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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm losing faith in fab, I've been on for a couple of months now and still not managed to have a meet with someone. As much as I have loved chatting with some ladies on here there's just no one biting. Any advice from the veterans on here ?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"So I'm losing faith in fab, I've been on for a couple of months now and still not managed to have a meet with someone. As much as I have loved chatting with some ladies on here there's just no one biting. Any advice from the veterans on here ?"

You are only here 7 weeks. Yes some guys get meets within hours of joining but when I started out the average time to get your first meet as a single guy was 3 months. It just takes time remember there are guys here over a year without getting a meet. If you are getting replies to your emails you are doing better than a lot of people. Unfortunately the numbers are not in a single guys favour just keep at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As all you can do is have patience, do the right things and take whatever chances arise.

Every dog has his day eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As all you can do is have patience, do the right things and take whatever chances arise.

Every dog has his day eventually. "

Have you had a look at patience over on the other thread, id love to have her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As all you can do is have patience, do the right things and take whatever chances arise.

Every dog has his day eventually.

Have you had a look at patience over on the other thread, id love to have her "

Haha

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I think people have to remember fab is a escape from real life and not a main priority. When some people join some think meets happen straight away. This is not the case it may be frustrating and a little disheartening but stick with it . If you chatting it's a good start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys thanks for the bits of advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is tough going and a pain in the rear end at times but stick with it. It is worth it when you click with someone

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

At least you're getting replies. That's positive. Try POF and other dating sites too, as this site is more for swinging couples, than singles. And as a single man you have to be patient. I would flesh out your profile, as most women want to know they're going to meet a real human, who is interesting in different ways. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys thanks for the bits of advice"

Keep the faith jjb, and just remember, you will be offered bits off other things here too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I'm just having a bad day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm just having a bad day x"

Ah well at least you didnt become another guy on here who started a "its hard to get a meet thread" cause the ladies love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm just having a bad day x

Ah well at least you didnt become another guy on here who started a "its hard to get a meet thread" cause the ladies love that

"
Your fastly becoming a spokesman for the ladies of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm just having a bad day x

Ah well at least you didnt become another guy on here who started a "its hard to get a meet thread" cause the ladies love that

Your fastly becoming a spokesman for the ladies of fab."

Well the job for speaking out your arse was taken...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm just having a bad day x

Ah well at least you didnt become another guy on here who started a "its hard to get a meet thread" cause the ladies love that

Your fastly becoming a spokesman for the ladies of fab.

Well the job for speaking out your arse was taken..."
I know and to be honest I think they are doing a great job with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm just having a bad day x

Ah well at least you didnt become another guy on here who started a "its hard to get a meet thread" cause the ladies love that

Your fastly becoming a spokesman for the ladies of fab.

Well the job for speaking out your arse was taken... I know and to be honest I think they are doing a great job with it."

I am not sure alot if it is getting very stale and less effort being put in than before..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys if anyone wants to chat with me on lol my username is jonjob86

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By *orinaTSTV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin

The problem with men here is the emphasis on the cock size. Most women including me want a bit of flirtation and something more than the usual one liner looking sex in the next hour. We don't work like that unless we're trying to shag the whole site which most will not be. Cock size and what you do with it might be important eventually but we need to see you have more than what's hanging between your legs ..

Just a thought Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate when kik autocorrects to lol

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Perhaps the mail you are sending needs adjusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm just having a bad day x

Ah well at least you didnt become another guy on here who started a "its hard to get a meet thread" cause the ladies love that

Your fastly becoming a spokesman for the ladies of fab.

Well the job for speaking out your arse was taken... I know and to be honest I think they are doing a great job with it.

I am not sure alot if it is getting very stale and less effort being put in than before.."
I know it's a bit much to ask you as you already have one job here. But would you give it a go for a few weeks because I know you have experience in that field.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is OK but would flesh it out. You only have one photo as well so add some more. No need for excessive amount of cock shots though.

My advice to male newbies is to think of yourself as a brand among hundreds of other brands. At the moment you are like the Lidl of Fab does the job but not memorable! I read lots of male profiles and instantly forgot most of them! You need to aim to stand out among your competitors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is OK but would flesh it out. You only have one photo as well so add some more. No need for excessive amount of cock shots though.

My advice to male newbies is to think of yourself as a brand among hundreds of other brands. At the moment you are like the Lidl of Fab does the job but not memorable! I read lots of male profiles and instantly forgot most of them! You need to aim to stand out among your competitors

"
as for yours no need to adjust anything, your pics are exquisite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is OK but would flesh it out. You only have one photo as well so add some more. No need for excessive amount of cock shots though.

My advice to male newbies is to think of yourself as a brand among hundreds of other brands. At the moment you are like the Lidl of Fab does the job but not memorable! I read lots of male profiles and instantly forgot most of them! You need to aim to stand out among your competitors

as for yours no need to adjust anything, your pics are exquisite "

Aw well aren't you kind to say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is OK but would flesh it out. You only have one photo as well so add some more. No need for excessive amount of cock shots though.

My advice to male newbies is to think of yourself as a brand among hundreds of other brands. At the moment you are like the Lidl of Fab does the job but not memorable! I read lots of male profiles and instantly forgot most of them! You need to aim to stand out among your competitors

"

I have always dreamed of being an M&S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is OK but would flesh it out. You only have one photo as well so add some more. No need for excessive amount of cock shots though.

My advice to male newbies is to think of yourself as a brand among hundreds of other brands. At the moment you are like the Lidl of Fab does the job but not

memorable! I read lots of male profiles and instantly forgot most of them! You need to aim to stand out among your competitors

as for yours no need to adjust anything, your pics are exquisite

Aw well aren't you kind to say that "
no not not kind at all just telling the truth...but If the fab ratio was reversed and every profile was as sexy as yours I don't think I'd be as kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is OK but would flesh it out. You only have one photo as well so add some more. No need for excessive amount of cock shots though.

My advice to male newbies is to think of yourself as a brand among hundreds of other brands. At the moment you are like the Lidl of Fab does the job but not memorable! I read lots of male profiles and instantly forgot most of them! You need to aim to stand out among your competitors

"
So a good long cock would definitely standout from the competition.

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

The same thing happens to me, please can you give me your opinion of my profile. Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is OK but would flesh it out. You only have one photo as well so add some more. No need for excessive amount of cock shots though.

My advice to male newbies is to think of yourself as a brand among hundreds of other brands. At the moment you are like the Lidl of Fab does the job but not memorable! I read lots of male profiles and instantly forgot most of them! You need to aim to stand out among your competitors

I have always dreamed of being an M&S "

The deluxe version of M&S I presume!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is OK but would flesh it out. You only have one photo as well so add some more. No need for excessive amount of cock shots though.

My advice to male newbies is to think of yourself as a brand among hundreds of other brands. At the moment you are like the Lidl of Fab does the job but not memorable! I read lots of male profiles and instantly forgot most of them! You need to aim to stand out among your competitors

I have always dreamed of being an M&S

The deluxe version of M&S I presume! "

I dont want to be too pretentious Rosey....

Sure the ladies would be too intimidated to even approch me at that stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same thing happens to me, please can you give me your opinion of my profile. Thanks in advance"

Your profile is fine but only having one verification in nine months would put people off. Have you tried going to any social meets?

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

I have not been able to go to any meeting yet, you can help me with an invitation. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I have not been able to go to any meeting yet, you can help me with an invitation. Thank you"

Oh now thats just smmooottthhh

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Ive offered to meet lads recently for a coffee to verfie them all cancelled so not offering anymore not worth the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive offered to meet lads recently for a coffee to verfie them all cancelled so not offering anymore not worth the effort "

Can I get a ride without a verie so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I have not been able to go to any meeting yet, you can help me with an invitation. Thank you"

Sorry sweetie I am a little country mouse I very rarely get to Dublin. But I wish you all the best on your Fab adventures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive offered to meet lads recently for a coffee to verfie them all cancelled so not offering anymore not worth the effort "

Twice in the last month I went out of my way to verify two newbies over coffee neither showed up which has put me off helping others.

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By *omripleyMan
over a year ago

blackrock

it took me ages to get a meet but I did and door open then. unfortunately so many time wasters here that's the result.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I appriciate all the comments

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