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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How did you cope??? 1st club this weekend for Mrs. Gonna be a big event. Halloween party. Never been to anything like it before. Don't know what to expect or what is expected of me. Don't know what to wear or bring etc. Mr is a frequenter of the clubs and well used to the whole scene and very very confident in his own skin so not a bother on him. Quite the opposite of Mrs. All or any advice or tips very very welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont over think it dont expect anything ,just go with the flow ,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont over think it dont expect anything ,just go with the flow , "

I'm really really trying xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont over think it dont expect anything ,just go with the flow , "
...exactly just try to relax and go for it

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

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It's just excitment.

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

We were the very same before we went to our first club. Maybe if you could arrange to meet a couple or two for predrinks it might help her feel more comfortable going on to the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me... I plan plan plan... What I am wearing, what time we are going etc etc, arrange to meet someone for a drink either earlier in the day or at predrinks before the club, set myself little goals... Making it to drinks... Making it til 10pm etc etc .

You will probably relax as soon as you meet afew people and realise that (most

) people are quite normal

Enjoy and have a great night x

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