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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, just trying to get some feedback. Is it just me or is it incredibly difficult for single men on this site? I suppose I’m looking for pointers on how to meet couples and single ladies. Just wondering what’s the best way of going about building trust and successfully arranging a meet without bombarding people with messages.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Try making your profile more attractive to people that may help going for the grey pant look is rarely a winner too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can’t argue with that actually........

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon


"Try making your profile more attractive to people that may help going for the grey pant look is rarely a winner too. "

Also attend socials its a more relaxed way to meet people

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Ive met more on here in the forum page than through just messages alone. Get involved here with the craic and banter you interact more here and hopefully lead to some meets be even just a social or get your name down for a M&G.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are single guys welcome at socials though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive met more on here in the forum page than through just messages alone. Get involved here with the craic and banter you interact more here and hopefully lead to some meets be even just a social or get your name down for a M&G..... "

Thanks, I’d love to go to a couple of meet and greets. Must keep an eye on the forums I suppose to see when they’re on.

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon


"Are single guys welcome at socials though?"

Yes of course... and the hosts are always straight uo about what they are looking for or if there are excessive single males so just mingle here dont piss anybody off and you'll get the swing of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive met more on here in the forum page than through just messages alone. Get involved here with the craic and banter you interact more here and hopefully lead to some meets be even just a social or get your name down for a M&G..... "

Banter and craic in the forums.... really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, just trying to get some feedback. Is it just me or is it incredibly difficult for single men on this site? I suppose I’m looking for pointers on how to meet couples and single ladies. Just wondering what’s the best way of going about building trust and successfully arranging a meet without bombarding people with messages. "

How much are you willing to lower your standards? Because realistically, the more desirable ladies on here will be absolutely bombarded with messages and probably won’t read anything you send them; and if they do they’ll probably just ignore or delete it. If I had any pointers it would be to go on tinder. I’ve had plenty of NSA there

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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"Hi all, just trying to get some feedback. Is it just me or is it incredibly difficult for single men on this site? I suppose I’m looking for pointers on how to meet couples and single ladies. Just wondering what’s the best way of going about building trust and successfully arranging a meet without bombarding people with messages.

How much are you willing to lower your standards? Because realistically, the more desirable ladies on here will be absolutely bombarded with messages and probably won’t read anything you send them; and if they do they’ll probably just ignore or delete it. If I had any pointers it would be to go on tinder. I’ve had plenty of NSA there"

And yet your here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, just trying to get some feedback. Is it just me or is it incredibly difficult for single men on this site? I suppose I’m looking for pointers on how to meet couples and single ladies. Just wondering what’s the best way of going about building trust and successfully arranging a meet without bombarding people with messages. "

Its not that hard.

Take your time build some connections with people. Chat on the forums and chat rooms. Try ajd get along to a social.

Someone said Tinder is better for NSA and ya know what they are probably right in relation to quantity but I have found the women on Fab more interesting and the meets have always been way better than on other sites. (Dont get a big head ladies, lord knows they are big enough already )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ment to be eye rolling before ye pounce

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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"Not ment to be eye rolling before ye pounce "

Brave guy but your right. I cane off tinder and the likes as to find what really turns me on id to wade through alot of shit. Here if you know what you want you'll find it. Just stay focused on what you want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback lads. I suppose it’s a matter of perseverance

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