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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??

I hope this makes sense

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By *rlonleyMan
over a year ago

correctly in boston

I think it would be best to say I’ve some stuff organized for a while if a few meets on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??

I hope this makes sense "
Yes would say I've other meets to arrange at the moment and let him/her know when I'm free again.. Some people just expect u to be free cause they are..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a PA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not the other persons business if your meeting others, at the end of the day it’s your life. Sometimes in this world it’s about making things easier on yourself, so better off telling them you have plans. If they are of sound mind (which doesn’t apply to many here) they should be fine with it and probably makes the Chase all that more thrilling, not the gameshow I might add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets can be like buses.

I had a morning play meet arranged, had had coffee and everything, hotel booked.

Another lady I was a big fan of messaged me to ask if I was free in the afternoon. I went back to say I couldn't as I had a meet in the morning and wouldn't do two in the one day.

And yes, of course the morning one bailed last minute....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meets can be like buses.

I had a morning play meet arranged, had had coffee and everything, hotel booked.

Another lady I was a big fan of messaged me to ask if I was free in the afternoon. I went back to say I couldn't as I had a meet in the morning and wouldn't do two in the one day.

And yes, of course the morning one bailed last minute.... "

Oh no that sucks

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

I think the assumption would be that anyone i talk too on here is talking to others with a view to potentialy meeting.

And rightly so!

Id inly be concerned with me and the other persons meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the assumption would be that anyone i talk too on here is talking to others with a view to potentialy meeting.

And rightly so!

Id inly be concerned with me and the other persons meet"

That's exactly how I would think... I don't think everyone thinks the same though

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby


"I think the assumption would be that anyone i talk too on here is talking to others with a view to potentialy meeting.

And rightly so!

Id inly be concerned with me and the other persons meet

That's exactly how I would think... I don't think everyone thinks the same though "

Great minds think alike and fools seldom differ. Il let you decide which category we fall in

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Some peeps think that once you start to make plans with them you are obliged to see out that arrangement and heaven forbid you have your hed turned by ANother before then.

Given that this is a swingers site its surprising how possessive folk can get.

my tuppence worth?

Its nobody's business who or when anybody meets anybody else!

You should not have to explain yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We live our life by a single word mantra

"Fuck'm"

We don't think we are bad people, we don't purposely go out of our way to hurt people, but if they don't like us or don't like how we do things, that's kinda they're problem. So in a word "Fuck'm"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is allways those that want a meet when they want it not when u can make it

They will want to know who u have who ur going to meet

At the end of the day ur here to please urself not everyone else

Tell them to move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??

I hope this makes sense "

When ye ready

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??

I hope this makes sense "

It's none of anyone's business what you do or who you meet . If we are chatting and they ask to meet we just arrange a day and time that suits . Or say that we ain't interested

Mr dirty xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??

I hope this makes sense "

It isn't a problem I ever foresaw my having but I think it is probably better not to mention other arranged meets. If the person gives out about your other meets then so be it, there are few situations where people have to be exclusive in this lifestyle.

I hope this makes sense also.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??

I hope this makes sense "

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I think employ some social tact and just say...

"Look, I've a few things on already"

or "I've something organised this weekend"

We should be all grown up enough here not to pry into other people's lives too much & realise that each of us is not the centre of another Fabbers life ...and if you are then a serious chat is needed

Personally though...

A vague reason is reason enough here on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??

I hope this makes sense

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I think employ some social tact and just say...

"Look, I've a few things on already"

or "I've something organised this weekend"

We should be all grown up enough here not to pry into other people's lives too much & realise that each of us is not the centre of another Fabbers life ...and if you are then a serious chat is needed

Personally though...

A vague reason is reason enough here on Fab "

Exactly, well said.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Firstly prob best off to say you can't meet for while due to other commitments but secondly it's nobody's business on here who you do and don't meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I've a completely free diary!.....because I have!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Well I would be lucky to get one meet at a time but some lucky sod might have more . A friend met 3 ladies one day one in the morning the other in the afternoon and one in the evening ..I would say it was a close call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the opportunity has never risen and prob never will be if I had an offer of two meets in a month I'd keep it to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't happen so much now with the couple profile but I always was straight up and if my meet diary busy with arranged meets i would have said that I had a waiting list. Always was received well,and taken in humour. Always felt that a wait, not rushing into a meet provided some time to converse to ensure fab compatibility. If someone I chatted to got pushy about meeting, tetchy or impatient it never progressed to a meet. You win some, you lose some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??

I hope this makes sense "

You could just be subtle in a nice way, and hopefully the other person is a sane rounded individual and gets the drift without taking any offense. Especially when no offense is meant by it as you are doing nothing wrong. My tuppense worth anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a meet is really hard for a single guy on here as the a**holes on here using fake profiles/being rude ruin it for us who are absolutely genuine and would love a social meet.

I say get out there and meet as many people as you can when you can.

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford


"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??

I hope this makes sense

You could just be subtle in a nice way, and hopefully the other person is a sane rounded individual and gets the drift without taking any offense. Especially when no offense is meant by it as you are doing nothing wrong. My tuppense worth anyway. "

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

I would be happy with just one meet can't get people to reply is the problem

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