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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long do you chat to someone before you decide to meet them?

What’s the longest you’ve chatted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have chatted over a yr with one.distance and right timing was a problem.

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"I have chatted over a yr with one.distance and right timing was a problem."

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

Ideally id like to meet the person as soon as we both were free, in a social setting. Then you can judge the connection, and decide if you want to take it further.

Theres no time frame per say. If the chat/messages are fun, you can keep that going indefinite.

Iv also maintained messaging with people iv become friends with but dont meet

No hard and fast rules

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

There is no set time . It's up to you how long or how short you chat . It's a lot different for the ladies cos they have to make sure who are they meeting .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I have friends on here whom I chat to regularly .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took me a couple of years from meeting at a party to a play date with a couple. Well worth it!

Sometimes it has to happen quickly or the lust fades

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been nearly nearly a year and I haven’t got a meet yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve been nearly nearly a year and I haven’t got a meet yet "

Shhhhh you’ve a meet verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but I’m honest and tell everyone who asks that that person just gave me a verification “to get some1 of their back”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I normally give 2 weeks. If no suggestion of meeting after 2 weeks of chatting then by past experience it never happens. Exceptions are those living quite a distance then I'll be more flexible but even then two weeks is plenty of time to know if they tick your box and suggest meeting. Remember this is suggesting meeting.

If local I'd say 3 weeks max before social meet. If longer then it rarely happens as as life gets in the way and I'm not the only one they're meeting in that time so it has knock on effects....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have chatted over a yr with one.distance and right timing was a problem."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah but I’m honest and tell everyone who asks that that person just gave me a verification “to get some1 of their back” "

for the honesty try get to a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’ve been trying but I either don’t get an invite or they’re too far away. But I’ll keep on truckin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have chatted over a yr with one.distance and right timing was a problem."

I've been trying for ages to chat to u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I’ve been trying but I either don’t get an invite or they’re too far away. But I’ll keep on truckin "

Put up a few more pics mate. Take down the one which is basically showing you've a toilet and a shower in the same room. Put up some variety. Being cut is no guarantee so you need to show something more (I don't mean a cock pic btw)

Change the status message as it sounds whiny.

Get on cam in the chatroom or get to a social asap. They are scary at first but open so many doors (and legs).

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"It depends "

Really does, with some one genuine there might be valid reasons why they can't meet straight off, with time wasters it's different , suppose the key is recognising one from the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have chatted over a yr with one.distance and right timing was a problem.

I've been trying for ages to chat to u "

Really lol.hadnt noticed

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

I've been chatting to a guy for 3 years. Met once for the quickest cup of coffee EVER. But work, family and life in general keep getting in the way of meeting for fun

Mrs S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week. Id expect at least lunch or coffee then. Wouldn't waste my time for any longer than that. If I want to chat ill go uptown and meet someone

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

When it hurts your tonsils !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it hurts your tonsils !!"

What if u dont have tonsils

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Much more enjoyable then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it hurts your tonsils !!

What if u dont have tonsils"

When you have to throw up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatted to a girl on and off for 4 years and only recently met her

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

There is no set time for me its often more to do with free time and where I am working. I dont chat at 5pm and meet at 6pm though it usually takes a week or so as you have to work out if someone is mentally unhinged or just a standard frustrated fabber thats fairly safe to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no set time for me its often more to do with free time and where I am working. I dont chat at 5pm and meet at 6pm though it usually takes a week or so as you have to work out if someone is mentally unhinged or just a standard frustrated fabber thats fairly safe to meet. "

Do you have any stats you can share with us with the unhinged vs frustrated fibber?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've chatted to my next door neighbour for twenty years,still no luck...and she's married and divorced twice in the meantime!

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I've chatted to my next door neighbour for twenty years,still no luck...and she's married and divorced twice in the meantime! "

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

8 weeks longest time ever never again

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I’m not into chat for a bit and arrange meet I’m more like build connections and when I’m free try to arrange a meet then from those connections then so can take a while

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