FabSwingers.com forum: How often...

By *arry and Ann OP Couple
over a year ago

Louth

...do you meet? Some, like us, meet once in a blue moon while others meet much more regularly.

Just wondering what makes you take that plunge each time, from real life boredom to uncontrollable attraction..

Tell us your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't met in months, real life got in the way big time. But definitely have a flicker of interest at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very often at all ,real life is so busy and very fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not very often at all ,real life is so busy and very fussy."

We hear ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As often as the opportunity presents itself...once every few months to play...a little more often for coffee.

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By *arry and Ann OP Couple
over a year ago

Louth

"Not very often at all ,real life is so busy and very fussy.

We hear ya! "

Likewise

If time constraints werent a thing, do you think you would be doing more meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not very often at all ,real life is so busy and very fussy.

We hear ya!

Likewise

If time constraints werent a thing, do you think you would be doing more meets? "

Illness is also an issue at the moment, plus we are fussy and it's not as though we don't have a sex life already, it's more a rare treat than a regular thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet most weeks. Sometimes a few times in a week, some times I go a week without. It just depends on what's going on and what kind of play I'm in the mood for.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I had a rather slow and quiet year so far, bit like the Irish forum. I simply enjoyed the fantastic summer we had and got on with normal stuff.

However the year is not over yet, I'm going to venture a bit into gourmande and gourmet to keep myself warm in the upcoming winter month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a rather slow and quiet year so far, bit like the Irish forum. I simply enjoyed the fantastic summer we had and got on with normal stuff.

However the year is not over yet, I'm going to venture a bit into gourmande and gourmet to keep myself warm in the upcoming winter month.

If only I was 45

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I had a rather slow and quiet year so far, bit like the Irish forum. I simply enjoyed the fantastic summer we had and got on with normal stuff.

However the year is not over yet, I'm going to venture a bit into gourmande and gourmet to keep myself warm in the upcoming winter month.

If only I was 45"

No point in wanting to grow up too fast...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a rather slow and quiet year so far, bit like the Irish forum. I simply enjoyed the fantastic summer we had and got on with normal stuff.

However the year is not over yet, I'm going to venture a bit into gourmande and gourmet to keep myself warm in the upcoming winter month.

If only I was 45

Ah but look at what the rewards could be, can't even pm you to show you me

No point in wanting to grow up too fast...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a rather slow and quiet year so far, bit like the Irish forum. I simply enjoyed the fantastic summer we had and got on with normal stuff.

However the year is not over yet, I'm going to venture a bit into gourmande and gourmet to keep myself warm in the upcoming winter month.

If only I was 45

Ah but look at what the rewards could be, can't even pm you to show you me

No point in wanting to grow up too fast...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt meet that often

Life takes overfab has to wait unfortally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard sometimes finding time, but sometimes an opportunity too good to turn down pops up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We might have meets every weekend for 3/4/5 weeks in a row,then might not meet again for 6 months.just depends on when we are free and how horny we are and fancy something different

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm extremely busy. Some people think If you're single and don't have kids you have all the time in the world to meet. That's not the case

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By *upiter2000Woman
over a year ago

Tallaght

"I'm extremely busy. Some people think If you're single and don't have kids you have all the time in the world to meet. That's not the case "

Totally agree

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Too busy to even think about trying to start up the whole messaging and 'flanter' thing so have basically given up on meeting...a very occasional peruse only nowadays..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too busy to even think about trying to start up the whole messaging and 'flanter' thing so have basically given up on meeting...a very occasional peruse only nowadays..

Yeah it's all a bit exhausting isn't it?

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

"Too busy to even think about trying to start up the whole messaging and 'flanter' thing so have basically given up on meeting...a very occasional peruse only nowadays..

Yeah it's all a bit exhausting isn't it?

..it is time consuming at the very least, i keep being told you get what you put in...so no point chasing hard if i dont have time to keep my promises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that much hard to find a real match and busy life sometimes gets in the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet friends from fab at least once everytime we are back in Dublin, even if it's just a social drink in town. Well they always start of as just social drinks

We are not so much into 1 on 1 meets, we much prefer to visit clubs & attend parties here or abroad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pressures of modern day living make meets difficult

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

I meet when I feel the online banter and craic has been good enough to warrant a meet. Will always make the time. Life is for living

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

Other than a quick coffee from time to time I don’t get to meet very often because I’ve a busy schedule and I need to feel a real buzz about someone before I will have fun with them. But I’m ok with that. I always preferred quality over quantity. Xxx

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By *ulu00Woman
over a year ago

Donegal

Depends on who I'm meeting, sometimes if I meet someone new it can be once or twice a week til the spark calms lol but generally it takes a lot for me to meet initially and then theres a few on here that I would meet a few times a year for a little fun.

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By *upiter2000Woman
over a year ago

Tallaght

Not often enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not often enough

Amen

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I tend to go through phases. At the moment its very rarely as I haven't felt that spark of attraction with anyone for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus I thought most people were like me and had meets pretty much every week. Apparently not.

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

I like to try and arrange something for each night im in Ireland. The chase and tease is great fun anyway and that way when the messers and no-shows are led out I can hopefully find I meet someone!!!

Im not here all the time before you call me slut !

Oh for a regular fb lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it takes time meeting couples as there a four lives to bring together, there are obviously more active fabbers who seem to post meets every week we wouldn't have the time and we have always preached quality over quantity.

Last year we were very enamored with a couple on fab. We used kik chatted for what felt like an eternity swapped pics video chats. we arranged two or three meets but timing and busy lives got in the way, eventually met for a night and what a night it was. I think the wait and the anticipation added to the night.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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Ahhh _arry and ann its all down to time for me so when i do meet its people i really want to meet. People I've a connection with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

I meet as often as I can which is generally only 7 or 8 times a year. Not being free at weekends means mainly midweek meets and I find these are harder to arrange as don't suit most.Time is a very precious commodity and is not to be wasted. A calendar function on fab would be a great idea so you could busy search your playmates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not enough!

Tell me about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average once a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On average once a week

Show off haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On average once a week

Show off haha"

Haha not always a new meet obviously....isn’t that what regular buddies are for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On average once a week

Show off haha

Haha not always a new meet obviously....isn’t that what regular buddies are for

Oh to find a regular fb

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last! "

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

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let it all out Rover

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover"

Gurrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Jeeeez that didn’t sound like a lot of frustration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits."

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

I'd be glad to actually have one lol

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

I'd be glad to actually have one lol"

I only learned a couple of years ago how to have one but now it can be multi orgasmic with the right person but not always with penatration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

I'd be glad to actually have one lol

I only learned a couple of years ago how to have one but now it can be multi orgasmic with the right person but not always with penatration "

I live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every week or every 2nd week mostly for me....does depend on busyness etc but needs must Mmmmm

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

"Every week or every 2nd week mostly for me....does depend on busyness etc but needs must Mmmmm

Like those odds !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a lot of free time due to my job and family life which always takes priority. So my meet time is limited.

Also, I'm a fussy bitch and the spark needs to be very strong for me to get naked with a guy...and he needs to be an amazing kisser. Lol

Ps..I learned how to orgasm a few years ago and omg.....I love it, love it, love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

Ah u see that's very hard. Ain't nobody got time for that. U gotta squeeze them in when u can. Lunchtime is perfect for me cos I can work from home if I want to. I'd definitely rather have more long play sessions, but the majority of mine these days are short and sweet. Shag and shag off as they say! But if he's got the skills, that can be just as satisfying. And tbh, it's extremely easy to make me cum so the bar doesn't have to be too high in the skills department!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

Can't beat a bit of afternoon delight

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

Shag and shag off ... this is a line i really like

Cant do lunchtime meets but quickies maybe i need to squeeze more of those in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

work dictates for us so its very seldom, when we are free we are usually too knackered so it seems to be a holiday thing now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comes in bursts for me and when it suits everyone life is just so fast pace'd nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...do you meet? Some, like us, meet once in a blue moon while others meet much more regularly.

Just wondering what makes you take that plunge each time, from real life boredom to uncontrollable attraction..

Tell us your thoughts

If you weren't a couple on here but a single you may have a different answer. I'd say most couples won't have the same urges not being met compared to many singles.

I met 2x a week most week till recently before my accident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever the opportunity comes up!

...unfortunately it comes up more often than the opportunities!

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

We don't get to meet as often as we'd like. Work & family commitments take priority. Love going to parties & clubs when we do get the chance.

Sam

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

"work dictates for us so its very seldom, when we are free we are usually too knackered so it seems to be a holiday thing now

I think this is the way we are heading tbh.

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

Mind you will always try and arrange time of for a good party!

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

Once a year lol

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Used to be a regular for coffee meets at the start

...these days, more about finding sexy chemistry and quality fun meets though

..so it's more once in a blue moon!

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Very busy lives so don't get to meet often. We never play close to home and this would be the reason why we don't meet that often. To busy with work and family. Wed love to meet every few weeks though.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

How often???

Hmmm, Let me see...

Not sure but I think EAST 17 were

selling out the Point at the time though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

Shag and shag off ... this is a line i really like

Cant do lunchtime meets but quickies maybe i need to squeeze more of those in

Go for it gal! You get yours! And sure, aim for the long nights of play when u can. They're amazing. But don't underestimate the power of being eaten out on your lunch break.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

Shag and shag off ... this is a line i really like

Cant do lunchtime meets but quickies maybe i need to squeeze more of those in

Go for it gal! You get yours! And sure, aim for the long nights of play when u can. They're amazing. But don't underestimate the power of being eaten out on your lunch break. "

Ar 6 in the morning im longing for that...mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

Shag and shag off ... this is a line i really like

Cant do lunchtime meets but quickies maybe i need to squeeze more of those in

Go for it gal! You get yours! And sure, aim for the long nights of play when u can. They're amazing. But don't underestimate the power of being eaten out on your lunch break.

Ar 6 in the morning im longing for that...mmm"

I can picture it now, being eaten out at your desk in work

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

Shag and shag off ... this is a line i really like

Cant do lunchtime meets but quickies maybe i need to squeeze more of those in

Go for it gal! You get yours! And sure, aim for the long nights of play when u can. They're amazing. But don't underestimate the power of being eaten out on your lunch break.

Ar 6 in the morning im longing for that...mmm

I can picture it now, being eaten out at your desk in work

My colleagues may ask questions ..but after work a quick munch might be good medicine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

Shag and shag off ... this is a line i really like

Cant do lunchtime meets but quickies maybe i need to squeeze more of those in

Go for it gal! You get yours! And sure, aim for the long nights of play when u can. They're amazing. But don't underestimate the power of being eaten out on your lunch break.

Ar 6 in the morning im longing for that...mmm

I can picture it now, being eaten out at your desk in work

My colleagues may ask questions ..but after work a quick munch might be good medicine

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or before work if you’re an early riser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after reading all the replies

" once in a blue moon"

isnt bad at all

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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"I guess im just lucky enough to find quality and quantity. Long may it last!

I want your secret ... feeling the frustration this week

let it all out Rover

Gurrrrrr

Same as. Work silly hours and hard to find time that suits.

I like to have a day, panper time before and nothing rushed ..... lots and lots of orgasms

Shag and shag off ... this is a line i really like

Cant do lunchtime meets but quickies maybe i need to squeeze more of those in

Go for it gal! You get yours! And sure, aim for the long nights of play when u can. They're amazing. But don't underestimate the power of being eaten out on your lunch break.

Ar 6 in the morning im longing for that...mmm

I can picture it now, being eaten out at your desk in work

My colleagues may ask questions ..but after work a quick munch might be good medicine

or before work if you’re an early riser

Im an early riser

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Once a wk for me same person for the last few mts

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

We manage a meet about once a month but they are generally parties so alot of "bang for our buck"

Although this month we have been particularly slutty and have had 2 parties within a couple of weeks.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I prefer quality over quantity. At the moment I have time for two meets a month, and that is working well,, I suppose its not the meet itself, its all the other texting, chatting, arranging schedules that takes time. But, I'm very flexible with time, and perhaps available more often.

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