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By *atts n tits OP   Couple
over a year ago

everywhere

Do you single guys not get pissed off basically auditoning for meets with people who ye would walk by in a pub (mic dropped )

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

Its a long drawn out process to even get noticed amongst the wasters for a reply. But thats fab for ya, the ratio of single fellas to everyone else tips the scales that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you single guys not get pissed off basically auditoning for meets with people who ye would walk by in a pub (mic dropped ) "

Yes totally. It's still worth it if you end up finding someone nice who has the same mindset and 'interest' as myself. Although it can be different, the idea of meeting some one that scores high the naughtiness scale and agrees that monogamy is an out date belief, makes it worth the occasional rejection. Its not always about looks. Just my 2 cents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get pissed off, just lost all motivation on here. Ive seen first hand the amount of messages females get on here, its scary! I just use the forums mostly now when im bored and message the odd female every now and again. For this site, you dont get out what you put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't get bogged down by it haha. Or message everyone hoping for a meet.

Just play it cool, be yourself. It'll happen when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It gets me a little disapointed at times but that comes with the territory. Just gotta keep trying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got more sex at my local gym this year than I did here .I think it's played out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think most women or couples on here are interested in even chatting to single guys. I get it, there's a lot of fakers out there but I have chatted to one or two cool nice people so far no meets on this though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think most women or couples on here are interested in even chatting to single guys. I get it, there's a lot of fakers out there but I have chatted to one or two cool nice people so far no meets on this though."

Only here to chat to single guys and there is a few more of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so right many mingers here that think they are the shit! But then again there are also many single guys with no standards and love a good arse licking just to get a ride !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you single guys not get pissed off basically auditoning for meets with people who ye would walk by in a pub (mic dropped ) "

I don't get you? I wouldn't meet people I'm not attracted to and I don't audition for meets either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think most women or couples on here are interested in even chatting to single guys. I get it, there's a lot of fakers out there but I have chatted to one or two cool nice people so far no meets on this though.

Only here to chat to single guys and there is a few more of us."

I'm in Sligo too if only I were old enough to message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" so right many mingers here that think they are the shit! But then again there are also many single guys with no standards and love a good arse licking just to get a ride ! "

It seems I'm a minger but I def don't think I'm the shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think most women or couples on here are interested in even chatting to single guys. I get it, there's a lot of fakers out there but I have chatted to one or two cool nice people so far no meets on this though.

Only here to chat to single guys and there is a few more of us."

Good to know Steph and I love your Iron Maiden shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had lots of meets here but very few from sending random messages would not waste my time instead i go to m&gs and network which ends up meeting for fun

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By *ivelifeMan
over a year ago

Dublin

But most m&g are all couples only kr single ladys. Us men are only near selected by who the hosts like . which is a small selection. but maybe someday all get a select invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We decided to put up that we were looking for a gentleman and by no means it was an interview when we met him.

I was more nervous than my hubby incase he wasn’t attracted to me though.

There are some lovely guys on here - you should never jump through hoops for anyone.

Psyche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use a bit of imagination and ye might get noticed!

Don wan im not but i know how to speak to a lady.

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By *edserMan
over a year ago

drogheda


"We decided to put up that we were looking for a gentleman and by no means it was an interview when we met him.

I was more nervous than my hubby incase he wasn’t attracted to me though.

There are some lovely guys on here - you should never jump through hoops for anyone.

Psyche "

There’d be something wrong if he wasn’t attracted to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awe shucks honeybear I’m flattered

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By *rDarcy37Man
over a year ago

lucan

In political situations the majority rule... the largest group of members are single males yet they seem to be the lowest on the pecking order. Maybe we should start a trade union lol c.o.c.k.s Campaign of chaps knockers & shaggers lol

Equal rights lol

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Do you single guys not get pissed off basically auditoning for meets with people who ye would walk by in a pub (mic dropped ) "
you are dead right but every now and then you do meet a nice person . I met a big lady and had the best sex ever .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye like most, it gets us down but we get back on the site the next day, there’s also plenty of fake couples/singles profiles here but that’s life on the fab road, this is my 2/3 time here over the years reason been because of fake profiles, but tomorrow is promised to nobody so we just carry on

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin


"In political situations the majority rule... the largest group of members are single males yet they seem to be the lowest on the pecking order. Maybe we should start a trade union lol c.o.c.k.s Campaign of chaps knockers & shaggers lol

Equal rights lol"
that's the best ever

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin


"In political situations the majority rule... the largest group of members are single males yet they seem to be the lowest on the pecking order. Maybe we should start a trade union lol c.o.c.k.s Campaign of chaps knockers & shaggers lol

Equal rights lol"
that's the best ever

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

I do just fine really so chin up everyone. If you dont expect everyone that looks at your profile to immediately sit on your cock (or be a woman) you will be fine.

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK


"I do just fine really so chin up everyone. If you dont expect everyone that looks at your profile to immediately sit on your cock (or be a woman) you will be fine."

That dont quite read right but hopefully you get the intent..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you single guys not get pissed off basically auditoning for meets with people who ye would walk by in a pub (mic dropped ) you are dead right but every now and then you do meet a nice person . I met a big lady and had the best sex ever . "

Wow I'm sure she's flattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I get back to ya I'm learning my lines

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Most of the girls I have talked to on here would turn my head in the pub our out and about.

But i get what you mean, that there are some people punching above their weight due to so many people being on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you single guys not get pissed off basically auditoning for meets with people who ye would walk by in a pub (mic dropped ) "

Its only an audition if you make it that. I see fab another place to interact socially and if that leads to a mutual attraction with someone then great.

I dont want to fuck everyone I see or chat to in a pub and its the same on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely a audition is for a job not fab social meet.if someone is going to make it a audition why go.why change ur preferences in meets because u join a site swinger site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you single guys not get pissed off basically auditoning for meets with people who ye would walk by in a pub (mic dropped ) "

In the interest of honesty:

I'm not doing too well on here yet, I've had no meets(but them I'm fairly new) and have had few chats. Those I have chatted to have kinda left me hanging in a sense that I've been told "nice talking to you, I'd like to talk more and will contact you again soon", so I don't wanna seem like a pest and make contact again myself but feel like the longer it goes on the less likely we'll talk again.

On the forum's I've had a bit of craic but, there are that many people jumping on to the threads that it's completely impersonal as a forum is always gonna be really anyway.

All that being said, I haven't sent out messages to every single woman on here within a range I'm prepared to travel, nor will I ever. I've messaged the one's(and not all of them) who spark my interest in either something they've said on their profile, or in how they look. Looks wise it's usually only a body you see until you swap face pics..if I was no longer attracted after the "big reveal" then I wouldn't meet and would make that clear in the nicest possible way, as I would expect from the her if she didn't like my coupon.

Long story short, if I wasnt interested in you in the real world then I'm not gonna be interested in you here just because your willing to "play". I would hope others are the same or does willing to put out make you more attractive?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"In political situations the majority rule... the largest group of members are single males yet they seem to be the lowest on the pecking order. Maybe we should start a trade union lol c.o.c.k.s Campaign of chaps knockers & shaggers lol

Equal rights lol"

That might be so in a perfect democracy where everyone is equal. Reality shows that money rules the world and a few pulling the strings. Now transferring that to fab the currency is pussy and the fanny brigade rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you single guys not get pissed off basically auditoning for meets with people who ye would walk by in a pub (mic dropped )

In the interest of honesty:

I'm not doing too well on here yet, I've had no meets(but them I'm fairly new) and have had few chats. Those I have chatted to have kinda left me hanging in a sense that I've been told "nice talking to you, I'd like to talk more and will contact you again soon", so I don't wanna seem like a pest and make contact again myself but feel like the longer it goes on the less likely we'll talk again.

On the forum's I've had a bit of craic but, there are that many people jumping on to the threads that it's completely impersonal as a forum is always gonna be really anyway.

All that being said, I haven't sent out messages to every single woman on here within a range I'm prepared to travel, nor will I ever. I've messaged the one's(and not all of them) who spark my interest in either something they've said on their profile, or in how they look. Looks wise it's usually only a body you see until you swap face pics..if I was no longer attracted after the "big reveal" then I wouldn't meet and would make that clear in the nicest possible way, as I would expect from the her if she didn't like my coupon.

Long story short, if I wasnt interested in you in the real world then I'm not gonna be interested in you here just because your willing to "play". I would hope others are the same or does willing to put out make you more attractive?"

Great attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you single guys not get pissed off basically auditoning for meets with people who ye would walk by in a pub (mic dropped ) "

Finally somebody speaking some sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think most women or couples on here are interested in even chatting to single guys. I get it, there's a lot of fakers out there but I have chatted to one or two cool nice people so far no meets on this though.

Only here to chat to single guys and there is a few more of us."

Free to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you single guys not get pissed off basically auditoning for meets with people who ye would walk by in a pub (mic dropped ) "

Never been to one of these said interviews. Those I meet have passed the required standard I want because they have what I'm looking for and I have what they're looking for as it's a two way event for me. There are those I won't meet or havent met because we're not compatable for various reasons.

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo

Its a pain but its part and parsel of this process.

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By *rinibooWoman
over a year ago

clare

I wish it was only single men sending me messages . I haven’t been inundated with cock pics . Most of my messages have been about my boobs

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

Well as I am a chubby lad I do feel a bit self conscious and do I won't message alot of ladies as I simply don't want to get shit back

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