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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Would you notice a big change in the site?

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Yes, my phone is different

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

I got veris lol

Apart from that i dont think it has changed. There are a few complaining about how it has changed but there where people complaining about that when i joined, so that hasnt changed either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I kept getting bombarded by "wanna fuck" ghosts.... these days hardly get a single message lol

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"When I first joined I kept getting bombarded by "wanna fuck" ghosts.... these days hardly get a single message lol "

Lol that quote will change the amount of messages you get

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

No, I still get as few replies as I got when I started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Still full of assholes and the occasional gem.

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

The forums have loosened up somewhat there are still those who will complain about one thing or another, but in general i think the bitchyness and thread hijacking that used to go on has mellowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums have loosened up somewhat there are still those who will complain about one thing or another, but in general i think the bitchyness and thread hijacking that used to go on has mellowed "

I think that's usually down to certain individuals. When they eventually get themselves banned, the forum is the better for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined I kept getting bombarded by "wanna fuck" ghosts.... these days hardly get a single message lol

Lol that quote will change the amount of messages you get "

Don't think so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the site no... huge difference with me in relation to the site though

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

One huge diff for me is the forums. Forums are not near as good now. Maybe that's down to the personal who have gone.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Forums aren't as good. Banters not there like it used to be. A lot less truckers messaging and the entire irish army seems to here now

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I took a time out for over a year and when I signed back in a few months ago I felt like it wasn't the same as I remembered. I can't put my finger on it but something is different.

Maybe it's because a lot of the heads I used to interact and have some great banter with are gone and I hardly recognize anyone now.

It really feels like I'm starting all over again.

Ah well.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Lol that quote will change the amount of messages you get

Don't think so lol "

I donno I made me think about messaging you

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"One huge diff for me is the forums. Forums are not near as good now. Maybe that's down to the personal who have gone. "

Agree.

I find I'm not getting involved in forum discussions half as much as I used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as many trolls on.

And those who are get the ban.

Few real swingers left.

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By *rs EmilyWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"Forums aren't as good. Banters not there like it used to be. A lot less truckers messaging and the entire irish army seems to here now "

I haven't come across any of this army you speak of....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One huge diff for me is the forums. Forums are not near as good now. Maybe that's down to the personal who have gone.

Agree.

I find I'm not getting involved in forum discussions half as much as I used to."

Or maybe it's just that it tends to be repetitive on the Ireland forum.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Not as many trolls on.

And those who are get the ban.

Few real swingers left.

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I think alot don't look at "swinging" signing up here. They look at it as a no strings fun outlet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you notice a big change in the site?"
I have been away from fab for some time but it's the same circus with some different monkeys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been on fab in UK, find that there are few genuine swingers .I know the numbers are different and Im a single fella. The forums seem to have gone downhill a bit.Too much aggresion towards others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im away from fab 3 years now & it is a far more difficult site for single guys now than it was then. This isnt a poor single guys take pity on us message by the way just my experience since ive come back. Still some great people here no doubt about it but its not how i found it 3 years back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Iv noticed a lot more freaks and messers tbh. Trolls will always float in and out which I hate. Got such a turn off for fab for the last while and I’m not the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My attitude to the site has changed... I've toughened up to the bullshit and we are more secure in what we are looking for on here.

The forums have changed and its not the topics as they will always be the same... it's the characters. Some big forum users left and they brought alot of Craic with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was much better couple of years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My attitude to the site has changed... I've toughened up to the bullshit and we are more secure in what we are looking for on here.

The forums have changed and its not the topics as they will always be the same... it's the characters. Some big forum users left and they brought alot of Craic with them "

Very very true and the others have hidden there profiles or keeping quite it’s sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been away for a few years and now returned I don't see much change in the site. Me personally I tend to spend more time reading the forums than actually seeking meets as it still seems as hard as ever to breakthrough into meets due to single guy. I must stress though this is my own fault, not anyone else's on here, as am not pushing the 'meet' issue as hard as I did when last here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums aren't as good. Banters not there like it used to be. A lot less truckers messaging and the entire irish army seems to here now

I haven't come across any of this army you speak of.... "

We definitely have

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"One huge diff for me is the forums. Forums are not near as good now. Maybe that's down to the personal who have gone.

Agree.

I find I'm not getting involved in forum discussions half as much as I used to.

Or maybe it's just that it tends to be repetitive on the Ireland forum. "

True. How many times does 'what's your favourite sex position?' need to be asked

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By *ocforuMan
over a year ago

Cork City


"When I first joined I kept getting bombarded by "wanna fuck" ghosts.... these days hardly get a single message lol "
hi if you don't get any messages with a body like that the rest of us are fucked and not in a good way

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Forums aren't as good. Banters not there like it used to be. A lot less truckers messaging and the entire irish army seems to here now

I haven't come across any of this army you speak of.... "

I have ...ill send them your way

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By *abbingMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"The forums have changed and its not the topics as they will always be the same... it's the characters. Some big forum users left and they brought alot of Craic with them "

Ive seen that in a lot of other forums outside of fab where they've faded away recently - unfortunately Facebook, twitter, instagram etc have pretty much killed message forums across the the internet in my recent experience ......but to be honest I'd say here is more active than many forums, albeit active doesnt automatically mean good!!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

The craic on the forum has definitely changed from say 5 years ago to today whether it's because people have left, down to shit posters/trolls etc or that people tend to be in kik groups now is up for debate but it definitely was more engaging a few years back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The craic on the forum has definitely changed from say 5 years ago to today whether it's because people have left, down to shit posters/trolls etc or that people tend to be in kik groups now is up for debate but it definitely was more engaging a few years back.

"

Five years ago Fab was great. Much better than now for some reason. More fun and laughs and less aggression and confrontation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined I kept getting bombarded by "wanna fuck" ghosts.... these days hardly get a single message lol hi if you don't get any messages with a body like that the rest of us are fucked and not in a good way"

Well looks like you're fucked, my friend

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"The craic on the forum has definitely changed from say 5 years ago to today whether it's because people have left, down to shit posters/trolls etc or that people tend to be in kik groups now is up for debate but it definitely was more engaging a few years back.

Five years ago Fab was great. Much better than now for some reason. More fun and laughs and less aggression and confrontation.

"

Soo true

Even through rose tinted glasses

Threads maxed out in hours not days with peeps having a bit of banter

Even with those 2 spanners talking in the 3rd person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The craic on the forum has definitely changed from say 5 years ago to today whether it's because people have left, down to shit posters/trolls etc or that people tend to be in kik groups now is up for debate but it definitely was more engaging a few years back.

Five years ago Fab was great. Much better than now for some reason. More fun and laughs and less aggression and confrontation.

"

I think that's probably a reflection of Irish society as a whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined I kept getting bombarded by "wanna fuck" ghosts.... these days hardly get a single message lol "

Not a message I find that hard to believe you are stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined I kept getting bombarded by "wanna fuck" ghosts.... these days hardly get a single message lol

Not a message I find that hard to believe you are stunning "

Wanna bet? Lol

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"The craic on the forum has definitely changed from say 5 years ago to today whether it's because people have left, down to shit posters/trolls etc or that people tend to be in kik groups now is up for debate but it definitely was more engaging a few years back.

Five years ago Fab was great. Much better than now for some reason. More fun and laughs and less aggression and confrontation.

Soo true

Even through rose tinted glasses

Threads maxed out in hours not days with peeps having a bit of banter

Even with those 2 spanners talking in the 3rd person "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum reminds me of keeping house, its generally women, or at least a cohort of women that keep it together, and lets face it in general women are not funny, im not trying to offend the fairer sex btw. Theres a significant lack of male contributors with a sense of humour in my opinion, plenty of pc individuals, statiticians, politicians etc, and some folk come in every so often to bring the rubbish out

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"The forum reminds me of keeping house, its generally women, or at least a cohort of women that keep it together, and lets face it in general women are not funny, im not trying to offend the fairer sex btw. Theres a significant lack of male contributors with a sense of humour in my opinion, plenty of pc individuals, statiticians, politicians etc, and some folk come in every so often to bring the rubbish out "

Pmsl......I think you've just insulted all the regular ladies that comment on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum reminds me of keeping house, its generally women, or at least a cohort of women that keep it together, and lets face it in general women are not funny, im not trying to offend the fairer sex btw. Theres a significant lack of male contributors with a sense of humour in my opinion, plenty of pc individuals, statiticians, politicians etc, and some folk come in every so often to bring the rubbish out

Pmsl......I think you've just insulted all the regular ladies that comment on the forums "

This is where we need to stick together guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum reminds me of keeping house, its generally women, or at least a cohort of women that keep it together, and lets face it in general women are not funny, im not trying to offend the fairer sex btw. Theres a significant lack of male contributors with a sense of humour in my opinion, plenty of pc individuals, statiticians, politicians etc, and some folk come in every so often to bring the rubbish out "

People keep telling me that I'm hilarious! Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum reminds me of keeping house, its generally women, or at least a cohort of women that keep it together, and lets face it in general women are not funny, im not trying to offend the fairer sex btw. Theres a significant lack of male contributors with a sense of humour in my opinion, plenty of pc individuals, statiticians, politicians etc, and some folk come in every so often to bring the rubbish out "

Are you a bin man? Just you're talking alot of rubbish now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets not make this about me ladies, its not reflected on my profile, so theres no need to give me any undue attention here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab itself is much the same.. the forum seems to be almost dead..we need some more mad fuckers posting and less pc shite (its the internet..you're allowed to be daft mad angry silly etc )..

I'll be back under my rock till the revolution

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

The forum was way more lively when I joined which I think is down to different reasons, but mainly that some iconic personalities have ceased to post but also there sèems to be a certain lack of understanding Irish banter and therefore reporting every sheit.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Three words:

The Man Beast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Three words:

The Man Beast "

Still trying to get him back... He's adamant it won't happen though

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Three words:

The Man Beast

Still trying to get him back... He's adamant it won't happen though "

Yeah, I kept in contact with him for a bit after he left but lost touch over time.

Been meaning to give him a shout.

I used to get a right kick out of him.

Funny bastard

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"The forum was way more lively when I joined which I think is down to different reasons, but mainly that some iconic personalities have ceased to post but also there sèems to be a certain lack of understanding Irish banter and therefore reporting every sheit. "
you hit a key word, reporting. It's playground stuff.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"The forum was way more lively when I joined which I think is down to different reasons, but mainly that some iconic personalities have ceased to post but also there sèems to be a certain lack of understanding Irish banter and therefore reporting every sheit. "

It was a lot _ilder years ago people report anything and everything these days. I think some of the original forum users wouldn't last a week now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Three words:

The Man Beast

Still trying to get him back... He's adamant it won't happen though

Yeah, I kept in contact with him for a bit after he left but lost touch over time.

Been meaning to give him a shout.

I used to get a right kick out of him.

Funny bastard "

He was funny

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Three words:

The Man Beast

Still trying to get him back... He's adamant it won't happen though

Yeah, I kept in contact with him for a bit after he left but lost touch over time.

Been meaning to give him a shout.

I used to get a right kick out of him.

Funny bastard

He was funny "

I'm sure he still is.

Might give him a shout during the week

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined I kept getting bombarded by "wanna fuck" ghosts.... these days hardly get a single message lol

Lol that quote will change the amount of messages you get

Don't think so lol "

It's all in how one approaches or how she approaches when one stands waiting and the conversation that ensues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you notice a big change in the site?"

We've noticed more of a change in ourselves

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By *aider190Man
over a year ago

swords

On the site about a year..met some great people .....but recently the amount of fakes and time wasters has definitely shot up....where are all the genuine ladies gone. Those that want to meet for a coffee or drinks ....those that are confident and straight up ...

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By *oredinbelfasMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

in 5 yrs the site is so differant to back

when i first joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been on and off at least 5 or 6 yrs and apart from the improvements to mobile side off things it’s pretty much same as it was,people come and go maybe the ratio of single men has gone up a bit but not much change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent noticed much change over the period of a year, probably because I dont use this too much. Only thing thats changed is how I use the site, mostly forums now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on and off over 3 years and I don't think the site has changed at all. Characters come and go, fakes, time wasters, keyboard warriors, bullies, jokers, debaters all come and go. The forum is only the sum of who's involved and how those involved involve themselves. It's only representative of about 5 to 7% of fab profiles after all. There are times when subjects are more interesting and so I get involved, other times I'm not involved much and there's little of interest. For me the forums have interest but it's not the reason I'm on here, if it was I'd delete as Facebook, ADV, Insider, Overland er and a couple others would hold more attention for me. My main reason is to meet like minded interesting people.

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By *izaandstuCouple
over a year ago

Wigan

I think the type of people on here has changed a lot more people know about fab and mostly male think the females on here will do anything all you have to do is let them know u want to fuck them and its a sure thing.. the majority of people who are new on the site are not genuine swingers who understand what its really about. they think its a definite fuck without having to make any effort and are only bothered about there own turn on and not the people they meet with

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Many years ago when i 1st joined fab there was a certain signal you'd give in public ..people just knew.....last time i tried it i near got arrested!!

FAB you've changed !!!!

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Forums seem much better now.

No fake ids copying peoples photos/post style for the "banter".

No ghost ids posting everyones personal info for the "banter"

People don't get followed from thread to thread for the "banter" anymore really.

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