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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or do other Fabbers find the lack of reply or response to a message is very high. My received response/reply rate would be around 3 - 5%.

I always read their profile fully and only send a message if I fall within the parameters of what they are looking for. I try to send a nice polite message with some details without being too long winded. A lot of the time I will also attach a pic.

Maybe it’s just me....but I thought at least a ‘thanks but no thanks’ would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that myself, it is a little frustrating, but i am new to all this so i'm just putting it down to me not being very good at sending messages so far haha

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Is it just me or do other Fabbers find the lack of reply or response to a message is very high. My received response/reply rate would be around 3 - 5%.

I always read their profile fully and only send a message if I fall within the parameters of what they are looking for. I try to send a nice polite message with some details without being too long winded. A lot of the time I will also attach a pic.

Maybe it’s just me....but I thought at least a ‘thanks but no thanks’ would be nice. "

Its nothing to do with what you send its more to do with what other guys send. Sometimes its easier to just not reply than get the persistent why nots, can I change your mind, go on try me or f you bitch.

When you get junk mail do you call them to say no thanks?

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By *eankaren88Couple
over a year ago

By the sea


"

When you get junk mail do you call them to say no thanks?

"

That's a great response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do other Fabbers find the lack of reply or response to a message is very high. My received response/reply rate would be around 3 - 5%.

I always read their profile fully and only send a message if I fall within the parameters of what they are looking for. I try to send a nice polite message with some details without being too long winded. A lot of the time I will also attach a pic.

Maybe it’s just me....but I thought at least a ‘thanks but no thanks’ would be nice.

Its nothing to do with what you send its more to do with what other guys send. Sometimes its easier to just not reply than get the persistent why nots, can I change your mind, go on try me or f you bitch.

When you get junk mail do you call them to say no thanks?

"
And it's the persistent why nots that make us not reply...that plus our fav the no profile pic or a zero pics at all to let you see who's trying to talk to you.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Is it just me or do other Fabbers find the lack of reply or response to a message is very high. My received response/reply rate would be around 3 - 5%.

I always read their profile fully and only send a message if I fall within the parameters of what they are looking for. I try to send a nice polite message with some details without being too long winded. A lot of the time I will also attach a pic.

Maybe it’s just me....but I thought at least a ‘thanks but no thanks’ would be nice.

Its nothing to do with what you send its more to do with what other guys send. Sometimes its easier to just not reply than get the persistent why nots, can I change your mind, go on try me or f you bitch.

When you get junk mail do you call them to say no thanks?

And it's the persistent why nots that make us not reply...that plus our fav the no profile pic or a zero pics at all to let you see who's trying to talk to you."

When you go into the cake shop are you interested in the fancy cake behind the glass on the one in the tatty box on the shelf you can't see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its nothing to do with what you send its more to do with what other guys send. Sometimes its easier to just not reply than get the persistent why nots, can I change your mind, go on try me or f you bitch.

When you get junk mail do you call them to say no thanks?"

I think you’re completely right, and while it’s unfair to those of us who aren’t dickheads, it must be really hard for the ladies on here to tell us apart, so no offence taken.

I personally have had a few “thanks but no thanks” messages, and have replied to those with “fair enough, thanks for replying, happy fabbing”, and if everyone did that, I think everyone would have a much better time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These forum topics literally get posted every other day.

If you see the amount of messages females get from guys on here, they would have to spend hours replying to everyone just to say 'no thanks'. Its just the way it is. Over the past month, ive messaged a good few females and my entire 'sent box' is just yellow. Youre lucky if they even open the message. I dont complain, just get on with it.

Before I knew about message filters, I got loads of messages from gay guys asking to meet. I always messaged back saying 'no thanks', or 'no im straight. EVERY single guy messaged back saying either 'aww come on' or 'you never know until you try' blah blah. I can guarantee 9 outta 10 men on here wont take no for an answer and thats one of many reasona why females wont reply when they arent interested

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

It states very clearly no response equals no interest. Thats all. No person male or female is oblidged to respond to any message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your response. I’m a little wiser.

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