FabSwingers.com forum: Wink wink ;)

By *arry and Ann OP Couple
over a year ago

Louth

Winks, how do you feel about them? A nice way of showing interest, or a lazy way of initiating contact without actually mailing?

When you see a wink; are you more likely to mail, wink back or ignore?

For the sake of the question, assume whoever sent this hypothetical wink is quite attractive

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

We very rarely respond to winks. A nice message goes a long way

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By *ublincouple bi femaleCouple
over a year ago

Anywhere

Not sure really have received a few but have never sent one we prefer to just get chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t even look at them

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By *upiter2000Woman
over a year ago

Tallaght

Yeah I don’t look either

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By *arry and Ann OP Couple
over a year ago

Louth

I check them out to be sure, but very rarely acknowledge them after that.. as said above, a mail goes much further and increases the odds of a reply tenfold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely look at mine

Prefer a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lazy in my opinion but I find sending a friend request without even speaking more annoying

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

I use them to show interest and appreciate a nice profile. Most women say they recieve too much mail. So i rarely send a message.

If they wink back. Then il send a message. Saves wasting anyones time

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By *osyMan
over a year ago

athlone

So basically a waste of time sending one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ignore them unless it's from someone we already know

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

I never send them, but if I receive one I always acknowledge it with a thank you message.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

I look on it as somebody homing in on me... I'm interested... I sometimes wink back. It might lead to an interesting chat. But, a message always gets my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We very rarely look at them tbh

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By *arry and Ann OP Couple
over a year ago

Louth

"Lazy in my opinion but I find sending a friend request without even speaking more annoying "

Now they get ignored for sure, instantly assumed to be pichunters if there hasnt been any chat beforehand

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

can be difficult to initiate chat here.. its like sending in your cv

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

I rarely wink at others...

but if someone winks at me

& I like

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...will take it as an icebreaker

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

exactly !

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I use them to show interest and appreciate a nice profile. Most women say they recieve too much mail. So i rarely send a message.

If they wink back. Then il send a message. Saves wasting anyones time"

I'm exactly the same as this

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I’m not great at making first contact with someone so I use a wink instead. I’m shy really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use them to show interest and appreciate a nice profile. Most women say they recieve too much mail. So i rarely send a message.

If they wink back. Then il send a message. Saves wasting anyones time"

That's what I've been doing I thought that's what the winks were for

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I forget about them and then when I do check it’s a bit late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t really use them to be honest but if someone winked me I would recepricate and perv

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I respond if I like what I see

. I don't get to respond too often

.i get more from lads than anyone to be honest

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

I never respond to winks . I know they are to let you know people have noticed you but to be honest dont see the point. Ive never sent one.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I enjoy the wink function

It would appear I’m wasting my time with them though

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

"I never respond to winks . I know they are to let you know people have noticed you but to be honest dont see the point. Ive never sent one."

Your profile is amazing ,you are very cute xx

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"I enjoy the wink function

It would appear I’m wasting my time with them though

Did you read that properly... It's WINK...

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford

"I use them to show interest and appreciate a nice profile. Most women say they recieve too much mail. So i rarely send a message.

If they wink back. Then il send a message. Saves wasting anyones time"

Yes I agree with this

Guess I know better now judging by the comments

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

I love an old wink sometime people want a message to be like a book send me all the winks ye don't want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally only send one if for some reason I can't send a msg, maybe not In the age range or something

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford

"I love an old wink sometime people want a message to be like a book send me all the winks ye don't want

Done;)

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Winks are OK with us. All they are is a wink. We check profile, if we like what we see, we wink back and msg with it. We wouldn't be that stuck up to think they are lazy or ignore them. Some people prefer to wink, if that's their thing were OK with that.

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Take it for what it is , a mild expression of interest no more, would respond out of courtesy if for no other reason but then I wouldn't be getting them in the volume some ladies on here are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send winks,but always reply to one!...yes ,any interest at all is appreciated!

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

I just like a message but i will wink if i like whatvi see

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By *asparMan
over a year ago

Dublins fair city

If rather wink at someone as I pass in the street, Some ladys smile others just give you a look that could kill.

Girls how do you deal with winks on the go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a wink makes quite a lot of sense, why write a longwinded message just to be ignored, a wink shows that you our they have shown interest on your profile or there's and I feel chat can flow better from there, saves hassle for both parties involved, in my eyes it sparks conversation

If you get a wink and they are of no interest to you you don't reply and it often doesn't offend well and so good

You get a wink from someone and your like wow I fancy the fuck out of them

Would you not reply either through a wink or a message I know what I would do but what would them general member of fab do

Guessing why would you ignore make less sense to me if you did,but everyone has there reasons for doing so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a wink I check profile if I like I wink back. Up to them if send a message than

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

"I enjoy the wink function

It would appear I’m wasting my time with them though

Did you read that properly... It's WINK...

No wonder they didn’t wank me back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Winks, how do you feel about them? A nice way of showing interest, or a lazy way of initiating contact without actually mailing?

When you see a wink; are you more likely to mail, wink back or ignore?

For the sake of the question, assume whoever sent this hypothetical wink is quite attractive

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We always thought it's a nice way of showing interest but guess everyone is different

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Like most others said I don’t look st them.

Also random friend requests, I don’t look at those either, I just leave them sitting there as it means they can’t send another one.

A message goes a long way.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Meh......don't bother with them same as random friends request they stay where they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh......don't bother with them same as random friends request they stay where they are

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Well isn't it a good thing ye took a chance on our wink then lol

...be seeing ye on six weeks

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Rarely look at winks I don't think I have never contacted anyone who has sent one but they do no harm so no issues with them personally.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

"I use them to show interest and appreciate a nice profile. Most women say they recieve too much mail. So i rarely send a message.

If they wink back. Then il send a message. Saves wasting anyones time"
ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn’t realise there was so much indifference to winks here

I’ve sent messages before and they’ve just been deleted without reply... or else some girls say they get too many... so why waste time when you can send a quick wink to show you’re interested!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never bother looking at them. Sane as friend requests.

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By *arry and Ann OP Couple
over a year ago

Louth

Well its good to see a variety of answers, although it seems as though if you really want to get attention a mail is the way to go!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like winks. We wink at profiles we like and if we get a wink from a couple we like we normally message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like winks. We wink at profiles we like and if we get a wink from a couple we like we normally message them "
You mind if we wink all your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like winks. We wink at profiles we like and if we get a wink from a couple we like we normally message them You mind if we wink all your pics

Wink away. That's why they are there

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By *tanonieMan
over a year ago

killorglin

"We like winks. We wink at profiles we like and if we get a wink from a couple we like we normally message them You mind if we wink all your pics

Wink away. That's why they are there

Too true theres no harm in a wink

. just shows folk are interested and like what they see

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By *artinaAndrewCouple
over a year ago

mountmellick

"If I get a wink I check profile if I like I wink back. Up to them if send a message than

That's what we do

sometimes we'll message thanking them for the wink & if it starts a conversation great

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

"If I get a wink I check profile if I like I wink back. Up to them if send a message than

That's what we do

sometimes we'll message thanking them for the wink & if it starts a conversation great "

Exactly this for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we get a wink we take it as they like our profile.. So we Check out their profile in return and if we like what we see we send a mail to the winker... Not wanker.. Winker

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

If i get a wink I always follow upnwith an email... Unless I receive a wink from a man.... In that case clearly the person didn't read my profile ????

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By *evilsKissWoman
over a year ago

Roscommon

I think a wink's are good bcoz with msg u can't msg all back but with a wink the ball is on ur court and n by winking bck let's them no ur interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any sexy Irish ladies want a wink lol ?x

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