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At it's peek we once provided an open bar, dancers, yoga, food, security, a dance area and several playrooms for close to 70 open minded and pleasure loving individuals, however we usually capped our gatherings at 40 or so.
After much soul searching and conferring with known and trust worthy members of the community we have reluctantly decided to downsize.
Our future gatherings will be limited to 20 people or so. Many factors play a part in this decision; security, privacy, logistics and, quite frankly, cost!
We have built up a contact list of beautiful, fit, young, reliable, sane and filthy friends whom we hope will meet again very soon!
An announcement of a future event will be forthcoming but in the mean time should anyone who reads this post wish to attend please get in touch!
Details will be provided as soon as we have confirmed a date!
As it stands we'd like to thank everyone who helped make our last few adventures so very memorable, especially to those with whom it would not have been possible.
You know who you are! 
This is not the end but a simple restructuring; in order to ensure the best possible experience for our friends it is unfortunately necessary!
Thank you for reading and with the blessing of the God's we'll be posting something futher soon!  | |||
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"Will have to organise one for us older unfit and not so gorgeous types "Oh I believe there's already plenty that cater for those my Good Man
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"[Removed by poster at 03/11/18 20:07:16]" I'd like to know who decides who is 'beautiful' enough to attend....  . How far up your own arse can anyone get?? | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 03/11/18 20:07:16] I'd like to know who decides who is 'beautiful' enough to attend.... . How far up your own arse can anyone get?? "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder 2-4  | |||
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" I'd like to know who decides who is 'beautiful' enough to attend.... . How far up your own arse can anyone get?? "That would be me. I decide. And yes I'm sorry but this is a site devoted to swinging and NSA sex. People generally want to have sex with those that they find attractive. The party is run, organised, funded and attended by private individuals. We can afford to be picky. Guests trust me to manage invitations. You don't like it? Don't go. | |||
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"There is no pre-requisite to be beautiful or am I missing something? OP said he has lots of beautiful contacts already made but anyone interested drop him/them a line. I'm 100% sure OP knows that well verified with a mix of newbies on the scene results in a successful party! " Not pre-requisite no, but it will certainly increase your chances!
Still waiting on you to join us.... | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 03/11/18 20:07:16] I'd like to know who decides who is 'beautiful' enough to attend.... . How far up your own arse can anyone get??
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder 2-4 "I see that said here often and its probably the lamest saying in the English language. | |||
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"Will have to organise one for us older unfit and not so gorgeous types
Oh I believe there's already plenty that cater for those my Good Man
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" I'd like to know who decides who is 'beautiful' enough to attend.... . How far up your own arse can anyone get??
That would be me.
I decide.
And yes I'm sorry but this is a site devoted to swinging and NSA sex. People generally want to have sex with those that they find attractive.
The party is run, organised, funded and attended by private individuals. We can afford to be picky.
Guests trust me to manage invitations. You don't like it? Don't go. "I agree... and I am laughing ... sorry ... laughing with you not at you ... go BFB.... | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 03/11/18 20:07:16] I'd like to know who decides who is 'beautiful' enough to attend.... . How far up your own arse can anyone get??
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder 2-4 I see that said here often and its probably the lamest saying in the English language."But it's true what I class as beautiful another may not and Vice Versa beauty like all human constructs is subjective is it not ? | |||
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Maybe you have to downsize because your idea of fit and beautiful is wayyyy to high.
Oh and if you've built up a list of these beautiful, fit,young,reliable ,sane and filthy friends why the need to start a thread looking for more?
Good luck with your venture OP | |||
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" But it's true what I class as beautiful another may not and Vice Versa beauty like all human constructs is subjective is it not ?" A argument that is trumped by my previous statement; I decide. Having been entrusted by the attendees to do so. If you disagree with whom I invite the solution is simple, don't attend! | |||
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"Ahhh that's me fooked so. Not very fit, way to old,but I think I'm beautiful. .
Maybe you have to downsize because your idea of fit and beautiful is wayyyy to high.
Oh and if you've built up a list of these beautiful, fit,young,reliable ,sane and filthy friends why the need to start a thread looking for more?
Good luck with your venture OP "I'd give the thread a read again.... It's not actually dedicated to recruiting more players. It's simply announcing a downsizing. And I'd already explained why this notion of downsizing was embraced...
Also once again; it's a swing site, new, filthy and unexplored friends is kinda the point! | |||
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" But it's true what I class as beautiful another may not and Vice Versa beauty like all human constructs is subjective is it not ? A argument that is trumped by my previous statement; I decide. Having been entrusted by the attendees to do so. If you disagree with whom I invite the solution is simple, don't attend!
No that actually enforces my point that beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder and is subjective (you being the beholder in this case). I'm merely defending a point I made not disagreeing with the way you run your events? It's like everyone thinks every comment here is double edged " | |||
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" But it's true what I class as beautiful another may not and Vice Versa beauty like all human constructs is subjective is it not ? A argument that is trumped by my previous statement; I decide. Having been entrusted by the attendees to do so. If you disagree with whom I invite the solution is simple, don't attend!
No that actually enforces my point that beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder and is subjective (you being the beholder in this case). I'm merely defending a point I made not disagreeing with the way you run your events? It's like everyone thinks every comment here is double edged "So... Um... What is your point exactly then?! | |||
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"Ahhh that's me fooked so. Not very fit, way to old,but I think I'm beautiful. .
Maybe you have to downsize because your idea of fit and beautiful is wayyyy to high.
Oh and if you've built up a list of these beautiful, fit,young,reliable ,sane and filthy friends why the need to start a thread looking for more?
Good luck with your venture OP
I'd give the thread a read again.... It's not actually dedicated to recruiting more players. It's simply announcing a downsizing.
And I'd already explained why this notion of downsizing was embraced...
Also once again; it's a swing site, new, filthy and unexplored friends is kinda the point! "Announcing to who though? If you have a list of these beauts why make an announcement. It reads to me as if you're looking for more beautiful people
Just pulling your big friendly beautiful leg btw. | |||
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" But it's true what I class as beautiful another may not and Vice Versa beauty like all human constructs is subjective is it not ? A argument that is trumped by my previous statement; I decide. Having been entrusted by the attendees to do so. If you disagree with whom I invite the solution is simple, don't attend!
No that actually enforces my point that beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder and is subjective (you being the beholder in this case). I'm merely defending a point I made not disagreeing with the way you run your events? It's like everyone thinks every comment here is double edged
So... Um... What is your point exactly then?! "That beauty is subjective is all? Your version might differ to mine and vice versa, there's no need for all this attitude and condescensing over tone  in the words of Rodney King " can't we all just get along " | |||
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" Announcing to who though? If you have a list of these beauts why make an announcement. It reads to me as if you're looking for more beautiful people
Just pulling your big friendly beautiful leg btw. "If you're going to pull something you might aim a bit to the side of my leg if you don't mind.
Just fiddle around till you feel the nubbin'
Believe it or not I actually receive daily mails from people I haven't met asking about the events... And when there is one scheduled we turn away far more applicants than we permit. And no this is not me being up my hole... It's simply a logistics issue. We can only entertain so many people are once.
So rather than spend my day mailing individuals, I made a forum post.
But hey... Should that bring more potential attendees all the better!
New blood is always craved... And welcomed! | |||
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" Announcing to who though? If you have a list of these beauts why make an announcement. It reads to me as if you're looking for more beautiful people
Just pulling your big friendly beautiful leg btw.
If you're going to pull something you might aim a bit to the side of my leg if you don't mind.
Just fiddle around till you feel the nubbin'
Believe it or not I actually receive daily mails from people I haven't met asking about the events... And when there is one scheduled we turn away far more applicants than we permit. And no this is not me being up my hole... It's simply a logistics issue. We can only entertain so many people are once.
So rather than spend my day mailing individuals, I made a forum post.
But hey... Should that bring more potential attendees all the better!
New blood is always craved... And welcomed! "Fuck me is blood type a prerequisite ?  | |||
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" Announcing to who though? If you have a list of these beauts why make an announcement. It reads to me as if you're looking for more beautiful people
Just pulling your big friendly beautiful leg btw.
If you're going to pull something you might aim a bit to the side of my leg if you don't mind.
Just fiddle around till you feel the nubbin'
Believe it or not I actually receive daily mails from people I haven't met asking about the events... And when there is one scheduled we turn away far more applicants than we permit. And no this is not me being up my hole... It's simply a logistics issue. We can only entertain so many people are once.
So rather than spend my day mailing individuals, I made a forum post.
But hey... Should that bring more potential attendees all the better!
New blood is always craved... And welcomed!
Fuck me is blood type a prerequisite ? "O negative on that one ... See what I did there | |||
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" Announcing to who though? If you have a list of these beauts why make an announcement. It reads to me as if you're looking for more beautiful people
Just pulling your big friendly beautiful leg btw.
If you're going to pull something you might aim a bit to the side of my leg if you don't mind.
Just fiddle around till you feel the nubbin'
Believe it or not I actually receive daily mails from people I haven't met asking about the events... And when there is one scheduled we turn away far more applicants than we permit. And no this is not me being up my hole... It's simply a logistics issue. We can only entertain so many people are once.
So rather than spend my day mailing individuals, I made a forum post.
But hey... Should that bring more potential attendees all the better!
New blood is always craved... And welcomed!
Fuck me is blood type a prerequisite ?
O negative on that one ...
See what I did there "I see....lol | |||
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" That beauty is subjective is all? Your version might differ to mine and vice versa, there's no need for all this attitude and condescensing over tone in the words of Rodney King " can't we all just get along " "So your point is "beauty is subjective"? Ok
But to be honest (and said without any rancour or malice) you might not be met with "attitude" or an "over tone" if you didn't jump on a thread to make an utterly inane, pointless comment aimed at discrediting or picking apart a statement made by someone who was stating a fact.
It's I who decides the guestlist. Therefore it's my "interpretation" of beauty which is the yard stick. Spouting some clichéd nonsense about subjective beauty doesn't add anything to the discussion other than to stick your (seemingly negative) oar in. | |||
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"An EE party is definitely on my bucket list should the opportunity arise! Never heard a bad world about the parties or BFB only anecdotal evidence of impeccable organisation and enjoyment! Should a space arise for a Lone Ranger do let me know! " Keep an eye out | |||
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" That beauty is subjective is all? Your version might differ to mine and vice versa, there's no need for all this attitude and condescensing over tone in the words of Rodney King " can't we all just get along "
So your point is "beauty is subjective"?
Ok
But to be honest (and said without any rancour or malice) you might not be met with "attitude" or an "over tone" if you didn't jump on a thread to make an utterly inane, pointless comment aimed at discrediting or picking apart a statement made by someone who was stating a fact.
It's I who decides the guestlist. Therefore it's my "interpretation" of beauty which is the yard stick. Spouting some clichéd nonsense about subjective beauty doesn't add anything to the discussion other than to stick your (seemingly negative) oar in. "Ahhh bigfriendlybull.... it is I who decides.... #notions | |||
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"Beauty is and all ways will be skin deep ." Can't fuck a brain.... 
Well... Ya coule.... But ... But ya know illegal! | |||
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" Ahhh bigfriendlybull.... it is I who decides.... #notions" And pray tell how is this notions? Should we form a democratic panel where all 50 odd guests have an equal and fair vote as to who gets an invite or not? And subsequently give each and every individual a veto as to whom can and can't attend? Or maybe a random lottery? Just select 50 random profiles and invite them to an event? Don't discriminate based on sexual orientation, gender, appearance, age, weight, body odour, income, ability to behave themselves... Just ya know... All are welcome? Pfft. Think on it for a spell. | |||
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" That beauty is subjective is all? Your Ahhh bigfriendlybull.... it is I who decides.... #notions" Riddle me this? Do you sleep with anyone who asks? Or might you have, *gasp* I don't know, notions about who you might find attractive or not?! | |||
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" Ahhh bigfriendlybull.... it is I who decides.... #notions And pray tell how is this notions? Should we form a democratic panel where all 50 odd guests have an equal and fair vote as to who gets an invite or not? And subsequently give each and every individual a veto as to whom can and can't attend? Or maybe a random lottery? Just select 50 random profiles and invite them to an event? Don't discriminate based on sexual orientation, gender, appearance, age, weight, body odour, income, ability to behave themselves... Just ya know... All are welcome? Pfft. Think on it for a spell. " I don't need to think on it. I never said ALL should be welcome . I know there are fakes and messers oh and people with "body odour" strange one that. But... fit beautiful people can be fakes and messers too. Maybe I've been brought up to take people for who they are not what they look like . And when someone says " it is I who decides" who is beautiful I'd say notions come into play. | |||
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" Ahhh bigfriendlybull.... it is I who decides.... #notions And pray tell how is this notions? Should we form a democratic panel where all 50 odd guests have an equal and fair vote as to who gets an invite or not? And subsequently give each and every individual a veto as to whom can and can't attend? Or maybe a random lottery? Just select 50 random profiles and invite them to an event? Don't discriminate based on sexual orientation, gender, appearance, age, weight, body odour, income, ability to behave themselves... Just ya know... All are welcome? Pfft. Think on it for a spell. I don't need to think on it. I never said ALL should be welcome . I know there are fakes and messers oh and people with "body odour" strange one that. But... fit beautiful people can be fakes and messers too. Maybe I've been brought up to take people for who they are not what they look like . And when someone says " it is I who decides" who is beautiful I'd say notions come into play. " Do you decide who you sleep with and who you don't? Have you notions? | |||
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"I have org lots of party in the past and were all free by the way do not judge my guest like a dog in a dog show before i decide who can come intelligence personality are just as attractive as looks and size never had any trouble at any party and lots of play and friendships made " Never heard of you
In addition; "Intelligence", "personality".... They are also measurements by how we judge people. Physical attractiveness is just another one. | |||
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" Ahhh bigfriendlybull.... it is I who decides.... #notions And pray tell how is this notions? Should we form a democratic panel where all 50 odd guests have an equal and fair vote as to who gets an invite or not? And subsequently give each and every individual a veto as to whom can and can't attend? Or maybe a random lottery? Just select 50 random profiles and invite them to an event? Don't discriminate based on sexual orientation, gender, appearance, age, weight, body odour, income, ability to behave themselves... Just ya know... All are welcome? Pfft. Think on it for a spell. I don't need to think on it. I never said ALL should be welcome . I know there are fakes and messers oh and people with "body odour" strange one that. But... fit beautiful people can be fakes and messers too. Maybe I've been brought up to take people for who they are not what they look like . And when someone says " it is I who decides" who is beautiful I'd say notions come into play. Do you decide who you sleep with and who you don't? Have you notions? " Of course i decide who I have sex with, I don't get someone else to pick the person I have sex with. That person who thinks they can decide who I'd choose to have sex with has notions. | |||
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"I have org lots of party in the past and were all free by the way do not judge my guest like a dog in a dog show before i decide who can come intelligence personality are just as attractive as looks and size never had any trouble at any party and lots of play and friendships made Never heard of you
In addition; "Intelligence", "personality".... They are also measurements by how we judge people. Physical attractiveness is just another one. "I only pick people i would like to spend time in their company | |||
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" Of course i decide who I have sex with, I don't get someone else to pick the person I have sex with. That person who thinks they can decide who I'd choose to have sex with has notions." Um... You know you're still free to decide who you sleep with at the event itself? As in you're not obligated to ride everyone or anyone there lol I don't decided for anyone. I simply arrange for a number of like minded people to be in the same place at once. They decide whom they sleep with. Not me. With 50 people attending I'd be fairly confident you'd find one or two to your tastes.
And once again, this time for those who are having trouble with the notion... If you don't like whom I invite to the event, you can simply choose not to go. Simples. | |||
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" I only pick people i would like to spend time in their company " Apparently that's called "having notions" | |||
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" Of course i decide who I have sex with, I don't get someone else to pick the person I have sex with. That person who thinks they can decide who I'd choose to have sex with has notions. Um... You know you're still free to decide who you sleep with at the event itself? As in you're not obligated to ride everyone or anyone there lol I don't decided for anyone. I simply arrange for a number of like minded people to be in the same place at once. They decide whom they sleep with. Not me. With 50 people attending I'd be fairly confident you'd find one or two to your tastes.
And once again, this time for those who are having trouble with the notion... If you don't like whom I invite to the event, you can simply choose not to go. Simples. "I'll leave it at that .Life's too short to argue. Ive got my point of view, you've got yours along with your notions. And yes everyone has the right to choose. Life will leave you very lonely if looks are the only thing you base success on. Take that from a very happy, beautiful unfit oldie. | |||
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" Of course i decide who I have sex with, I don't get someone else to pick the person I have sex with. That person who thinks they can decide who I'd choose to have sex with has notions. Um... You know you're still free to decide who you sleep with at the event itself? As in you're not obligated to ride everyone or anyone there lol I don't decided for anyone. I simply arrange for a number of like minded people to be in the same place at once. They decide whom they sleep with. Not me. With 50 people attending I'd be fairly confident you'd find one or two to your tastes.
And once again, this time for those who are having trouble with the notion... If you don't like whom I invite to the event, you can simply choose not to go. Simples.
I'll leave it at that .Life's too short to argue. Ive got my point of view, you've got yours along with your notions. And yes everyone has the right to choose. Life will leave you very lonely if looks are the only thing you base success on. Take that from a very happy, beautiful unfit oldie." | |||
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" I only pick people i would like to spend time in their company Apparently that's called "having notions" "James doesn't have notions. He has very successful parties. | |||
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" I only pick people i would like to spend time in their company Apparently that's called "having notions"
James doesn't have notions. He has very successful parties."Ah! Would these be parties that you've attended or been invited to? Is that why James lacks notions? | |||
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" Of course i decide who I have sex with, I don't get someone else to pick the person I have sex with. That person who thinks they can decide who I'd choose to have sex with has notions. Um... You know you're still free to decide who you sleep with at the event itself? As in you're not obligated to ride everyone or anyone there lol I don't decided for anyone. I simply arrange for a number of like minded people to be in the same place at once. They decide whom they sleep with. Not me. With 50 people attending I'd be fairly confident you'd find one or two to your tastes.
And once again, this time for those who are having trouble with the notion... If you don't like whom I invite to the event, you can simply choose not to go. Simples.
I'll leave it at that .Life's too short to argue. Ive got my point of view, you've got yours along with your notions. And yes everyone has the right to choose. Life will leave you very lonely if looks are the only thing you base success on. Take that from a very happy, beautiful unfit oldie."Never a truer word spoken.. see beauty and wisdom ???? | |||
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" I only pick people i would like to spend time in their company Apparently that's called "having notions"
James doesn't have notions. He has very successful parties.
Ah! Would these be parties that you've attended or been invited to?
Is that why James lacks notions? "James invites people base on more then his own ideals of beauty. Everyones perception is different..you'll learn. Good luck with party OP .. hope its fun for you. Now these bloody notions are mine im taking them back | |||
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" I only pick people i would like to spend time in their company Apparently that's called "having notions"
James doesn't have notions. He has very successful parties.
Ah! Would these be parties that you've attended or been invited to?
Is that why James lacks notions? "I've neither attended or been invited to James parties. Friends of mine have and I've only heard good things. | |||
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"While most of us prefer to attend gigs where you get all shapes, sizes & personalities its s a free world folks! You may not agree with OP's choice of how he picks people for his events but thats his choice,if people attend he must be pleasing someone! " It is indeed a free world. Opinions are free too. | |||
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"While most of us prefer to attend gigs where you get all shapes, sizes & personalities its s a free world folks! You may not agree with OP's choice of how he picks people for his events but thats his choice,if people attend he must be pleasing someone! It is indeed a free world. Opinions are free too. " Sure are
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"While most of us prefer to attend gigs where you get all shapes, sizes & personalities its s a free world folks! You may not agree with OP's choice of how he picks people for his events but thats his choice,if people attend he must be pleasing someone! It is indeed a free world. Opinions are free too. Sure are
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"Fit and beautiful are not the main things I would look for when organising a meet and would probably be put off by someone putting it that way to me.... " Is that why your profile picture is of your diploma?
Only joking buddy, I agree with the rest of what you wrote, just not that. | |||
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"Fit and beautiful are not the main things I would look for when organising a meet and would probably be put off by someone putting it that way to me.... Is that why your profile picture is of your diploma?
Only joking buddy, I agree with the rest of what you wrote, just not that."Its a degree actually its just shoved down my jocks
Thats just the window dressing i have yet learn how to discover how to photograph my personality.
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"Best of luck in your future ventures Op I have heard only good things about your parties and I know all your future parties will be just as successful. I don’t understand why there is so many negative comments in this thread yes he organises parties to his preference the exact same way other people organise parties/events for their preferences. If you don’t meet the preference of said party move on and find another one that you would suit. " BOOM! Thats pretty much the best comment to ever grace the forums in my opinion. Nailed it x | |||
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"Best of luck in your future ventures Op I have heard only good things about your parties and I know all your future parties will be just as successful. I don’t understand why there is so many negative comments in this thread yes he organises parties to his preference the exact same way other people organise parties/events for their preferences. If you don’t meet the preference of said party move on and find another one that you would suit. " | |||
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" Ahhh bigfriendlybull.... it is I who decides.... #notions And pray tell how is this notions? Should we form a democratic panel where all 50 odd guests have an equal and fair vote as to who gets an invite or not? And subsequently give each and every individual a veto as to whom can and can't attend? Or maybe a random lottery? Just select 50 random profiles and invite them to an event? Don't discriminate based on sexual orientation, gender, appearance, age, weight, body odour, income, ability to behave themselves... Just ya know... All are welcome? Pfft. Think on it for a spell. I don't need to think on it. I never said ALL should be welcome . I know there are fakes and messers oh and people with "body odour" strange one that. But... fit beautiful people can be fakes and messers too. Maybe I've been brought up to take people for who they are not what they look like . And when someone says " it is I who decides" who is beautiful I'd say notions come into play. Do you decide who you sleep with and who you don't? Have you notions? Of course i decide who I have sex with, I don't get someone else to pick the person I have sex with. That person who thinks they can decide who I'd choose to have sex with has notions." Couldn’t have put it better myself | |||
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"I'm actually laughing at how ridiculous this thread had become! I'll say it as it is - generally speaking anyone who is im decent shape (not talking Victoria Secret models here) , well groomed etc tends to gravitate towards like minded people. I wouldn't imagine they'd be sexually attracted to an over weight oul fella who decided he'd attend for the craic. Call me shallow but thats how it is. I've yet to logistically make it to one if the OP's EE parties but heard great reports. The threads on Curvy Parties don't get bashed or accused as having 'notions'. Personal choice by party organisers. Feck Sake , if you've nothing nice to say, say nothing !!" I agree with you to a point. But all other parties organised on here to my knowledge have never pointed out that you'd be judged on how beautiful you are. Wording is everything. | |||
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" I agree with you to a point. But all other parties organised on here to my knowledge have never pointed out that you'd be judged on how beautiful you are. Wording is everything. " I don't believe I said I've ever judged anyone based upon their beauty. Everyone is entitled to apply to attend ... But yes, the more physically attractive you are (to me) the more likely I will extend an invite... But to add... I insist on meeting everyone who receives an invite for a coffee meet first, to ascertain that the cold/person's personality matches their looks. I'm shallow yes... But not a complete idiot.  | |||
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"Well _igblondedomme I'm assuming the 'Curvelicious' parties are aimed at the larger curvier ladies, which in itself is targeting a particular 'type'. I don't see skinny un-curvy ladies making a point of commenting on the injustice of it all in the party ad. To me you've made yourself look a bit bitter if I'm honest. If its not your cup of tea, scroll by...." Nope not bitter at all. I'm expressing an opinion. FYI I didn't bring up the curvelicious parties. I'm big and bold enough to laugh at the arrogance of wording of the thread but some on here have a hard enough time as it is without being told they're not beautiful enough. Bigfriendlybull and myself are well capable of having a discussion on the forums as it's what a forum is all about. I suggest if you can't see that maybe you should scroll by. | |||
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" That beauty is subjective is all? Your version might differ to mine and vice versa, there's no need for all this attitude and condescensing over tone in the words of Rodney King " can't we all just get along "
So your point is "beauty is subjective"?
Ok
But to be honest (and said without any rancour or malice) you might not be met with "attitude" or an "over tone" if you didn't jump on a thread to make an utterly inane, pointless comment aimed at discrediting or picking apart a statement made by someone who was stating a fact.
It's I who decides the guestlist. Therefore it's my "interpretation" of beauty which is the yard stick. Spouting some clichéd nonsense about subjective beauty doesn't add anything to the discussion other than to stick your (seemingly negative) oar in. "Best of luck lad, apologies if you deemed my point was somewhat inane, people I guess do pick things up wrong on the forums as you can't generally tell the way someone has intended it to be read. Regardless of that I do feel there's some sort of bitterness/resentment between that doesn't need to be there, we're both single males trying to get by on fab I've been around a long time as have you and I would like to put any grievances behind us, sort them out and move forward to a positive more productive community | |||
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"Well _igblondedomme I'm assuming the 'Curvelicious' parties are aimed at the larger curvier ladies, which in itself is targeting a particular 'type'. I don't see skinny un-curvy ladies making a point of commenting on the injustice of Nope not bitter at all. I'm expressing an opinion. FYI I didn't bring up the curvelicious parties. I'm big and bold enough to laugh at the arrogance of wording of the thread but some on here have a hard enough time as it is without being told they're not beautiful enough. Bigfriendlybull and myself are well capable of having a discussion on the forums as it's what a forum is all about. I suggest if you can't see that maybe you should scroll by. "...... Sorry Didnt realise it was a private conversation between you two , my bad | |||
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"Reading some of the interactions here im so glad beauty is only skin deep. Prefences are very very important. Its how we maintain our standards. " Bookmarked for future reading. | |||
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"Well _igblondedomme I'm assuming the 'Curvelicious' parties are aimed at the larger curvier ladies, which in itself is targeting a particular 'type'. I don't see skinny un-curvy ladies making a point of commenting on the injustice of Nope not bitter at all. I'm expressing an opinion. FYI I didn't bring up the curvelicious parties. I'm big and bold enough to laugh at the arrogance of wording of the thread but some on here have a hard enough time as it is without being told they're not beautiful enough. Bigfriendlybull and myself are well capable of having a discussion on the forums as it's what a forum is all about. I suggest if you can't see that maybe you should scroll by. ......
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"Got back in my box Bigblondedomme, cheek of me replying to a public forum, what am I like .
Enough internet for tonight...."WAIT!!! I want into your box!!!! | |||
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"Got back in my box Bigblondedomme, cheek of me replying to a public forum, what am I like .
Enough internet for tonight....
WAIT!!!
I want into your box!!!! "My box is big enough for two (or three ) | |||
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"I'm actually laughing at how ridiculous this thread had become! I'll say it as it is - generally speaking anyone who is im decent shape (not talking Victoria Secret models here) , well groomed etc tends to gravitate towards like minded people. I wouldn't imagine they'd be sexually attracted to an over weight oul fella who decided he'd attend for the craic. Call me shallow but thats how it is. I've yet to logistically make it to one if the OP's EE parties but heard great reports. The threads on Curvy Parties don't get bashed or accused as having 'notions'. Personal choice by party organisers. Feck Sake , if you've nothing nice to say, say nothing !!" Please stop making intelligent points, you are making the naysayers look even worse. | |||
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" That beauty is subjective is all? Your version might differ to mine and vice versa, there's no need for all this attitude and condescensing over tone in the words of Rodney King " can't we all just get along "
So your point is "beauty is subjective"?
Ok
But to be honest (and said without any rancour or malice) you might not be met with "attitude" or an "over tone" if you didn't jump on a thread to make an utterly inane, pointless comment aimed at discrediting or picking apart a statement made by someone who was stating a fact.
It's I who decides the guestlist. Therefore it's my "interpretation" of beauty which is the yard stick. Spouting some clichéd nonsense about subjective beauty doesn't add anything to the discussion other than to stick your (seemingly negative) oar in.
Best of luck lad, apologies if you deemed my point was somewhat inane, people I guess do pick things up wrong on the forums as you can't generally tell the way someone has intended it to be read. Regardless of that I do feel there's some sort of bitterness/resentment between that doesn't need to be there, we're both single males trying to get by on fab I've been around a long time as have you and I would like to put any grievances behind us, sort them out and move forward to a positive more productive community "I can assure you there is absolutely no bitterness (what would I have to be bitter about?) or resentment (resentment against who or what exactly?) on my part. As such there's no grievance to put behind us, on my end at least. If you feel agreived, then by all means, feel free to put it behind you. I do agree that moving toward a more productive, positive, supportive community is something that we should all strive toward so in that regard I thank you for your kind words...
I have no doubt our paths will cross again at some stage at some social or other and I look forward to making your acquaintance in person.
I shall buy you a drink. | |||
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" That beauty is subjective is all? Your version might differ to mine and vice versa, there's no need for all this attitude and condescensing over tone in the words of Rodney King " can't we all just get along "
So your point is "beauty is subjective"?
Ok
But to be honest (and said without any rancour or malice) you might not be met with "attitude" or an "over tone" if you didn't jump on a thread to make an utterly inane, pointless comment aimed at discrediting or picking apart a statement made by someone who was stating a fact.
It's I who decides the guestlist. Therefore it's my "interpretation" of beauty which is the yard stick. Spouting some clichéd nonsense about subjective beauty doesn't add anything to the discussion other than to stick your (seemingly negative) oar in.
Best of luck lad, apologies if you deemed my point was somewhat inane, people I guess do pick things up wrong on the forums as you can't generally tell the way someone has intended it to be read. Regardless of that I do feel there's some sort of bitterness/resentment between that doesn't need to be there, we're both single males trying to get by on fab I've been around a long time as have you and I would like to put any grievances behind us, sort them out and move forward to a positive more productive community
I can assure you there is absolutely no bitterness (what would I have to be bitter about?) or resentment (resentment against who or what exactly?) on my part.
As such there's no grievance to put behind us, on my end at least. If you feel agreived, then by all means, feel free to put it behind you.
I do agree that moving toward a more productive, positive, supportive community is something that we should all strive toward so in that regard I thank you for your kind words...
I have no doubt our paths will cross again at some stage at some social or other and I look forward to making your acquaintance in person.
I shall buy you a drink. "We'll have a few scoops haha sorry if came across as a dick, was unintentional | |||
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