what the person wants, mails anyway becuse fuck it..!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a tricky one, if they determined that this is an issue then what you say is never going to change that fact... feel your pain though i only work here but its a regular thing so can be misinterpreted too...

Faint heart and all that. Try your best, whats the worst that could happen?? Another block from someone who wasnt going to meet you anyway

This post is everything thats wrong with fab and what gets guys a bad name! "Reads profile, see's he's not what the person wants, mails anyway becuse fuck it..!" "

Some people think persistence pays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a tricky one, if they determined that this is an issue then what you say is never going to change that fact... feel your pain though i only work here but its a regular thing so can be misinterpreted too...

Faint heart and all that. Try your best, whats the worst that could happen?? Another block from someone who wasnt going to meet you anyway

This post is everything thats wrong with fab and what gets guys a bad name! "Reads profile, see's he's not what the person wants, mails anyway becuse fuck it..!"

Some people think persistence pays

It really doesnt

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes plenty of notice is preferable the last minute notifications are pretty crap imo not all of us can meet last minute.

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By *iscreetbuddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Kilmainham


"Yes plenty of notice is preferable the last minute notifications are pretty crap imo not all of us can meet last minute."

Noted for cork, mayo and Galway trips coming up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people put “don’t mail me if you’re in the area with work” but a good bit of time I am in the area with work

Any tips for a genuine guy who travels a bit with work for how to approach this issue.

"

My tip would be,if they state

"don’t mail me if you’re in the area with work",then don't mail them,no matter how good your intentions are.

Respect what they say.

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By *iscreetbuddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Kilmainham


"Lots of people put “don’t mail me if you’re in the area with work” but a good bit of time I am in the area with work

Any tips for a genuine guy who travels a bit with work for how to approach this issue.

My tip would be,if they state

"don’t mail me if you’re in the area with work",then don't mail them,no matter how good your intentions are.

Respect what they say."

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have turned off my location for this reason. As the crow flies I live quite close to a busy motorway service stop. I was getting endless offers from truckers and passer bys looking to meet for a quick blow and go. Jesus do I really look the type for that carry on!

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Im in the area = you can't come to mine cos the wife would go apeshit.

Well thats nearly always the case I have found.

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By *thena400Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

“I’m in the area” for me means, “I want to arrive to your gaff, despite us never having met or spoken, and unload on or into you.” (Or, he wants me to, never having met or spoken, arrive to his hotel room.) That wouldn’t work for me, as the taboo or naughtiness of this is of zero appeal. However, if he were regularly in the area, and if we’d met socially to see if there’s a click, then....

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