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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Bromley

I guess the key is to exchange faces early.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be some sort of physical attraction surely, will always make the sex better in my opinion, not saying they've gotta be 10/10s but you've gotta fancy them a bit even

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I guess the key is to exchange faces early."

If it is the all crucial element, I guess that's the way to go. All based on the looks only.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Has to be some sort of physical attraction surely, will always make the sex better in my opinion, not saying they've gotta be 10/10s but you've gotta fancy them a bit even "

Would a great body not do the physical attraction bit?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

"
yep physical attraction is the defining line and that stems from the face.

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By *ad IdeaMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Personally for me most important is physical attraction. Rest doesn't matter on here.

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Bromley


"I guess the key is to exchange faces early.

If it is the all crucial element, I guess that's the way to go. All based on the looks only. "

Well I’m not saying looks is everything to me.

But if it matters a lot to anyone, then it really is the only option. Like many profiles on here I guess, profiles with first message or delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has to be some sort of physical attraction surely, will always make the sex better in my opinion, not saying they've gotta be 10/10s but you've gotta fancy them a bit even

Would a great body not do the physical attraction bit? "

When it's a body like yours absolutely x seriously though kissing is huge for me so i have to fancy the girl even a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

"
. Good morning doghunter you goddess and and to answer your question it’s 50/50 for me

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Has to be some sort of physical attraction surely, will always make the sex better in my opinion, not saying they've gotta be 10/10s but you've gotta fancy them a bit even

Would a great body not do the physical attraction bit?

When it's a body like yours absolutely x seriously though kissing is huge for me so i have to fancy the girl even a little "

Phew! That's all I needed to hear. So I can stop taking face pics from all different angles in the hope one actually looks quite acceptable.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

. Good morning doghunter you goddess and and to answer your question it’s 50/50 for me "

No goddess here at all, more of a normal monster but thanks.

50/50 makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has to be some sort of physical attraction surely, will always make the sex better in my opinion, not saying they've gotta be 10/10s but you've gotta fancy them a bit even

Would a great body not do the physical attraction bit?

When it's a body like yours absolutely x seriously though kissing is huge for me so i have to fancy the girl even a little

Phew! That's all I needed to hear. So I can stop taking face pics from all different angles in the hope one actually looks quite acceptable. "

Hahaha piss off you know what I meant, I'm still waiting for you to msg so I can show you my face x

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

If the flirty chat and banter was going great and after a while id seen there face pic and it wasn't what I expected id still meet up for a social there's no harm in that as for taking it further that's hard to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The real beauty is what lies beneath the skin.A beautiful mind does it for me.After all who am I to decide who is and isnt beautiful.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

That happened to me . Had very nice chat with a nice couple but never got a photo of them ..went to meet them no chemistry complete waste of a meet to be honest. But then again went to meet another woman kinda did not like her but grew to like her .she turned out to be a very hot luver .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't bother exchanging face pics anymore, some people don't photograph well and the personality adds (or takes away from) facial attractiveness anyway -, so we just meet without pics if we like the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't bother exchanging face pics anymore, some people don't photograph well and the personality adds (or takes away from) facial attractiveness anyway -, so we just meet without pics if we like the person. "

Totally agree on that, face pic is not a real pic in some cases, so better go for a social and then you can judge will be fun or not.

But I will prefer to see someone face even before social meet. I don't like to go blind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The face is usually the first point of interaction between two people. That's where the dancing starts. The eyes, the smile, the mouth, facial expressions and then the sounds from their voice. It tells the other a lot about the person and whether receptive or not. Generally most men prefer large eyes. They are generally open and warmer in character. The more symmetrical the face is the more attractive it will be considered by others and men much prefer feminine fetured face in a woman. The smile says everything one wants to know at the beginning. Welcoming and warm, or suspicion and cold.

Studies have shown interestingly that Women are effected a lot by their ovation. They prefer men with feminine facial features when they are not fertile and prefer men who have more masculine features when they are fertile. So the same woman can find a certain man attractive in certain days and less attractive on other days. This can be good news for us men but has a double edged sword too.

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

If it a good connection why not

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

No-one should do anything they dont want to on here. If there is any reason at all the other party is not into whats happening then I for one would sooner have a drink and forget about it.

Must get better at those selfies that i hate taking now...

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

I am no oil painting but I'd have to be attracted to both the face and body. I couldn't play without attraction.

Sam

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"We don't bother exchanging face pics anymore, some people don't photograph well and the personality adds (or takes away from) facial attractiveness anyway -, so we just meet without pics if we like the person. "

I'm trying to take a new face pic at the moment but one turns out worse than the other, I think I've to accept that I'm not from the selfie generation, my phone camera and I do not correspond.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"The face is usually the first point of interaction between two people. That's where the dancing starts. The eyes, the smile, the mouth, facial expressions and then the sounds from their voice. It tells the other a lot about the person and whether receptive or not. Generally most men prefer large eyes. They are generally open and warmer in character. The more symmetrical the face is the more attractive it will be considered by others and men much prefer feminine fetured face in a woman. The smile says everything one wants to know at the beginning. Welcoming and warm, or suspicion and cold.

Studies have shown interestingly that Women are effected a lot by their ovation. They prefer men with feminine facial features when they are not fertile and prefer men who have more masculine features when they are fertile. So the same woman can find a certain man attractive in certain days and less attractive on other days. This can be good news for us men but has a double edged sword too. "

You forgot that we women can always change our mind from one second to the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't bother exchanging face pics anymore, some people don't photograph well and the personality adds (or takes away from) facial attractiveness anyway -, so we just meet without pics if we like the person.

I'm trying to take a new face pic at the moment but one turns out worse than the other, I think I've to accept that I'm not from the selfie generation, my phone camera and I do not correspond. "

Same, I've been told my face pic doesn't do me justice - thank fuck for that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't bother exchanging face pics anymore, some people don't photograph well and the personality adds (or takes away from) facial attractiveness anyway -, so we just meet without pics if we like the person.

I'm trying to take a new face pic at the moment but one turns out worse than the other, I think I've to accept that I'm not from the selfie generation, my phone camera and I do not correspond. "

My kids show me selfies their friends have up on Facebook. I wouldn't recognise them and some of them I've known since they were in nappies, hence in part my cynicism in terms of attractiveness in pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

. Good morning doghunter you goddess and and to answer your question it’s 50/50 for me

No goddess here at all, more of a normal monster but thanks.

50/50 makes sense. "

Are you been genuine? You're hardly a ogre! I'm always straight up so send me a pic tried messaging you but unfortunately I'm not in your age preferences.

Personally looks are important, and as I've got older, I've moved away from a type. I find sexual attraction is so much more than looks. It's more what is between the ears and how she carries herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I aggree

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"We don't bother exchanging face pics anymore, some people don't photograph well and the personality adds (or takes away from) facial attractiveness anyway -, so we just meet without pics if we like the person.

I'm trying to take a new face pic at the moment but one turns out worse than the other, I think I've to accept that I'm not from the selfie generation, my phone camera and I do not correspond.

My kids show me selfies their friends have up on Facebook. I wouldn't recognise them and some of them I've known since they were in nappies, hence in part my cynicism in terms of attractiveness in pics. "

I have to agree here, a photo never does anyone justice to how that person is, a gorgeous face pic could lead to attraction and then meet some one and when you talk to them the ugliness comes out and that’s the end of that. I wouldn’t make a decision to meet some one on a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The face is usually the first point of interaction between two people. That's where the dancing starts. The eyes, the smile, the mouth, facial expressions and then the sounds from their voice. It tells the other a lot about the person and whether receptive or not. Generally most men prefer large eyes. They are generally open and warmer in character. The more symmetrical the face is the more attractive it will be considered by others and men much prefer feminine fetured face in a woman. The smile says everything one wants to know at the beginning. Welcoming and warm, or suspicion and cold.

Studies have shown interestingly that Women are effected a lot by their ovation. They prefer men with feminine facial features when they are not fertile and prefer men who have more masculine features when they are fertile. So the same woman can find a certain man attractive in certain days and less attractive on other days. This can be good news for us men but has a double edged sword too.

You forgot that we women can always change our mind from one second to the other "

That my friend is something I never forget but constantly changing ones mind is not as attactive as being consistent even if wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't bother exchanging face pics anymore, some people don't photograph well and the personality adds (or takes away from) facial attractiveness anyway -, so we just meet without pics if we like the person.

I'm trying to take a new face pic at the moment but one turns out worse than the other, I think I've to accept that I'm not from the selfie generation, my phone camera and I do not correspond.

Same, I've been told my face pic doesn't do me justice - thank fuck for that!! "

Same apparently. Photos are monodimentional and therefore cannot do justice. As someone who loves photography when viewing on past photos one always knows that they do not tell the whole story.

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

We're all hopefully that faces match body other wise what the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't bother exchanging face pics anymore, some people don't photograph well and the personality adds (or takes away from) facial attractiveness anyway -, so we just meet without pics if we like the person. "

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

. Good morning doghunter you goddess and and to answer your question it’s 50/50 for me

No goddess here at all, more of a normal monster but thanks.

50/50 makes sense.

Are you been genuine? You're hardly a ogre! I'm always straight up so send me a pic tried messaging you but unfortunately I'm not in your age preferences.

Personally looks are important, and as I've got older, I've moved away from a type. I find sexual attraction is so much more than looks. It's more what is between the ears and how she carries herself."

I'm not an ogre, but also would never refer to me as a goddess, just a normal human being with flaws and better sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

. Good morning doghunter you goddess and and to answer your question it’s 50/50 for me

No goddess here at all, more of a normal monster but thanks.

50/50 makes sense.

Are you been genuine? You're hardly a ogre! I'm always straight up so send me a pic tried messaging you but unfortunately I'm not in your age preferences.

Personally looks are important, and as I've got older, I've moved away from a type. I find sexual attraction is so much more than looks. It's more what is between the ears and how she carries herself.

I'm not an ogre, but also would never refer to me as a goddess, just a normal human being with flaws and better sides. "
. Well if your not a goddess your definitely sexy as hell but unfortunately I’m just outside your age bracket to message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

. Good morning doghunter you goddess and and to answer your question it’s 50/50 for me

No goddess here at all, more of a normal monster but thanks.

50/50 makes sense.

Are you been genuine? You're hardly a ogre! I'm always straight up so send me a pic tried messaging you but unfortunately I'm not in your age preferences.

Personally looks are important, and as I've got older, I've moved away from a type. I find sexual attraction is so much more than looks. It's more what is between the ears and how she carries herself.

I'm not an ogre, but also would never refer to me as a goddess, just a normal human being with flaws and better sides. "

Who would want the pressure that would come with that. Last thing most people want is to be put up on a pedestal.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

This is why I exchange face pics early, It has put people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to have an attraction and someones face is vital for that for me.

I'd be polite but if I found someones face unattractive it would stop me meeting

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By *orkchippyMan
over a year ago

Crosshaven

A lot of females are self conscious.Im met beautiful women and they hate taking face pics.

I say

Look in the mirror and wow!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

"

Yes,i think i do.. one of my ex girlfriends likes to give her opinion on my choice of new girlfriend, she thought the blonde was very pretty, the brown head, not as pretty as the blonde, i think that was the general consensus from my friends also...i would prefer to spend the night with the brown haired lady over three of the blondes, for all the reasons you have outlined above

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Doggy style was invented for these situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doggy style was invented for these situations. "

Or a Tom Hardy mask

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

Yes,i think i do.. one of my ex girlfriends likes to give her opinion on my choice of new girlfriend, she thought the blonde was very pretty, the brown head, not as pretty as the blonde, i think that was the general consensus from my friends also...i would prefer to spend the night with the brown haired lady over three of the blondes, for all the reasons you have outlined above "

Are you saying the brown haired's cum face is better?

On a serious note, I know one darling who might not score in the looks but he's still though sex on legs, a devine hell of a meet, arouses my naughty mind just thinking of him. He just has an extra large portion of the inexplicable extra!

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Doggy style was invented for these situations. "

I prefer the brown paper bag, allows me to go cowgirl

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

A handsome face is a bonus but intelligence wins for me. I've been with men who are extremely handsome but bored me to death.

Btw.... I'm a Goddess. Just sayin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A handsome face is a bonus but intelligence wins for me. I've been with men who are extremely handsome but bored me to death.

Btw.... I'm a Goddess. Just sayin. "

But modesty is your greatest trait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doggy style was invented for these situations.

I prefer the brown paper bag, allows me to go cowgirl"

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doggy style was invented for these situations.

I prefer the brown paper bag, allows me to go cowgirl"

oh I've offered to wear one meself before

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"A handsome face is a bonus but intelligence wins for me. I've been with men who are extremely handsome but bored me to death.

Btw.... I'm a Goddess. Just sayin.

But modesty is your greatest trait"

You mean honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As if any of the above ladies would need one, come on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A handsome face is a bonus but intelligence wins for me. I've been with men who are extremely handsome but bored me to death.

Btw.... I'm a Goddess. Just sayin.

But modesty is your greatest trait

You mean honesty. "

That too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As if any of the above ladies would need one, come on lol"

#imnosupermodel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As if any of the above ladies would need one, come on lol

#imnosupermodel

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Yeah I bet

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

"

On of the best meets, if not thee best to date, I have ever had on Fab was with a guy who ticked all the boxes above but his face pic didnt tempt me.

I eventually met him for a social and the chemistry was just unbelievable and when we kissed...well it was hard to stop. Im serious lol

And in real life he had amazing eyes and sexy dimples mmmmm.

It lasted over 3 years. So looks come second to the above characteristics for sure, every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A beautiful/handsome face would be the most important thing for us when it comes to attraction,plenty of times we been getting on great with someone and then we wouldnt be attracted to their face and thats that out the window

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

I've learned from experience some men (and women) don't take good photos. Or maybe don't put the effort in. Sometimes it's worth meeting someone in person to see what they're really like.

Obviously this goes both ways and sometimes people don't look as good as their photos either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned from experience some men (and women) don't take good photos. Or maybe don't put the effort in. Sometimes it's worth meeting someone in person to see what they're really like.

Obviously this goes both ways and sometimes people don't look as good as their photos either. "

I agree. Some send face pics that don't sell themselves at all. I'm not photogenic myself, so I don't put much weight on a face pic when deciding whether to meet

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"I've learned from experience some men (and women) don't take good photos. Or maybe don't put the effort in. Sometimes it's worth meeting someone in person to see what they're really like.

Obviously this goes both ways and sometimes people don't look as good as their photos either.

I agree. Some send face pics that don't sell themselves at all. I'm not photogenic myself, so I don't put much weight on a face pic when deciding whether to meet"

I don't take great pics but I'm a hunk in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned from experience some men (and women) don't take good photos. Or maybe don't put the effort in. Sometimes it's worth meeting someone in person to see what they're really like.

Obviously this goes both ways and sometimes people don't look as good as their photos either.

I agree. Some send face pics that don't sell themselves at all. I'm not photogenic myself, so I don't put much weight on a face pic when deciding whether to meet

I don't take great pics but I'm a hunk in person "

You're a manhoor

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves


"I've learned from experience some men (and women) don't take good photos. Or maybe don't put the effort in. Sometimes it's worth meeting someone in person to see what they're really like.

Obviously this goes both ways and sometimes people don't look as good as their photos either.

I agree. Some send face pics that don't sell themselves at all. I'm not photogenic myself, so I don't put much weight on a face pic when deciding whether to meet

I don't take great pics but I'm a hunk in person "

Well obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THe full picture is a must for me. The face has to be as attractive as the body(attractive in my eyes)

I also have a cam chat before a meet to make sure the pics are similar in real life.

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Bromley

One phrase... lens distortion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

"

why judge the book by the cover ... having had some flirty chats would you not feel you would want to meet the person behind the keyboard as well as the face ... attraction is hopefully more than skin deep .. or a face photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

why judge the book by the cover ... having had some flirty chats would you not feel you would want to meet the person behind the keyboard as well as the face ... attraction is hopefully more than skin deep .. or a face photo"

It would seem not for too many unfortunately... some need to see a recent face pic... Cam them and hear then on a phone call. The anticipation of how good ur chatting and gut feeling is tested to be proved right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

why judge the book by the cover ... having had some flirty chats would you not feel you would want to meet the person behind the keyboard as well as the face ... attraction is hopefully more than skin deep .. or a face photo

It would seem not for too many unfortunately... some need to see a recent face pic... Cam them and hear then on a phone call. The anticipation of how good ur chatting and gut feeling is tested to be proved right."

Isn't *

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

why judge the book by the cover ... having had some flirty chats would you not feel you would want to meet the person behind the keyboard as well as the face ... attraction is hopefully more than skin deep .. or a face photo

It would seem not for too many unfortunately... some need to see a recent face pic... Cam them and hear then on a phone call. The anticipation of how good ur chatting and gut feeling is tested to be proved right."

Doesn't that contradict what you said further up?

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

All about the complete package. Has to be an attraction and chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say someone ticks all your boxes, great body, good personality, great sense of humour and the fab conversation flows easily and naughty mind is in full swing. Then you exchange face pics and boom it's not really what you exspected....

Would it stop you meeting? If so why can/how does the look of a face offset every other trait that is there?

Have you ever gone for the face that isn't the perfect beauty and was the sex any different?

"

guys tend initially to be attracted to the body ... face, boobs, ass ... ladies i always thought went more for personality than looks ...

the Ch4 program Naked Attraction certainly proves that there is more to attraction & relationship than the body .. for every Shrek there is a Princess Fiona ... as for sex ... good sex is more than positions & bedroom gymnastics ... and if you only ever had 2 or 3 partners then your best sex ever bar is set quite low.

but this is a Swing Site ... the profile photo & profile will either open bedroom door or result in a reject ... some of us will never know what we passed yp on ... but sure tomoro is another Fab day

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

For Scarlett, face is more important that body. The guy has to have the type of look she goes for then build/personality comes into play. We've been solicited by some ripped dudes in the past but quickly declined as they weren't attractive by her definition.

Ladies choice at the end of the day.

With couples, we haven't been as strict but face is still important. However mutual chemistry then kinda becomes the second factor.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

I would still meet for coffee as chemistry is chemistry and a face pic versus the total package (personality, dressed well, kinky mind, charming, chatty & flirty) might cause the other person to sit up & reconsider

Have meet with a few women who were far from "models" chatted, had a great ball and if the chemistry was there, the sex that followed was brilliant!

To me, sexy is a state of mind not numbers on a scale or how a person looks

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By *tanley KMan
over a year ago

Carlow

It's impossible in my opinion to know how the physical attraction will play out until you meet. If everything else is good what you got to lose by having a social meet.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

If they look like a Picasso then it'd be hard to get past.

However, if the banter had been good, the body pics appealing and the tolerance levels of the ensuing pathetic performance accepted, then the face would be negotiable

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"If they look like a Picasso then it'd be hard to get past.

However, if the banter had been good, the body pics appealing and the tolerance levels of the ensuing pathetic performance accepted, then the face would be negotiable "

Sssssshhhhh don't tell everyone my secret

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Would you fuck some body if you didn't like their facial features?

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