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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Probably gonna get some flak for this but it's my opinion.

For me a verification should be after meeting someone and having sex, after all its what Fab is about. People meeting at a social and saying hello to someone is not a verification. Ive seen upwards of 150 on some people's profiles. Kind of ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably gonna get some flak for this but it's my opinion.

For me a verification should be after meeting someone and having sex, after all its what Fab is about. People meeting at a social and saying hello to someone is not a verification. Ive seen upwards of 150 on some people's profiles. Kind of ridiculous. "

The verifications are to show that you are genuine and not a time waster on the end of a keyboard, that has no intention of meeting up. And there is a lot of them here both male and female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably gonna get some flak for this but it's my opinion.

For me a verification should be after meeting someone and having sex, after all its what Fab is about. People meeting at a social and saying hello to someone is not a verification. Ive seen upwards of 150 on some people's profiles. Kind of ridiculous. "

Ah here, let me get off the starting blocks before you start that crack

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Probably gonna get some flak for this but it's my opinion.

For me a verification should be after meeting someone and having sex, after all its what Fab is about. People meeting at a social and saying hello to someone is not a verification. Ive seen upwards of 150 on some people's profiles. Kind of ridiculous. "

So are all your verifications from people you've fucked?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agreed about the time wasters. But i don't think a social is a place to verify people. A one on one is. Not everyone can attend socials, dont want to or not allowed by the organisers because they have their own crowd. So therefore there is people willing to meet but just can't get a meet. Personally I wouldn't expect one for saying hi to someone nor would I give one. I hope im making sense. Well I am in my own head lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive had some level of fuckery yes. I didn't just shake their hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed about the time wasters. But i don't think a social is a place to verify people. A one on one is. Not everyone can attend socials, dont want to or not allowed by the organisers because they have their own crowd. So therefore there is people willing to meet but just can't get a meet. Personally I wouldn't expect one for saying hi to someone nor would I give one. I hope im making sense. Well I am in my own head lol"

But to be fair, most people's verifications say whether they just met for a coffee or at a social or if they had sex. It's not like they are lying about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are to show that you are genuine and turn up when you arrange to meet. If you are verified socially I would assume you were more likely to turn up for a fuck tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be fair id prefer to see the 170 veris than someone who jouned this morning and 5 verification. Its usually an 18 year old girl with no pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair id prefer to see the 170 veris than someone who jouned this morning and 5 verification. Its usually an 18 year old girl with no pics lol"

Alot return after leaving and get verified by people they met previously... Not sure of the point you are trying to make though.

Use reply +quote so people know who you are replying to, lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don’t like verifications that state what you have gotten up to sexually.

It is private and should stay that way between all involved.

Verifications are there to state that the person is real and has kept to their word and attended a coffee with you etc.

It is a sex site but we don’t need to know how good #### can suck cock.

Psyche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed about the time wasters. But i don't think a social is a place to verify people. A one on one is. Not everyone can attend socials, dont want to or not allowed by the organisers because they have their own crowd. So therefore there is people willing to meet but just can't get a meet. Personally I wouldn't expect one for saying hi to someone nor would I give one. I hope im making sense. Well I am in my own head lol"

There isnt much difference whether u chat at a social over a drink or on a one to one coffee/drink social meet.the vert is prove the person is real.some people prefer not to do a play meet vert as its a personal thing between the two fabbers on the night some only vertify on a play meet.there is no right or wrong here.everyone has their own preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair id prefer to see the 170 veris than someone who jouned this morning and 5 verification. Its usually an 18 year old girl with no pics lol"

To be fair,fab isn't all about you or what you deem to be right or wrong.

The verification facility is there for genuine members to verify that another member is also genuine.

The fake verifications are easy enough to spot.

If you think a profile is suspect,ignore it,go to another that's more in line with your way of thinking.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

There's not much point to go on about, people will use the site as they wish. Swinging has a social component that's why some more sociable creatures have plenty of them.

As it's normally clear if it was a social or a play meet I don't see the problem. Myself I wouldn't meet someone with social veris only. But I couldn't be bothered with the social veris. There's no rule that says you have to had sex with said person before you verify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's not much point to go on about, people will use the site as they wish. Swinging has a social component that's why some more sociable creatures have plenty of them.

As it's normally clear if it was a social or a play meet I don't see the problem. Myself I wouldn't meet someone with social veris only. But I couldn't be bothered with the social veris. There's no rule that says you have to had sex with said person before you verify. "

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I get your point, they lick arse, get invited to a party then next day they verify eveyone who said hello to them and get one back.

Can make them look a bigger part of the scene than they are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair id prefer to see the 170 veris than someone who jouned this morning and 5 verification. Its usually an 18 year old girl with no pics lol

Alot return after leaving and get verified by people they met previously... Not sure of the point you are trying to make though.

Use reply +quote so people know who you are replying to, lovely! "
ok i will. Use the UK forums and don't be creeping on the Ireland one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social veris are to be expected on the site as many people meet outside of sex detailed veris about what body part lay where etc can be offputting so if it's a choice I'd prefer to read a nice social one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh he's gone

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Where'd he go

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By *reenfrogoMan
over a year ago

nearby


"Where'd he go "

He is gone looking for verified verifications i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally don’t like verifications that state what you have gotten up to sexually.

It is private and should stay that way between all involved.

Verifications are there to state that the person is real and has kept to their word and attended a coffee with you etc.

It is a sex site but we don’t need to know how good #### can suck cock.

Psyche "

Omg COMPLETELY agree! It's not donedeal! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably gonna get some flak for this but it's my opinion.

For me a verification should be after meeting someone and having sex, after all its what Fab is about. People meeting at a social and saying hello to someone is not a verification. Ive seen upwards of 150 on some people's profiles. Kind of ridiculous. "
Really

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