FabSwingers.com forum: Which do single people prefer?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For the single people on the site, male and female. Would you prefer to be in a relationship having a good sex life? Or are you like me, Who enjoys the excitement of meeting new people and having good sex and knowing there's no emotions involved?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the single people on the site, male and female. Would you prefer to be in a relationship having a good sex life? Or are you like me, Who enjoys the excitement of meeting new people and having good sex and knowing there's no emotions involved?"

A good sex life, herein lies the problem, what is that? I was in a relationship, where i could literally have whatever i wanted sexually from my partner. Sex on its own does not sustain a relationship..All relationships have their ups and downs in the bedroom as much as any other area. Likewise with being single, its not all foot loose and fancy free...i'll have the gilmore girls onto me now for being too serious

By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I love my free time and space too much for relationships but I think better sex comes from exploring each other over time and the journey of finding out what really gets you both going.

Saying that, when meeting for one offs or one night stands the excitement can be electric when the chemistry is there.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a tough one! There are emotions in all relationships sexual, friendships, work colleagues etc.

I dunno if you can just ONLY have sex without some form of relationship building.. call it human nature. I dont beleive you can spend lets say you meet and fuck everysecond week, you cant spend a reasonable amount of time in some ones company for a very significant length of time, without some sort of emotion.

I think otherwise it wouldnt be good sex. I dont think it can be great sex if its so clinical.

Not saying it has to be love either but even in a friendship type sexual relationship emotions build up during the duration of you having sex. Those emotions either lead you to keep having sex or they break ya.

If its the enjoyment of meeting new people then you are better with a short term thing maybe meet two or three times and move onto the next new person.

Tho having to meet new people can get boring too as i duno it seems to be the same old same old