FabSwingers.com forum: Getting a meet with no verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???"

Look through the forums for a meet and greet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They're probably 100% MF couples, I'm a gay guy, not really much point getting verified by a straight couple haha. Thanks though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're probably 100% MF couples, I'm a gay guy, not really much point getting verified by a straight couple haha. Thanks though"

Look for socials, people post them in the forums all the time. You're just being verified genuine so why does it matter who does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just dont give up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True DublinGirl92, guess I just don't want to waste mine or their time by meeting when nothing's ever going to happen between us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if u do meet the type of person ur looking for.ur not guarnthed play with them either just because its a social meet.u might be better waiting for ur hickey to go first

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By *obbym522000Man
over a year ago

Galway

arrange a safe meet for coffee or a drink and ask for a veri from that specifying its a coffe meet and you might get more traction after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Purely going by your profile you're ruling out meeting anyone straight or bi curious, that's probably 95% of this site.

If you're after a verification it's best to get your first one or two through social meets.

Once you get those then another door opens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you try fab guys, you might get luckier there

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???"

You are not entitled to a meet, you are not guaranteed a meet and signing up to this site does not mean that anyone will want to meet you.

If you get a meet it'll be through being nice, polite and having a personality that is appealing. That and a lot of luck.

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Go to a social meet lots of nice people at them and you might even get a meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No need to be rude PortadownCpl. Never said I was entitled to meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm on there Cc89happy, but it doesn't have a forum so had to ask on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???

You are not entitled to a meet, you are not guaranteed a meet and signing up to this site does not mean that anyone will want to meet you.

If you get a meet it'll be through being nice, polite and having a personality that is appealing. That and a lot of luck."

To be fair he never said he was entitled and he asked a legitime question.

Its a catch 22 for alot of nice polite people.

Alot of socials require meet verification.

Prehaps as a community we couod organise more socials for new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???

You are not entitled to a meet, you are not guaranteed a meet and signing up to this site does not mean that anyone will want to meet you.

If you get a meet it'll be through being nice, polite and having a personality that is appealing. That and a lot of luck.

To be fair he never said he was entitled and he asked a legitime question.

Its a catch 22 for alot of nice polite people.

Alot of socials require meet verification.

Prehaps as a community we couod organise more socials for new people"

But sure newbies can't verify newbies!

Lots of people won't meet newbies and it's purely down to trust.

Lots and lots of fake profiles on here and the OP on his profile pretty much states he doesn't want to meet straight or bi people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???

You are not entitled to a meet, you are not guaranteed a meet and signing up to this site does not mean that anyone will want to meet you.

If you get a meet it'll be through being nice, polite and having a personality that is appealing. That and a lot of luck.

To be fair he never said he was entitled and he asked a legitime question.

Its a catch 22 for alot of nice polite people.

Alot of socials require meet verification.

Prehaps as a community we couod organise more socials for new people

But sure newbies can't verify newbies!

Lots of people won't meet newbies and it's purely down to trust.

Lots and lots of fake profiles on here and the OP on his profile pretty much states he doesn't want to meet straight or bi people. "

Surely who he wanta to meet is irrevent.

Yes new people cannot verify new people thats why the Fab community could do more to organise events to help people who really want to get involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???

You are not entitled to a meet, you are not guaranteed a meet and signing up to this site does not mean that anyone will want to meet you.

If you get a meet it'll be through being nice, polite and having a personality that is appealing. That and a lot of luck.

To be fair he never said he was entitled and he asked a legitime question.

Its a catch 22 for alot of nice polite people.

Alot of socials require meet verification.

Prehaps as a community we couod organise more socials for new people

But sure newbies can't verify newbies!

Lots of people won't meet newbies and it's purely down to trust.

Lots and lots of fake profiles on here and the OP on his profile pretty much states he doesn't want to meet straight or bi people.

Surely who he wanta to meet is irrevent.

Yes new people cannot verify new people thats why the Fab community could do more to organise events to help people who really want to get involved"

Who he wants to meet is relevant to getting a verification. A verification or two from a social event is better than none at all.

Plenty of guys on here will agree that Socials open the door to more intimate meets.

The community does plenty as pointed out by numerous posts in relation to Meet and Greets.

No one is going to take you by the hand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree socials can be good for straight/bi people, but its kinda pointless meeting straight men and women when you're a gay guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree socials can be good for straight/bi people, but its kinda pointless meeting straight men and women when you're a gay guy"

It will open the door for meeting the gay guys that wont meet without a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???

You are not entitled to a meet, you are not guaranteed a meet and signing up to this site does not mean that anyone will want to meet you.

If you get a meet it'll be through being nice, polite and having a personality that is appealing. That and a lot of luck.

To be fair he never said he was entitled and he asked a legitime question.

Its a catch 22 for alot of nice polite people.

Alot of socials require meet verification.

Prehaps as a community we couod organise more socials for new people

But sure newbies can't verify newbies!

Lots of people won't meet newbies and it's purely down to trust.

Lots and lots of fake profiles on here and the OP on his profile pretty much states he doesn't want to meet straight or bi people.

Surely who he wanta to meet is irrevent.

Yes new people cannot verify new people thats why the Fab community could do more to organise events to help people who really want to get involved

Who he wants to meet is relevant to getting a verification. A verification or two from a social event is better than none at all.

Plenty of guys on here will agree that Socials open the door to more intimate meets.

The community does plenty as pointed out by numerous posts in relation to Meet and Greets.

No one is going to take you by the hand. "

I could be wrong on this because I have no inyerest im M+G myself but majority of them I have seen are invite only and they tend to go to people who are already verified and the ones that are organised for new people more often than not fall through.

I will admit I missed the posts where the OP was reluctent to go to them anyway

So I may have gone off on my own tangent

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Oh sweet baby jebus the lad is trying to get verified he's not looking for a ffff kidney. He's not looking to play with straight or bi because he's gay, that's all has stating. Hes young, he's gay and trying to spread his wings . OP you can just meet a verified person for a coffee who will verify you as a real person. Good luck in your search.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Oh sweet baby jebus the lad is trying to get verified he's not looking for a ffff kidney. He's not looking to play with straight or bi because he's gay, that's all has stating. Hes young, he's gay and trying to spread his wings . OP you can just meet a verified person for a coffee who will verify you as a real person. Good luck in your search.

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:-Exactly

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Dude if you are in cc anytime during the week.I'll meet you for a cuppa at lunchtime and give you a veri.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Dude if you are in cc anytime during the week.I'll meet you for a cuppa at lunchtime and give you a veri.

Good man Yoser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is op not looking only for gay people even for just a vert though.dont think he wants to meet straight maybe im reading the thread wrong and maybe not reading between the lines ..i could be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah would obviously prefer to meet gay guys, but will meet straight at this point, just to get started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah would obviously prefer to meet gay guys, but will meet straight at this point, just to get started"

Thats cool u not restricted this way

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

It reminds me of turning up at nightclubs years ago

Bouncer "sorry lads cant get in unless you're a regular"

Lads"how do we become regulars if we cant get in in

the first place"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe rewrite your profile, you can clarify what your looking for in a less aggressive manor and I'm not being harsh on you

I just looked at your profile and your read does sound a little aggressive :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe rewrite your profile, you can clarify what your looking for in a less aggressive manor and I'm not being harsh on you

I just looked at your profile and your read does sound a little aggressive :-/"

Agreed

And the fact you're here at least a year without a veri. That may put peeps off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I know but I'm on here over a year with no veris because no one will meet me! I've already said I don't want to meet women or straight couples, I'm not really interested in the 'social' thing, just looking for a bitta sex. It's a lot easier on other sites without veris, people don't seem to be so up their own hole, but maybe its just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I know but I'm on here over a year with no veris because no one will meet me! I've already said I don't want to meet women or straight couples, I'm not really interested in the 'social' thing, just looking for a bitta sex. It's a lot easier on other sites without veris, people don't seem to be so up their own hole, but maybe its just me

Well why not stick to the other sites then. If it's easier ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm thinking about it. Thought I'd ask, get some advice and give it another shot

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