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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Judging by a few threads on the forums. I believe that Newbies or perhaps people that don't post much on the forums are treated a lot differently than the more frequent posters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with can. Half are stuck up their is Where. When you send a message is deleted straight away and your bloked .

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" "
I much rather people that leave a comment rather than a silly face. Just my preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone on fab uses the forums,don't know the figures but have read others says it's a small percentage of members

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not everyone on fab uses the forums,don't know the figures but have read others says it's a small percentage of members"
Oh I know that few use the forums. But those that do regularly seem to think they own it.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Judging by a few threads on the forums. I believe that Newbies or perhaps people that don't post much on the forums are treated a lot differently than the more frequent posters."

Thats a little unfair its more people don't know you im newish and people may not interact the same but people are not usually unplesent to newbies well not more unplesent than some are to old hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had an issue to be honest!

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

I have loads of issues

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Judging by a few threads on the forums. I believe that Newbies or perhaps people that don't post much on the forums are treated a lot differently than the more frequent posters.

Thats a little unfair its more people don't know you im newish and people may not interact the same but people are not usually unplesent to newbies well not more unplesent than some are to old hands "
Well you are a woman. Its usually men that get the shot end of the stick o the forums.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Judging by a few threads on the forums. I believe that Newbies or perhaps people that don't post much on the forums are treated a lot differently than the more frequent posters.

Thats a little unfair its more people don't know you im newish and people may not interact the same but people are not usually unplesent to newbies well not more unplesent than some are to old hands "

Fook me

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Judging by a few threads on the forums. I believe that Newbies or perhaps people that don't post much on the forums are treated a lot differently than the more frequent posters.

Thats a little unfair its more people don't know you im newish and people may not interact the same but people are not usually unplesent to newbies well not more unplesent than some are to old hands Well you are a woman. Its usually men that get the shot end of the stick o the forums. "

Thats not true a lot of women a very bitchy to other women as are some guys to women and they can be very condescending because you are a woman.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

[Removed by poster at 04/10/18 18:22:43]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have loads of issues "

Tonsil issues???

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


" Oh I know that few use the forums. But those that do regularly seem to think they own it. "

Even if this is true, how is this stoping you from using the forums??

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I have loads of issues

Tonsil issues??? "

You gagging again MissFab??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have loads of issues "

More issues than Vogue?

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

More like finding the right tonsils!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging by a few threads on the forums. I believe that Newbies or perhaps people that don't post much on the forums are treated a lot differently than the more frequent posters.

Thats a little unfair its more people don't know you im newish and people may not interact the same but people are not usually unplesent to newbies well not more unplesent than some are to old hands Well you are a woman. Its usually men that get the shot end of the stick o the forums. "

Ahh us women get it too if u read all the threads that are put up.not mentioning what they ate.it only start it off again

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

It’s the era we live in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Oh I know that few use the forums. But those that do regularly seem to think they own it.

Even if this is true, how is this stoping you from using the forums??"
But i never said it stopped me from using the forums.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

OP did you find that lovely lady you were looking for earlier in the week??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP did you find that lovely lady you were looking for earlier in the week??"
Unfortunately that got kicked into touch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Judging by a few threads on the forums. I believe that Newbies or perhaps people that don't post much on the forums are treated a lot differently than the more frequent posters.

Thats a little unfair its more people don't know you im newish and people may not interact the same but people are not usually unplesent to newbies well not more unplesent than some are to old hands Well you are a woman. Its usually men that get the shot end of the stick o the forums.

Ahh us women get it too if u read all the threads that are put up.not mentioning what they ate.it only start it off again "
But you always get the white knights to protect you.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"OP did you find that lovely lady you were looking for earlier in the week?? Unfortunately that got kicked into touch. "

The bigun kicked it out over the sideline

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP did you find that lovely lady you were looking for earlier in the week?? Unfortunately that got kicked into touch.

The bigun kicked it out over the sideline "
Not sure what happened to the thread.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


" Oh I know that few use the forums. But those that do regularly seem to think they own it.

Even if this is true, how is this stoping you from using the forums?? But i never said it stopped me from using the forums. "

Fair point, I should have been clearer.

Even if this is true, how is other people's imaginary ownership of the forums affect you on the forums to the point that you needed to publicly announce it??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Oh I know that few use the forums. But those that do regularly seem to think they own it.

Even if this is true, how is this stoping you from using the forums?? But i never said it stopped me from using the forums.

Fair point, I should have been clearer.

Even if this is true, how is other people's imaginary ownership of the forums affect you on the forums to the point that you needed to publicly announce it??"
I don't like when people get too big for their boots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m getting the popcorn!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post and be damned!..if you have an opinion and are brave enough?...what's the worst that can happen?..that you might offend someone you've never seen,and will never meet! ....Laugh and the world laughs with you!...cry and you cry alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging by a few threads on the forums. I believe that Newbies or perhaps people that don't post much on the forums are treated a lot differently than the more frequent posters.

Thats a little unfair its more people don't know you im newish and people may not interact the same but people are not usually unplesent to newbies well not more unplesent than some are to old hands Well you are a woman. Its usually men that get the shot end of the stick o the forums.

Ahh us women get it too if u read all the threads that are put up.not mentioning what they ate.it only start it off again But you always get the white knights to protect you. "

We well able to defend urselfs.well i am anyways

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Judging by a few threads on the forums. I believe that Newbies or perhaps people that don't post much on the forums are treated a lot differently than the more frequent posters.

Thats a little unfair its more people don't know you im newish and people may not interact the same but people are not usually unplesent to newbies well not more unplesent than some are to old hands Well you are a woman. Its usually men that get the shot end of the stick o the forums.

Ahh us women get it too if u read all the threads that are put up.not mentioning what they ate.it only start it off again But you always get the white knights to protect you.

We well able to defend urselfs.well i am anyways "
I have no doubt you are and Fairplay to you.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

A small percentage use the forum and if you become popular you can have fun with them.

A small percentage use the chat, and if you become popular you can have fun with them.

A small percentage read both, and wont meet anyone who uses either.

A small percentage read both and will meet people they like but never post themselves.

A small percentage read neither.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Judging by a few threads on the forums. I believe that Newbies or perhaps people that don't post much on the forums are treated a lot differently than the more frequent posters."

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100% agree with you Op

When I came on the forums first, I felt that I had to be so careful about every word I typed as each time I posted something.. the same 1 or 2 people (with an additional two or three white knights ) would take exception to every comment I made. Think Fab pirhanas

So the day I stopped giving a shit about how others would react to my comments was my most liberating day on FAB ever Since then, I decided taht I'm not going to type anything for the sake of getting attention or a possible meet which seems to be a tact used by some here...

Instead, I'll always type what's on my mind and if you don't like it too bad if you want to chat, great and if you just want to attack or take exception to it...

...Well then let's be having you!

Best to remember though that the people you meet here on the forums... you'll probably meet in person at a social so it's nice to be nice here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A small percentage use the forum and if you become popular you can have fun with them.

A small percentage use the chat, and if you become popular you can have fun with them.

A small percentage read both, and wont meet anyone who uses either.

A small percentage read both and will meet people they like but never post themselves.

A small percentage read neither."
And a small percentage will always think they own the forums.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"Judging by a few threads on the forums. I believe that Newbies or perhaps people that don't post much on the forums are treated a lot differently than the more frequent posters.

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100% agree with you Op

When I came on the forums first, I felt that I had to be so careful about every word I typed as each time I posted something.. the same 1 or 2 people (with an additional two or three white knights ) would take exception to every comment I made. Think Fab pirhanas

So the day I stopped giving a shit about how others would react to my comments was my most liberating day on FAB ever Since then, I decided taht I'm not going to type anything for the sake of getting attention or a possible meet which seems to be a tact used by some here...

Instead, I'll always type what's on my mind and if you don't like it too bad if you want to chat, great and if you just want to attack or take exception to it...

...Well then let's be having you!

Best to remember though that the people you meet here on the forums... you'll probably meet in person at a social so it's nice to be nice here "

Spot on man! No one owns shit around here, Fab is a tool, it's up to you how you use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree wholeheartedly,a lot of people here are so far up their rear end it's unreal.there are some fantastic people here,and I've made some real friends here,both recently and when I was here as kilkennyguy,but there are some real 'keyboard warriors' too that pounce on any newcomer that's not part of the clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I use the forums a fair bit but still get the newbie treatment! Not verified and no-one willing to take a chance on me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agree wholeheartedly,a lot of people here are so far up their rear end it's unreal.there are some fantastic people here,and I've made some real friends here,both recently and when I was here as kilkennyguy,but there are some real 'keyboard warriors' too that pounce on any newcomer that's not part of the clique"
That's exactly how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think that the more you interact the more connection you build is natuaral enough.

Those few that are nasty dont seem to hold it just for newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would think that the more you interact the more connection you build is natuaral enough.

Those few that are nasty dont seem to hold it just for newbies"

I'm still relatively new and have had no rudeness on forum's or in messages. I do find that my messages get ignored most of the time but I just maybe I'm not what the other person is looking for and perhaps I'm also too green in the gills. The "old hands" likely know each other as they are regular posters and therefore they respond to each other more frequently. Don't take it personally OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would think that the more you interact the more connection you build is natuaral enough.

Those few that are nasty dont seem to hold it just for newbies

I'm still relatively new and have had no rudeness on forum's or in messages. I do find that my messages get ignored most of the time but I just maybe I'm not what the other person is looking for and perhaps I'm also too green in the gills. The "old hands" likely know each other as they are regular posters and therefore they respond to each other more frequently. Don't take it personally OP"
Some of them might be old hands on the forums. But they also like to rule the roost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would think that the more you interact the more connection you build is natuaral enough.

Those few that are nasty dont seem to hold it just for newbies

I'm still relatively new and have had no rudeness on forum's or in messages. I do find that my messages get ignored most of the time but I just maybe I'm not what the other person is looking for and perhaps I'm also too green in the gills. The "old hands" likely know each other as they are regular posters and therefore they respond to each other more frequently. Don't take it personally OP Some of them might be old hands on the forums. But they also like to rule the roost. "

Its a case of people knowing each other so of course they are going to be more reactive to each other.

Any time I have come and gone from fab it takes awhile to get back into the swing of things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would think that the more you interact the more connection you build is natuaral enough.

Those few that are nasty dont seem to hold it just for newbies

I'm still relatively new and have had no rudeness on forum's or in messages. I do find that my messages get ignored most of the time but I just maybe I'm not what the other person is looking for and perhaps I'm also too green in the gills. The "old hands" likely know each other as they are regular posters and therefore they respond to each other more frequently. Don't take it personally OP Some of them might be old hands on the forums. But they also like to rule the roost.

Its a case of people knowing each other so of course they are going to be more reactive to each other.

Any time I have come and gone from fab it takes awhile to get back into the swing of things. "
So what you saying it's OK to say and do what you want because you have been here for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would think that the more you interact the more connection you build is natuaral enough.

Those few that are nasty dont seem to hold it just for newbies

I'm still relatively new and have had no rudeness on forum's or in messages. I do find that my messages get ignored most of the time but I just maybe I'm not what the other person is looking for and perhaps I'm also too green in the gills. The "old hands" likely know each other as they are regular posters and therefore they respond to each other more frequently. Don't take it personally OP Some of them might be old hands on the forums. But they also like to rule the roost.

Its a case of people knowing each other so of course they are going to be more reactive to each other.

Any time I have come and gone from fab it takes awhile to get back into the swing of things. So what you saying it's OK to say and do what you want because you have been here for a while. "

Ya thats exactly what I said...

In other news I may have doscovered your issue with fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would think that the more you interact the more connection you build is natuaral enough.

Those few that are nasty dont seem to hold it just for newbies

I'm still relatively new and have had no rudeness on forum's or in messages. I do find that my messages get ignored most of the time but I just maybe I'm not what the other person is looking for and perhaps I'm also too green in the gills. The "old hands" likely know each other as they are regular posters and therefore they respond to each other more frequently. Don't take it personally OP Some of them might be old hands on the forums. But they also like to rule the roost.

Its a case of people knowing each other so of course they are going to be more reactive to each other.

Any time I have come and gone from fab it takes awhile to get back into the swing of things. So what you saying it's OK to say and do what you want because you have been here for a while.

Ya thats exactly what I said...

In other news I may have doscovered your issue with fab "
Well don't leave me hanging tell me what it is. Lol

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